Update on my new girlfriend and her crazy ex husband

Testing, testing, testing.

Can you hear me?

Okay, so, um,

I think it looks good. Hopefully it sounds

okay.

First comment I see is, a basilisk seal,

I told you so.

Yeah, well, I'm pretty sure no one

expected that this was gonna happen.

I've got so much to talk about, I don't

even know where to start. It's been— I

think it's been nearly 2 weeks since I

last did a livestream.

So the stream looks like this because

I don't want to dox where my apartment is,

and everything in the

room is very identifiable, so I The best I

could find was the inside of this closet

where the back of me is just like this

gray plastic or something. I think that's

pretty safe. I also had to shut the

curtains because my glasses were

reflecting the windows and you could see,

you could see like the shape of the

windows in my glass reflect— glasses

reflections. So it looks kind of dark

because I shut the curtains even though

it's 9 AM.

In the morning.

So this is what the streams are gonna have

to look like from now on, I guess,

because I just don't want to dox where I'm

staying at now. It's too dangerous. I

don't know if the ex-husband knows about

my channel, but he might find out later.

I don't know. And I don't want

trolls, uh, finding where I am and then

sending weird stuff to the reception like

they did in Manchester, even though I

think that's unlikely to happen this time

because there isn't a reception. There's

no concierge here. It's just like— it's

like in a— I guess I should stop trying to

describe what the place is like because

that's not going to help. So I'm not going

to describe what the place is like

anymore. But it's kind of like an

apartment building, but they don't

know my name because it was very informal.

They just met us in the lobby, we handed

over some cash, there was no, you know,

contracts, or they didn't ask for my

passport or anything like that. So it was

very discreet, which was nice. So they

don't know my name, they don't even know

where I'm from. My girlfriend handled

everything in Thai. Oh, it was so annoying

trying to get the other place because we

were seeing all these different apartments

and we found one I really liked and it was

about 25,000 baht, which is like

$500-$600, and I really liked it and

I was this close to sending them a bank

transfer, but they wanted, they wanted 3

months of rent upfront as a deposit.

And they also— and I was about to pay it,

but then they said, we need you to upload

a picture of your visa and your passport

to the group chat. And the problem is my

girlfriend was in the group chat because

the real estate agents invited us into the

group chat to share information. And if I

posted a picture of my passport into the

group chat, then I would end up doxxing my

name, and I still haven't told her my name

for, you know, obvious reasons.

So I had to quickly say, actually, I don't

think this is a good idea. Let's find a

cheaper place, even though I was happy

with the place.

You two are on the run now. Basically,

she's bringing more and more stuff from

the house. Loads of her stuff is in her

car. She brought more stuff yesterday, so

the apartment is now filling up with her

stuff, which is making me feel a bit,

you know, I don't know how to feel about

that. I mean, it feels kind of cute. It's

like we're building a nest in this place,

but then it's kind of, I don't know, it

feels very permanent now.

Your girlfriend doesn't know your name?

She knows my first name. I couldn't tell

her my real name because she might Google

it. I think she has Googled it because

when she opened Facebook, she searched my

name on Facebook, my fake name. Wait.

The hell?

I got a notification on the app. It was

just my Japanese friend whining about his

cancer. Do you guys remember back in 2017

I did a few vlogs with this Japanese man?

He was like 40 years old, kind of slim.

Wearing a beanie, and then we did nampa

together. He keeps posting these stories

about cancer and stuff all the time. I

thought it was the girlfriend messaging

me.

Why do I use a fake name? I said already,

because I don't want her to find my

YouTube channel.

Okay, so I want to explain about the last

video, the ex-husband stuff, because some

people were saying it's fake and stuff.

It's not fake, it's 100% real. I know it

kind of looks a bit fake, and maybe I

sound like I'm acting in the beginning

when I'm hiding behind the car, but it

honestly was all real. I couldn't believe

it happened. And people were saying, oh,

I'm— my eyes are looking all over the

place as if I'm lying. That's just how I

look when I talk. My eye— I kind of look

around because I'm trying to think what to

Okay, so I'm gonna explain what happened

in full detail because I didn't really

explain what happened in that video where

I was just hiding behind the car. So I

gotta go all the way back to like a week

ago, I guess. Um,

let me just check something.

Okay, so I arrived in Thailand, I think,

2 weekends ago. I think it was nearly 2

weeks ago. I arrived in Bangkok, I booked

a nice hotel, I met the girl, she was

really nice, everything went to plan. She

stayed in my, my hotel overnight.

And then she took me back to her house.

