Me and my wife are getting divorced. [6ekV4q8bOUk]

Hello, so this is a quick update video on

my marriage situation.

We're getting divorced. Yep,

I know no one's surprised. Everyone knew

that this was going to happen, but we are

getting divorced, and it's mainly because

my wife said that she can't trust me

anymore after what she saw on the SD card.

She said that she couldn't be in a

relationship with me anymore and she

wouldn't be able to trust me anymore, so

She decided that we should get divorced,

and I just said okay. And I don't really

know how we're going to do it. She just

said, I'll contact you again about the

details of how we're gonna do it.

I'm not gonna fly all the way to Japan

just to sign some papers. That's way too

much money, too much time, and I don't

really want to go all the way to Japan

just to go and get divorced. So I don't

know if she'll be able to do it by herself

without me, or maybe she could send me the

documents that I need to sign by mail and

then I can send it back to her.

I'm not sure. I mean,

what, what would happen if I refused to

sign? Would we just be married forever?

She must be able to get divorced without

me. Otherwise, what would happen if I

couldn't sign or I refused to sign? I'm

not saying I'm gonna refuse to sign. That

would be stupid. If she wants to get

divorced, then, then so

do I. I mean, there's no point fighting

it. There's no point trying to convince

her not to divorce me. I think that

getting divorced is the best thing for us

because you might not know this, But the

marriage, the relationship hasn't really

been a very happy relationship.

We've had a lot of arguments, a lot of

fighting. I ran away from her several

times, so pretty sure you'll know by now

that it hasn't been sunshine

and rainbows. It hasn't been a very happy

marriage. I'd say most of the time it was

happy, but then There were a lot of times

when, um, it was just a big mess.

And you know, sometimes when you're

building a shed and it's just a big mess

and it's all wonky and there's nails

sticking out of it, instead of trying to

repair it, you know, the best option is to

just burn it down and then build a new

one. I don't really have anyone to blame

for it apart from myself. She didn't

really do anything wrong. It was mostly my

fault. And maybe if I was happy with the

marriage, then I wouldn't have messed it

up like I did. But that's

why I messed it up, because I wasn't

really happy with it.

And straight from the beginning, I was

already regretting it, but I didn't have

the guts to— I didn't have the guts to put

my foot down and say no and stop things

when I I knew I should have, and I just

kind of got dragged along, and I was too

cowardly to say no and

to express my opinion.

And this is what happened.

And that's it, really. You won't see her

again on this channel. I'm not going back

to Japan anytime soon. Eventually I will

go back because, you know, I'm not gonna

stay here forever.

Um, yeah, it was a bit of a journey, a bit

of an adventure, but I'm, I'm kind of

relieved that it's over now. Ah,

that entire year last year just feels kind

of like it was a waste. I wish I could

come— I wish I could have just came home

last year. Then I could have seen my dad,

could have seen my cats.

And I really didn't want to go back to

Japan after Christmas. I felt, I felt so

depressed after Christmas and we had to go

back to Japan. And I was actually kind of

happy that I got to come back here,

even though things didn't turn out too

well for my dad.

So I hope you don't mind if Um, I start

making videos in England for a little bit.

It won't be forever. I will go back to

Japan or some other country, so don't

feel as though I'm never gonna make Japan

content ever again. And, uh, yeah,

we'll see what happens later on in the

year when everything's settled down and

I've become less emotional about my dad

and I'm sure I'll start to feel very bored

with this lifestyle and, you know, I'll

start getting the itch, the itch to go and

travel again. About my stuff, my

belongings in Japan, I don't think I'm

gonna go and get them. Mainly because I

can't be bothered to fly all the way there

just to get my stuff. Uh, I didn't

really have that much anyway. I just had

my gaming laptop which cost niddy.

$2,000, and I had my iPad Pro,

which is a few years old now. I guess

she could sell them if she needed money.

I'm not really that bothered because I

have, I have a computer over there. The

only thing I would like her to send me

back would be my black messenger bag. You

know that black bag I always carried

across my shoulder? My dad bought me that.

Um, 9 years ago, before,

before I went to Japan for the first time.

He bought it for me so I could use it in

Japan, and it has sentimental meaning to

me even though it's a pretty

scruffy-looking old bag.

Uh, it'd be nice if she sent that back to

me, or maybe I should just let go of it,

stop feeling so attached to to

things. So yeah, in conclusion,

we're getting divorced. This isn't

clickbait. It's not going to be another

one of those situations where I say I'm

leaving my wife and then I go back to her

the next week. No, it is officially done.

We're officially finishing it,

and I'm a bit, bit sad about it, I guess,

but I'm also a little bit excited.

Because you never know what the future

might hold.

You know, when, when you crash your car

and it sets itself on fire and it

explodes, you can always get a new car,

and, and your new car might be even better

than your, your old car. You know, you

never know. Sometimes forests burn down

and then a new forest grows out from the

ash. You know,

always look on the bright side is what I

like to say. Hello and welcome back to

another episode of Cooking with Daniel.

Today is gonna be a little bit different

since it's a nice sunny day today. I

thought we'd come outside and do some

cooking, so I made this little contraption

out of sticks. Let me show you. It's very

simple. It's just sticks stuck into the

ground, and I've made a little grill on

the top here. I think it's strong enough—

should be strong enough to hold some

bacon. And the plan is I'm gonna light a

fire in the middle and then put the

bacon on the top, and hopefully it should

cook the bacon. I'm not sure, I've never

done this before. So here's my My grill,

I think it's pretty good.

It's raining! Oh no,

but it was so sunny just now.

Look, it's hailing.

Oh, why does everything go wrong. Okay,

I'm gonna light the fire now using my,

my brand new electric lighter. That's

pretty cool. Can you see that?

Okay, let's light, light the grill.

It's raining.

Look at this, it's hailing so much,

but my fire must carry on. Come on.

Oh, oh, oh, we have fire!

Oh,

it's catching,

it's catching.

Fan the flames. Yes,

yes.

The hell

was that?

Okay, so the main problem is it's not hot

at all on top of the grill. The fire needs

to be a lot bigger, but it's not really

catching.

Um, and everything's wet now because of

the hailstones, so I think I'm just gonna

give up for today and we'll try

again next time.