My Apology to my ex Wife

Hello, welcome back to a new video. So a

few days ago I made a video talking about

reasons why I don't regret leaving my

ex-wife. And as you can imagine, she

wasn't very happy about this. And

surprisingly, she actually messaged me

before I released the video because I was

discussing making this video when I was

brainstorming video ideas on my Discord

server. Somehow she found out about what I

was discussing and she sent me a message

threatening me that if I make this video

and release it, she would start reporting

my videos. And I thought she was just

bluffing and I didn't think she was

actually serious and I I didn't think

anything would actually happen. So I went

ahead and I made the video anyway and

released it. And then I woke up this

morning and I had several emails from

YouTube saying that an individual, guess

who, that an individual has made several

privacy complaints against some of my

videos. And this isn't really a big

problem. All I have to do is blur out her

face in the videos that she's reported and

complained about. But it's just kind of

annoying because YouTube's auto face blur

feature isn't very good. It automatically

blurs out detected faces, but then for

certain parts, it would just leave the

face unblurred for like a split second.

And I don't know if that would count as

not blurring it properly and then the

video would get removed. So I just ended

up blurring out the entire video. I just

put a massive— I just put a massive blur

box all over the parts where she appears

in the video, and hopefully that's good

enough. But some videos are kind of

annoying to blur out because she's in so

much of the video and it's kind of hard to

actually blur out her face. So I have to

blur out the entire thing. Or just take

down the video completely, which is,

which is kind of frustrating because I

think most people would agree that my best

videos, my greatest videos, were probably

nearly all of the videos where Chihiro

appeared in them. I have to say that

Chihiro did make the videos a lot more

entertaining compared to my videos where

it's just me by myself, but it seems like

she doesn't want to be in the video. She

doesn't want to be visually identifiable

in the videos anymore, or she's just doing

this out of spite because she doesn't want

me to make money by talking about her

anymore, which I think is kind of petty,

but I guess I can understand where she's

coming from. So first of all, I would like

to apologize to my ex-wife. I'm really

sorry if you don't like me talking about

you still in videos, but I need to find

something to talk about, and talking about

my ex-wife seems to be something people

find interesting for some reason. And I

would like to say sorry and apologize to

her, and please stop reporting my videos

because it's kind of lame, and I don't

really like having to wake up in the

morning getting emails from YouTube saying

that a video has been complained about.

Also, it'd be nice if you stop messaging

my mum when you have complaints about me.

Why don't you just say it directly to me

instead of running to my mum and try and

get me in trouble with my mum? Because my

mum takes all this stuff very seriously,

and then I wake up in the morning with a

load of messages from my mum as she's very

angry about it and she's telling me to

leave my ex-wife alone, all this. It's

kind of, kind of weird that my mum has to

get involved in my own personal

relationships. I don't really know of

anyone else who has to have a relationship

with someone they dated in the past where

their mother is involved and the ex is

going to their mum and trying to snitch on

them and trying to get them into trouble.

It's just so weird, and it'd be nice if

you didn't try to drag my mum into this

mess that we have. I really don't

understand why she still cares about what

I say about her. It's been over 3 years,

or nearly 3 years, since we divorced, and

she's obviously moved on with a new guy in

her life. So why does she care about what

I say about her? She obviously doesn't

really care about what I think or what I

say. She's just salty that I can still

make money by using her name and by using

the experiences that we had together back

then when we were married. And she doesn't

like the fact that I'm profiting, and she

doesn't like the fact that she's being

used. And this is just kind of petty and

vindictive, I think. She doesn't mind that

Casey, the Hong Kong guy, has all of her

pictures and her video footage of her on

his channel. He's got loads of livestreams

and all these videos that they filmed

together. She's not reporting Casey, the

Hong Kong guy's videos, is she? She's only

reporting mine. So if she's so against the

idea of her face being on the internet or

in videos, then she should also ask Casey

to take down his videos or blur her face

out of his videos. But no, she's only

making me do it, so she obviously has

something against me. Also, if she wanted

privacy, it's kind of too late for that

because everyone's already seen those

videos. The people that were going to see

the videos have already seen them, and

it's kind of too late to now say that you

want your face taken down from these

videos because it's not like these videos

are getting new views. My channel has

basically had zero growth since 2020,

and, and there's not really loads of new

people coming to the channel and seeing

these videos where they can see your face

in them. The people who have seen your

face have already seen it, and it's not

like they're going to forget your face

even if your face is removed from videos.

