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Why I’m giving up on Women [uor4bKnRaSw]
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Overview
Being single feels better than being in relationships that often end in misery, leading Daniel to conclude that romance is not that great and solitude is not that bad.
Frustrations over past compromises like learning languages or relocating have prompted a decision not to make such concessions in future relationships.
Applying the law of reversed effort, Daniel avoids forcing outcomes in dating, creative endeavors, and personal pursuits, drawing on experiences such as a 2018 viral YouTube video and a 2017 marriage and visa in Japan.
While open to casual dating and holding long-term relationship hopes, Daniel considers finding an ideal match increasingly unlikely, though casual dating with a woman from England has proceeded smoothly with minimal effort.
Daniel has taken five or six driving lessons, enjoying driving with the objective of earning a license and buying a Tesla.
Themes
Perspectives on single life, relationship compromises, and the law of reversed effort.
Current casual dating experiences and expectations for future partnerships.
Driving lessons and the goal of acquiring a Tesla.
Developments
Daniel secured marriage and a spouse visa in Japan in 2017.
A YouTube video published by Daniel went viral in 2018.
Daniel experienced severe depression while living alone in a Manchester apartment the previous year following the breakup of a serious relationship.
Daniel has engaged in casual dating with a woman from England for a couple of months.
Daniel took five or six driving lessons.
Uncertainties & gaps
Whether the recent interest in driving was triggered by the woman Daniel has been dating remains uncertain.