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Drawing people I HATE [eDOB435CX-U]

2020-04-06 · 18 min

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  1. Hello and welcome back to another drawing

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  2. video. So in today's video, I'm going to

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  3. be drawing a few people from my past that

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  4. I really, really hated. So first of all,

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  5. we have this Scottish guy who used to be

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  6. my boss when I was about 17. When I was

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  7. 17, I used to work at this pub in a

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  8. kitchen washing dishes, and I used to

    Segment details0:19–0:21 · rev_941dc07a9eed4fee95c9357a2e2d33c1_7
  9. really like this job at first because it

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  10. was, it was really easy. I just went into

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  11. the kitchen and Started washing dishes,

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  12. and I didn't really have to speak to

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  13. anyone, didn't have to interact with any

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  14. customers. It was great. My first boss

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  15. there was this really nice old lady, and

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  16. she used to make me sausage sandwiches for

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  17. lunch. Unfortunately, because she was old,

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  18. she had to retire, and then this new guy

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  19. came in, this Scottish guy, and let's just

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  20. say he wasn't a very nice person. He had a

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  21. really vulgar mouth, and he was constantly

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  22. swearing and being verbally abusive

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  23. towards me. Just from the way he spoke,

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  24. you could easily tell he was very

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  25. low-class and came from a poor background,

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  26. and he was very short-tempered and he

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  27. would get angry over very tiny little

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  28. things all the time. I ended up quitting

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  29. the job because I just couldn't stand

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  30. working with him. I actually started to— I

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  31. started to get scared of going to work

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  32. because of his attitude and the way he

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  33. treated me. He kept complaining about how

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  34. slow I was working, and he kept telling me

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  35. that I needed to clean faster, even though

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  36. there was hardly anything to clean because

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  37. there weren't many customers during the

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  38. day. I never worked during dinner time

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  39. when it was really busy, so there was

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  40. never loads and loads of dishes that had

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  41. to be cleaned all day long. So I never

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  42. really understood why he kept complaining

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  43. about me being too slow. It's not as if it

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  44. was really, really busy all the time.

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  45. When there were no dishes to clean, I

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  46. didn't really have anything else to do,

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  47. so I would just stand there waiting until

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  48. more dishes came in that had to be

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  49. cleaned. I think he used to get angry

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  50. seeing me standing around doing nothing,

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  51. and he would say things like, I can't

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  52. effing pay you to stand around doing

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  53. nothing all day, Daniel. Sometimes I

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  54. wouldn't clean surfaces 100% thoroughly,

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  55. and then he would check and then He would

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  56. get really angry and start swearing at me

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  57. over a few breadcrumbs that I missed. One

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  58. time he started boiling some potatoes in a

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  59. pot in the kitchen, and then he just

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  60. walked out, and then he didn't come back.

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  61. And the boiling water started to get

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  62. really hot, and it started to bubble and

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  63. spill over out of the pot. And then he

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  64. came back into the kitchen, and he went

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  65. absolutely mental. He went ballistic,

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  66. started shouting at me. He started

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  67. screaming and swearing and yelling at me

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  68. because I wasn't keeping an eye on his

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  69. boiling potatoes. He didn't even ask me to

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  70. keep an eye on it. He didn't even tell me.

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  71. He was boiling anything. He didn't even

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  72. say he was going to pop out of the kitchen

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  73. and then come back later. Now that I think

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  74. about it, it's kind of funny. His face

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  75. went completely red. I thought he was

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  76. going to have a mental breakdown. I just

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  77. couldn't believe a grown man could get so

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  78. angry over some potatoes in a pot. And

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  79. then there was this one day when I went

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  80. into work in the morning and there was

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  81. this young guy standing at the sink

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  82. washing the dishes, doing my job. I was so

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  83. confused about the whole situation. I

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  84. thought to myself, did he fire me and then

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  85. replace me without telling me? So I went

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  86. into the kitchen and I said hello to this

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  87. new guy who I didn't even know, and I just

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  88. stood next to him because I didn't have

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  89. any work to do because he was doing my job

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  90. for me. So what else was I supposed to do?

