monthly summary · January 2020
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Overview
January 2020 recordings cover a wide-ranging mix of personal history, gaming reviews, tech commentary, and life-update material centered on Daniel: past relationships in Japan (a 2010 girlfriend met via Japan Cupid and a 2013 affair with a married woman), self-reflection on narcissism and content-creation motives, gaming hardware transitions (gaming laptop to Switch Lite) and reviews of titles like The Witcher 3, Mario Kart 8 Deluxe, Crash Team Racing, Overwatch, and This War of Mine, commentary on tech (Surface Duo foldables), pop culture (Star Wars, Onision comparisons and Onision's Twitch ban), a marital breakup and move into Airbnbs with subsequent travel plans toward South Korea, and lighter content such as food budget challenges, pufferfish tasting, and pride in British culture.
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- Similarities between me and Onision [CFUNvd6tZas]
- Tour Of My New Airbnb
- Why I replaced my Gaming Laptop with a Switch Lite
- Why I Hated My Ex Girlfriend
- I had an Affair with a Married Japanese Woman
- [2020-01-01] It's been a tough year for me [UhTUInxmIF0]
- Why learning Japanese is a complete WASTE of time
- How I became a massive narcissist
- Why I'm proud to be British
- Life Update - Discussing My Plans
- [2020-01-31] Why I'm moving to South Korea [DUH2vhKu1Ig]
- The Witcher 3 Review - Switch Lite Gameplay
Daniel compared himself to controversial YouTuber Onision, acknowledging some shared traits (edgy mindset, reliance on relationship drama) while disputing others, and separately reported on Onision being banned from Twitch and Patreon amid public backlash and an alleged ongoing FBI investigation.
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Marital conflict escalated with allegations including a claim that Daniel's wife said he has Asperger's, disputes over Discord and streaming habits, an alleged prior altercation where objects were thrown after a Discord ban, and an allegation that another YouTuber contacted Daniel's wife and issued a copyright strike.
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By month's end Daniel described leaving the marital home, attributing the split to communication problems, depression, gaming/streaming habits, and feeling suffocated, while denying claims the breakup was staged; he made concrete plans to relocate temporarily to South Korea, citing lower costs and visa considerations tied to the divorce.
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Numerous unresolved questions recur throughout the month's material regarding whether the marital situation and content are genuine versus staged, whether reconciliation is possible, why the marriage persisted, and how future travel, content direction, and living arrangements will unfold.
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Themes
Retrospective account of a 2010 relationship with a Japanese woman met through Japan Cupid, covering the initial meeting, behavioral conflicts, isolation at a guesthouse, a rival relationship with a Korean guesthouse resident, being ghosted, and a ten-years-later social-media check on her status.
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Transition from an expensive PC gaming laptop setup to a Nintendo Switch Lite, driven by portability preferences, completion of The Witcher 3, and loss of interest in Rainbow Six Siege, framed partly as overcoming a gaming addiction.
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Detailed critique of Mario Kart 8 Deluxe covering track variety, handling, menu navigation, multiplayer penalties, and proposed feature enhancements like vehicle damage and larger lobbies.
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Review of Crash Team/Nitro Racing on Switch, describing setup hurdles, awkward controls, and an unfavorable comparison to Mario Kart, concluding the purchase was a waste of money.
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Comparative review of The Witcher 3 on Switch Lite versus PC, covering visual fidelity, controls, stability, pricing, and evolving opinions of the game's story and world.
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First-time Overwatch gameplay session on Switch Lite, comparing mechanics to Team Fortress, noting controller discomfort, and rating the game 4 out of 8.
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Review and demonstration of This War of Mine on Switch, covering survival mechanics and control differences from iPad, recorded during Daniel's stay in an Airbnb amid marital difficulties.
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Commentary on Microsoft's Surface Duo foldable concept, expressing skepticism toward foldable devices compared to traditional smartphones and tablets, informed by past experience with a Windows Phone.
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Argument that learning Japanese was largely a waste of time and resources, citing limited employment benefit from JLPT certification, high time investment, and personal regret over language study including Korean.
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Account of a 2012-2013 affair with a married Japanese woman met via Mixi, including dinners with her husband, love-hotel visits funded by her, and Daniel's eBay business selling sharpening stones, ending when Daniel chose to pursue an unmarried woman instead.
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Tour and discussion of a new Airbnb following a marital breakup, covering relocation options, YouTube channel strategy, social preferences favoring Discord anonymity, and disputes underlying the separation.
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Reflection on Star Wars, particularly dissatisfaction with The Rise of Skywalker, reframed after watching a Phantom Menace retrospective as evidence the franchise is primarily for children, arguing adult fans should accept aging rather than blame Disney.
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Extensive life-update discussion covering content strategy shifts away from Japan topics, travel plans through South Korea, Hong Kong, and Thailand, marital separation and divorce logistics, responses to audience accusations of fabrication, channel analytics comparisons, alternative UK employment options, and reflections on father's death and assisted suicide.
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Year-end retrospective covering the death of Daniel's father, marital disputes and reconciliation, travel to London and Germany, channel backlash, an uninvited viewer incident in England, and hopes for improvement in 2020.