Now she has a house that she

just finished moving into, but it was all,

you know, unfinished, just recently

refurbished. There were still problems

with the wiring and the waterworks and

stuff like that, but I thought I'd move in

with her because I can save money and it'd

be nice to have a house. And then she goes

to work the next day and I'm at the house

alone Just doing stuff like cleaning the

place up a little bit because it was a bit

dirty and making some videos. And then

around 4 PM, yeah, 4 PM,

I hear the gates opening. And it's very

obvious when the gates are opening because

it's like this big gate on wheels and

you've got to like pull it and makes a lot

of noise. So I go to the door thinking

it's her and I see a guy coming towards

the door. And at that point it's too late

to hide because he's already seen me

through the window. So instantly I think

maybe it's someone from her work because

he's wearing like a, like a doctor's

uniform, like, um, like a someone

who works in medicine, like someone who

works in a drugstore kind of uniform.

So I think, oh, maybe it's just someone

from her work, like a work colleague

coming to pick up some notes or something

like that. Or maybe it's like a security

guy. I did not think it was her

ex-husband. I knew there was an ex.

Number one, she didn't say she had an

ex-husband, and number two, I didn't think

he was some crazy weirdo who would show up

at the house. I thought, oh, it's just

some ex from a few years ago, it's over

now, it's not really something I'm gonna

worry about. So I can hear him calling my

name from outside. He was going, Daniel,

hi Daniel. So I thought— I know this

sounds silly, but at first I thought Is he

a viewer? As if, as if I've got some Thai

viewer who knew where the house was who

just randomly showed up. But I honestly

thought, is he a viewer? Because how would

he know my name? But he knew my name, so I

thought, okay. And then I stupidly opened

the door. And this is the most frustrating

part, is that I opened the door because I

usually never open the door to strangers.

I always just ignore the doorbell.

I always have this rule where I would only

open the door— I mean, I don't even open

the door for Amazon. I let them ring the

doorbell and I wait for them to leave.

For some reason, I broke my rule and I

opened the door, and then all this mess

happened. So I opened

the door, and then he brings up his phone

and starts showing me pictures of my

girlfriend, and then he starts saying You

know her? This is my wife. I'm her

husband. And he looked scary, like his

face was emotionless and he looked

like he was slightly nervous, like

slightly trembling. And then at that

moment, I start going into oh shit mode

and I start apologizing. I start going,

I'm so sorry, I didn't know. She said she

was single. I didn't know she was married.

I still don't know if she's actually

married because when I asked her He said

he was your husband, and then she keeps

saying, no, we were never married. So I

still don't know if she was actually

married or not. The guy says he was or he

is her husband. She says that she was

never married to him. But then some

people were translating the phone call in

the comment section, and they translated

the Thai into English saying that she was

referring to him as her husband. So I

don't know. If she's lying to me or if

her English is just really bad, she can't

explain to me well enough.

So he, he kind of walks into

the doorway, preventing me from being able

to shut the door. If I tried to shut the

door, he would have been able to overpower

me and just push the door back open. So I

didn't even try to shut the door in his

face because He was not big,

he was just like normal-sized adult man.

He was maybe 5 foot 10 or 11, a bit taller

than me, just a tiny bit taller than me.

But he had, you know, like proper man arms

and proper man legs. I've got skinny twig

arms, so I would not be able to overpower

him, so I didn't even try. So he starts

telling me to get into his car and to pack

my bags and that he's gonna take me

somewhere so I can get a train to the

airport. And obviously

I'm not going to get in this stranger's

car, but he's telling me to get into his

car. And I said I'll just walk, and he

said there's nowhere to walk, there's just

motorways and highways for miles. And he's

right, the area was rubbish. It was just

like this kind of quiet villagey town

area, and it was just full of motorways.

Like 8-lane motorways just going through,

and then some, some kind of weird village,

very newly constructed village areas that

had security. And then the security was

completely rubbish because they let him in

even though he doesn't live here. They

just let him in because apparently he made

up some story that he lived here and he

thought his house was being burgled, so

they let him in. So I grabbed

my bag. Luckily, I already, I already

started packing my bag because a couple

hours earlier the Thai girl was saying

that we can't live in the house because

her mum is against us living there,

because her mum is against us being

together.

Wait, it's a police car.

I might shut this door over here.

This place

There's all this traffic over that side

and I've got to close the double sliding

door thing.

What was I saying?

