[2025-02-01] she dumped me [_2OObo1hkD8]

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Hello, I'm back.

Did I fix my Wi-Fi problems?

Yep. I went back to the place I was

staying at before the rat house.

Ah, it's so much nicer here. I feel so

happy. It just shows

the place you live in makes such a massive

difference for your happiness. I was so

miserable in the rat house. I'm so glad

There's a kind of a weird sound coming

from the roof here too, though. I think

that's just the pipes. I don't know.

Ah, so we need to come up with a nickname

for this place. Um, this is the place

where it's got the, the couple.

I don't know if they're elderly. They

don't look that old. They look like

they're in maybe in their 50s because his

hair is still black, so maybe he's like

50-something.

Because if I say elderly couple, you're

going to think of like granny and

granddad, and I don't think they're that

old. Yeah, maybe he dyes it. I don't know.

He doesn't look that old. Looks like

mid-50s.

Oh, Sunny messaged me.

Let's see what she's saying.

Um, yeah, about the refund,

I don't think he's happy about it.

God, it was so awkward because he came in

this morning and he was very helpful.

He was like explaining to me how the Wi-Fi

works. How it needs to be as

close to the house as possible. And he was

coming up with ideas like, oh, maybe he'll

switch the bandwave, maybe he'll like use

a wire to connect it directly. And then I

just let him finish and then I just came

out with the whole, yeah, I'm going to

leave today anyway. And I explained to him

my situation. I said that The

plan was to stay here for a month whilst I

look for a rental place. And then I found

a rental place and they said I could move

in next Friday. But because of the

internet, I kind of booked another place.

So I'm going to leave today. And he was

like, oh, okay. And then

I said, so would it be possible to get a

partial refund? And he was kind of like—

he didn't say yes, but he didn't say no.

He said I'd have to go through the website

to do it. So, I mean, his— maybe he's just

always like that, but his face looks kind

of serious. And then he just said,

well, I better leave you to it then. And

then he walked out. He just— he didn't

even say bye or like good luck or

anything. Just— it felt very unfriendly.

And I was like, okay. And then I just

packed my stuff. I had a sandwich, packed

my stuff into my car, and I left. I didn't

see them. I timed it so hopefully they

were having lunch when I left because I

didn't really want to see them again. The

guy kind of— it's just farmers, isn't it?

I don't know if it's like a stereotype,

but I just don't find farmers very

friendly. They're always very serious.

They're not like jokey, jovial types. I

like this place because the guy here,

he's got like a friendly vibe. He just

seems nice, and the

place here is really— oh my God, I love

this place. I want to live here. Can't

they adopt me as their Asian son? I'll pay

them £1,000 a month, but they probably

make more on Booking for having multiple

guests over the month. But this place is

so nice. The internet's amazing here.

It's like 800 megabit download. I've never

had any problems with the internet here.

Does my stream look better quality? I put

the settings back up a bit.

This place is great. I love the carpet.

The carpet is— the carpet creates such a

nice cozy feeling when you come in and

it's soft on your feet. I just did not

like the farm cottage rustic looking

floorboards. It wasn't

really nice, to be honest. Is it

streaming? It wasn't really

nice, to be honest. Is it

streaming? Imagine I move here and I get

internet problems again. It's like I'm

cursed. Hold on.

Okay, what was I saying? Yeah, I really

like this place. The carpet's great, uh,

the bed's really nice, kitchen's really

nice, everything's just really nice. It's

like really modern, feels like it's

relatively newly refurbished. And then

that farm cottage I was staying in, the

serviced apartment, it just felt

old and dirty. It was obvious they didn't

clean it. There were dead flies and

insects everywhere. Everywhere was dusty

and covered in cobwebs.

I'm getting all these weird rashes on my

arms. Look,

this has never happened before. I think

when I get stressed, I get all these

rashes. Look at that, all up my arm.

Weird, weird rashes.

In Thailand, I was getting them on my

hands. Now I'm getting them around my

elbow. Don't know what that's all

about. Maybe I am much more stressed than

I think I am.

Yeah, I don't know about the refund. He

said, um,

he's, he's— I forgot what he said. He said

that the apartment is for people

traveling and the Wi-Fi is adequate for

the majority of guests. So basically

saying that it's supposed to be like a

holiday home, not for, I don't know,

work-from-home professionals to come and

live there for a month who need good

internet. So he's basically just like

trying to make an excuse for the internet

being bad. And then he was also saying he

He would not be able to give a full refund

because it will be difficult to find new

guests for the rest of the month. But the

rest of the month literally ends in 4

hours, so I don't know what he's talking

about. And then he just said he would be

happy to offer a small refund, but he

didn't say how big the small refund is.

