why women LOVE me [VmHwQdmhalA]

Hello and welcome to today's video. I

would like to talk about why Japanese

girls love me, and I think it's pretty

obvious that Japanese girls do love me.

They are very attracted to me, and in this

video I'd like to explain why that is,

because it seems like a lot of people

think that I'm making these stories up.

They don't believe that I've actually had

Japanese girlfriends in the past. Well,

they're wrong. I've had a lot of Japanese

girlfriends in the past. Actually, 80% of

my previous relationships have been with

Japanese girls. And a lot of people, they

don't believe me because they look at me

and they see me as this feminine,

weak-looking beta guy with with a

lady's haircut, basically. And the problem

with them is they're mostly Western

people, mostly American people, and

they're applying the American or Western

standards of what makes a man attractive

in their own country to me, who's in

Japan. I'm in Japan, I'm not in America.

So obviously the girls who are in Japan,

they're attracted to different kinds of

men. They're not attracted to the same

kinds of men that women in America are

attracted to. You might find it hard to

believe, but feminine-looking guys are

very popular in Japan. Feminine-looking

guys are considered to be extremely

attractive in Japan. In Japan, if you have

a small face like mine, then it's

considered to be extremely attractive.

Hairstyles like this are considered to be

very popular and attractive. Just go onto

Google and type in J-pop guys or Japanese

male celebrities and 90% of them will have

a hairstyle that's very similar to my

hairstyle. One of the most popular

Japanese boy groups is this group called

Arashi, and their hairstyles look

like my hairstyles, and there's a reason

to that. It's because Japanese girls find

this kind of hairstyle attractive. If they

didn't, then the male celebrities in Japan

wouldn't be doing this kind of hairstyle.

Would they? Maybe in America or in the

West, in Western countries, the kind of

guy that's attractive to most girls is

a macho, masculine, tough guy who is

confident and assertive, and he looks like

a, like a tough guy, you know, short

haircut, muscles, that kind of thing.

Okay, maybe that's, that's considered to

be the most attractive type of guy in

America or in European countries, but this

isn't America, this isn't a European

country, this is Japan. This is a country

where feminine beta-looking guys reign

supreme. And if you've never been to Japan

or you don't know anything about Japanese

pop culture, then I can understand why you

wouldn't understand this. It's because—

it's because you're ignorant and you don't

know any better. Japanese women, they

don't like confident, loud, assertive

dominant, masculine, macho guys. They

don't. I've spoken to hundreds of Japanese

women in the past, and they always tell me

things like they don't like American guys

because they're too loud, or they talk too

much, or they're too macho. And they

actually prefer people like me who's a bit

quieter, a bit reserved, who, who looks

soft and feminine, because they don't feel

intimidated by someone who looks like me.

If If there's this big, bold, muscular

American guy who's really loud and he's

like, blah blah blah blah blah blah,

Japanese girls don't like that. Those

kinds of people make them feel intimidated

and uneasy. They actually prefer people

like me who's quieter and well-mannered

and has a soft look to them.

No, I'm not saying that if you are a

masculine macho guy, then if you come to

Japan, you'll have no chance of finding a

Japanese girlfriend. That's not what I'm

saying. Sure, there's a small group of

Japanese women that do like macho,

masculine, alpha-type guys, but they're in

the minority. And there's actually more

women in Japan who are attracted to guys

who look like me, who have my kind of

personality, than there are attracted to

those loud, assertive kind of guys. If you

are a tough, masculine, assertive,

dominant guy who talks too much and is

very loud, and you're coming to Japan and

you're hoping to find a Japanese waifu,

My advice to you would be to tone it down,

tone it down a bit. Embrace your feminine,

gentle side because Japanese girls, they

don't like that whole tough guy, alpha

guy, macho thing. They're into dorky

cute guys who have a gentle, soft look

and are well-spoken and quiet and

reserved. That's what you need to go for.

Sure, maybe in America the women prefer

guys who who are muscular and look tough

and have beards and wouldn't have any

problems with beating down a guy who looks

at them wrongly. But this is Japan.

People are civilized here. There's no need

for tough alpha guys here because you

don't have to worry about things like

being assaulted by a drunk motorbike gang

and then having your girlfriend taken away

from you. What you have to realize is that

in different countries, there are

different standards of attractiveness.

Standards of beauty are different. And

what might be considered unattractive in

your country can be attractive in a

different country. And it would be great

if people stopped telling me to get a

haircut or to wear contacts or to go to

the gym or to wear cool clothes, because

I'm not gonna do any of those things. I'm

gonna continue looking like this, like

I've always done, because this is what's

worked for me. This is the look that has

gotten me all of my girlfriends in the

past. And I'm not going to change the way

I look just because in America or in

Europe this isn't what's considered to be

attractive to women. I'm not in America.

I'm not in Europe. I don't care what's

attractive to women in those countries.

It's just kind of funny. There's so many

people in the comments section telling me

what I need to look like, what I need to

wear, what kind of hairstyle I need to

have to attract Japanese girls, when I bet

those people haven't even been to Japan in

the first place. I've been to Japan 7

times over the past 8 years, and I've

lived in Japan for around 2 years in

total. I think I know how to attract a

Japanese girl. I think I know what's

popular in Japan more than you do. Okay,

so I've been talking about my face and

what my hair looks like a lot, but that

isn't everything. There's more that goes

into attracting a Japanese girl, and I

think another thing that's very important

when it comes to that is fashion— what

kind of clothes I wear. And I want to show

you the kind of clothing that I wear right

now.