[2023-11-07] My problem with women [mRd_F7zezEw]

If you can't see a woman's hair, their

attractiveness just goes down by like 40%.

I think a lot of what makes a woman

attractive is just her hair. And then as

soon as the hair is not visible anymore,

they look kind of ugly or they look weird.

Women need hair. So removing the hair by

covering up just made me— it made me find

her so unattractive. I love hair. I think

hair is one of my— when I look at a woman,

First I look at her bum, and then I look

at her hair, and then her face. Like, a

bad face, you can make up for it if the

hair's good. The quality of the hair,

like the thickness, also the style. I

don't like it when the hair looks really

flat and the scalp is kind of visible, or

the hair condition looks bad.

I don't think I could date someone who has

really bad hair genetics, like thin hair,

bad hairstyle. I've seen some of these

Korean and Japanese girls, their hair is

so thin. It looks like it's painted onto

the head. You know, you know you get these

Japanese women where the head is like an

egg. The shape of the head literally looks

like an egg, like just round and long.

And then the hair is just like, like very

thin, like a thin layer of black paper.

There's no volume. It looks so bad. I need

volume. It needs to be straight, or maybe

a bit wavy is okay, but Not curly. Curly

is no good. I don't like curly. I like not

super straight. I like if it's like tiny

bit wavy and straight with volume and

no scalp. Those are my conditions. Isn't

that like all Asian girls? Not really.

In Thailand, they have very good hair.

The number one thing I noticed in Thailand

is they actually have very nice voluminous

hair. In Japan, there's more bad hair. In

Korea, I feel like nearly all of them have

bad hair because Korean hair genetics is

like so fine, no volume. I don't like

Korean hair. I found that in Korea they

had the worst hair I've ever seen. Also,

the hairstyles are not good. I do not like

the mushroom K-pop hairstyle. Do I like

colorful hair? I like red, reddish brown

hair. I don't like pure black hair. Weird

colors like purple, pink, not really a big

fan of. Maybe if it's just highlights,

like a tiny bit, it's okay. I don't like

yellow hair, like fake, really golden

yellow dyed hair. Ginger hair.

I don't know. The problem isn't the ginger

hair, but it's the person's face attached

to the hair. I'm not a big fan of, of

women's faces. Like, uh, you got Rachel

and Jun Rachel. Isn't J.K. Rowling ginger?

Or is she brown? Those women are not

really my type. Why is it almost all

ginger women have that look? Like Rachel

and Jun Rachel, or that ginger girl from

Game of Thrones that was in love with Jon

Snow. I just— I don't find these women

attractive. Not because of the hair, but

they all seem to have the ginger hair when

they have that type of face. I like ginger

cats. Ginger cats are cute. The white girl

who converted to Islam. Well, she was

obsessed with her ex and she didn't seem

interested in me. Although it was weird,

she said she had no intention of being my

girlfriend and she just wants to be

friends. But then we slept in the same bed

and then she asked to move in with me,

which I stupidly said yes to. How do you

just sleep in the same bed with a guy?

You can't really get any more

friend-zoned, can you? When the girl is

okay with just sleeping in the same bed

with you and she doesn't feel any

temptation or danger. I felt angry

because I felt like I was so friend-zoned.

She doesn't see me as like a man in any

way that she— she can just get into my bed

and we're like, we're like friends,

girlfriends who have a sleepover or

something. That's what pissed me off the

most. The annoying thing is when

one time I had some raw chicken and it

kind of went off and it smelt really bad.

So I was putting it in the bin and she

accused me of farting and she thought I

farted and made that smell. And I was

like, no, that was the chicken. Can't you

tell? That was a bit annoying. And then

she was in my bed all the time on her

phone chatting to people. Oh, thanks,

Paul. Wow. $20. Very generous.

I wish you good luck too. She'd be in my

bed and she'd be chatting to random guys

she met on some social media app. And then

I couldn't make videos or stream or do

anything or couldn't even have cereal with

her because she wasn't interested. So I

had to kick her out. I don't know why she—

she kind of like clung on to me so much.