So I've got to try and figure

out how I get this small refund. Maybe

it's like £50. It's kind of annoying, but

if you think about it this way, I stayed

there for a week. To book the place for a

week, it would have been about £600. The

entire month was about £1,500, so I've

lost £900. Bit annoying,

but I wouldn't have known, would I? I

didn't know the internet was going to be

rubbish. I didn't know it was not going to

be nice there. Also, there were no windows

apart from in the ceiling, so it felt like

a prison. No window. Okay, there was one

window, but it was like pointing at the

ground, so you couldn't see any scenery.

You're just sitting in there and it just

felt like you were in a jail cell. And

then no internet. I was losing my mind.

No internet, no windows. I felt trapped.

And then you step outside and it smells

like Co-fertilizer.

Yeah, I paid £1,500 for that place. I only

stayed there for a week, and then I booked

this place and it cost me £450 for a

week. So in total, I spent £2,000

to stay somewhere for 2 weeks.

Not very good planning, I guess.

Sunny's mad at me again.

She says I pissed off the guy. What?

And then she said, why didn't you ask him

in the morning about the refund? When I

literally just told her that I did ask him

for the refund. Oh,

I really feel like this is not going to

work.

Why is she having a go at me? I literally

told her that I talked to the guy and

asked for the refund, and he said that I

would have to go through the website to do

it. And then like 5 minutes later,

Sunny goes, why didn't you ask him for a

refund? And I just told you I did ask for

the refund in the morning.

And now she's saying I pissed him off.

No, I didn't. How did I piss him off?

How is it my fault? Getting sick and tired

of this, to be honest.

I don't

know why she's like attacking me now.

Oh my God,

she said it was your impulsive decision to

leave.

Yeah, so?

Yep, we're having a fight now.

She's mad again about something and she's

taking it out on me.

I don't even know what she's mad about.

So yesterday she was upset because,

I don't know, she was— she did something

for me and I said, okay, thanks. And then

she was mad because my, my, my message was

like short and dry.

And then she said that she didn't like how

dry I am,

and now she's mad at me over this whole

refund thing.

You guys fight every other day? Yeah, I

know, and it's for the weirdest things.

I've never had any of this problem before

with anyone else. Like, all I would have

to say is, okay, thanks, and then that

would make her angry. The hell?

Here comes the massive wall of text.

I've been trying to be so patient with

her. But I think my patience is running

out. I'm actually just getting

really annoyed at this point.

Like, she's being all moody and grumpy at

me over this apartment thing.

Because she said, couldn't you have asked

him this earlier this morning? I literally

just told her I asked him this morning.

What? Now my sister's messaging me. The

hell? Why is my sister— I

don't— since when did my sister watch my

streams? It was my mum watching and she's

telling my sister.

Well, I think it's over with Sunny.

Look what she just sent me. It's not

working, is it? Because you're the

shittest boyfriend I've ever fucking

known. You've— you're given every single

one of your exes' anger issues, and I get

it now. Absolutely done going above and

beyond for you when all I get back is

nonchalant, dry as fuck nothingness from

you. Good luck with everything.

Fucking hell, what a bitch.

What a bitch.

Okay, I'm done with her. I'm just gonna

tell you guys what's been going on. Okay,

so the serviced apartment

was an Airbnb. So she booked the

Airbnb for me for a month because I asked

her to and I gave her the money. 'Cause I

didn't know how long it was gonna take to

find a place to rent here. And then I

found a place and I decided that— I

mean, I've got the place to move into, so

I wouldn't need the Airbnb anymore. So I

thought, okay, we could ask the guy for a

partial refund. I asked him in the morning

about it. He said he wouldn't know, I

would have to go through the Airbnb

Resolution Center. And then Sunny— well,

I gave Sunny a message to send to him,

and then she did it. But it seems like

during the whole thing, she was like

getting mad about it. Because I could tell

in her response that she was getting mad.

I don't even know why though, because I

was like, I was trying my best to say

thank you and She

sounds disrespectful. You should have seen

all the other messages she sent me since

June. She has sent some horrid

messages, like really horrible things she

said to me.

She's really been one of the most horrible

girls I've ever been with. I've never had

any of my exes say such horrible things to

Why did you allow it? Because I thought if

I just be patient and I say sorry, like,

she would stop being so crazy. She's

actually insane.

Yeah, I'm done with her. Fucking hell,

she is so toxic.

Going above and beyond for you when all I

get back is nonchalant, dry as fuck

nothingness because I said okay,

thanks. And then she gets that mad because

I said okay, thanks.

How is she going above and beyond for me?

What, because she copy and pasted the

message into the Airbnb Resolution Center?

