My problem with the Turkish girl

I think I need to explain what happened

between me and the Turkish girl and why

I'm not gonna see her again. She's pretty

angry and upset with me right now, and

that is because of a few things I said

on Discord. And I wasn't gonna make a

video explaining what happened because she

told me not to make a video about her, or

she told me to not talk about her. But

since she's been telling everyone in the

comment section and on Reddit She's been

telling everyone what happened anyway, so

I guess it's okay for me to tell my side

of the story. Okay, so firstly, she

messaged me on Instagram after I made the

Looking for a Girlfriend video, and then

we planned to meet up in Prague at first,

but then I asked her if she could come to

Germany, and then she came from Turkey to

Germany, and she stayed a few nights at my

hotel room. The first day was pretty good,

no problems. She was a very nice person.

I think she has a good personality. She

was very bubbly, upbeat. She was nice to

talk to, and she seemed like a friendly

person. And she arrived at my hotel, and

then we went for a walk around Düsseldorf

city. I showed her around, and we got

something to eat, came back. The next day

was also not too bad. The problems really

started on the third day, which was the

last day, and Originally, she wanted to

stay for 4 nights, but I told her that

might be too long, and I, I changed it,

got it down to 3 nights. And this was

because I could kind of tell that it was

going to be a bit boring. We'd be stuck in

a hotel room, there wouldn't be much to

do. And, you know,

the day is long when you don't have to go

to work and you don't really have much to

do. 16 hours a day of being awake

and not having anything to do is a very

long time. And we did go walking around

during the afternoon for about 6 hours,

but for the remaining 10 or so hours,

there isn't really much else to do. We

can't spend the entire day walking around

outside in the blazing sun, just walking

up and down Düsseldorf city, which isn't

really a very interesting city, and I

wasn't really interested in going to other

cities. You might have noticed that she's

been commenting on my comment section,

and she was pretty active in the live chat

on my livestream. After I ended the

livestream, apparently she was saying all

kinds of stuff about me, saying that

number one, I ignored her, that I wasn't

interested in her, that I made her bleed

and she was crying. And all of this is

true. But let me just— let me try and

explain it from my point of view. So we

woke up in the morning around 9 a.m., and

I'm not really a morning person. I'm

pretty grumpy in the morning because I

feel tired. I feel not very good and I'm

not very chatty in the mornings. If you

have lived with me in the past, then you

might know that I'm not very cheerful and

chipper in the morning. So I wake up in

the morning and turn on my laptop and I

check YouTube and I check the internet,

go on Discord, check my YouTube analytics,

and then I play some Rainbow Six. That's

just what I do every day. In fact, I'm

playing Rainbow Six right now.

So what would happen is we'd wake up in

the morning, I'd go onto my laptop, and I

wouldn't really say much to her, and she

didn't really say much to me. And then on

the 3rd day, she got a bit upset with

this, and I was on my laptop, and then she

stopped— she came over to me, and then she

stopped me from using my laptop. She kept

moving my hand off my mouse, and then if I

tried to look at my phone, she would stop

me from looking at my phone. And then she

sat on my lap And she looked at me and she

said, I don't like being ignored. And I

said, I wasn't ignoring you, I'm just

doing what I usually do because there's

nothing else to do in this hotel room.

What else are we supposed to do? If I

didn't have my laptop, I would just sit

there staring at the wall or out the

window. We could talk, but I wasn't really

interested in talking because I didn't

know what to talk about. And to be fair,

you weren't really making much effort to

talk to me either. You were just sitting

on the bed looking at your phone. So what

she did was she sat on my lap, she stared

at me, she didn't let me use my laptop or

my phone. And then when I tried to ask her

what was wrong, are you okay, she didn't

say anything. She just stared at me and

she did— she didn't say anything. And then

she started giving me the silent treatment

while sitting on my lap. So I couldn't do

anything. I couldn't say anything to her.

I couldn't talk. I couldn't go on my

laptop, couldn't look at my phone. So So I

just ended up sitting there for about 5

minutes with her on my lap, and I was

staring out the window. And yes, I was

getting pretty irritated. I was pretty

annoyed that she was doing this.

And then I started, um,

going on to Discord, and I was ranting

about it, about how annoying this was.

After she went to the shower room or

something, when she wasn't around, I

quickly went on to Discord and I started

you know, venting. And later on we went

to the Apple Store and I searched my

YouTube channel, and then the subreddit of

About Me, um, popped up and she saw it.

