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My Obsession with Japanese Women is OVER [3Dp9u0oMj4E]
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Overview
In 2022, amid talks of Japan reopening to tourists, Daniel feels uninterested in returning or pursuing leisure travel there because his interests shifted over the preceding two years, and he anticipates that a tourist stay would result in boredom, wasted money, and a lack of achievement.
Daniel has lost his previous obsession with living in Japan and dating Japanese women, reflecting that prior relationships were unsatisfactory, affected by language barriers despite passing JLPT level 2, infidelity, and mismatched anime-inspired expectations, and noting that past marriages and sexual partnerships make pursuing them no longer feel like a meaningful challenge.
Now in his 30s, Daniel contemplates settling long-term in England and dedicating time and money to difficult personal challenges and skill acquisition, such as learning to drive manual transmission vehicles, inspired by playing Elden Ring to avoid boredom and aimlessness.
Themes
Reopening of Japan to tourists alongside shifts in personal interests and expectations of boredom or financial waste.
Reflection on past relationships, infidelity, health consequences, divorce, and disillusionment with dating Japanese women.
Contemplation of long-term settlement in England and limited interest in Japanese culture outside past romantic pursuits.
Learning to drive manual transmission vehicles, gaining clutch control, and embracing difficult challenges inspired by Elden Ring to counter boredom.
Developments
Daniel passed the Japanese Language Proficiency Test level 2 and came close to passing level 1.
Daniel completed approximately six two-hour driving lessons, totaling twelve hours of manual vehicle instruction.
Daniel practiced clutch control going uphill in traffic.
Uncertainties & gaps
Whether Daniel would be able to obtain a visa by remarrying if he were to stay in Japan beyond six months.