Oh wow, thanks so much.

Fucking idiot. You are a bit

dry. Yeah, I know I am. And you'd think

after watching my content for years, you

would know that. You would know how I

talk. How do you not know that? Like, how

would you watch my content and think Wow,

Daniel is such a, like,

a lovingly emotional, warm,

conversational guy. What part of any of my

content would give you that impression?

And then she, she met me multiple times in

Japan. She would— she should know what I'm

like. I'm exactly the same now as I

was when we met in Japan. If you didn't

like me As I am now.

You didn't have any complaints about it

when we were in Japan, did you?

Makes zero sense. I met her

for like, I don't know, 2 months in Japan,

so I thought, oh wow, she likes me. And

now she's like giving me all this

attitude. So, oh, I don't like the way you

talk, you're dry, nonchalant, blah blah

blah. That's how I'm always like.

What's the problem?

The good side, at least you have a job.

Oh yeah, I don't know, maybe I'll just go

At least give it a go. I don't know.

She is a horrid person. I'm blocking her.

I actually don't want to talk to her ever

again.

It's so weird. I just— I don't even know

what I've done wrong.

We were just talking about the Airbnb

thing.

And then she says, I don't want to push

it, Daniel. It was your impulsive decision

to leave. And it literally says on the

booking you're not valid for a refund, so

it's not going to go anywhere. I don't

want my account flagged by the guy you've

pissed off. Fuck off. I didn't piss him

off. I asked very nicely if he would be

willing to do a partial refund. How did I

piss him off? I wasn't demanding.

I don't know what her problem is. Sick and

tired of it.

Yeah, all she cares about is this stupid

Airbnb. Oh, it was so hard to copy and

paste the message into the resolution

center. Going so above and beyond.

Done with that. Block.

Block on WhatsApp. Fucking ruined

my life.

And block online.

Most toxic, annoying person I've ever been

with. She is more childish and

immature than fucking Mila. And that's

saying something. That's fucking saying

something.

Block online. Blocked online and WhatsApp.

Unfuckingbelievable. She she's got the

nerve to say she's doing above and beyond

when I literally moved all the way here to

try and get a place. Near her.

I'm sick and tired of her. I could tell

she was toxic from probably last year,

but I thought maybe we could fix things,

but we can't. She's the way she is. She

will never change. I'll never change, so

she'll never get stopped. She'll never

stop getting mad at me for the way I am.

Damn, Daniel didn't expect this. Yeah, me

neither. We just talked earlier. I said,

hey, how's it going?

She said, oh, I was doing laundry. Yeah,

well, that's why I don't ask you how

you're doing, because I know you're

probably doing nothing and it's fucking

boring listening to how you're doing

laundry. I don't give a shit about your

stupid fucking laundry.

Yeah, so earlier we're just talking like

normal about the Airbnb problem, and I was

like trying to say, could you do the

resolution sense? She's just like upset

because she might get her Airbnb account

flagged. Who fucking— hey.

I mean, it was her. She even suggested it,

like maybe we could do a partial refund.

You forgot to look at the red flags before

getting together. Yeah, I know, and I feel

stupid because I've seen red flags ever

since June, ever since July. There's been

red flags where she'll just get mad at me

and then she'll just start swearing at me,

like, are you that

emotionally stupid or stuff like that.

She would call me names and insult me all

the time and like say stuff like, I can't

believe I ever let you have the fucking

chance to even be my boyfriend. Like, who

the fuck do you think you are? So

narcissistic. As if

I want to be your boyfriend anymore. The

most toxic person I've ever met.

And she's got like this weird thing where

she's obsessed with the words please and

thank you. So if you don't say thank you

in an adequate way, she gets mad. She's

like, oh, you know, you're being dry. Or

if you don't say sorry every single time,

she's like, oh, where's the sorry? Like,

we were in the hotel and my milk

spilled in the bag because of the driving

and it squished the bottle. The milk

bottle and it made a crack and some milk

spilled out and it went on her candy

stuff. And then I saw it and I was like,

oh. And then she said, well, aren't you

going to say sorry then? Oh, you're so

annoying. You want to talk? How am I

annoying? Why should I say sorry? How is

it my fault? I didn't do it on purpose.

The milk just spilled. It's not a big

deal, is it? And then she's like all

grumpy at me. She just gets grumpy and

moody all the time, usually because she's

hungry. And then she'll just start

attacking me, usually about the way I

talk, like being dry or something.

I've been keeping all this secret because

I didn't want to ruin things, but now I'm

fucking done. I can't— I can't take it

anymore. Honestly,

I'm so fed up with her because she just

gets mad and angry all the time over the

stupidest things. The absolute dumbest

things you can ever think of, she'll get

really mad. Like, oh, I didn't text her

for one day,

or oh, I only replied with 2 words.

