I Nearly fell in Love with a Crazy Girl in Manchester

Hello and welcome back to a new video. So

today I want to talk about this girl that

I nearly fell in love with last year when

I was in Manchester. And you may remember

her as the birthday cake girl because I

made a few videos with her, and the second

one was of me decorating a cake for her

birthday. And she was probably the most

dramatic event, the most eventful thing

that happened during my entire stay in

Manchester. At the time, I wasn't really

able to go into much detail as to what

happened between us because, because she

told me not to talk about her, but I don't

like being told what to do. It's been half

a year since I last saw her, and I don't

talk to her anymore, and I'm never going

to see her again, so I don't really see

why I should keep it a secret anymore. So

it all started around October last year

when I was in Manchester. I had this date

with this Chinese girl that I met on a

dating app, and it was a really bad date,

really boring, really dull, really

awkward. We went to this cinema, watched

this really boring movie, and then we went

to an Italian restaurant and had pasta and

had a very awkward conversation during

dinner. We said goodbye and I went back to

my apartment, and then I found out that

she had unmatched me pretty much straight

after we said goodbye. So I was feeling

pretty bummed out, pretty crappy about

that terrible date. And then I checked my

Instagram and I noticed I'm getting loads

of messages from this girl. That I've

never spoken to before. She says that

she's a viewer of my channel and she also

lives in Manchester and would like to hang

out if possible. But it was pretty late.

It was about 10 p.m. in the evening and I

was feeling pretty tired, pretty mentally

exhausted from that terrible date I just

had. So at first I said no, but then I had

a coffee and after resting for a bit, I

felt re-energized. So I messaged her again

saying, actually, I would like to hang

out. And then we met around 11 p.m. I went

to the tram station to meet her And almost

straight away, I found her to be pretty

attractive. She was slim, she was

feminine, she had nice hair, and she had

this soft-spoken, introverted English girl

kind of vibe, which I really liked. And

she was really easy to talk to. She asked

me a lot of questions, which I really

appreciate. When you're hanging out with

someone and they ask a lot of questions,

it just makes it a lot easier to have a

conversation with them. When I go on dates

and the person I'm with never asks me

anything about me, I feel really bored

because it just feels like they're not

interested in me, and I don't feel like I

can talk about myself unless someone asks

me a question specifically. So I liked

this girl because she asked me a lot of

questions and she knew about my channel,

so I didn't have to keep my channel stuff

a secret, and I could just talk about

stuff that happened in the past and my

current ideas or plans I have for new

videos. And this is why I prefer meeting

viewers over people from dating apps, is

because I can just be myself. I can be

more of myself instead of trying to hide

parts of myself, such as my YouTube. So

anyway, we started to walk around

Manchester. It was pretty late. It's about

11 PM, 10 PM or 11 PM, and we hung out for

about a few hours just walking around

Manchester, walking around the streets.

And I took her down to the canals area.

We went to McDonald's, got a coffee, and I

felt really comfortable talking to her.

It was so much more fun and enjoyable

hanging out with her compared to my date,

which was a few hours ago. The hours just

went by really quickly when I was with her

and I felt really happy. I thought,

finally, this is the moment I was waiting

for. This is the whole reason why I

decided to come to Manchester for this

very moment. But it was getting kind of

late and she had to go home before the

tram station closed. So I took her back to

the tram station and we said goodbye

around— I think it was midnight or maybe 1

a.m. And then the next day she was

messaging me saying that she had a really

nice time and she asked me if I would like

to meet again tomorrow. And I thought,

wow, I really like her eagerness. I think

she really likes me. And I think I was

getting a little bit overexcited, a little

bit too optimistic. I had been in

Manchester for about 4 months and I was

insanely lonely and sad. And I

honestly thought she was the one. I

thought she was the one who was going to

save me from this horrible feelings of

loneliness and darkness and despair. So we

met up again. This time we went to Uniqlo

to get some clothing. You might remember

the video we made together. We made a vlog

going to Uniqlo. And the funny thing is,

it wasn't my idea to make these videos

because at the time I was still trying to

be a new person, a better person who

doesn't film his dates with girls. But she

was really insistent that I vlogged it.

She was like, yeah, just let's film it.

We'll make a video together. I'll help you

get some views. It'll be fun. She was

really insistent that we make videos

together. So I thought, okay, I guess

it'll be fine. What's the worst that could

happen? I'll hide her face, I'll moderate

the comment section, and hopefully nothing

bad will come from it. So at this point,

I was pretty happy. I finally found what I

really wanted, which is basically just to

have a cute girl who's interested in me

and would also like to make videos

together. That's basically all I want in

life. But you know how the phrase goes,

sometimes things just seem too good to be

true, and that's usually because Something

bad is about to happen. And oh my God, I

had no idea what kind of nightmare I was

about to step into. So after the second

time I met her, I started to notice red

flags. The first red flag I noticed— well,

actually, people in the comments section

noticed it before I noticed it. But in the

Uniqlo video, she was holding a book about

Islam. And because of my own personal

beliefs, I'm not interested in dating

someone who is religious in any way at

all. But I thought to myself, it doesn't

mean that she's religious just because she

has a book. Maybe she's just interested in

reading about other countries' cultures.