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A food budget challenge using coins totaling ¥666 to buy groceries, tracking supermarket costs, multi-day meal preparation, and calculating daily/monthly expenditure.
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Expression of pride in British history, cuisine, and culture alongside a cooking demonstration of egg fried rice and an anecdote about evading a train fare fine.
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Daniel and Chihiro sample multiple pufferfish (fugu) preparations, evaluating flavors and textures.
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Developments
A 2010 relationship in Japan, met via Japan Cupid, is recounted: airport disappointment, a Tokyo Disney trip, an emotional flight home, behavioral friction over rules, a Kyoto bamboo forest incident, Daniel starting a relationship with a Korean guesthouse resident, and the girlfriend eventually cutting off all contact.
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An allegation, possibly relayed via the Korean woman and unverified, holds that the ex-girlfriend was seeing someone else when she ghosted Daniel; ten years later Daniel used an alternate Facebook account to check her status, estimating she was single and had become a flight attendant.
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In 2012 Daniel quit a computer science course after about four weeks, returned to Japan around January/February 2013, and began an affair with a married woman met via Mixi; the affair included a dinner with the husband, karaoke and love-hotel visits over three months, before Daniel returned to England and ended contact with her to pursue a different, unmarried woman.
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Marital breakdown was described amid disputes over streaming/Discord use, prior infidelity allegations, and a claim that Daniel's wife alleged he has Asperger's; separately, an allegation surfaced that YouTuber Nobita contacted Daniel's wife and issued a copyright strike.
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Daniel packed his belongings and left the marital home while his spouse was at work, previously having bought a train ticket to Korea intending to leave, waited at the station, then returned and told his wife the ticket story was invented; he recounted meeting his wife on Tinder, filing marriage paperwork without a ceremony, and obtaining a spouse visa.
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Daniel and his wife agreed to end their relationship; he packed his belongings, stayed in an Airbnb for about a week, then checked into an airport-adjacent hotel, having already booked flights and a temporary Airbnb in South Korea.
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An uninvited viewer reportedly showed up at Daniel's family home in England during a Christmas visit with a card and chocolates and allegedly bragged about it online, prompting Daniel's sister to prepare to call police.
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Daniel's father died in hospital in February, roughly four weeks after admission; Daniel's wife returned to Japan while Daniel stayed in England for the funeral.
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Following the bereavement, Daniel traveled to London and stayed overnight in a hotel with a channel viewer after meeting an Essex woman, then to Germany where he stayed with a Turkish woman, before returning to Japan and reuniting with his wife.
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Daniel broke an apartment glass door during a confrontation after his wife found messages on an iPad.
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YouTuber Onision was reportedly banned from Twitch after an earlier removal from Patreon, amid mounting public pressure, petitions, and Chris Hansen's coverage; Twitch's stricter policies were noted to potentially block him from re-platforming, raising concerns about his children's welfare.
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Uncertainties & gaps
Uncertainty remains over whether claims about the ex-girlfriend seeing someone else were true, her actual relationship status a decade later, and whether she ever thought of Daniel.
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Details of the affair with the married Japanese woman remain uncertain, including exact costs, whether her husband knew or cared, whether she was genuinely in love, and her current circumstances.
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Numerous aspects of the marital breakup and Airbnb period remain unresolved, including whether the situation is staged, whether reconciliation is possible, and questions about past relationship details and future content plans.
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Travel and relocation plans toward South Korea and beyond remain uncertain, including duration, destinations, visa implications, feasibility of the trip, and whether reconciliation with Daniel's wife will occur.
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How Daniel's wife learned of a London hotel stay and whether Daniel will release dedicated content about an uninvited home visitor remain unresolved.
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Whether YouTube will take action against Onision following his bans from Twitch and Patreon remains uncertain.
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Questions persist about whether Daniel ever produced quality content, why passion for content creation waned, and whether his self-described narcissism could or should change.
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Various gameplay-mechanic uncertainties were raised regarding Mario Kart 8 Deluxe and Crash Team Racing, including naming conventions, track speed variation, multiplayer kickout thresholds, and whether the game is a direct port.
Explore this period
- Recording · January 2020
Onision - DELETED From Twitch!