Yeah, he was telling me to get into the

car and pack my bags. My bags were already

packed because the Thai girl earlier was

saying that her mum was upset with me

being there, so we were gonna leave

anyway. And then this guy turns up and

then tells me to pack my bag. So I pick up

my bag and I pretend that I'm walking

towards his car. I pretend that I agree to

getting into his car. So we get out of

the, the gate part of the apartment, and

his car's parked to the left. I start

walking to the right, and I keep saying,

I'm gonna just walk, but he keeps

following me. And then he keeps saying,

no, get into my car. And then I said,

I'm just gonna walk, and he keeps

following me. He doesn't try to physically

stop me, but he kind of puts his arm up in

front of me trying to like prevent me,

but he still hasn't touched me. So at that

point I'm thinking, he was in

the house with me, we were in the house

alone, there was no one around. He could

have easily physically hurt me if he

wanted to, but he had the opportunity to

and he didn't do anything. So I thought,

well, I think he's just bluffing. I don't

think he's actually going to do anything.

And then he starts threatening to kill me,

which is so stupid now I look back at it.

He was saying If you don't come with me in

my car, I'm gonna call the police and then

I'm going to kill you, which didn't make

any sense. Like, why would you call the

police and then kill me? You would just be

calling the police on yourself, wouldn't

you? And I said, why are you gonna call

the police? I didn't do anything wrong. I

should be calling the police on you. But I

was scared to take my phone out because I

thought if I took my phone out, he could

grab it and then smash it or just take my

phone. And then throw it somewhere, and I

needed the phone because it had my, you

know, my stuff on it, and my SIM card was

in the phone. I've got spare phones and

spare SIMs, but in the heat of the moment,

trying to find my spare phones and then

trying to get a little key opening thing

and then put the new SIM into the new

phone would just be really difficult to do

in that kind of situation. Where's my

girlfriend now? She's at work now.

So I start running with nearly 15 kg

of computers and tech and stuff in my

backpack, and I'm just trying to sprint

away. I wasn't running very fast. I

thought he would start chasing me, but he

runs in the opposite direction back to his

car and he speeds off. I hear like a wheel

spin and I can hear the engine. I thought

he was going to start driving around the

block looking for me. So I run stupidly

the opposite direction from the security

entrance. I turn right instead of left.

If I went left, that's where the security

barricade was, which I should have run to.

But I run right, which just goes all the

way around. It's like a maze, that place.

And then I hide behind this car, but

there's neighbors. I— at first there's

this woman outside watering her plants,

and she was like the neighbor to the Thai

girl's house neighbor. And I try asking

her for help. I said, excuse me, this guy

is trying to hurt me. She kept just going,

no English, no English, useless person.

So I ignore her and then I start running.

And then I run to this kind of corner and

I hide behind the car and I keep peeping

over the car to see if the guy's coming in

his car. And then there's this other woman

who's like looking at me because I look

really suspicious. I'm hiding like this

with my bags on the ground. And I'm hiding

behind his car, and I just kind of wave at

her like that, trying to make it seem like

I'm friendly. I was worried she's going to

call security. Well, I kind of wanted her

to call security because I needed help,

but I look like I'm the suspicious person

trying to rob someone's car or something.

So if security came and they didn't speak

English, they would think I'm some kind

of, some kind of thief, wouldn't they?

And they would try to arrest

me, wouldn't they? So I was kind of

worried about security being phoned. And

then this guy on a scooter came from

another house, and I go up to him and I

use Google Translate and I explain to him

the situation. And I look so silly, I'm

like, please, I need help, please can you

help me? And I'm doing like this, trying

to make hand gestures, and I explain the

situation on Google Translate. And then he

says I can hide behind his car in front of

his front door. And then he, he phones

up the, the person who's the

owner of the entire village. Like, the

person who got the village built lives in

the village, and he spoke good English.

So I explained the situation to him,

that, that I'm with my girlfriend and her

ex showed up, and he threatened to kill me

and now he's chasing me and I need help.

I explain all that and then he says,

okay, so what do you want me to do? Would

you like me to send security over? And

he's asking me which house I'm at. I don't

remember the Thai girlfriend's house

number because I didn't really pay

attention to it. I just said I'm hiding in

this guy's driveway,

and then he said he'll send security. I

don't know if he actually sent security

because I don't think anyone came. And

then I start texting the Thai girl, and I

phone her and I tell her to come now

because your ex is here and he's saying

he's going to kill me and he wants me to

get in his car. It was such a mess.

So she quickly gets in her car and she's

racing, probably breaking all speed

limits, and she races back to the house,

and then she's on the phone to me. Oh my

God. And she's in the house looking for

me. I tell her that I'm not in the house,

and then she starts driving around looking

for me. She finally finds me, and then I

get into the car with her. And then

I just— yeah, I get into her car, and then

she drives me to Bangkok. And then she's

on the phone to her sister, and her

sister's trying to explain to me what

happened. And then we book a hotel in

Bangkok, and I booked it for about a week,

and we stayed in the hotel for a week.

And then we looked for apartments, and now

we finally got an apartment, which is

where we're in now. And I'm in the

apartment now, and I paid for it for a

month of rent. So I think things

are pretty calm now. I feel fairly safe

now.