The hell is this? What's the point of even

getting mad about that stupid stuff?

Yeah, it's like I'm escaping from my toxic

mum, just end up with a toxic Sunny.

Why is my life just full of toxic women?

I don't get it.

Just yesterday you were speaking so

happily about her. Yeah, I know, I thought

we talked and fixed it, but she's

obviously still mad. And now she's like—

the way she's talking to me about this

Airbnb situation, I'm just fed up with it.

She's being so rude, like saying

that I pissed them off, saying that I

impulsively left. Yeah, well, you try

living in a place without internet, rats

in the ceiling for a week and see how you

She sounds very hormonal and toxic. She

is. She's the most hormonal person. Like,

she'll be completely happy and nice and

then It all changes in a couple hours.

And then she's all angry because I didn't

say thank you. I didn't say sorry.

Or I didn't ask her how her boring day

was. Yeah, I moved all the

way here. I've put all this money into

trying to find a place, and then she's got

the nerve to say that she's the one going

above and beyond. All she fucking had to

do was copy and paste an AI message. That

I sent her into the resolution center,

and she gets mad at me because my replies

are dry. At least I actually reply. When I

message her, it takes like 6 fucking hours

until she fucking replies. At least I

don't take 6 hours to reply.

I just don't get it because she seemed so

nice and normal in Japan, and then ever

since she came out to the UK, she just

became horrid.

I thought we had a thing, like we got on

well, and it was, it was good

in the beginning, and then over time it

just became horrible. I don't know, she

changed.

She just became this person I didn't even

recognize her anymore.

Right, okay, so we got new information. I

don't know, I've got to make big decision

now. Like, I, I stay

with the house and I move in, or I just

forget about it, go home.

Do you want to go back to the clutches of

Cami? You're going to think I sound crazy,

but I think my mum is actually more

reasonable and nicer than Sunny is.

I can't believe I'm saying it because I've

always thought my mum was horrible, but

I'd take my mum over Sunny any day. Sunny

is so toxic. And she's always right.

And you have to, like, just say sorry and

bite your lip. Otherwise she just gets

more mad.

I've already blocked her. I don't care

anymore. I'm done with that. Sick and

tired of it. I've tried so hard to try

and, like, say please and thank you more,

try and be a bit more emotive with my

texts, try and be a bit more care—

I've already tried, but she just keeps

getting angry at me. It's just not fun

anymore.

God, I can't imagine living with her.

It'd be a nightmare. She would just be mad

and moody all the time, and I'd be having

to say sorry or would have a big fight.

God, thank God it didn't get that far.

Okay, what do I do now?

It's just so stupid. I was texting my

sister. My sister was warning me to stop

talking about her, but I can't. I've been

bottling this up for over half a

year now. I really wanted it to work, so I

did like her a lot, but she's just— it's

become so toxic. I can't. She's shown me

so much of her bad side. I can't. I don't—

I don't even want to be with her anymore.

Okay, so there's this There's a detail I

need to tell you guys about. The house

that I've been accepted for is like 15

minutes drive from Sunny.

I don't really want to be that close to

her, to be honest.

And I knew that that was kind of weird,

and I honestly didn't do it on purpose.

It was honestly the only house that I was

able to get a tenancy agreement with.

Okay, so I'm just— my

sister said she sounds really weird.

She's toxic as fuck.

I'm gonna

send my sister what she said to me.

Maybe I'll do a phone call with my sister.

Look how horrible she

is because I Asked

her if she could get a partial refund on

Airbnb.

I've already paid the rent and deposit for

my house.

My sister said, I don't think it's good to

date someone who swears at you. She did it

all the time.

Do you think the real estate agency will

give me some money back?

My sister said she's at home too. Is David

living there too?

Isn't the new house empty?

Yeah, it's unfurnished,

but it's really close to Sunny.

I'm scared she's going to show up and

smash my car. I think I'm leaving.

Fuck. I do not want to be— I

do not want to be 6 miles drive away from

Sunny. Would she really do

that? I don't know. She's kind of crazy.

She's got a freaking anger problem, guys.

I have never met a girl who gets so angry

so easily ever before. She's got

a really bad temper.

Does she have a physical bad temper? No,

just verbal.

Guys, I'm just gonna show you where I'm

staying because I don't give a fuck

I'm gonna tell you where I am. I'm in

Devon. I'm in Devon and I've been

going backwards and forwards between

Plymouth and Exeter. It's all out the

fucking bag now. All out the fucking bag

now. This is

where I'm staying. Do you see? You think

it's fake? All you people saying it's

fake, shut the fuck up now.