You know, sometimes I get really sick and

tired about how protective people are over

their damn faces. Over the years, it's not

just my ex-wife who has complained to me

about using their face. In videos. I've

done sponsored videos where I showed a

profile of a website that I'm promoting,

and because it has someone's face in the

profile picture, and then they found out

that I used their face in my video, they

complained to me. Like that HiNative video

with this black guy called Jonathan also

threatened to report my video if I didn't

remove his face from the video. People

think their faces are like some kind of

trademarkable logo, like it's some kind of

special unique thing. A face just a face.

It's a combination of 2 eyes, a nose, and

a mouth on a head. That is what a face is.

It's nothing special. Everyone in the

entire world has a face, and I'm just fed

up of people complaining to me about not

wanting their face to be used in that and

not wanting their face to be associated

with this. But then my face gets plastered

all over YouTube from other people's

channels in videos that are bashing me

back in the past a few years ago, and I

don't get any say. I don't even get to

complain about it. I don't even get to

have any kind of rights over my face.

They didn't even ask my permission if they

could use my face in their video, but I

don't start complaining and crying about

it like a baby. It would be nice if

Chihiro did me this one little favor and

just let me carry on talking about her

however much I want. It's not like I make

huge amounts of money from talking about

her. I make about $30 per video if I talk

about her. It's not like I'm raking in

millions, and she won't even give me this

one little thing. It's not like I have

anything else of interest that I can

provide content-wise. It's not like it

even affects her life in any kind of

direct way. In what way does me talking

about her on a video that gets about 7 to

9k views— how does that actually affect

her life in any little way? It doesn't

affect her at all. I just feel like it's

so unfair because she lets a Hong Kong guy

use her face and her video footage in any

of his videos as much as he likes. But

then when it comes to me, I'm not allowed,

even though I was the ex-husband. And I

find it kind of hypocritical because back

in 2020, after the divorce happened, I

just got on with my life quietly. I just

moved on. I was with Mila. I was investing

in the stock market, and I was focusing on

my own life, and I was focusing on other

things and trying to move on from the

marriage. And during almost all of 2020,

guess who was making livestreams about me,

bashing me and making fun of me in every

single video and every single livestream?

It was her and Hong Kong Guy non-stop

making livestreams and videos talking

about why my skin is really bad and how my

Japanese sucks and how my social skills

suck, my communication skills suck, and

this and that. Basically every video just

making fun of me. And now she has the

nerve to turn around and start complaining

because I'm making videos about her now.

So I have a suggestion. If the Hong Kong

Guy agrees to taking down all of his

videos and all of his livestreams with

Chihiro making fun of me, then I will also

agree to not make videos talking about my

ex-wife anymore, and I won't use her

picture or images or footage in any future

videos. But I really doubt that they would

do something like that for me because they

are just a bunch of hypocrites. It's okay

for them to do it, but it's bad if I do

it. That's how it goes, I guess. When you

think about it, it's just so lame.

They're happy to have videos exposing how

much of a bad person I am on the internet

to warn people, but it's not okay if

I have videos exposing her or him on my

channel. And then they start resorting to

lame cheap tactics like complaining about

it to YouTube. If she's so upset about it,

then why doesn't she just make her own

video? She has a YouTube channel of her

own now. Why doesn't she just make a video

called Why I Hate Daniel, Why Daniel Was a

Terrible Husband, Why I Hate My

Ex-Husband, or Why I Regret Marrying

Daniel? She could get more views than I

get probably if she started making videos

like that. But no, she doesn't even bother

to upload videos to her channel anymore.

Even Casey has disappeared. He hasn't

uploaded any videos in over a year. He's

just kind of vanished off the face of the

earth. So where even are these people