[2017-10-13] why am I getting so much HATE! [MrWLMgSlC9U]

The French guy is outside my room talking

to himself again. What a weirdo.

Shh, shh, shh. Be very

quiet.

The person next door to me just came out

of his room. We need to go quickly. We

need to get out of here now. Hey, it's me

again, your boy Daniel.

Um, so I just wanted to make this quick

video to talk about the comments in my

recent videos. I've been getting a lot of

hate comments, mostly from SJW types

who are complete idiots and overreact to

everything. And one of the, the main

things that I don't quite understand is

why am I getting so much hate? It's kind

of funny because I'm getting more hate

than Tomoko's getting, and if you remember

correctly, she was the one who tricked me

for 5 months pretending to be a

28-year-old young girl when actually she's

over 40. Maybe she's even 50,

who knows. She said she was 41, but I

don't really feel like I can trust her

anymore. And she was one who lied to me

all that time, and I'm the one getting all

the hate for some reason. I even, I even

said to her, I said to her my honest

feelings that I wanted to have sex with

her but I didn't want to be in a

relationship with her. It's not like I

tricked I didn't scam her or manipulate

her into the hotel. I didn't say— I didn't

pretend to be in love with her. I didn't

give her the false impression that I

wanted to be in a relationship with her

just so I could have sex with her. I told

her the complete truth, that I still

wanted to have sex with her, but I didn't

want to be in a relationship with her,

and she said okay. So I don't understand

what the problem is. We both agreed to

have sex, no strings attached. It was a

mutual decision made by 2 grown-up adults.

But for some reason, everyone thinks I'm

this monster, this sex-crazed addict who

destroys women's lives because I want to

have sex. You're completely overreacting

and blowing the whole thing out of

proportion. It's not that crazy. I'm a

guy. I like to have sex. I enjoy having

sex with multiple women. It's a pretty

normal thing. For guys to want to have

sex? Why am I being crucified because I

want to have sex? It doesn't make any

sense. The funny thing is a lot of you

still think that she's pretty. You're

still falling for the beauty filters. I'm

guessing you watched her latest video

where she actually looks quite nice. She

looks like she has nice, beautiful, soft

skin. That isn't what she looks like.

She's using a filter on the video as well.

Trust me, I met her in real life. Have any

of you guys met her in real life? No?

Then you don't know what you're talking

about and you need to shut up. Okay, I can

kind of understand why some people are

angry because I admitted to having sex

with a different girl before meeting

Tomoko. And yeah, I guess that wasn't

the best thing to have done or to have

admitted to doing,

but Look, I haven't even met Tomoko yet,

and I wasn't really— I didn't really feel

like she was my official girlfriend just

yet. I know I call her my girlfriend in

videos and stuff, but that's just because

it's convenient. It's easier to just call

her my girlfriend than to say the Japanese

woman that I met online and I'm going to

meet and I might have a relationship with.

I can't say that every single time. It's

just easier to say my girlfriend.

Also, I don't understand why so many

people are shocked and disgusted because

I've had sex with several women in the

past few weeks. What's the big deal?

People hook up and have sex. They have

one-night stands all of the time. I didn't

promise any of these girls that I'm going

to get into a serious relationship with

them. I didn't promise I was going to

marry them. We just met up and we had sex.

That was it. It— I don't understand why a

lot of you think that's a terrible thing

to do. It's like some of you are

12-year-olds and you have this silly idea

of love and romance, that it's going to be

like— that it has to be like Romeo and

Juliet, and you fall in love and then you

have sex and then you have to stay

together for the rest of your lives.

That's not what reality is like. That's

like 5-10% of how

relationships work. Most of the time it's

not like that. People hook up, they have

sex, they break up. Or they stay in a

relationship for a few years, things go

downhill, they break up. People break up

and find new partners all of the time. I

just feel like it's kind of unfair towards

men. If a guy meets up with a girl and has

sex with her, then people say, oh, you're

just using her for sex. But if a girl

meets up with a guy and has sex, no one

says to the woman that she's just using

the guy for sex. No, everyone goes, oh,

that guy's so lucky, he got free sex that

night. It's completely unfair. And then

there's loads of idiots saying things

like, let's get this guy's channel

reported. Get it banned. You can't, you

can't get someone's channel banned because

they talk about sex or relationships.

It's not like I'm— it's not like I'm

talking about extremist stuff, is it?

You can't get someone's channel banned

just because he cheated on his internet

girlfriend that he never met before. You

can't get someone banned because they talk

about sex. There's countless channels on

YouTube where they talk about sex in a lot

more detail than I do. I barely even talk

about sex in detail. The most I say is, I

had sex, or, I ejaculated. I don't go into

like the nitty-gritty details, and it's

not like I'm talking about it in this like

hateful, abusive way.

You can't get someone's YouTube channel

banned just because you don't like the

person or you don't agree with the things

that he says. Otherwise, channels like Sam

Pepper or LeafyIsHere wouldn't be around,

would they? Also, you can't get someone

kicked out of the country just because

he's having sex with women. They're not

gonna go, oh, Daniel's having sex with our

women, let's kick him out of our country.

Are you guys idiots? Are you a bunch of

10-year-olds? Come on, you can't be that

stupid. If you think I'm the only

foreigner in Japan having sex with

Japanese women, then you're in for a big

surprise because there's thousands of

foreigners in this country. Who go to

nightclubs, who go to bars, who pick up

women and have sex. It happens all the

time. It's just that those people don't

make videos and talk about it openly.

