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I'm dating a fan - My new Japanese girlfriend

2017-08-15 · 6 min

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  1. Hey, so if you've been watching my

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  2. livestreams recently, then you may have

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  3. heard me mention or talk about this

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  4. before, but I have a new girlfriend. So I

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  5. want to make a video today talking about

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  6. her. So here's a few quick details about

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  7. her. Number 1, yes, she's Japanese. I

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  8. don't think anyone's surprised about that

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  9. now. She's 28, which is nice. My previous

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  10. girlfriends have all been at least 6 to 7

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  11. years older than me, and I don't have

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  12. anything against dating older women. It

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  13. can be fun. It's enjoyable, but it can be

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  14. tricky sometimes because of the generation

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  15. gap. Every time I've been in a

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  16. relationship with an older woman, deep

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  17. down I've always thought to myself, I wish

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  18. my girlfriend was younger. I wish she was

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  19. around the same age as me, and it's nice

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  20. to finally have that. No, she doesn't have

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  21. kids. She's not married. She doesn't drink

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  22. or smoke. She's not religious, which are

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  23. all great things. Now, the reason why this

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  24. video is called I'm Dating a Fan is

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  25. because she's actually a fan of mine. She

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  26. enjoys watching my videos. She watches my

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  27. YouTube channel, so I guess that makes her

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  28. a fan. And yes, she's going to be watching

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  29. this video. I asked her if I could make a

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  30. video talking about her, and she said that

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  31. she didn't mind. She said that I could

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  32. talk about anything I want to, so don't

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  33. write nasty things about her in the

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  34. comments. So it all started on HelloTalk.

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  35. I know you're not supposed to use

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  36. HelloTalk as a dating app, and it really

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  37. irritates me how they're always warning

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  38. people that it's not a dating app and you

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  39. could get banned if you use it as a dating

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  40. app. But to be honest, that's the only

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  41. reason why I'm using HelloTalk in the

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  42. first place. I'm not interested in

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  43. learning Japanese. I can already speak

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  44. Japanese. If I want to use HelloTalk as a

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  45. dating app, I'm going to use it as a

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  46. dating app, and there's nothing you can do

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  47. about it. So it all started one day on

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  48. HelloTalk when this stupid Japanese person

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  49. corrected my amazing Japanese by adding in

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  50. full stops and commas and saying that I

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  51. wasn't using 100% perfect grammar, when

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  52. even Japanese people themselves don't use

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  53. 100% perfect grammar when speaking on the

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  54. internet. It's so annoying when you've

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  55. written something and no one responds to

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  56. it apart from some idiot saying, oh, you

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  57. need to put a full stop here, you need to

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  58. put a comma here. I don't care about

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  59. punctuation. Anyway, my girlfriend also

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  60. saw this correction and she sent me a

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  61. private message saying that I should just

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  62. ignore that person and my Japanese was

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  63. fine the way it was. I said thanks and we

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  64. started to have a conversation. At first

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  65. it was a pretty normal conversation, but

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  66. then things started to get very sexual

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  67. very quickly. And since I didn't want to

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  68. get banned from HelloTalk, I said to her,

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  69. maybe we should have this conversation

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  70. elsewhere because we might get banned. So

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  71. we took the conversation over to a

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  72. different application called Line, and at

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  73. first we were just talking about past

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  74. relationships and sexual experiences that

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  75. we've had. And then for some reason we

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  76. started sending each other naked pictures

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  77. of ourselves. I think I sent her a picture

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  78. of my penis at first. She wasn't upset or

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  79. repulsed by the image of my penis, so I

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  80. took that as a good sign that she was

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  81. interested in me. And she was interested

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  82. in me, and she sent me back a naked

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  83. picture of herself, which I really

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  84. appreciated. After that, we started

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  85. sending each other nude videos, and then

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  86. we had phone sex a few times, and I even

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  87. made some special videos just for her,

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  88. which won't be going up onto my Pornhub

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  89. channel, unfortunately. She said that she

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  90. wouldn't be— she wouldn't be happy if I

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  91. put those kind of videos onto my Pornhub

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  92. channel, so if you were looking forward to

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  93. those, I'm sorry to disappoint. She told

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  94. me that she was watching my YouTube

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  95. videos, and at first she thought I was

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  96. some kind of playboy, but then she said

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  97. after she saw the videos where I talked

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  98. about loneliness or depression or anxiety,

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  99. she saw that I had a sensitive,

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  100. vulnerable side, which she really liked.

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  101. I think it's pretty cool that she's seen

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  102. all of my videos, or most of my videos,

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  103. and she's understood them because she does

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  104. speak English to some level. And she still

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  105. likes me. A lot of people leave me

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  106. comments after they've watched a few of my

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  107. videos saying things like, you're a

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  108. disgusting human being, you're a loser, I

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  109. hope you suffer for the rest of your life

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  110. because you're a horrible person. So I

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  111. think it's pretty amazing that a girl can

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  112. watch almost all of my videos and still

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  113. like me as a person. I feel like we have a

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  114. few things in common. Number one, she's

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  115. not really a loud outgoing person. She's

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  116. kind of introverted, maybe not to the same

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  117. level as I am, but I feel like she doesn't

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  118. enjoy social interaction as much as other

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  119. people do. And we kind of have the same or

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  120. similar taste in music. She likes bands

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  121. like, uh, 6AM, Nickelback, Papa Roach,

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  122. Guns N' Roses. Okay, I don't really have

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  123. that much interest in those particular

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  124. bands, but I like that kind of music. And

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  125. my ex-girlfriend, she was just obsessed

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  126. with anime music, which drove me crazy.

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  127. Try sitting in a car for hours and hours

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  128. Listening to anime songs being repeated

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  129. over and over, it drives you crazy. I've

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  130. never actually been in a relationship with

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  131. a girl who has similar music tastes to me,

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  132. and she also does livestreaming on

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  133. Periscope sometimes, which I think is

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  134. pretty cool. And most importantly, I feel

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  135. like we're on the same level of sexuality

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  136. or pervertedness. She sends me naked

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  137. photos and videos of herself all the time

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  138. without me even having to ask her, and

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  139. she's not shy to talk about sex or sexual

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  140. things. We've already started talking

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  141. about meeting up, and currently I'm

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  142. planning on going in late October or

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  143. during November after summer finishes.

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  144. Really, I want to go right now, straight

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  145. away, but I can't stand summers in Japan.

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  146. It's way too hot, it's too humid, and the

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  147. mosquitoes drive me crazy. This time I'm

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  148. planning on going for a few months instead

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  149. of a few weeks, so there's lots of things

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  150. to plan. I need to think about if I'm

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  151. going to stay at a guesthouse or an

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  152. apartment. I'm leaning towards staying at

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  153. a guesthouse because if I live by myself,

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  154. it would be kind of lonely, and I'd find

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  155. it very difficult to meet people or make

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  156. friends, but then I'd have privacy, so

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  157. it'd be easier to make videos. But if I

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  158. stay at a guest house, it would be easier

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  159. to socialize and meet people, but I'll

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  160. have less privacy and it'll be more

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  161. difficult to make videos. So I kind of

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  162. have to decide which is more important.

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  163. So that was just a quick video talking

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  164. about my new girlfriend. If you have any

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  165. questions, write it in the comments. I

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  166. might do a livestream later. You can ask

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  167. me directly. And, um,

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  168. I think that was it.

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