And then on that subreddit they

screenshotted me ranting about her and she

saw that post. So as you can imagine, she

wasn't very happy with it. She complained

that I was ignoring her and that I wasn't

making any efforts or showing any interest

in talking to her. But if she wanted to

talk so badly, why didn't she just come

over and sit next to me and talk to me?

She just sat there on the bed waiting,

sulking, and then complained to me because

I ignored her. Her other complaint was

that I wasn't interested in her, and

that's true, and that's just mainly

because I didn't feel attracted to her at

all. This isn't her fault, and I never

said that she's ugly, and I don't claim

that she's unattractive. Maybe to a lot of

other guys she's attractive, but to me

personally I didn't feel attracted to her

at all, and I didn't feel interested in

her physically or emotionally. I just

didn't feel any connection between us.

And after the second or third day, I just

kind of gave up trying to talk to her

because it wasn't interesting. Also on

Reddit and the comments, she's been saying

that she was crying and I didn't notice.

Yes, that's true. I didn't notice she was

crying because I had my back turned. I was

looking at my laptop. I don't have eyes in

the back of my head. I could hear

sniffing, but she had a cold and she was

sniffing and coughing from the very

beginning. From the very first day that we

met, she was sniffing, so I thought she

was just sniffing because she had a cold.

I didn't think she was crying. I was also

sniffing because I had hay fever. Did she

ask me if I was okay? Did she think I was

crying? No. The other complaint she made

was that I made her bleed down there. I

don't really want to go into detail

because of monetization reasons, But yes,

there was some bleeding involved.

And okay, that was my fault because I

didn't really do much five play. But it

was also kind of her fault because she

didn't tell me that she was in pain. I

didn't know she was in pain during it.

And if I knew, I would have stopped. But

she didn't ask me to stop and she didn't

say she was in pain. So how was I supposed

to know? And the other thing I want to say

was, if she felt so upset to the point

that she was crying and she felt so

uncomfortable and she was so upset because

I was ignoring her, not talking to her,

why didn't she leave? Why didn't she just

say, I don't really feel comfortable, I'm

gonna go? You know, the German girl, she

didn't feel comfortable either and she

left. She didn't stay. I wasn't forcing

her to stay in the hotel. I didn't lock

the door and chain her up. She could have

left at any moment, but But she decided

not to, and she decided to stay for the

second night and the third night. And then

now she's complaining that I ignored her,

made her feel bad, made her bleed, made

her cry, and all this rubbish when she

could have left at any time. She did ask

me if I wanted her to leave, and I said no

out of politeness because I didn't want to

upset her by telling her to leave. I'm a

bit of a pushover. I've talked about this

before, but I find it very hard to say no

to people. When I was working at a petrol

station, I bought cigarettes and beers for

several customers, mainly because they

begged me and I just wanted them to shut

up and go away, so I bought them

cigarettes and beer. If charity people

approach me and ask for donations, I

usually fish out coins from my pocket and

give them something. So yeah, I admit

it was my fault. I should have told her

honest feelings about her. I should have

told her I didn't feel attracted to her.

I should have asked her to leave because

there would be nothing romantically

happening between us. And maybe I

shouldn't have had serial with her knowing

that I didn't feel attracted to her.

And maybe I should have done a bit more

5-play before initiating serial,

but I didn't think bleeding would be a

problem. So yeah, from now on, I don't

know, maybe I should— maybe I should stop

serialing girls if I don't feel attracted

to them. But to be fair, I didn't promise

to be her boyfriend. I didn't promise

anything serious. I thought we would just

meet up, you know, have some casual fun,

and maybe there would be a potential of

things becoming serious if I liked her.

Problem is, I didn't like her. I didn't

feel attracted to her. Didn't really feel

interested in her. So yeah,

sorry if I upset you or gave you false

expectations, but that's just how it was.

In fairness, I don't think I said anything

too bad about her. The only bad thing I

said was that I didn't find her attractive

and I didn't feel interested in her. It's

not my fault. I don't control— I don't

have any control over who I feel attracted

to. I either feel attracted to you or I

don't. And in this case, I didn't, and I

told people that I didn't, and then you

found out, and then you got upset. And if

you're going to do annoying things like

sitting on my lap, pestering me, giving me

the silent treatment, sulking at me,

crying because I didn't give you enough

attention when you could have easily

started a conversation yourself instead of

waiting for me to start one, then don't

complain about me complaining about you

doing irritating things if you're being

irritating. And I think from now on I'm

going to make it very clear if I'm not

attracted to a girl before I try and

serial with her. And if she still wants to

serial after knowing that I don't really

feel attracted to her and she's up for

just, you know, something casual and or

maybe just a one-night thing, then that's

fine. But I can't promise that I'm gonna

fall in love with you if I meet you.