Yeah, I've been in Devon and

I'm supposed to be doing a shift for

Every. The job thing is Every.

They offered me a job.

Text my mum.

I might come home. Don't know what to do.

I feel like I'm Oh my god,

I feel like I've been made such a fool of.

Every is the hardest career job. Yeah,

I've heard a lot of bad stuff about them.

Are they really that bad? I've seen loads

of people do it. If it's so bad, why do

people do it then?

God, the way she talks to me is so

disgusting. I would never talk to her like

this. Daniel, it was your impulsive

decision to leave. I don't want my account

flagged by the guy you've pissed off.

Shut the fuck up. I didn't piss him off.

He's just— he just doesn't want to do the

refund. I asked him in a very nice way if

he would be willing to do a partial

I'm absolutely done going above and beyond

for you when all I get back is nonchalant,

dry-as-fuck nothingness from you. Fuck

you.

What does she want me to text like?

Like I'm some 15-year-old gay emotional

woman? That's what men text like. We just

say, hey, are you okay? Hey, okay,

thanks.

How's this going? We don't put like loads

of emojis and we're not like, hey girl,

how are you? Oh, I miss you so much. Oh,

I love you. Oh, how's dinner? Oh, are you

okay? That's not how fucking guys talk

like. Go be a lesbian if that's what you

want. You want a woman. That's what women

talk like. Men don't talk like women.

If that's what you want, go date a gay guy

or be a fucking lesbian. No man

Talks like a woman with all the emojis.

Hey, how are you?

Fucking hell, whining at me because I'm

dry. It's just called being a fucking man.

That's how we talk. Come on, you guys are

men. That's what we talk like.

Unless you're like a fruity boy.

My mum said pack your things, come home

She's right though. I do not want to be

living— I do not want to be anywhere near

Sunny. I think I'm just gonna go home

tomorrow. Oh my God, I wasted

thousands of pounds for nothing.

God, I used

to think Chihiro was a bitch. Chihiro was

so nice compared to Sunny. Chihiro never

complained about me being dry.

Chihiro never swore at me. Chihiro never

insulted me. I did— I did terrible

things to Chihiro, and Chihiro never

talked to me the way Sunny talked to me.

And all I did to Sunny was, oh, my

responses were a bit dry. Boo fucking hoo.

Ban Sunny on my YouTube channel too.

I don't want to hear from her ever again.

Sick and tired of her shit.

Guys, never date a girl with such

an age. Never date a girl in her 20s.

They are a fucking nightmare. I swear to

God, every girl I've involved with who

were in their 20s has just been awful.

Awful experience. The immaturity is

actually insane. I wonder if one day when

she's 35, she'll remember this and think,

Jesus Christ, I was immature. Because

you're immature as fuck, Sunny. Grow the

fuck up. The world doesn't revolve around

you. I've got my own shit going on too,

you know.

For God's

sake, this got

messy. I know, it just suddenly happened.

Yeah, well, I'm, I'm just— I've reached my

limit biting my lip and holding

my tongue. Just so she can say

whatever she wants to say to me. Yeah,

no, no more. You can fuck off. I'm not

being bullied anymore.

I literally didn't do anything wrong apart

from— okay, here's how to determine if

I did anything wrong or not. I said,

okay, thanks. And she got mad.

I said, okay, thanks. And she literally

went, you talk like such a boomer, LMAO.

And I knew she was mad. So then I said, I

noticed you get mad over the way I talk

sometimes. Sorry, but this is just how I

speak. And then she was like,

your dryness offends me. Grow the fuck

up. My dryness offends you?

How do you not know that I'm like this

after watching me for years and hanging

out with me for months in Japan? You

should know that already. What, you think

I was just going to suddenly change?

I've never met anyone who got that upset

over the way I talk.

I've had a lot of problems in the past

with relationships because of obvious

things like, oh, maybe I cheated or I was

a bit of a dick. I've never had any

experience where the woman got so upset

because of the way I speak. It's so

I forgot what I said okay thanks to.

Let me check.

Look. Yeah, listen to this.

Look, this was, this was yesterday. She

said, where will you go? I might make a

complaint to Airbnb if he doesn't give you

a refund, because if he, if we were

actually remotely working, we wouldn't

have been able to work at all. So listen

to how supportive she is there. And then

literally the next day she's like, oh,

you pissed him off. It's your fault for

being impulsive. I'm sick and tired of

going above and beyond. Look how she's

like so two-faced. There's literally two

versions of her where she's really nice

and really supportive, and then that

literally does a 180 flip and then she's

really horrible the next day and she's

like blaming me for everything. Look how

nice she is just yesterday.

