My Wife Physically Assaulted Me

Hey, so for the first time— not the first

time, the second time actually. So for the

second time, a few days ago, I was

physically assaulted by a woman. The first

time it happened was when I was about 14,

and this stupid girl called Carrie-Anne

the bitch from my secondary school accused

me of breaking her bracelet and demanded

that I paid her £20. I refused. I refused

to pay her £20 because I didn't break her

bracelet. So what she did was she started

waiting at the playground for me every day

so that she could bully me into paying her

£20. It started off just her slapping me

and pushing me and kicking me, and then it

escalated to the point where she actually

punched me in the face. And I just got

sick of it, and I decided to cave and give

her the £20. So the second time it

happened to me was a few days ago. Um,

don't worry, I'm okay. It doesn't— it's

not as bad as it sounds, and I'm okay.

But I wanted to make this video to point

out the fact that men also get physically

abused in relationships. When it comes to

domestic violence in relationships, most

people just assume that it's always the

man beating up a woman. And in most cases,

in most cases, it is the man being violent

towards a woman. But the thing is, that

isn't always the case. There are rare rare

occasions where, where it's the woman

who's being physically violent towards the

man. And these things do happen. And the

reason why most people don't know about it

is because in most cases the man is

embarrassed or scared to talk to anyone

about it, because it's embarrassing being

a man and having to admit that you were

beaten up by, by a girl or a woman who's

half your size and weaker than

I saw a program on TV about this man in a

relationship, and he was in this violent

relationship with this woman who would

actually beat him with objects like

furniture. Not, not actual furniture

because she's not that strong. I mean,

you know, like kitchen appliances or

baseball bats or pieces of wood. And he

would get black eyes and his face would be

all beaten, and he was too scared to tell

anyone about it because he was embarrassed

to. And that's what I'm getting at.

Physical violence does happen in

relationships towards men.

Now, in my case, I'm not saying that my

case was as bad as that. It wasn't

anywhere near as bad as that. So this is

what happened. My wife strangled me

several times. Now, the first 2 times I

thought she was just joking around, just

playing around. But the 3rd time I

realized that she wasn't playing around

and she was actually serious about wanting

to hurt me. She was so angry that she

wanted to hurt me, so she strangled me.

And I'm very ticklish. My weak spot is my

ribs and my neck, and I get very ticklish

when someone grabs my neck, and I kind of

crunch up like this, and I lose all my

energy or my, my power. And she jumped on

top of me, and she pushed me to the

ground, and she started hammering away at

my head, slapping my head.

And she did it so hard, so strongly, that

it knocked the hair clip out of my hair,

and it nearly knocked my glasses off of my

face. And I didn't do anything. I just—

I tried my best to protect myself like

this. I couldn't punch her back. I

couldn't slap her back because, you know,

a man isn't allowed to hit a woman. And I

think that's another problem. Because the

woman knows that a man is not allowed to

hit a woman, She makes— it makes her think

that it's okay for her to hit a man and

nothing bad will happen to her. She won't

have to suffer any retaliation.

So I just lied on the floor until she

finished beating me, and I wasn't

strong enough to push her off of me

because I was lying on the floor and she

was sitting on top of me, and I just

waited until she finished. And yeah, that

was it basically. I know it doesn't sound

like a big deal, but it was painful. You

try imagine what it feels like to be

repeatedly slapped on the side of your

head over and over. Eventually it does

start to become painful. And I didn't say

anything afterwards. I just went into

silent mode. I stopped talking to her,

and then after a few hours she apologized

to me and she said, sorry for hitting you,

but I was still pissed off about it and I

didn't say anything. I just said, I won't

forgive you for that. And I still don't

really forgive her for it. We're not

fighting anymore, but I still feel pissed

off about it, and I'm going to remember

that. It's just added to the list of

things that irritate me about her. She

gets violent when she gets angry. So the

reason why she, she kind of flipped out

and started attacking me was because of a

livestream I did back in January Uh, she

saw me, she heard me say something about—

I think I said something about going to

Korea to try out Tinder after my Japan

trip was over. And this was back in

January before we got married, and I

thought I wasn't going to be able to stay

in Japan long-term, and I was just

thinking out loud. I wasn't really serious

about it. I won't say that I was joking

because I seem to say that I was joking a

lot to get out of things, but But I don't

think I was 100% serious about it. I was

just thinking out loud, saying maybe I'll

try Tinder out if I go to Korea. And she

saw that, and for some reason she just

remembered it, and she just went crazy.

