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Why I HATE my Ex-Wife's New BOYFRIEND [g4gsB8fxK4Y]
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So I've been following my ex-wife's social
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0:00–0:02 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_0media for about a year now, just out of
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0:02–0:04 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_1curiosity, and it's come to my conclusion
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0:04–0:06 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_2that I think there's probably a very high
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0:06–0:08 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_3chance and possibility that she found a
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0:08–0:10 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_4new guy, a new boyfriend. And I don't know
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0:11–0:13 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_5anything for sure, this is all just
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0:13–0:15 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_6speculation because she hasn't said
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0:15–0:17 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_7anything, and I can understand why she
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0:17–0:19 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_8would want to keep this all private. I
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0:19–0:21 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_9can't really say that I would be too happy
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0:21–0:23 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_10with the idea of my ex dating a new guy
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0:23–0:25 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_11because it does make me feel a little bit
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0:26–0:27 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_12jealous, but I can't really expect her to
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0:27–0:30 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_13stay single after 2 years And even after 2
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0:30–0:32 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_14years, Japan is still closed to tourists,
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0:33–0:34 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_15so the chances of us getting back together
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0:35–0:37 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_16are probably very, very weak. So around
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0:37–0:40 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_17January of last year, I did actually feel
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0:40–0:42 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_18like there could be a strong possibility
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0:42–0:44 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_19that we might be able to get back
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0:44–0:45 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_20together, but then things started to
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0:46–0:47 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_21change. Now, I first started to notice
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0:48–0:50 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_22that things were kind of different back in
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0:50–0:52 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_23May of last year. In the beginning of
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0:52–0:54 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_24February last year, I actually got Chihiro
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0:55–0:56 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_25a very expensive birthday gift. I got her
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0:56–0:59 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_26an Apple Watch 6, which at the time cost
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1:00–1:02 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_27$600, and the reason The reason why I got
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1:02–1:04 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_28her such an expensive gift is because at
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1:04–1:07 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_29the time I was feeling kind of guilty
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1:07–1:08 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_30about the whole marriage thing, how it
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1:08–1:10 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_31ended, and the bad things that happened.
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1:10–1:12 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_32Also, I felt kind of sad because I just
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1:12–1:14 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_33got dumped by Mila, and to make myself
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1:14–1:16 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_34feel better, I thought I'd get Chihiro a
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1:16–1:18 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_35nice present. I just thought it would be a
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1:19–1:20 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_36nice peace offering and to make things
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1:21–1:22 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_37good between us after everything that
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1:23–1:24 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_38happened. And at the time, my stocks were
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1:24–1:26 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_39also doing very well, so I had a lot of
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1:26–1:28 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_40money and I felt like splashing out and
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1:28–1:30 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_41getting her a nice gift. So I got her the
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1:30–1:32 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_42Apple Watch, and she was really happy
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1:33–1:34 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_43about it, and I thought this is a good
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1:34–1:35 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_44start to laying the foundations of us
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1:36–1:39 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_45eventually getting back together again,
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1:39–1:41 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_46if that's still a possibility. I was
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1:41–1:42 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_47thinking maybe Japan's gonna reopen in
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1:43–1:45 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_482021 and there could be a chance. I
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1:45–1:47 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_49decided to get her an Apple Watch because
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1:47–1:49 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_50I knew she liked Apple and I knew she
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1:49–1:51 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_51liked watches, so I thought it'd be a good
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1:51–1:53 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_52gift. And I was right because she really
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1:53–1:56 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_53loved it. And when I checked her
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1:56–1:57 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_54Instagram, she was wearing the watch in
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1:58–1:59 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_55almost every picture, so I thought Great,
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1:59–2:02 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_56job done. I accomplished my mission. She
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2:02–2:04 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_57likes the gift. But then around May, she
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2:04–2:07 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_58stopped wearing the watch. I noticed in
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2:07–2:09 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_59her pictures she wasn't wearing the watch
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2:09–2:10 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_60anymore, and she went back to wearing her
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2:11–2:12 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_61old analog watch. And I started to think,
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2:13–2:15 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_62what happened to the Apple Watch? There's
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2:15–2:17 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_63several possibilities. The first
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2:18–2:19 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_64possibility is maybe she broke it and then
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2:20–2:21 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_65never got it repaired because it's kind of
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2:21–2:23 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_66expensive. Possibility 2 would be maybe
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2:23–2:26 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_67she just didn't really like it because it
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2:26–2:27 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_68was kind of complicated and you had to
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2:28–2:29 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_69charge it and everything, and she just
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2:30–2:30 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_70sold it. But there's actually a third
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2:31–2:33 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_71possibility, which I think is very likely.