Even suggesting she's gonna make a

complaint to Airbnb. And then next day

she's like, oh, I don't want to push it,

my account might get flagged. It's your

fault, you pissed him off. And that's just

being such a bitch. What the

hell even is that? She's like, she's got 2

Oh shit, I ordered internet to my new

place. I better cancel it. Can I cancel?

It was only £5.

She might be fine tomorrow. Yeah, but I'm

done. I'm finished. I'm sick and tired of

this. I don't want to be in a relationship

with someone who's like bipolar or

something. One day she's fine, next day

she's mad. Why would you want to be with

someone like that? It's just torture.

It's horrible. So you're scared to talk to

them because you're like, oh, I don't

know, today, are you in a bad mood? Or

it's like treading on eggshells. Got to be

extra careful. Got to use lots of emojis

and like say sorry and thank you 5 times

more to not upset her. Otherwise she's

going to get mad because you didn't say

sorry after every sentence.

Fucking hell.

Yeah, so she sent a message to the Airbnb

guy explaining that we

weren't happy about the internet, and then

I said, okay, thanks.

That's what made her mad. And then she

said, I'm offended by how dry you are.

You don't know what else to say, but

you've— you haven't even asked how I am or

what's going on. When we're talking about

the Airbnb situation, why would I suddenly

just go, so how are you? You're probably

just at home doing nothing. And then she

said, I'm offended by how dry you are.

It's just boring. And then I said, I'm not

asking that every single time. How are

you? I ask it sometimes. Sorry if that

bores you. She said, it pisses me off how

the conversation ends because you finish

talking yourself and have nothing else to

say. Yeah, it's boring. Take some

initiative. How about you take some

initiative? If you want the conversation

to keep going, why don't you just talk?

Why are you waiting for me to ask you? If

you got something to say, just fucking say

it. You take the fucking initiative.

Idiot, telling me to take the initiative.

It's like she whines that I don't text

her. Why don't you text me then? If you

want to talk so much, text me. But no,

she's like, oh, you, you're dry and you're

not nice because you didn't text me or ask

how I was. You didn't ask how I was.

I just started talking.

You don't need to be asked to start talk—

just start talking. If you got something

you want to talk about, just say it.

Take the init— you take the initiative.

Stop whining at me every time because I

didn't ask you, so how are you? How are

you? How are you? Every single fucking

time.

Makes zero sense.

So my sister said she's living back home

at the moment because she's got plumbing

problems.

I ask her, how are things? Like, how was

work? How are you? A lot. I don't ask it

every time. Since 2018, I've never seen

Daniel this angry before. Yeah, I'm

fucking pissed because I've been trying my

fucking hardest to please this woman and

she's impossible to please. She wants

me to say, how are you? How are you?

Every single time we talk, I've got to ask

her, how are you? How are you? How are

you? How are things? How are things? How

are things? When all she's doing is

probably sitting on her bed at home doing

nothing. If something so interesting and

amazing happened, just start saying what

happened. Otherwise I'm just going to

assume nothing happened. So why bother

asking what happened? Because probably

nothing fucking happened. You probably

just stayed at home all day and you did

some work or you did some cleaning. I

don't give a shit about your fucking

laundry. I've got more important things to

Get a grip. I'm not asking you every

fucking single time how your day was, how

have you been. I can't be fucking

bothered. Bothered.

It's boring. You think it's boring because

I don't ask how you are? It's boring for

me to have to keep asking how you are

because I honestly don't care.

I'm bored having to keep listening to how

you did laundry today. I don't give a

shit. Fucking hell. Call me boring.

Call me dry. Call me not taking the

initiative. I can throw all those right

back at you.

If you don't care about your girlfriend,

why be with her? I don't care about every

little thing she does all day. I care

about her as a human being. I don't care

about every single thing she does in a

day. Jesus Christ,

God Almighty,

I have never encountered such an annoying

per— even Mila wasn't this annoying. I

never had any problems with Mila like

this. Mila was never like, oh, you didn't

say thank you good enough. You said

thanks, but it wasn't adequate.

Your thanks wasn't conveyed with enough

emotion.

She needs someone who needs attention,

really. Yeah, she just wants attention and

I'm not giving enough attention. Helps

your poor wallet. Oh, thanks, Chung. Now I

feel bad because now I just wasted your

guys' money on trying to get an apartment

and And now I'm not, I'm not

moving into that place.

But I've been with, what, 15 women, like

10 relationships. I have never,

never met a woman who got upset over how

I speak. Absolutely insane.

It's just insanity.

I literally just said thanks and she gets

upset. What even the fuck?

How am I supposed to say thanks then?

Oh, thanks so much. Wow, thank you. They

love you. Oh, like a fucking gay.