But then the next day I noticed her

Instagram picture changed from her usual

selfie, which was just like a normal

selfie, to now a picture of herself

wearing the headscarf. You know, the

headscarf Muslims wear? And it was at that

point I thought to myself, oh fuck. But I

was so insanely attracted to her and

everything else seemed great, like how she

wanted to be in my videos and stuff, I

just managed to brush that aside and kind

of just try to ignore it. And I guess I

just managed to convince myself that maybe

it won't be so bad dating a Muslim as long

as she loves me. And then the second red

flag I noticed was when she asked me for a

good restaurant, and I recommended her

that Korean barbecue restaurant I went to

with that Ukrainian girl because I really

liked that restaurant. The food was okay,

it was nice, the inside of the restaurant

was okay. It was just a pretty okay

restaurant, nothing special, but I thought

it was decent. So I recommended the

restaurant to her and she went to the

restaurant on her own. Then she starts

messaging me about how rubbish the

restaurant is. She said the food was

really bad and the service was really

terrible and the staff were really rude

and unfriendly and it was all just really

horrible and expensive. And I was just

kind of shocked that she was so negative

and moaning and whining so much about this

restaurant. Usually when you recommend

something that you like to someone, it's

kind of weird if they come back to you

telling you how rubbish your

recommendation was. I actually felt quite

insulted, and I felt like I wanted to

defend the restaurant because I like the

restaurant and the things she was

complaining about were just kind of stupid

and dumb. But I just kept my mouth shut

because I'm not a very confrontational

person, and I just complained about her to

someone else. So at this point, there were

2 red flags, and I was starting to think,

maybe this isn't such a good idea. Maybe I

should not see her again. And then she

messages me again asking if she can come

over to my place, and I nearly pissed my

pants with excitement. I was just so

excited at the idea of me and her being

alone together in my apartment. She

offered to make me dinner, and then she

said we could watch a TV show together on

the sofa and hug. Obviously, I said yes,

and I got really excited. I got all this

new stuff for the apartment. I got new

kitchen stuff. I bought new plates, new

cups for 2 people. I got some extra

cutlery. I got some cooking equipment that

she asked me to get for the meal. I felt

really great. It kind of reminded me of

what it was like being married again and

just buying domestic things for you and

your girl. One of the things I miss about

being in a relationship is just doing

domestic kind of stuff together as a

couple, like buying 2 sets of slippers or

buying a set of towels for both of you to

use. You know, just simple stuff like

that. So I got very excited about the idea

of her coming over. She said she would

come over on Friday, and she did. She

brought these ingredients with her, and I

was very nervous. I made sure to clean the

apartment, and we had a great evening. It

was everything I hoped for. We had a nice

meal. She was really good at cooking. She

made a delicious dinner of salmon and

spinach and some potatoes, and we watched

anime together, and we sat on the sofa and

cuddled, and it was just really nice. And

we did talk a little bit about her being a

Muslim. Basically, she just said that— she

said some pretty bad things happened to

her in the past, and religion was kind of

helping her overcome these problems she

has. So I thought, okay, I guess that

makes sense. I just thought it was a bit

strange how she's English and white and

British, and she's also a Muslim. It just

seemed a little bit unusual. So the next

time we met, it was her birthday, and

that's when I made the video decorating

the cake. And this is when the 3rd red

flag made its appearance. She comes over

to my place again for her birthday, and I

light the candles, I get the cake out,

and we take some pictures. And I thought

we were going to have a nice cozy intimate

evening together, but then she takes out

her phone and then she starts having like

a video live chat with a bunch of

strangers on this app she likes using. I

don't remember what the app's called,

it's something like Live.me. It's kind of

like Omegle where you randomly join these

live chat stream rooms. And then you just

chat to strangers. And I just felt like it

was so rude because she was supposed to be

here spending time with me, but instead

she was on her phone the whole time

chatting to these random strangers on the

internet. And I was just sitting next to

her in silence because what am I gonna do?

I'm not gonna be like, oh hey, random

stranger, I'm Daniel. So she's sitting

there doing these FaceTime livestream chat

things in these chat rooms with a bunch of

strangers, and I'm just sitting there next

to her in silence, not knowing what to do.

