Recording summary · March 2017
My girlfriend wants me to move to Japan and marry her
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Overview
Daniel contemplates marrying his Japanese girlfriend, whom he has not yet met in person, to secure a marriage visa and live in Japan long-term, while anticipating possible viewer criticism over the plan and over considering leaving a stable petrol station job.
Daniel reflects on his past relationships, including a prior online relationship and a 2014 engagement in Japan called off due to fears of becoming trapped in menial work.
Daniel aims to sustain himself through digital art, translation, and YouTube rather than conventional employment, experiencing friction in standard workplace settings and an aversion to Japanese companies.
On his 28th birthday, Daniel experiences discomfort with receiving birthday attention and gifts from coworkers.
Daniel considers reaching a certain level of delusion sometimes necessary to realize dreams, concluding his thoughts around maintaining his channel and a Fiverr career.
Themes
Visa options for staying in Japan, Daniel's lack of a bachelor's degree for a sponsored work visa, and comparisons of marriage visa financial thresholds between the UK and Japan.
Personal work attitudes, friction with a hardworking coworker, and aversion to working for Japanese companies.
Past relationship history, including a two-year online relationship with a Japanese woman who eventually married another person, and an abandoned 2014 engagement in Japan.
Hardware and software progression for digital drawing, spanning a Samsung Note 3, Galaxy Tab S10, iPad Mini, finger-drawn work on Hazel's Planet of Ice, and an iPad Pro with Apple Pencil and Procreate.
Creative freelance income, including earning approximately $80 over two weeks doing translation on Fiverr and receiving interest in art commissions.
Pursuing dreams through a level of delusion and maintaining a channel or Fiverr career.
Developments
Daniel discussed long-term residency options and brought up marriage during a Skype conversation with his girlfriend.
Daniel called off a marriage with an ex-girlfriend in Japan in 2014 and returned to the UK.
Daniel bought an iPad Pro with Apple Pencil for approximately £800.
Daniel requested a day off for his 28th birthday and received a birthday card and cupcakes from coworkers.
Uncertainties & gaps
Daniel was uncertain whether he used the phrase 'elephant in the room' correctly.
Daniel expressed uncertainty about whether his assumption that he would not qualify for a Japanese work visa without a university degree was correct.
Daniel was unable to identify a legal minimum income requirement in Japan for sponsoring a foreign spouse's visa, comparing it to the £22,000 threshold in the UK.