Fuck off. I, I would rather

Roll around in the mud naked than talk

like that. I do not talk like that.

That's not how I talk. I would never talk

like that. I'd rather be gay than talk

like that. I will never talk like that.

Don't ever try and make me talk like that.

Like what? Like emotively.

She gets mad over okay, thanks. Yeah, I

know. Yeah, I don't know. She sent a

message to the Airbnb guy and I said

thanks. What is wrong with that?

What is wrong with that?

How are you mad over that? What?

What? How are you

mad at someone who said thanks?

What even the fuck?

What, you want emotion? I'll give you

fucking emotion right now.

Yeah, maybe, maybe my mum could sense

this. She had gut intuition. That's why

she didn't like Sunny.

Yeah, I'm going home tomorrow, guys.

Anyone could see it a mile off.

Yeah,

but I tried to brush it aside because I

found her attractive and I felt good when

I was with her. I should have just ended

it way back in August.

Okay, let's just cut our losses. I'm not

gonna do the sunk cost fallacy. We got

$2,500 in credit card debt.

It's not that bad.

I haven't used the IKEA loan, so I haven't

bought anything.

Yeah, I never— I've never been with— I've

never met someone who's so rude.

Jesus Christ. Even Chihiro would never

speak to me in such a horrid way. And I

was just— I was trying to be as nice as I

never— I never insulted Sunny. I would

never text her and be like, you fucking

bitch, blah, blah, blah, blah. It was

always her. It was always all the attack

was like coming from her because she's

upset with me because I didn't send her

enough messages or something stupid like

that. I would try my best to be nice

and friendly and chat

about stuff. She called

me names all the time, like emotionally,

like, like I have zero emotional

intelligence or something.

Swearing at me. Yeah, we had a little

fight. When she came over last time

because— okay,

so she was hungry. She wanted to make

buttered toast, but our butter had mold on

it, so she couldn't use the butter. So I

offered her jam, I offered her honey, I

offered her Marmite. I said, you can just

take anything in the kitchen. But she

didn't want anything because she's such a

picky eater. She doesn't like Marmite.

She didn't want jam. She didn't want

anything. She just wanted butter. But we

didn't have any butter. So I said, okay,

well, we can go get food later. So she

said, okay. She gets really mad when she's

hungry. So she got hungry because she

didn't have a toast. And then she was

looking at bus tickets because she was

planning to leave. And then she said, can

I pay for it? And I said, okay. But I said

it like this. Okay. Like that. And then

she was angry again because I said okay

like that.

Oh, thanks. What about your job? Also,

didn't you already sign a contract for the

house? Yeah, I don't know. The job's not

really a problem, but the house— Yeah,

she just had to wait until I signed a

contract for a house. Well, you could have

told me this earlier. Fucking hell.

You could have made up your mind like 5

months ago if you liked me or not.

She's got the nerve to say she goes above

and beyond. She's done fuck all.

What the fuck has she even done? Oh, wow.

She had to send a message on Airbnb.

Oh, wow. She had to get on the bus.

Yeah. So she got angry because I said,

okay, like this. Okay. And then she went,

oh, sometimes you just really fucking neg

me out. I don't even know what that means.

And then she stormed off and went down to

the bedroom. And then she said,

I have to sit on a fucking bus for 18

hours. At least you could do is pay for

it. But I wasn't. Saying I didn't want to

pay for it. I'm happy to just pay, so £15,

whatever. I don't give a shit about £15.

So I had to go down to the room and say,

I didn't say okay like that because I

didn't want to pay. I just said it because

I was sad that you're gonna leave. And

then she just sulked for hours and hours

about the butter. And I said, well, I can

get you some food. Do you want anything?

And she was like, no. I said, I can go to

the shop and get you food. And then she

didn't say anything. So I just went to the

shop anyway and I bought some mac and

cheese and I came back and then she was

all happy again.

Yeah, that was like the first in-person

fight we had because I said, okay,

like one single word.

And because of the butter. She's so

childish.

I don't— I said I don't know what to do

then, because we don't have any food and

you don't want to come to the shop and you

don't want to tell me what food you want

me to get at the shop. What am I supposed

I offered you food. You didn't want it

because you didn't want the food that we

had in the house.

And then it turns out we had some other

butter in the fridge anyway, so I didn't

need to get the butter.

Yeah, it's probably just hormonal stuff

and she's probably like having a hormonal

day and then she takes it out on me and

I'm just— I'm not happy with that. I don't

want to be with someone that when they get

into their hormonal mood, they just start

attacking me. It is so toxic.

I want to be far away from that as

possible.

It happened like every 2 weeks.

Okay, I'm coming home tomorrow.