I need to get a drink.

So do you have any questions?

Oh, thanks. Is Thailand more modern than

you thought? Um,

yeah, Bangkok is really modern. It, it's

basically like Tokyo. I really don't see

much difference between Tokyo and Bangkok

apart from Bangkok has all of these

elevated motorways all over the place.

So all you see is first you've got the

ground level 8-lane massive motorways

going through Bangkok, and then above it

you've got these big concrete structures

And then you've just got big buildings

everywhere. It kind of looks like a

scruffier, grittier version of Tokyo,

more, more of a ghetto version, cyberpunk

kind of version with the overhead trains

and stuff. It's pretty cool, pretty cool.

And it's got these really modern shopping

centers where it has everything you'd

expect, like Uniqlo,

Louis Vuitton brand stuff, Apple, you

know, everything you'd expect. It's also

got loads of Japanese restaurants

everywhere for some reason.

It's got, it's got so many Japanese

brands. It's got Muji, it's got Uniqlo,

it's got Sushiro, it's got Skia,

it's got Matsuyoshi Kiyoshi— Mats—

I can't remember. You know that pharmacy?

It's like Matsukishi Kiyoshi.

I can't remember the name. It's even got

that for some reason. It's got, uh, Coco

Ichiban. It's got basically every single

Japanese restaurant you can think of.

It's insane. Oh,

thanks, Xenion. Glad you're safe,

Daniel. Are you still with the Thai girl?

If she's still calling that guy her

husband, she's finessing you and you

should leave. Yeah, I'm still with her.

It's kind of weird, the situation,

because I don't fully understand it. Some

people are translating the Thai phone call

in the comments and they're saying that

she is— okay, so the situation is she

has a house that she hasn't paid for all

by herself. Apparently her mum has paid

for part of it, and apparently she worked

in the pharmacy of her ex-husband.

I don't know if it's his pharmacy, like he

owns the pharmacy. I don't know how he

could own a pharmacy. He looks like he's

mid-30s or late 30s. How can you be able

to own your own pharmacy when you're so

young? When I think of someone who owns a

pharmacy, I think of like a 50 or

60-year-old businessman. Either he's

inherited it or he's like really

financially successful to be able to buy a

pharmacy. So apparently she worked for

him and used the money that she earned at

his pharmacy to pay for the house. And for

some reason, he feels entitled to the

house or to her because she— he feels like

he got her the job and it's thanks to him

that she was able to make this money. So

she owes him, which is like a load of

bollocks, to be honest. I mean, how

deranged do you have to be to think that

you have any kind of entitlement,

entitlement over a woman and her property

just because she works for your company?

It's not like he gave her the money,

unless he did and I'm missing a detail

here. So he

feels like he has some kind of ownership

over her as he's the husband. He claims

to be her husband.

Even though they've apparently broken up

ages ago. I don't get it. It sounds so

complicated, and she does a complete

terrible job at trying to explain it.

People in the comments section did a

better job at explaining it.

He's going to hire a private investigator

on you, and she will find out about you

soon. Dot lol. Yeah, that is something I'm

worried about, that he wants to break us

up. He could easily break us up if he

found my channel. I don't think

he found it yet.

I don't know how she would react when she

finds out my channel, because Chihiro

was fine with it when she found out. She

was only a bit shaken up. Chihiro was only

shaken up because she thought I was

cheating, because, you know, back then I

would talk about dating and girls and sex

all the time. But apart from the cheating

thing, Chihiro was fine with me having a

channel and streaming and stuff.

And I don't know if the, the ex has my

pictures He knows my name is Daniel. He

probably doesn't know my real name.

I don't know how he would have my picture

because I'm pretty sure the Thai girl

hasn't posted my picture anywhere unless

she sent my picture to her friend and the

friend is friends with the ex, or the

friend posted somewhere. I don't see how

he could get his hands on the picture

unless she— unless the Thai girl sent

pictures of me to her mum, because, you

And then the mum sends a picture of me to

the ex because I think the mum likes the

ex. I heard that the mum was upset that

the ex and the Thai girl didn't work out

and she wants them to get back together.

Losing your temper is rare in Thailand.

I'm surprised he didn't try and beat you

up. But if losing your temper is rare,

then Why would he beat me up?

He didn't seem like a completely violent

and crazy person. He seemed like a more

calm and creepy psychotic kind

of person. He's obviously smart

because he's a pharmacist or something in

medicine, so he's obviously not an idiot.

Like he's not dumb, so he

probably understands the consequences if

he physically attacks me.

So I feel a bit relieved that he's not

completely nuts, otherwise he would have

done something already, wouldn't he?