Kept asking to meet up. Come to my place.

I thought— do you think I was stupid for

thinking she was interested? When a girl

does that, you think, oh wow, she must

really like me. She wants to come and live

with me and sleep in the same bed. And

then we'd cuddle as well. She made dinner,

then we'd cuddle and watch anime. Really

confusing. She's like, why would you think

I'd want to be your girlfriend after we

cuddled, slept in the same bed? We even

held hands once. So stupid. Good luck in

all your endeavors. Yeah, and then she

kept trying to convert me. She was like,

I was thinking about getting you a Quran,

and then she kept trying to teach me about

Islam. She said something about angels in

your throat, which is how you're able to

talk, and I was like, uh-huh. Mm. Yeah, I

guess that's cool. And then when she

started wearing the, the headscarf thing,

what's it called? The hijab. She started

wearing that to come over, and I was like,

oh my god. The worst time was when I met

this American girl in Japan. She was half

Japanese, half American, from America.

And then she came all the way from the

Shikoku Islands. She got on the ferry to

come to— I can't remember, was it Kobe

or did she come to— I think she came to

Osaka and then she came all the way there

to meet me. And then I just said, do you

want to go to a hotel? And she said,

okay. And then during The thing, my thing

just went soft and floppy, and then I

couldn't get it to stand up again until

about 20 minutes later. That was really

embarrassing. I could just feel it getting

smaller and smaller inside of her. And

then it was just like, like trying to

shove a rubber glove into a hole and there

was just no stiffness. And then she was

like, oh my God, but we just met. And I

was like, I'm sorry, I'm tired. I don't

know why I found— she was okay looking.

She didn't have an ugly face or anything,

but I just found her so unexciting. Like

there was nothing exciting about her in a

physical way. I don't know. I just found

her very boring. Not, not that she was not

attractive. I mean, I didn't feel

attracted to her. That's the problem.

Maybe she was like my cousin or something.

I didn't know. Oh my God. I do have half

Japanese-American relatives. Maybe that's

like a genetic warning that even if you

don't know it's your relative, your body

somehow knows and it makes you not

attracted to them. Imagine I accidentally

slept with my cousin because I told the

story before, but my granddad's brother

moved to America in the 1950s and he had

kids and his kid, one of his sons,

married a Japanese woman. So they would

have kids who are half Japanese, half

white. Who would probably be in their 20s

or early 30s now. Maybe that was why.

Maybe we're like very close genetically

because I couldn't say she's ugly and her

body was not super slim or anything, but

it's okay. But that was really

embarrassing. I forgot her name. I

remember she was from Maryland. What's

that place in America? I don't know how to

pronounce it. Is it Maryland? Maryland?

Maryland? I think it's like Maryland. But

it's spelled Maryland. I was so desperate

to get a girlfriend last year, I was doing

all this stuff like learning to drive,

playing the banjo. What else did I do? I

thought if I know how to do these random

things, women would find me more

attractive. I don't think women really

care, although it is like a funny

conversation piece that I can play the

banjo. They're not gonna be like, oh yeah,

he plays the banjo, get my pants off.

After dating several women, the most

important thing I learned is Nothing

really matters apart from you've got to

show that you're interested in them by

asking them questions so they feel like

you're interested. And don't talk about

yourself too much. Always try and ask them

questions and seem like you care. If you

can get them to feel like you care, then

you're in. And then maybe like tell some

little funny stories like, oh, I was

playing the banjo. Here's some footage and

they'll be like, oh, that's cool. But they

don't really care. But they find it like

the funny little thing and

then suggest something fun to do. Like,

oh, I know this great place. Do you want

to go? And they like it. They like it when

you make a plan and invite them so they

don't have to do anything apart from just

tag along. They don't like it when you

don't know what to do and you're like,

oh, I don't know. What should we do? What

do you want to do? I don't know. They want

someone to, like, make a plan and decide

on things. That's what I learned. But I

guess those days are over now that I am a

settled man in a totally stable

relationship. No problems at all here.

No problemos.