They keep it private. They keep it a

secret. You should hear some of the

conversations I hear in the guest house

that the foreign guys have. They talk

about paying for sex. They— I've met

American guys who have girlfriends in

different cities, and yet they're going to

nightclubs and bars and hooking up with

random strangers. This is life. This is

what happens in the grown-up world.

People hook up, they have sex, and then

they say goodbye. There's nothing wrong

with it as long as— as long as— as long

as both people are consenting and they're

not being forced into doing it. Also, a

lot of people have been saying, how can he

have social anxiety? How can he claim that

he's shy when he's meeting all these women

and having sex with them? Just because I

have social anxiety and I find it

extremely difficult to talk to strangers

doesn't mean that I'm incapable of meeting

girls and having sex with them. It's not

like I just walk up to them and then start

talking to them. I meet them online and we

chat to each other for weeks and I get to

know them and they get to know me. So when

we do meet up, it's not— it's not that

awkward, but it's still very awkward when

we first meet up. And if you saw me when I

meet a girl for the first time, you'll

realize that I'm not confident, that I am

socially awkward. It's— I find it very

scary and uncomfortable having to meet

people for the first time. I'm terrible

at making conversation. If my partner

isn't a talkative person and she's also

shy, we end up just sitting there in

almost silence. And if she doesn't make

conversation, then sometimes I just sit

there not saying anything whilst I'm

desperate— desperately trying to think of

a conversation topic to talk about. Also,

I hate noisy places. I hate going to

restaurants where it's really noisy

because I can't hear what she's saying. I

think there's something wrong with my

hearing, but whenever we go to a noisy

place, I find it really difficult to to

listen to what they're saying. I can see

their mouth moving, but I don't hear the

words coming out. So I feel extremely

stressed out when we have to go to a bar

or a busy restaurant or a busy area,

and usually I don't talk much because—

because I can't hear what they're saying.

Also, I hate being on trains and having to

make conversation. I have the opposite

problem. On trains, it's usually too

quiet, and I don't like having a

conversation with someone. When I'm

surrounded by people and they can hear

everything that I say. I don't like it

when I'm talking and all of these random

strangers can listen to what I'm talking

about. It makes me feel really

There's even been some people who have

said I'm worse than Elliot Rodger. Now,

if you don't know who Elliot Rodger was,

he was this guy who's pretty similar to

me, half Malaysian, half British, and he

went a bit crazy and he killed 6 people.

And people are saying that I'm worse than

someone who's killed— murdered 6 people

and then killed himself because I had sex

with a girl before I met my online

girlfriend. Do you know— do you know how

idiotic that makes you sound? Okay, I

admit I'm not the most morally righteous

person in the world. I come off as a bit

of a douche, a bit of a dick, but I

haven't killed anyone. I have no desire to

inflict pain or end people's lives.

These past few days, these past few videos

where I've gotten so much hate, it just

reminds me— reading the comment section

just reminds me how How stupid people are.

How stupid people can be in general.

I'm a 28-year-old, and I know that most

28-year-olds don't live their lives like I

do, but I feel like I'm making up for lost

time. When I was a teenager, when I was

16, 18, even 20, when all the

other kids, all the other guys were doing

stuff like nightclubbing and fooling

around with girls and hooking up and stuff

like that, I was this nerd playing video

games in my room because I was too scared

to go out and socialize with the other

kids because they made fun of how I

looked. I was this complete loser who

had no social skills, who was scared

of women, and I didn't even have my first

sexual experience until I was 21.

Girls had absolutely zero interest in me

when I was a teenager. And I feel like— I

feel like I missed out on all the fun that

all the other kids, all the other guys

were having when they were doing

nightclubbing and all that. And maybe this

is my way of making up for that time lost.

I still look young. I have my secret

weapon, Tinder. I'm in Japan, a country

where people who look like me— feminine,

slim— are considered to be very

attractive. A lot of you Western guys

don't get this. A lot of you Western

people don't get it. All of you Western

people think that you need to be macho and

masculine and you need to have muscles,

you need to go to the gym and you need to

drive a car in order to get girls. But no,

Japan isn't like that. Japan is the

land of feminine guys. I mean, look at the

idols, look at the celebrities, look at

the hairstyles they have. They look very

feminine. It's because that kind of look

is popular here, and Japanese

women find me attractive. What can I say?

So give me a break. I'm just a simple guy

who likes having sex, who didn't have any

social life when he was a teenager. I

should have been doing all of this when I

was a teenager, when I was younger, but

I'm doing it now because I had a late

start, and I'm not planning to be doing

this for the rest of my life. I don't see

myself as a 45-year-old coming to Japan

and hooking up with girls on Tinder. No.

Just let me enjoy this brief moment in my

life before, before my parents die and I

lose the ability to come to Japan and I

have to grow up and,

I don't know, sort out my life. It's just

that I don't need to sort out my life

right now because I have my parents and I

don't want to think about that stuff just

yet. I want to— I want to enjoy my life

right now. Is that so much to ask for?

Is it? Also, one last thing. Tomoko

watched all of my videos. She knew what

kind of channel my channel is. She knew

that I made videos talking about my

ex-relationships, ex-girlfriends, and past

relationships and past sexual experiences.

So she should have known that I would have

made a video talking about her if

something like this happened. I didn't

promise her anything like, I wouldn't make

videos about you, so she should have

expected it. She can't complain that I

embarrassed her or, or I talked about

her in a horrible way because she

should have known that this would have

happened if, if she lied to me or if

I felt like I was betrayed by her. If you

don't want me to talk about you in a

video, if you don't want me to make a

video about you, then the simple answer is

not to get involved with me in the first

What do you think?

It's ¥1,500. It's not