She started hitting me, started shouting

at me. And you might think, what do you

mean? She seems like such a nice, gentle,

sweet person in the video she made. Yeah,

in that video she seems like a really nice

person, but trust me, when she gets angry

and she goes into full rage mode into

Osaka dialect mode. She, she is like a

completely different person. That is not

what she's like. You people

think you know someone just from watching

a 15-minute video of them talking in a

second language, talking all sweet and

nice just because she's in front of a

camera. Do you think people are really

like that in real life? They're not.

That's not what people are like all the

time. Yeah, I can fake being nice for 15

minutes as well. Look. Hey guys. It's me,

Daniel. I picked some buttercups in the

field today. I helped some children cross

the road. And then I braided their hair

using daisies. I'm a nice guy too.

See how easy it is to be nice, to pretend

to be nice on YouTube? And when the

cameras are off, it's a completely

different story. You don't want to be

around when the laughter stops. And don't

start saying things like, oh Daniel, be a

man, stop whining. All she did was slap

you a few times and jump on top of you.

It's not a big deal. Yeah, well, if the

story was reversed, let's say it was the

other way around and my wife told you that

Daniel strangled me and then he jumped on

top of me and then he started slapping my

head. What would you think? I'd get

arrested. I'd get bloody arrested. The

village mob would tie me up to a pole and

stone me to death in certain countries.

So stop being sexist. Stop assuming that

just because— just because you're the man

that it's okay for a woman to beat you. I

bet you anything if I beat my wife It

would be a completely different story,

and you wouldn't be saying to my wife,

oh, just be a woman. He just slapped you

on, on the side of the head a few times.

It's nothing to whinge about. This is the

problem with society. Women— women are

seen as victims, like pure angels, and men

are always seen as the evil guy, the

devil, just because he's bigger and

stronger. It's like people think that the

man is always the aggressor and the woman

is always the victim, but that's not the

case. All the time. Sometimes it's the

other way around. And when someone speaks

up about it, you just laugh at them. This

is why men don't speak up about being

violently abused in relationships,

because 8 times out of 10, society will

just laugh at them for being a wuss and

being a wimp for being beaten up by a

woman. And this is why they get away with

it. We should stop letting them get away

with it. This might sound a little bit

silly, but I actually feel— I actually

feel a little bit scared of her now. She

sits next to me, and when she— if she

raises her arms suddenly, I flinch, and

I'm worried that she might start hitting

me again or strangling me again. Okay,

admittedly, she did have a few drinks in

her when, when the incident happened. She

had a few pints of alcohol, so maybe that,

that affected her in some way. Maybe she's

not usually like that. I don't think she's

usually a violent person. When she's had a

bit to drink and she's angry, Um, she does

get a bit out of control. I'm a delicate

and fragile person, and I don't appreciate

being in a relationship where I'm scared

of being physically attacked by my

partner. I admit I did something wrong. I

said something that upset her, and I can

totally understand why she would be upset

and angry, but that's no excuse. A woman

should never hit a man. A man should never

hit a woman. Humans shouldn't use violence

against other humans unless it's a

sporting event like a boxing match or

wrestling match. Or if it's for

self-defense, or if it's to prevent a

crime. Otherwise, there's no excuse.

People shouldn't be violent towards other

people, and I just wanted to bring

awareness to that. And thanks,

thanks for watching.

Hello and welcome to this final section of

the video: how to wash your Tenga egg.

This is a Tenga egg, and I won't tell you

what it's for. It's very important to keep

it clean, and today I'll be showing you My

technique, how I keep my Tenga egg clean

and bacteria-free. The first thing you

want to do is turn it inside out because

most of the bacteria and the gross stuff

will be on the inside. It's kind of

difficult to do this with one hand, but

you get, you get the idea. So now we have

it turned inside out. First, put it into

the sink, and we want warm water. It's

very difficult to clean things properly

using cold water. You don't want it to be

too hot because that will burn your

finger. So just— we'll put a combination

of some warm water and we'll add in some

cold water to give it a nice warm

temperature. Okay, so when the water

is nice and warm, we're going to first

rinse the tatinga egg under the water just

to get most of the gunk and the gross

stuff off it.

And then what we do is just put some soap.

This is washing-up liquid, orange scent.

It doesn't really matter what, what smell

it has. Just squeeze some washing liquid.

You can use soap as well. And then give it

a little bit of a rub like this until you

start forming bubbles. And keep

squeezing it until it starts foaming.

Foaming, and you can smell the orange

scent of the washing liquid come into

effect. And just keep doing this until you

think it's clean enough, basically. And

then just rinse off the bubbles. It's very

simple, very easy to keep clean. Oh,

we have a bit of squirting. That's okay.

And just make sure to rinse off all the

soap because Because

you don't want to have soap on it the next

time you use it. Soap is very, very

painful for your genitals if it comes into

direct contact with your glands. That's

not going to be pleasant.