Um, What else was I saying?

Yeah, so it would be a problem if he found

my channel and then leaked it to the Thai

girl because that would cause problems.

Have I talked to the Thai girl's family?

Yeah, I met her sister a few times. We

went for sushi. She's nice. She speaks

good English because she She spent some

time living in America, so she's kind of

westernized. She knows, understands about

Westerners and foreigners.

And her mum knows about me. Her mum seems

okay with me now. It seems like her mum

was worried about me being a scammer,

which is why she was angry in the first

place. But now it seems like I'm not a

scammer. She seems more okay with the idea

of her daughter being being with me, and

her daughter knows that she's living with

me.

It looks like a hostage video setup.

Yeah, I'm just in the closet so you can't

see the surroundings. I, I can't afford

to dox my place this time, unfortunately,

so I can't do an apartment tour. No

cooking with Daniel, because I can't show

you the kitchen. What does

she think you do for work? I say— I said I

do artwork, which is technically true

because I do illustrated videos, don't I?

Why haven't you moved on to a better girl?

Because, because it's just

easy, I guess, right now. I don't like

having to go on dates and meeting new

women. I like to find someone that I feel

comfortable with and then just stick with

her. And it's kind of complicated now. I

mean, I can't just walk out. How can I

just walk out? She's brought all her stuff

here. She would have to— I don't

know what she would do. Carry on living

here alone, I guess.

And she— the weird thing is she looks like

Chihiro. It's really odd.

From the front, she doesn't really look

like Chihiro, but from the side and from

certain angles, like from, from down and

below looking up at her, she really looks

like Chihiro. Like the profile of her face

and her hairstyle, especially when she

wears glasses, she looks exactly like

Chihiro. It's so weird. Even her clothing,

like her pajamas— she wears these kind of

pink, pink pajamas that look just

like Chihiro's pajamas.

She just looks like a slightly more Thai

version of Chihiro. It's so bizarre. I

look at her from the side, I'm just

thinking she looks just like Chihiro.

It's so funny.

There's so many similarities as well,

like same age when I met Chihiro the first

time, has a job

like Chihiro did. I guess it's not that

weird though. The only annoying

thing is she doesn't have— well, she does

have her own place, but we can't live in

it because the ex might show up again.

So she doesn't really have her own place.

I'm having to pay for the place.

How did I meet her? I met her on Tinder

nearly a year ago when I was in

Manchester. I matched a bunch of people on

Tinder and she was one of them, but I

never talked to her. I just added her on

WhatsApp, and then 6 months

later after I came back from Malaysia, I

just randomly saw her name and went hi and

said hi to her, and now we're together.

It's really weird. At first I thought she

was like a crypto scammer.

Am I gonna marry her? No, I really don't

know what's gonna happen because I've got

a 90-day tourist visa. She wants me to

stay forever. She wants me to just live

here and move to Thailand.

I mean, if I really wanted to stay, I can

get a 5-year visa, the Thai Elite Visa,

which costs— I think it's about £14,000.

It's like $16,000, but then I can get a

5-year visa.

Why did I set my location to Thailand?

No, I didn't. She set her location to

England. Because she wanted to practice

English. My location was in

Manchester.

I was quite happy with the situation

before the whole ex— ex-husband

thing began, because I feel like

everything is fine apart from the ex

situation. I don't know if he's gonna show

up again or become a problem again. I

don't know if she works at his pharmacy

still, or if that was another pharmacy

from the past. I don't know if she sees

him at work. Maybe she's talking to him

now. I have no idea.

But maybe he works there now and she works

there now and they're working together

every day. That would be kind of weird.

Maybe I should ask her. It's just I don't

really want to bring up the topic again of

the ex because it's just kind of annoying

and make— it makes her upset. She gets all

stressed out having to talk about it. I

think it's better if we just kind of

pretend it didn't happen. She said

she wants to quit her job and get a job in

Bangkok because she's having to drive—

she's having to drive 2 hours every day to

get to work and come back here. She wants

me to pay for the motorway toll as well.

So in Thailand, you have to pay to use the

motorway. It's— I think it's about 200

baht there and back on motorway,

which is about— it's like £4 or £5.

But then if I'm having to pay that every

day, it's gonna be like £100 a month to

pay for her motorway. I don't know why I

have to pay for it though. She makes me

pay for everything. I have to pay for all

the rent, all the food. Every time we use

the motorway, I gotta pay. She says she's

got no money. Because she spent all her

savings on the house, and maybe she's

paying off debts to her husband or

something. I have no idea. What if her

husband is threatening her, saying, you

better pay me all the money back or else

I'm going to keep harassing you?