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  91. And then the bloody Scottish guy comes in,

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  92. and then he starts shouting and screaming

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  93. and swearing at me because I wasn't doing

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  94. anything. It's not my fault you got some

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  95. random guy to do my job for me so I have

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  96. nothing to do. Obviously, I'm just going

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  97. to be standing here doing nothing if you

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  98. get someone else to do my job. Then he

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  99. finally explains why he got this new guy

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  100. to do my job. It's because he wanted me to

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  101. go over to his house and then clean his

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  102. house. So I had to go over to his house,

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  103. which was just down the street, because

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  104. that's where the previous owners, the

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  105. previous managers of the place used to

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  106. live. And now he's the new manager, he had

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  107. to move into that house as well. And then

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  108. I had to scrub the floors and wipe

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  109. everything down. I felt kind of insulted

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  110. because I'm pretty sure cleaning your

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  111. house wasn't part of my job description.

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  112. I felt like he was just using me as his

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  113. personal maid or personal cleaner.

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  114. Anyway, I tried my best to carry on

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  115. working there because it was a decent job.

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  116. It was easy, the pay wasn't too bad, and

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  117. it was nearby to my house. I tried my best

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  118. to clean faster and work faster and try

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  119. not to make any mistakes. But it seemed

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  120. like no matter how hard I tried to do a

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  121. good job, he always found something to

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  122. complain about and to start swearing at me

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  123. about. It was just kind of annoying that

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  124. he was calling me lazy and slow when he

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  125. was also kind of lazy and wasn't exactly

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  126. hardworking. We had hotel rooms at the pub

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  127. because we had a restaurant and a bar and

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  128. it also had hotel rooms. And he was

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  129. sleeping in one of the hotel rooms because

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  130. he hadn't finished moving into his new

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  131. house. And I used to have to clean the

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  132. hotel rooms and change the bedsheets. And

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  133. sometimes when I walked past his room, he

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  134. would have the door open and I could see

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  135. him just lying there on the bed playing

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  136. Xbox on the TV. It was just kind of

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  137. annoying that he was constantly

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  138. complaining about me being too slow and

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  139. not working properly whilst he's boiling

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  140. potatoes and then forgetting and then

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  141. walking out the kitchen and lying around

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  142. on his bed playing Halo. Anyway, I

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  143. couldn't work there anymore because he was

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  144. just driving me crazy. And thankfully my

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  145. dad managed to get me a job at the company

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  146. he worked at. As an office junior. So I

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  147. went into work the next day and I told the

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  148. Scottish guy that I wanted to quit and I

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  149. got a new job in an office, and guess what

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  150. he said? He said, good, you're the worst

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  151. kitchen porter I've ever had. And then he

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  152. also said, oh, you're going to be working

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  153. in an office now? I don't think you'll be

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  154. very good at that since you have very bad

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  155. communication skills. And then he made me

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  156. clean the deep fat fryer. I just couldn't

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  157. believe that a grown adult man who was

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  158. probably in his 50s could be so immature.

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  159. The normal thing to say would have been,

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  160. good luck on your new job, hope everything

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  161. goes well. But instead, this 50-year-old

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  162. grown man decides to act like a child and

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  163. insult me. Okay, so next on my

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  164. list of people I hate is the Nepalese guy.

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  165. I used to work with him in 2016 until

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  166. 2017 when I had a job in a petrol station.

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  167. Station, and he was easily one of the most

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  168. irritating people that I've ever had to

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  169. work with. So back when I was about 26 or

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  170. 27, I used to work night shifts at the

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  171. petrol station up the road from my house,

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  172. and I had 2 co-workers. One guy from

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  173. Bangladesh who I really liked, he was fun

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  174. and a nice person to work with. And then

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  175. there was the Nepalese guy who was just

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  176. the complete opposite of fun. He was like

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  177. one of those goody-two-shoes, takes the

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  178. job way too seriously, has to do

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  179. everything 100% properly kind of people.