I nearly made it, guys. I nearly got my

own place, nearly got a job.

You don't know how to make a girl happy?

Nothing can make women happy. Women cannot

make women happy. Women don't know what

happiness is. Women don't know how to make

themselves happy. They don't know how to

make themselves happy, and they expect a

man to know how to make them happy when

they themselves don't even have a fucking

clue. Because all they do is run off their

stupid hormones and emotions and get mad

over nothing. And then one day, oh, I'm

great. Oh, I love you. Oh, support you to

the end of the world. Next day, it's like,

I fucking hate you. You're so dry.

They're just completely controlled by

their stupid emotions and their stupid

hormones. And they've got zero ability to

view the world in like a logical way.

They get mad over the stupidest things.

Women are literally impossible to please.

Like my dad, Worked hard, built a house,

raised a family, was nice and generous and

kind. And he's— my mum was still not happy

with him because he wasn't loving or

something, because he wasn't like, oh,

hugging, hold hands.

That's not what men are like. Go date a

woman if that's what you want. Men don't

do that. Men aren't all soppy

and huggy and That's what gay

men are like. Get a fucking gay boyfriend.

Sick and tired of women whining about me

because I'm a man and

this is what guys are like. We're not

emotional, we're not soppy.

Go get an Italian guy. Italian guys are

like that. Oh, senorita, you are the sun

goddess of my life. Here's my fucking

rose. Get a fucking Italian guy then,

or a Spanish guy. They're like that.

She really pissed you off? Yeah,

yeah, I get pissed off when you start

insulting me and attacking me over my

personality traits. If you don't like my

personality traits, fuck off.

Don't try and change me. If you don't like

who I am, you should have known that

Before it got this far, you dumb fucking

idiot. It shouldn't take 8 months

to understand the personality type of

someone.

Give me a fucking break.

Swearing at me, being rude to me. 'Cause

I'm dry. At least I don't

start sending you horrible memes,

messages, whining about it. I never

whined about her once. Take your job

seriously and never do online dating.

MGTOW and masturbation all the way, bro.

Take it from a 40-year-old.

You're more mad now than when Mila dumped

Yeah, I know. Sunny is like 10 times more

annoying than Mila. And Mila was nice.

Mila was not horrible. She would never

swear at me. She would never write like a

big, long message about how she hates my

personality traits. Mira was not

horrible at all. Sunny is

so— she can be so horrid.

Sunny seemed really nice. Yeah, she can

be. That's, that's her good side.

You do not want to see her ugly side. It

is not nice.

Nah, it's over. I'm done.

I'm sick and tired of her getting mad at

me and then blaming me for everything.

It's not my fucking fault all the time.

Go find a lovey-dovey soppy guy if that's

what you want, because that's not me.

I will never be that. I'd rather— I'd

puke. The way she wants me to talk would

literally make me puke in my mouth. Oh

baby, how are you? Oh, I miss you

so much.

Fucking make me sick in my mouth. We're

not fucking children, fucking grown

adults.

I do not do soppy talk. I don't do sweet

Make me cringe at the thought of it.

Some guys are like that.

Go find a guy like that then.

Most guys are not like that, though. You

need, like, a very sensitive, emotional,

in tune with their emotions, borderline

gay guy. That's the kind of guy you want.

I don't know what made you think I was

like that. Like, what part of my entire

YouTube channel or the time we spent

together in Japan would lead you to

believe that I'm kind of that kind of guy?

I don't know what led you to believe that.

Yeah, that's what you want and you wanted

it from me, but it should have been

obvious you won't get it from me because

that's just not who I am. That's not what

I can't believe

I thought this could work. What a joke.

Did Taiga ever treat you like this? No.

Taiga was the sweetest. Probably the

sweetest, nicest woman I've ever been

with. She would never swear. She would

never get angry at me over

a sentence.

But she would cry a lot. Thai Girl was

like emotionally sad. Sunny's just

emotionally mad, angry. She's like

angry all the time. She'd be

angry and then she'd be sad and then she'd

be happy again and then she'd be angry

again. It's like a freaking roller coaster

of emotions. And you don't know what's

going to trigger it next time. Like, oh,

next— this time it's because you said,

okay, thanks. Next time it's going to be

because you didn't say sorry because the

milk spilled in the bag during the car

She didn't seem angry on stream. Yeah,

because she wants to show you guys that

she's this great, amazing person. She's

not going to show it on camera.

I didn't think Sunny was that toxic.

Yeah, me too. I couldn't believe it

because in Japan she seemed so nice and

she seemed so normal and she seemed

mature. And then ever since we got back to

England It's just been fight after fight

after fight because I didn't text her

enough, because I didn't make her my