I don't really mind paying for everything

because it's not really a huge amount of

money. It's just like some food and then

some motorway stuff. And she did help me

get this place, which is really cheap.

I'm paying £450 a month for this place,

and it's a nice place. It's a pretty big

size apartment. And if I, if I

just booked the place on my own as a

foreigner, I think they would have charged

me like £1,000. So I'm getting a good

price thanks to her being Thai. If you are

a foreigner, you get, you get ripped off

on everything.

What's that?

She left her iPad here.

Should I check her iPad and see who's

I can't be bothered. People ring her

all the time. Her sister phones like 5

times a day. She's constantly on the

phone. I think it's like a Thai thing to

be constantly phoning people. And when

we're in the car driving, she's on the

phone all the time. She has her phone in

her left hand while she's driving the

entire time. It's really weird.

And she's looking at her phone all the

time while she drives, looking at the sat

nav and people phoning her and stuff.

Her mum phones, her sister phones, people

from work phone. She's on the phone all

the time. It's really annoying, actually.

No one phones me ever. My sister never

phones me. The only time I ever phoned my

sister was, was when me and Chihiro had a

fight and I really needed someone to talk

to. And I phoned my sister. That was like

4 years ago. Apart from that, I don't

think I've phoned my sister ever since.

My mum has been nonstop messaging me.

My mum's just spamming my messages

non-stop telling me to get out of

Thailand. My mum is saying, leave

Thailand, go to Japan, you're being

scammed. And now she's asking me what her

birthday is because she thinks like

someone has my phone or something.

You're not worried about going missing?

No, I feel pretty safe now. I've got all

the keys. There's no way anyone can come

up because I've got all the keys for

elevator and stuff.

Does she earn more money than you? No,

that's the weird thing. I earn, I earn

nearly triple what she makes. And I've got

a dead YouTube channel. Thai people make

such small amounts of money, even if

they've got a decent job. I reckon you

have like an office job, you'd make maybe

20,000 baht a month, which is about— it's

like $400 a month. And then you work at

McDonald's or some low-paid job, you

probably make 15 or 10K baht a month. I

make like 60k baht a month. So I tell

her that, and then she thinks I'm rich

because I make 60k baht, which is the

equivalent of working at some good company

or like a manager kind of job.

Manager-level job is like 50k baht,

probably. So in her eyes, I'm probably

rich.

It's just so funny because she thinks— why

is someone phoning her iPad?

That's weird. Why would the iPad be

ringing? I thought her messaging apps

would be on. Is that Facebook? Is that a

Facebook phone call sound? Bim bim bim bim

bim bim bim. No,

I don't make $60K a month. I make 60K baht

a month. Check the iPad. I reckon it's

just her sister. Why do I have her iPad?

She left her iPad here.

What's going on here? Well,

I'm hiding in my new apartment from crazy

ex-husband trying to hunt me down.

Also, this kind of gave me another funny

idea. You know how everyone thinks of me

as an incel and like a loser who can't get

a girlfriend? Isn't it so funny? This guy,

this ex-husband who literally works and

owns a pharmacy and drives a car and

probably has a house. This guy can't hold

on to his woman and his woman likes me and

wants to be with me, a so-called internet

lolcow incel who doesn't have a job and

doesn't have any career prospects. He lost

his woman to me. Can you, can you imagine

losing your woman to me out of all the

people in the world? A failed YouTuber

incel. I don't know why I've got this

reputation of being an incel though,

because I've had like 4 girlfriends this

year. We don't

think that. Yeah, but the entire internet

thinks of me as an incel. I've got a

Wikipedia page on the Incelpedia website,

and then every time you go on to some kind

of discussion forum where they talk about

me, they always label me as an incel,

like some kind of incel man's

activist kind of guy who rants about

why it's unfair that chads get women.

That guy, can you imagine being that guy

and losing a woman to me? It's just so

funny. You have incel

vibes. Yeah, but I get girls, don't I? I

get girlfriends and wives and other

people's wives. Apparently, this is like a

third. If he's telling the truth and he is

the husband. And they are or were married.

This is like the third time I cucked

someone's wife. I mean, I cucked a

husband. Why do I keep attracting these

wives? They're scamming

you. I really don't see how it could be a

scam. She's not asking me for large

amounts of money.

If she said, oh, I need $20,000 so

I can pay off my husband, then I'd agree,

yeah, this is a scam, and then I'd be out

And then people saying, oh, it's a scam

cuz She's getting you to rent the

apartment, but I would have to rent an

apartment anyway. Even if I was alone, I

would have to rent my own place, and I

would end up paying a lot more money

because I wouldn't be able to get a

special Thai person price because I'm not

Thai. They, they give Thai people such

a massive discount compared to how much

they charge foreigners for everything.