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  180. And when I first started working with him,

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  181. I thought he was okay. He wasn't too

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  182. annoying, and because I was new at the

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  183. job, it made sense that he was telling me

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  184. what to do and showing me how to do

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  185. things. But as I started to get

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  186. comfortable with the job, and as I got

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  187. more confident with what I had to do and

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  188. what I was doing there, I started to find

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  189. different ways of doing the work I had to

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  190. do. I started to find my own way of doing

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  191. things that I thought made more sense and

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  192. made things easier. For example, there was

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  193. a walk-in freezer and I had to prepare the

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  194. morning breakfasts. And to prepare the

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  195. breakfast, you had to go into the walk-in

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  196. freezer, take down the boxes of food,

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  197. open the boxes, take the frozen food out,

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  198. close the box, and then stack the boxes

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  199. back up. So I had this brilliant idea of

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  200. buying a very, very sharp pointy knife,

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  201. and I brought this into work, and I would

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  202. just cut a hole into the side of the boxes

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  203. that were stacked up, and I would just

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  204. leave a little flap so I could put my hand

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  205. in and then pull out the food from inside

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  206. of the box without having to open the

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  207. boxes and take them down and then close

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  208. them and then stack them back up. And I

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  209. thought this was a really good idea

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  210. because basically I managed to turn a

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  211. 5-step process into just a one-step

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  212. process. But the stupid Nepalese guy

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  213. started complaining about it. He said,

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  214. Daniel, can you please not cut holes into

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  215. the side of the boxes, otherwise they'll

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  216. collapse. What is he talking about? If you

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  217. have a stack of boxes and then you cut a

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  218. square hole into the sides, they're not

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  219. going to collapse. The strength of the

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  220. boxes that keeps them standing up is in

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  221. the corners, not the sides. He doesn't

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  222. even understand the structural integrity

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  223. of a box. And he's telling me what to do.

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  224. If what he's saying was true, then you'd

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  225. have apartment complexes collapsing

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  226. because they have windows in the side.

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  227. Not once did I ever see the stack of boxes

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  228. in the walk-in freezer collapse because I

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  229. cut holes into the sides of them. Anyway,

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  230. so we had this argument about the boxes,

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  231. and basically I told him to stop telling

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  232. me what to do because you're not my boss,

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  233. and I know how to do my job because I've

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  234. been working here for months now. And I

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  235. told him to complain to the manager if you

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  236. don't like how I do things. And there were

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  237. just loads of other examples where he

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  238. would just complain about how I did

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  239. things, saying that I wasn't doing things

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  240. properly or his way. And one of my jobs

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  241. was I had to check the expiration dates of

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  242. the food in the store. And sometimes I

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  243. would miss, you know, I'd miss a loaf of

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  244. bread, for example. And sometimes he would

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  245. check to see if I did the job properly.

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  246. And then he would find out that I missed a

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  247. loaf of bread and then he would start

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  248. complaining about it, saying, Daniel, do I

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  249. have to teach you how to check the bread

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  250. again? It's kind of funny because in the

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  251. beginning we used to get on not too badly

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  252. and we used to talk and chitchat during

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  253. breaks or when there wasn't really

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  254. anything to do. But then after a few

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  255. months, after we had arguments here and

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  256. there and I got irritated with him telling

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  257. me what to do and how to do things, we

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  258. just completely stopped talking to each

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  259. other. Sometimes when there were no

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  260. customers and we didn't have anything to

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  261. do, we would just stand there behind the

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  262. cash register in complete silence. And our

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  263. boss used to watch us on the surveillance

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  264. cameras, and then she asked us, how come

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  265. you two don't talk to each other? I see

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  266. you on the cameras just standing there in

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  267. silence. And I had to tell her that we

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  268. don't really get on very well. And it was

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  269. just so awkward having to work every night

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  270. being stuck with this guy that you really

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  271. don't like for 8 hours straight. One time

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  272. some Irish guys came into the shop and

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  273. they were shouting at me, saying

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  274. something. I didn't really quite

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  275. understand what they were saying because

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  276. they had such a thick accent. And it turns

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  277. out they wanted petrol, but they didn't

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  278. have enough money to pay for it, and they

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  279. were asking me if they could just have

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  280. some petrol. And apparently I said yes.

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  281. They were very loud and intimidating, and

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  282. I just wanted them to go away, so I just

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  283. let them take some petrol. And then the

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  284. Nepalese guy came back from his break,

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  285. and he found out what happened, and then

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  286. he started shouting and swearing at me,

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  287. saying that you can't just give away free

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  288. petrol. Another irritating thing he used

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  289. to do was he used to criticize my English.