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2:33–2:35 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_72So when I got her the watch, she
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2:35–2:37 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_73explicitly told me not to tell anyone that
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2:37–2:39 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_74I got her the watch. And at the time I
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2:40–2:41 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_75thought, okay, I won't mention it. It's
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2:42–2:43 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_76not really a big deal. I didn't really
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2:43–2:44 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_77think it was anything important. But now
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2:45–2:47 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_78that I look back at it, it seems kind of
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2:47–2:49 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_79strange why she was so against me telling
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2:49–2:52 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_80people that I got her the watch. She just
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2:52–2:54 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_81said that it was because if I started
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2:54–2:56 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_82telling everyone, then she would get weird
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2:56–2:57 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_83trolls messaging her and she didn't want
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2:58–3:00 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_84that. So I have this theory that the
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3:00–3:02 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_85reason why she actually stopped wearing
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3:03–3:04 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_86the watch is because she's seeing someone
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3:04–3:07 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_87who's aware of my existence. And if that
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3:07–3:10 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_88guy knows that she's wearing a watch that
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3:10–3:13 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_89was gifted to her by her ex, by me, then
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3:13–3:16 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_90that would cause complications and
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3:16–3:18 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_91problems with her, with her new
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3:18–3:20 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_92relationship. If you remember back to last
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3:20–3:22 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_93year in May, we kind of had a bit of a
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3:22–3:23 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_94public argument over her Discord. So
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3:24–3:27 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_95someone made a Discord server for her and
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3:27–3:29 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_96then invited her to it so that she could
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3:29–3:31 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_97have her own Discord. And I was very
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3:32–3:33 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_98against this because I just knew it would
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3:33–3:35 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_99be full of trolls and toxic people and
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3:35–3:37 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_100people doing weird stuff and saying weird
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3:38–3:39 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_101stuff, and it would just be a mess. And I
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3:39–3:41 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_102tried to convince her not to have a
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3:42–3:43 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_103Discord and not to be involved with it,
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3:43–3:45 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_104but she refused to listen to me and she
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3:45–3:47 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_105went ahead with having her own Discord,
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3:47–3:49 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_106which I was very unhappy about. And after
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3:49–3:52 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_107a few months, she decided to delete the
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3:52–3:53 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_108Discord anyway because— well, I don't like
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3:53–3:56 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_109to say I told you so, but I told you it
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3:56–3:58 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_110would just be full of trolls and annoying
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3:59–4:00 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_111weirdos. And because I was kind of upset,
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4:00–4:02 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_112I started to stop caring about keeping the
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4:02–4:04 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_113whole Apple Watch thing a secret, and I
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4:05–4:06 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_114just said, yeah, I got her an Apple Watch
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4:07–4:08 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_115for her birthday, so what? And after that
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4:09–4:11 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_116happened, I never saw her wear the watch
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4:11–4:13 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_117in any of her pictures or videos or
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4:13–4:15 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_118anything. And I think that because there
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4:16–4:17 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_119was too much risk of her new guy finding
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4:17–4:19 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_120out that she got the watch from me, she
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4:19–4:21 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_121decided it would be a better idea to just
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4:22–4:23 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_122stop wearing the watch. Because now that
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4:24–4:25 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_123I've let the cat out of the bag and I
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4:26–4:27 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_124started saying that I got her the watch,
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4:27–4:29 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_125maybe the new guy wouldn't be very happy
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4:29–4:31 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_126about it. I know I wouldn't be very happy
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4:32–4:33 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_127if I knew my girlfriend was wearing
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4:34–4:35 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_128something very expensive that she got from
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4:35–4:37 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_129her ex after they broke up. And the other
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4:37–4:40 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_130reason why I believe that she probably has
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4:40–4:42 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_131a new guy now is because she keeps posting
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4:42–4:44 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_132these pictures on her Instagram in really
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4:44–4:46 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_133nice-looking places, very picturesque
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4:47–4:49 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_134scenes, kind of places you wouldn't really
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4:49–4:51 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_135go to with a friend or by yourself or with
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4:51–4:53 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_136family, the kind of places you would take
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4:53–4:55 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_137your lover to. And I would know this
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4:56–4:59 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_138because as her ex-lover, she took me to
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4:59–5:01 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_139those places when we were together. So I
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5:02–5:03 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_140recognize the kind of places she likes to
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5:03–5:05 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_141go to on a romantic trip. And the other
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5:06–5:08 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_142reason why I think she might be going to
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5:09–5:10 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_143these locations with a guy friend or a
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5:10–5:13 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_144boyfriend is because of the angle. The
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5:13–5:16 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_145height that the photos are being taken at
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5:16–5:18 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_146are obviously not at her eye level.
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5:19–5:21 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_147They're being taken from kind of above her
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5:21–5:24 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_148eye level. So the photos are clearly being
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5:24–5:26 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_149taken by someone who is taller than she
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5:26–5:28 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_150is, and most guys are taller than women.
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5:29–5:31 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_151And there's also other pictures on her
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5:31–5:33 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_152Instagram of food on certain days like
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5:33–5:36 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_153Christmas and special holidays, there's
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5:36–5:38 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_154obviously 2 portions of food and there's
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5:38–5:40 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_155obviously 2 cups indicating that there's 2
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5:40–5:43 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_156people eating this food. So after
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5:44–5:45 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_157analyzing all of this information, I kind
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5:46–5:48 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_158of have to accept the fact that she's
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5:48–5:50 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_159probably moved on and found someone else
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5:50–5:51 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_160by now. And even though I don't like
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5:52–5:54 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_161having to think of that and I don't like
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5:54–5:56 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_162the idea, there's not much I can do about
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5:56–5:58 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_163it. People just eventually move on, even
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5:58–6:00 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_164if I cannot And maybe if my YouTube
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6:00–6:03 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_165career didn't ruin my life or my marriage,
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6:03–6:05 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_166then I wouldn't be stuck in this kind of
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6:06–6:07 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_167situation. But unfortunately, this is how
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6:07–6:10 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_168things are. I like it when I go traveling,
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6:10–6:12 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_169people are shocked to see that I've just
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6:12–6:14 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_170got a tiny bag and it weighs nothing.
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6:14–6:15 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_171Boil in the fryer.
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6:59–7:01 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_172It's not too bad when it's just bread,
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7:06–7:08 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_174cooking the chicken, it was a nightmare.
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7:12–7:13 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_175Oh no, oh no, Joseph.
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7:15–7:18 · rev_e6399af1f00242275c545dbaeac7fc2c_176Good idea.
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