She doesn't ask me for money, but she

asked me to pay for stuff, like when we

I'm not sure what this is gonna turn into

though, because I don't know, I don't know

if I see myself living here. I don't

want to get the Thai Elite Visa for 14K

and then live here for 5 years. I want to

go to Japan still. I still want to go to

Japan after Thailand,

so I'm not sure how this is going to play

out.

The tropical weather makes you look a bit

drawn. Yeah, for some reason the heat and

the weather just makes me feel so drowsy.

That's the word, drowsy. I feel so drowsy

and sleepy. The weather— I

hate the weather. I don't have the

aircon on now because I don't really feel

like I need it, but it's always so,

um, humid. And it feels like you're in a

greenhouse outside. Being outside

is just unbearable, which means that I

probably— I'm not going to do IRL

streaming, which means I wasted my money

on the, the LiveU thing.

I bought this LiveU encoder thinking I'm

going to do IRL streams, go outside and

walk around. But it's just unbearable.

The sun is just blazing down.

It's so humid. It's like 35 degrees

Celsius all the time. And then the traffic

is so noisy. There's so much traffic and

there's nowhere to really walk around

that's nice. It's just streets and

shopping malls that probably kick me out

if they saw me filming. So I don't see

myself going outside to stream.

So I kind of wasted my money buying SIM

cards. I bought 3 SIM cards. I'm using one

of them now to do this stream, and I

really don't need the LiveU because the

connection is really strong here. I've got

4 bars of 4G constantly. I've got 5G, but

I turned it off because it drains the

battery so much.

So I don't know if I can use the other SIM

cards next month or if they've already

been activated. I think they activated it

when I bought it, so they all, they all

started on the same day. So in 30 days

they're all going to expire, which is kind

Daniel, you have to get out now. You are

going down a turbulent road. High chance

you're getting scammed. No, I don't think

I'm getting scammed, but I think I've kind

of inserted myself into some messy family

drama.

It seems like such a mess with this ex.

I don't know why he doesn't just move on

and let go. Apparently he,

he tries to scare off any new boyfriends

that she tries to get.

I think it happened before, but by the way

that she's speaking, it sounds like she

had someone before and And then the ex

apparently scared him away as well.

How do you know her mum likes you now?

Her mum phoned yesterday and I asked what

did she say, and she said her mum was okay

with us being together now.

It makes me think in a way I was pretty

lucky that Chihiro's ex-husband wasn't

crazy. I wonder if

Chihiro's ex-husband knew about my YouTube

channel and stuff.

He probably doesn't move on because

they're still married. Yeah, cuz I'm only

hearing her side of the story. What if his

side of the story is something like, oh,

we're still married and she broke my heart

and I helped her get a job and pay for her

house and now she's cheating on me with

you. That could be his side of the story.

I have no idea. All I'm hearing is her

side. Maybe she tricked

him into helping her pay for the house and

said she loved him and then ran away from

him. Who knows?

I really wonder what would have happened

if I got into his car. I don't think he

was going to do anything. I think he

genuinely just wanted to take me to the

airport. And because he said,

he said, I'll take you to the airport and

then you go back to UK. He just wanted me

to go back to the UK, I think, or take me

to a train station. Because if he was

going to kill me, I mean, he could have

done it in the house and then just dragged

my body and picked me up, put me in the

car, dumped me in the river. Why would he

need me to get into his car for him to

drive me to a secret place to kill me?

Also, another thing he said when he asked

me, he asked me, did you sleep with her?

I said yes. And then he said, did you use

a condom? And I lied. I said yes because I

thought if I said no, I came inside her

every night, that might, that might make

him rage if he found out that I've been

doing it raw inside every night. So I said

yes, I— we use condom. Why did he ask

that? What a weird question to ask. Did

you have sex with her? Did you use a

condom? Did you kiss with lips?

Such a weird question to ask. Of course we

had sex. What do you think? We've been

sleeping together every night.

We've been staying in hotels together.

What do you think? Of course we had sex.

What a dumb question.

What a weirdo.

He was like, you get in my car, I drive

you to Suvarnabhumi Airport, you go back

to UK. Why don't you suck

on a rock, idiot?

Now, now that I'm not really scared

anymore. My rage is kicking in. I feel

pretty angry now. I mean, he threatened to

kill me and tried to take me in his car.

I wish I filmed the whole thing with his

face and put it all over YouTube. Who does

he think he is going around telling people

he's gonna kill them? I'm gonna put his—

I'm gonna air his whole story all

over the internet now. Try to mess with

me. I'll show him.

Can't just go around telling people you're

gonna kill them.