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  290. For example, he would complain about my

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  291. handwriting not being correct. He would

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  292. be really nitpicky and say my Y's looks

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  293. like a V, complaining about my

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  294. handwriting. There was one time when a

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  295. customer left his card and he walked away

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  296. and I had to call him back and I said to

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  297. the customer, wait, come back, you forgot

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  298. your card. And then the Nepalese guy

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  299. complained saying that I should have said

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  300. excuse me, not wait, come back. It's just

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  301. so irritating when a foreigner is

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  302. criticizing my English when I'm a native

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  303. speaker. I think I know how to speak my

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  304. language, thank you very much. Anyway, I

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  305. could go on for hours and hours and hours

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  306. about every irritating thing this guy did

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  307. and said to me, but I'm trying to keep

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  308. this video not too long, so I'll, I'll end

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  309. it there. Okay, moving on to the last

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  310. person in this video. This person is

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  311. probably the most irritating and annoying

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  312. person I have ever met in my entire life.

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  313. And that person is the Hong Kong guy.

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  314. Now, I could easily make a 2-hour video

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  315. explaining everything that happened with

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  316. this person and all the irritating things

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  317. about him, but I'm trying to keep this

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  318. video under 15 minutes, so I'm going to

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  319. tell you the short version of the story.

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  320. Okay, let's start at the beginning. It was

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  321. 2018, around summer in Japan.

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  322. Me and my ex-wife were at the immigration

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  323. center waiting to get my spouse visa, and

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  324. then this Asian guy approaches us and says

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  325. hello. He says he knows me from YouTube

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  326. and he watches my videos. We had a short

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  327. conversation where he told me a bunch of

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  328. useless information about himself that I

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  329. forgot straight away, and he asked me if I

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  330. could add him on Facebook. At the time, I

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  331. didn't think it would be a bad idea, but

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  332. now looking back in hindsight, I wish I

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  333. told him to fuck off. But since I'm a nice

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  334. guy, I said sure, why not, and I added him

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  335. as a friend on Facebook. The next day he

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  336. started messaging me, you know, trying to

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  337. strike up conversations. I wasn't really

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  338. interested because I'm not really

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  339. interested in chatting to guys, and he

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  340. kept inviting me to hang out. He was

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  341. really insistent. Nearly every week he

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  342. would try to invite me to hang out with

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  343. him. I didn't really reply to him much,

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  344. and I didn't really ask him any questions.

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  345. I didn't accept his invitations to hang

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  346. out. I thought he would just get the

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  347. message that I'm not really interested in

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  348. talking to him. And then he would stop

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  349. bothering me. And then after a while, he

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  350. did start to stop messaging me, and then I

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  351. went back to England because, you know,

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  352. my dad passed away. And then last year, I

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  353. decided to get back together with my

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  354. ex-wife, and I moved back to Japan. And

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  355. then at some point around September, he

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  356. started messaging me again, and he started

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  357. trying to invite me to hang out again with

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  358. him. And at the time, I was kind of

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  359. struggling to come up with video ideas,

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  360. and I thought maybe people would be

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  361. interested in seeing me have a guy friend

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  362. and hang out with guys. So after 2 years

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  363. of him constantly trying to hang out with

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  364. me, I finally said yes and accepted his

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  365. invitation to go for dinner. And we met at

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  366. this restaurant, and for some reason he

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  367. decided to bring along this random

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  368. Japanese woman that he met on Tinder. I

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  369. didn't really mind too much because her

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  370. face reminded me of one of my ex-Japanese

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  371. girlfriends. Anyway, I made a video about

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  372. the whole experience and People enjoyed it

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  373. and there was positive feedback and I got

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  374. decent views for the video. So I thought

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  375. to myself, hmm, that went pretty well. It

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  376. wasn't a bad experience actually. Let's do

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  377. more of that. So me and the Hong Kong guy

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  378. met up several more times and we made

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  379. several videos together. He helped me get

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  380. rid of my lovedoll. We made a video

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  381. outside of a love hotel as well, and I

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  382. also helped him make a few videos for his

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  383. channel. That I encouraged him to make.