People think it's rude when you take out

your phone and you're looking at your

phone when you're hanging out with

someone. But imagine what it's like when

the person you're hanging out with takes

out their phone and then starts having

like a video phone chat with people on the

internet on some stupid app. And she kept

doing this during the evening. She would

join these random chat rooms and then say,

hi guys, how are you? And then have a

conversation with these strangers and then

turn it off. And then half an hour later,

she would take her phone out again, then

go back into these chat rooms. It was so

annoying, and I felt really uncomfortable

with it. I felt like I was being forced to

participate in these phone calls. I didn't

say anything, so I just had to bite my

tongue and hope that she would eventually

stop doing it. I was hoping she would be

able to read my body language and the

signals I was giving off, but she didn't

really seem to be able to. So I didn't

really enjoy the birthday evening, and I

was starting to get more and more fed up

with her. There were just too many red

flags. And I was about to just say to her,

I don't really think it's a good idea for

us to meet anymore. But then she asked me

if she can move in with me. And at that

point I thought, wow, maybe she does like

me. And I thought to myself, well, she

seems kind of crazy and there's a lot of

red flags. But if she moves in with me,

then maybe you know what would happen.

She said that she wanted to move in with

me because she got a new job and she

wanted to focus on practicing for the new

job and do the training. But her

housemates were really noisy and my place

was nice and quiet. So I agreed to it and

I said, yeah, you can come and move in

with me. Bring all your stuff. It'll be

fun. And then on the first night that she

comes to stay over at my place, we fucked.

And I put my penis in her vagina and I

made her cum so many times. And then after

we're finished, she starts crying about

it. She said it was a mistake and it

shouldn't have happened and she regrets it

and we were only supposed to be friends.

She started telling me about how she only

recently broke up with some crazy

ex-boyfriend who cheated on her. Right in

front of her and she was traumatized about

it and that she didn't really want to do

physical stuff. And then I realized I've

been friend-zoned. She told me she never

had any intentions of dating me and that

she only saw me as a friend. And when I

told her I really fancied her and I had a

crush on her, she said that I'm being

selfish. She called me selfish just

because I told her that I liked her. So as

you can imagine, I wasn't very happy about

this whole situation and I was losing my

patience. I really didn't want to be her

shoulder to cry on or her friend-zoned guy

that she could complain about her ex to.

And when she told me that she never wanted

to do that again and that we could only

ever just be friends, I kind of thought

that was the last straw, and I said that I

don't think it's a good idea if you stayed

with me. So she packed all her stuff and I

paid for an Uber to come and pick her up.

It was about 1 AM in the morning, and then

she left and I never saw her again. And I

just felt so miserable. I actually cried a

lot after she left because I felt so

defeated. I felt so close to getting what

I wanted to get. I thought she would be a

great girlfriend, but it just turned out

she was the complete opposite of

everything I wanted in almost every single

way. Another strange thing was how she

completely changed her mind about making

videos with me. After I made the birthday

cake video, she asked me to take it down,

and she said that she was getting freaked

out by someone in the comments section.

She said there was a guy in the comment

section who has a username that only she

would know from her past, so it has to be

the same guy. So I had to take down the 2

videos that we made together because I

still wanted things to be friendly between

us, because I guess I was still kind of

hoping that maybe she would change her

mind about me again, and then maybe we can

do you know what again. She said if I

wanted to, we could hang out as only

friends, but that just isn't really what

I'm looking for, and I just know that if I

hung out with her I would start getting

the feelings again because I did find her

quite attractive. I also have this theory

that the reason why she was so insistent

on making videos together with me was

because maybe her ex knew of my channel

and was watching the videos, and she

wanted to kind of get revenge at him by

making him jealous. You see, women do this

thing where if they get cheated on or they

feel betrayed by their ex or by their

current partner, they will use another guy

to get back at their ex. It's happened to

me before. When Chihiro started doing

livestreams with Casey, the Hong Kong guy,

she was only doing that because she felt

angry with me and to get revenge against

me. She used the Hong Kong guy to make me

upset. And it also happened back in 2019.

Remember, I went to Germany to meet that

German girl and she actually had a

boyfriend or an ex-boyfriend, and she was

only hanging out with me and going back

with me to my hotel to make the

ex-boyfriend jealous. And that German girl

also wanted me to livestream together with

her at the hotel, hoping that the ex would

be seeing it and be going crazy with

jealousy and raging. You see how

manipulative women can be sometimes. They

use other men as a weapon. They use other

men to get revenge at their exes. Oh,

you're not making me happy, so I'm gonna

go hang out with John, stay at John's

place, and make you feel bad and jealous.

That's what you get for treating me bad

and making me feel bad. You deserve it. I

didn't do anything wrong. And I would not

be surprised if this blonde Manchester

girl actually went back to the ex who

cheated on her. Even though I was the nice

guy and I did everything that she asked

for and I was a real gentleman, in the end

I ended up getting friend-zoned and she

probably went back to her ex who probably

still cheats on her. So that's what

happened between me and that blonde girl

in Manchester. Sorry I had to keep it a

secret for such a long time, but sometimes

you have to let the dust settle.