Did you get it on video? No, I didn't get

it because it all happened so fast and I

couldn't just whip out my phone, start

filming him, because he might grab my

phone and smash it. I only

started filming when I felt safe. I felt

kind of safe when I was behind the car

because about 10 minutes had passed, I

didn't see him.

Oh yeah, when the Thai girl came back to

the village complex, she said she saw him

speeding away. So I think he was waiting

at the security barrier, but then when she

arrived, he quickly drove away.

And apparently she tried to stop the car.

She like got out of the car and then stood

in the middle of the road or something. I

I'm not really sure. The story just— I

don't think the translation was good from

the sister.

I'm getting all the details are just kind

of hazy because the translation sucks.

I wish I had my GoPro. I tried looking for

the GoPro, I couldn't find it. It was in

the bottom of my bag somewhere. If I just

got my GoPro out and I was filming the

whole thing like that, maybe he would have

backed off if I just started filming.

I've got you on camera now. Say that

again. What did you say? You said you're

gonna kill me? Say it again, bitch. Maybe

he would have walked off.

That could have deterred him, but it

might have just angered him and he might

have grabbed the camera and smashed it.

So I don't know, it's a bit of, bit of a

gamble doing that play,

trying to film it.

No, I didn't lose the GoPro. It's just all

my tech had been in my bag, and then the

smaller bits of tech had kind of sunk to

the bottom. I need a drink. Is it safe

to drink the water?

Is it safe to drink water in Thailand?

Because I'm running out of bottled water.

I wish you were dressed like a girl. I

wish I was livestreaming when it happened.

That would have been so funny if I caught

it on livestream. All the people in the

comments saying it's fake.

They're so silly. They're so— I don't know

why people are so desperate

to try and point out that stuff's fake.

I only faked a few things in the past,

like the homeless thing where I was

walking around with a tent.

It would be pretty hard to fake because

you've got the phone call and then you've

got the Thai girl's reaction, which is

very genuine unless she's an amazing

actor. I would have to get her to act

and her sister to also act and

would have to like come up with a script

and then rehearse it. Do you think that I

would actually do that? You know how lazy

I am. Do you think I'd gather these two

women, sit down at a table, and write out

a script and say, "Okay, I'm gonna hide

behind the car, and then you come and pick

me up, and then you have a phone call with

your sister explaining the situation, and

you've got to sound dramatic." Do you

think I'm gonna direct like this whole

scene? Come on!

That would take so much work and so much

effort. Just for a measly 10K views.

I get 100K views just talking about Steam

Deck.

If I'm gonna fake stuff, I'll just make up

stuff about, uh, trending topics like

the Steam Deck and Elden Ring.

It's not worth faking drama anymore

because the views, even if It's like super

clickbaity drama. It'll get better views

than I usually get, but it doesn't get

amazing views. The views are in,

um, clickbaiting tech reviews. Do not buy

XXX thing. This is

all real.

It's not really going how I planned

though, because I thought I would meet

her, move in with her in her house, and

then we'd have a nice life together. Nice

and peaceful, just, you know, like how it

was when I was married with Chihiro. Home

life with a girlfriend.

Living in Thailand. I didn't think all

this crazy stuff would happen with an ex

and a mother who seems kind of

controlling.

I honestly had no idea this whole ex

situation was going to happen. I'm a bit

annoyed because she never showed— she

never warned me that this could happen.

She could have at least showed me a

picture of his face so I, I knew who to

watch out for. Well, now I know what he

looks like, I wouldn't just stupidly open

the door again.

So I don't, I don't see how I would end up

encountering him again unless

he followed the Thai girl's car back here

and then waited outside for us. But

there's so many people outside, there's no

way he would try anything. There's,

there's a really busy road, people walking

up and down, security everywhere outside

of car parks and stuff. I mean, he'd be

suicidal to try anything.

You need to confront the ex-husband.

Maybe we can lure him out so I could

leak my channel to him. And then I do a

livestream outside, and then like some—

maybe someone can help me, be my backup,

and then we'll lure him out. He thinks

he's ambushing me, but we're ambushing

him, and then we'll get him.

It's times like that I kind of wish I was

fat or a big guy. Oh my God, can you

imagine if I was like a big 6-foot

normal-sized white man, and then he comes

up to the door, knocks on it, and then

open the door, and I'm like, this big guy,

what's he gonna do? He'll be like, get in

the car, and I'll be like, why don't you

try and make me? He's lucky that I'm

small. He didn't

know that I was small though. He's seen

pictures of me, but he wouldn't know how

tall I am or how big I am in real life.

He just showed up and just kind of risked

it, I guess. If I was a big guy and then

that same situation happened, I'd be like,

fuck off.

Sometimes I really wish I was normal size

or big, you know, big and fat.