Maybe you show me your photos and I like

what I see, but then if I meet you in real

life, you know, people always look kind of

different when you meet them in real life.

And I can't promise you that I'm gonna

have feelings for you, and I can't promise

you that, that I won't want to serial you

even if I don't feel attracted to you.

So, you know, if you message me,

then you should keep that in mind.

And to be fair, I don't think I was too

bad. I tried my best. Well, I tried— I

kind of tried. I asked questions, I was

being nice, I paid for the hotel room,

didn't ask you to pay for anything. Okay,

I didn't pay for your food, but I don't

feel as though I have to pay for your

food. We're not in a relationship, I'm not

your boyfriend. Why should I have to pay

for your food? I'm not saying that you

wanted me to pay for your food, but some

people are criticizing me for not paying

for your food. And I'm just saying that we

live in 2019, and I don't think that men

should be obligated to pay for women's

food just because they're together eating.

I always asked her if she was hungry or

not, and most of the time she said she

wasn't hungry. She was— she is a

vegetarian, and yes, it was my fault for

taking her to places where they sold meat

food. I kept forgetting that she's

vegetarian, and about the whole pizza

thing, I thought she would buy her own

pizza, so I got a salami pizza for myself,

and I did take off the salami and offer

her a few slices, so I thought I was quite

nice actually. And I guess it was also my

fault for allowing her to stay for so long

in my hotel room. It's a really bad idea

to spend 3 nights in a hotel room with

someone that you're not really into, I

would not recommend it. And if I could go

back and do it again, I would say one

night only and we'll go from there. And in

conclusion, I think that the main problem

was we just weren't very good

communicators. We're both kind of

introverted. We were both waiting for each

other to initiate talking and

we didn't. And we just— I guess we both

felt as though we're being ignored by each

other. So yeah, I guess we're both to

blame. I don't think you're 100% to blame,

and I don't think it's fair to say that

I'm 100% to blame. I think we're both—

we're both, um, we both share part

of the blame. Hello and welcome back to

the first episode of Cooking with Daniel,

back in England, back where the bacon is

good. And we still have— we still

have the exact same packet of bacon that I

left here before I left. I thought my mum

would have chucked it away, but No, it's

still here 2 weeks later, and it says

use-by date is the 26th. Today is the

25th, so it's still good to eat. It's

still good. Good old bacon covered in

salts and preservatives and nitrates. So I

can still eat it. The only problem is it's

a bit dry, as you can see here.

Look how dry and hard it's become. It's

like beef jerky. But that's okay, we can

salvage it. I'll show you how to salvage a

dry bacon. Okay,

so first what you want to do is you want

to get the whole lump of bacon because the

problem is the bacon is all stuck together

by the dry bits. What we're going to do—

there's a little bit of bacon surgery.

Watch this trick, something I learned from

my days working in the kitchen. We're just

going to cut off the dry bit Like

so. And then the rest of the bacon should

just peel away like this.

It might be a bit stuck together. Just use

some— use some muscle and you

can tear away some nice strips.

Yes, good job.

Still have 2 slices left.

Well done. It's very simple.

We just need a slice of bread, not toasted

and not buttered. A lot of you have been

asking me why don't I butter my bread when

I put bacon on it, and that's because

there's already so much flavor and fat in

the bacon. Why would you need to add more

flavor and fat to the bread using butter

when you already have plenty of it in the

bacon. If you add butter to everything,

it's not very healthy, is it?

And then get your egg, and I'll show you

how to do a one-handed crack.

See that? Um,

just open it up Like this.

And I'm also very excited to be able to

drink coffee again. I haven't had coffee

for about 4 days because the stupid hotel

didn't give me any more coffee pods for

the coffee machine, even though I asked

them to clean the room. They cleaned the

room, but they didn't give me new coffee

pods, so I had to go without coffee for 4

entire days, which is probably the longest

I've ever gone without coffee in about 6

or 7 years. I think I started drinking

coffee about 6 or 7 years ago. But I don't

think anyone cares, so let's just make it.

And then we'll just add the bacon like

so. Ouch! Add the bacon like

so. Don't burn yourself.

When your bacon starts going brown, it's

time to flip it over. Flip it over like

This, and it'll be lovely and

cooked.

Look at that gorgeous color!

One piece for me and one

piece for you.

And an egg.

Absolutely perfect.