NEVER date a GIRL FATTER than you

Hello and welcome back to a new video. So

today I wanted to talk about why you as a

guy should never date a girl who is fatter

than you are. So if you're a skinny guy

like me, you're going to find it a bit

more difficult to find a suitable partner

because obviously there's going to be a

lot more fatter girls than you are because

we're so skinny. But I really do suggest

that you hold out and You keep looking for

the right partner until you find one who's

around your shape, but not fatter than you

are. Now, why do I say this? It's because,

well, you see, when a guy is seen holding

hands with a girl who is 2 times his size,

what does that make you think of the guy?

You're going to think it's kind of

strange. Why is he with her? Now, this

reminds me of the time when I was in

Malaysia on holiday 2 years ago. I was

strolling down the beach. The sun was

setting. I looked behind me what do I see?

I see this pretty good-looking guy. You

know, he was average build. He wasn't

overweight. He wasn't underweight. He had

a nice-looking face, nice-looking haircut,

and he was holding hands with this woman

who was at least 3 times his size. I kid

you not. She was so fat that you could

probably feed her to 100 African kids for

a month. And I was just thinking to

myself, My God, why is he with her? He

could do so much better. And I just

instantly lowered my opinion of the guy.

It just looked really weird to see this

good-looking guy holding hands with a girl

who is definitely way below him when it

comes to the looks scale. It made me think

maybe there's something wrong with the

guy's confidence. Maybe he has low

confidence, low self-esteem. Maybe he

doesn't feel like he could be able to get

a better-looking girl because of some kind

of past trauma or childhood trauma. Maybe

he was bullied or maybe he was rejected a

lot in the past and he was too scared of

rejection that he just settled with this

fatty. Now, don't get me wrong, I don't

think there's anything too bad about being

fat. There's a lot of fat people in the

world. It's just normal now because we

have so much junk food and McDonald's and

Burger King and people are lazy. They

don't do exercise. They just drive around,

sit at home all day. So it's pretty normal

these days to be fat. And that's kind sad

to have to make that statement. I'm not

saying there's anything wrong with being

fat, although there is, because, you know,

you get heart disease and you have to go

to the hospital and you're just eating way

too much food for one person. When one

person eats 3 times the amount of food

that a regular person is eating, then I

think we have a problem there because we

only have a finite amount of resources on

this planet. And if the fatties are eating

it all, then we're all going to be out of

food pretty soon. What I mean when I say

don't date someone fatter than you, it

doesn't mean that dating someone who's fat

is a bad thing. For example, if you're a

fat guy, then sure, by all means, go ahead

and date and hold hands with another fat

woman. If I was a fat guy, then sure, I

wouldn't really mind being with another

fat woman because who am I to judge? I'm

also fat. It would be kind of stupid if I

was, you know, judgmental towards other

fat people when I'm also a fatty. But the

thing is, I'm not fat, and I'd rather be

with a woman who is similar shape, who has

a similar shape to me. Now you might be

thinking that guy on that beach on

Malaysia was probably dating that woman

not because of her looks. Maybe he did

like her looks, maybe that's what he was

into, we don't really know. But maybe for

him personally, looks aren't the most

important thing and he loves her

personality. They click really well. They

get on really well. They have lots of

things in common. Maybe that's true. I

don't know because I don't know her

personality, do I? Well, if that's true,

then why don't they just be friends? You

don't have to be in a romantic

relationship to be able to enjoy someone's

personality. I've met many people who I

clicked with and I got on well with, and I

found their personality appealing. But it

doesn't mean that I wanted to date them.

Otherwise, I'd probably have a boyfriend

by now. No, you can just be friends if you

really like the personality and you click.

You can just meet up and chat and do that

kind of stuff. Is it really necessary to

be in a romantic relationship with that

person? No, I don't think so. I really

feel like that guy on the Malaysian beach

could have done so much better and he

would have been so much happier if he had

a slim girl or a girl who's at least

around the same size as he is. Now, think

about it. What's more important? His

happiness or what I think of him? I don't

think I even have to answer that question

because it's kind of obvious. We live in a

society where we're all constantly judging

each other and other people. Do you really

want to be that guy holding hands with a

woman 3 times larger than you are,

constantly being judged by people like me?

I don't think you do. I don't really

believe in the whole, oh, personality is

more important than looks thing because

looks— yeah, looks do change. You get

older, you age. But a person you're

attracted to in their 20s is still going

to be attractive to you in their 30s and

40s. They're still going to have the same

facial structure, the same facial

expressions, even when they're 30, even

when they're 40. Personality, on the other

hand, personality can also change. Just

because someone is a certain type of

personality in their 20s doesn't mean

they're going to have the same personality

in their 30s. Someone in their 20s could

be a completely different person when

they're in their 30s. Take me, for

example. I think I've changed a lot

personality-wise compared to even 2 years

ago. You might even say I'm like a

completely different person. Yeah,

personality is important, but so are

looks. You need the whole package. You

can't just say, oh, I'll have personality,

but I don't really care about her looks.

No, you need to care about every aspect.

You need to have a round package. You

can't just have one good thing and then

the other thing is not so good. That's

like buying a brand new car and it goes

really, really fast and it's really

comfortable to sit inside, but on the

outside it looks like utter rubbish. You

know, they do actually sell cars that are

comfortable on the inside and also look

good on the outside. Now, you might be

thinking, Daniel, you're being very harsh

towards fat people. Isn't this body

shaming? And I guess it is in a way. And I

don't think that it should be a bad thing

to be judgmental towards overweight people

because being overweight is not great.

It's not ideal. And people would be a lot

happier if they weren't so overweight and

they weren't spending so much money on

food. And I don't think it's a good idea

to normalize being fat. Can you imagine

the catastrophic impact it would have on

the economy and the environment if

everyone was fat? It would just be out of

control. It'd be an absolute disaster.

So those were my thoughts on Slim guys

dating fat girls. Hope you enjoyed it.

Let me know what you think in the

comments, although I probably won't even

care. And I just spilt my pasta.

I'm cooking pasta right now and the

water's boiling over. Stupid water.