Onision was banned from Twitch after a previous removal from Patreon, amid rising public scrutiny and coverage from Chris Hansen. The bans from Twitch and Patreon stem from mounting pressure via online petitions and Chris Hansen's reporting
- Recording · January 2020
Overwatch Gameplay on the Switch Lite
Daniel plays Overwatch for the first time following its purchase the prior day, observing character traits, controls, and gameplay elements reminiscent of Team Fortress. Daniel experiences physical discomfort while playing shooter games, se
- Recording · January 2020
daniel and the pussys
An exchange covers strange occurrences, interactions involving meowing sounds, and mentions of basic necessities including water, shelter, and food, alongside a query about Marvin. Following the conclusion of an appointment and a delay caus
- Recording · January 2020
Tour Of My New Airbnb
Daniel relocated into an Airbnb accommodation, booked for six nights at approximately $160 to $170 for a week, following a domestic breakup with his wife on Chinese New Year. The domestic split resulted from marital disputes over Daniel spe
- Recording · January 2020
What is the Surface Duo
Daniel reviews Microsoft's foldable Surface Duo concept and remains skeptical of the foldable device trend compared to standard tablets like the iPad Pro, deciding against purchasing one due to usability concerns for vlogging and video view
- Recording · January 2020
[2020-01-31] Why I'm moving to South Korea [DUH2vhKu1Ig]
Daniel decided to end his marriage, packed his belongings, and left the shared home, staying in an Airbnb for roughly a week before checking into an airport-adjacent hotel in Japan. Daniel attributed the separation to communication issues,
- Recording · January 2020
How I became a massive narcissist
Daniel self-identifies as a narcissist who creates videos and streams focused on Daniel Lord and personal experiences to gain attention, tracing these traits to childhood feelings of being invisible at school and acting out at home. Online
- Recording · January 2020
Star Wars fans need to grow up
Daniel disliked The Rise of Skywalker, noting awkward dialogue and romantic elements, but watching a retrospective documentary on The Phantom Menace and revisiting the original trilogy led him to view Star Wars as a franchise primarily crea
- Recording · January 2020
Why I'm proud to be British
Daniel expresses pride in Britain and highlights its historical accomplishments, military history, cuisine, climate, inventions, and public transport experiences, having shifted from an earlier period of favoring Japan and disliking England
- Recording · January 2020
Trying Poisonous Japanese Fugu (Puffer Fish) with my Wife
Daniel and Chihiro sample various pufferfish preparations, evaluating their flavors and textures across raw skin, deep-fried blowfish, thin slices, and another cooked portion.
- Recording · January 2020
Why I Hated My Ex Girlfriend
In 2010, Daniel met a Japanese university student on japan-cupid.com while working at his father's company in England, subsequently traveling to Japan to be with her. Upon arrival, Daniel experienced disappointment regarding her appearance,
- Recording · January 2020
Surviving on £1.25 a day in Japan for 4 days
Daniel undertakes a food budget challenge using one of each Japanese coin denomination totaling ¥666 to buy groceries and observe how long they last. The supermarket purchase costs ¥661 before consumption tax and ¥713 at checkout, which is
- Recording · January 2020
I had an Affair with a Married Japanese Woman
Daniel described his 2012 efforts to prepare for living in Japan, including attempting a computer science course to obtain a university degree before quitting after four weeks, and later connecting on the social network Mixi with a married
- Recording · January 2020
Life Update - Discussing My Plans
Daniel outlines plans to move away from Japan-related video topics due to low viewership and low subscriber engagement, seeking alternative concepts focused on extreme low-budget challenges, living on under 100 yen or one dollar a day, and
- Recording · January 2020
Why I replaced my Gaming Laptop with a Switch Lite
Daniel replaced an expensive, heavy PC gaming laptop setup with a portable blue Nintendo Switch Lite purchased during a Christmas trip to England, finding the handheld significantly more convenient for travel and casual multitasking. After
- Recording · January 2020
This War of Mine - Switch Lite Review
Daniel reviewed and demonstrated This War of Mine on the Nintendo Switch, detailing survival mechanics such as daytime base-building, nighttime scavenging, character traits, morality impacts, winter management, and the control differences c
- Recording · January 2020
Similarities between me and Onision [CFUNvd6tZas]
Daniel addresses comparisons between himself and YouTuber Onision, acknowledging shared traits such as maintaining an edgy, nihilistic mindset at age 30, a decline in creative passion, and relying on clickbait relationship drama for views,
- Recording · January 2020
[2020-01-01] It's been a tough year for me [UhTUInxmIF0]
Daniel returned to Japan in 2020 and recorded a retrospective covering the hardships, losses, and travel experienced during 2019. The year included the death of Daniel's father, who passed away in February roughly four weeks after hospital
- Recording · January 2020
Why learning Japanese is a complete WASTE of time
Daniel set up a recording space in an Airbnb without explaining the location to avoid accusations of fabricating content, and argued against investing time and money into learning Japanese. Learning Japanese requires a heavy time investment
- Recording · January 2020
DO NOT BUY Crash Team Racing - Switch Lite Gameplay
Daniel bought Crash Nitro Racing for around £35 on the Nintendo Switch to compare it with Mario Kart and recorded initial impressions. After encountering lengthy license agreements and an unskippable opening cutscene, Daniel tested the onli
- Recording · January 2020
The Witcher 3 Review - Switch Lite Gameplay
After previously disliking and quickly uninstalling The Witcher 3 on PC years earlier, Daniel bought a Nintendo Switch Lite before Christmas 2019 along with the game, became deeply engrossed in it, and later repurchased and replayed it on P
- Recording · January 2020
Why I Hate Mario Kart 8 Deluxe on the Switch Lite
Mario Kart 8 Deluxe is a favorite game played for hundreds of hours, yet presents significant frustrations regarding track variety, handling at excessive speeds, menu navigation, multiplayer penalties, specific track designs, and item mecha