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  384. The reason why I encouraged him to start

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  385. his own YouTube channel was because I

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  386. thought it might be fun to have, you know,

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  387. a YouTube friend that I could make videos

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  388. with. And that kind of backfired in my

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  389. face because he ended up using that

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  390. YouTube channel to make not one, not two,

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  391. but a total of 11 separate videos of

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  392. him and my ex-wife. And in these videos,

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  393. they're just constantly complaining about

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  394. me and making fun of me and just

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  395. badmouthing me. He puts my channel name in

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  396. every single video so my viewers find the

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  397. videos and give him views. I just find it

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  398. so insulting that he's using the channel I

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  399. helped him grow and I helped promote, and

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  400. I, I told my viewers to go over and

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  401. subscribe to him and support him, and now

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  402. he's using his channel that no one would

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  403. even know about if I didn't promote it.

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  404. He's using his channel to smear my name

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  405. with my vindictive ex-wife. Thank you very

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  406. much. And the reason why he's doing this

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  407. is because I upset him and hurt his

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  408. fee-fees because I blocked him. And the

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  409. reason why I blocked him in the first

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  410. place was because after hanging out with

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  411. him several times, I realized that I

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  412. didn't find him interesting in any way.

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  413. We had nothing in common. I didn't click

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  414. with him, and I didn't want to be friends

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  415. with him. And I thought if I just stopped

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  416. replying to him, then he would get the

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  417. message that I'm not interested in talking

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  418. to him or hanging out anymore. And he

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  419. would just disappear. But no, instead he

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  420. starts messaging my ex-wife and trying to

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  421. invite us out to dinner. And then even

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  422. when I said, no, I'm not interested in

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  423. going to dinner with you and my ex-wife,

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  424. he goes and meets up with my ex-wife

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  425. anyway, just the two of them, behind my

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  426. back whilst we're having an argument. And

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  427. then they proceed to make God knows how

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  428. many videos. They probably have 20 videos

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  429. made from the 4-hour dinner session or

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  430. whatever. You know, I don't mind if he

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  431. just made 1 or 2 videos. My experience

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  432. meeting Daniel from Hiding in My Room, or

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  433. Why Daniel's a Weirdo. You know, maybe 1

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  434. or 2, maybe 3 at most. But he's made 11

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  435. now, and he has more to come, more that

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  436. he's editing and translating. I just

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  437. think it's kind of sad and pathetic to

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  438. make so many videos about me and then

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  439. putting my channel name into every single

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  440. video title just to make sure you get

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  441. views. I mean, how How pathetic can you

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  442. be? The funny thing is he actually thinks

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  443. he's friends with my ex-wife when I'm

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  444. pretty sure, 100% sure, that my ex-wife is

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  445. only using him because he has a YouTube

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  446. channel and she's too lazy to find out how

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  447. to upload and film and edit her own

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  448. videos. If he didn't have a YouTube

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  449. channel, then there's no way my ex-wife

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  450. would have any interest in meeting up with

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  451. him. The whole experience has just been a

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  452. bit of a nightmare for me. I wish I never

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  453. met him in the first place. I wish I never

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  454. Added him on Facebook, and I just wish I

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  455. never encouraged him to make a YouTube

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  456. channel. I was actually so upset about the

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  457. whole Hong Kong guy situation that

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  458. happened last year before Christmas. I

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  459. actually wanted to leave my ex-wife during

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  460. that situation, and the only reason I

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  461. ended up going back to her place and

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  462. coming back to England together for

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  463. Christmas was because my mum and my sister

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  464. were excited to see us and they wanted us

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  465. to get back together so we could spend

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  466. Christmas together. But if I could go back

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  467. in time, I probably would not have gone

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  468. back to my ex-wife's place and I would

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  469. have just left Japan on my own. I should

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  470. have gone back to England by myself for

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  471. Christmas instead of— instead of getting

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  472. back together and then going back to Japan

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  473. and then eventually splitting up anyway.

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  474. Anyway, I don't really want to go on and

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  475. on about it too much. It's all in the past

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  476. now. Thankfully, that whole mess of a

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  477. marriage is over and done with. And I hope

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  478. you enjoyed this video, unless you're one

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  479. of the people that I mentioned in the

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  480. video. Then I hope you really, really did

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  481. not enjoy this video. And if you're one of

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  482. the people that I mentioned in this video,

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  483. then my final message to you is, I really

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  484. don't like you. Go away.

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