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Why I don’t like Korean Girls - Dating in Korea Problems

2021-04-17 · 10 min

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  1. It's very difficult dating in Korea

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  2. because all the bloody Korean girls think

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  3. they're the best thing that came out of

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  4. you know what. They think they're so

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  5. amazing. Women in Korea have

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  6. a very— they think way too highly of

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  7. themselves. They think they're all so

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  8. great. Japanese women are more down to

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  9. earth and more humble. I don't like Korean

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  10. girls. If you want to get successful with

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  11. a Korean girl, you gotta look good and

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  12. you've got to dress good and you've got to

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  13. be rich. You need to drive a car, you need

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  14. to work at Samsung, you need to have a

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  15. university degree. Ugh, who the hell do

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  16. they think they are? What about them?

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  17. What do they do apart from doing their

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  18. makeup and staring into a mirror all day

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  19. long, doing their hair?

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  20. Don't like Korean girls. In Korea,

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  21. they automatically think you're a failure

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  22. if you haven't gone to university. They

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  23. already automatically look down on you and

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  24. judge you if you say you don't— you didn't

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  25. go to university.

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  26. They're so judgmental and vain. I can't

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  27. imagine dating a Korean girl. Japanese

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  28. girls are nicer. Japanese girls are sweet

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  29. and gentle and nice, and they're not all

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  30. judgy, and they don't care about

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  31. their looks so much. Korea has like

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  32. this toxic K-pop kind of culture,

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  33. plastic surgery culture. I'm just not

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  34. really that into Thai girls. I'm not into

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  35. the whole Thailand-Philippine scene.

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  36. So yeah, that's why I think Japan is the

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  37. best. That's why I always go to Japan.

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  38. That's why I always plan

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  39. to go to Japan instead of different

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  40. countries. I have been to different

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  41. countries, but I always end up missing

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  42. Japan the most or liking Japan the

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  43. best. It's the safest country.

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  44. It's Got a nice atmosphere in the

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  45. cities. The Korean cities just feel

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  46. depressing. Everywhere looks so cold and

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  47. artificial, and everyone looks so stressed

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  48. out and overworked.

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  49. And I don't know, there's like this—

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  50. either there's like a dirty industrial

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  51. feeling in Korea, or there's this really

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  52. futuristic cold, soulless feeling.

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  53. In Japan, the city's all nice and warm and

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  54. welcoming, and there's

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  55. like a feel-good vibe, I think. I also

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  56. got kind of— I got scared

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  57. to buy food in Korea because If

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  58. you don't— if you don't reply to them in

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  59. Korean, they seem kind of annoyed.

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  60. So I ended up— every time I went to buy

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  61. food, I started carrying around my own

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  62. plastic bags because one time I went to

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  63. buy food and she asked me if I wanted a

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  64. bag and I said yes, but then she didn't

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  65. give me one. And then she looked really

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  66. miserable and irritated, and I was scared

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  67. to ask for one.

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  68. And apparently yes means no in Korea.

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  69. It's like they ask you in a backwards

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  70. negative way. They say, do you not want a

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  71. bag? So you have to say no. So that means

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  72. yes. If you say yes, then it means yes, I

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  73. do not want one, and they won't give you

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  74. one. So I had to carry all my shopping in

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  75. my hands. Like this all the way back to my

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  76. hotel. I felt so stupid.

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  77. Korean— some Korean people can be very

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  78. scary. She seemed pissed off that I

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  79. tried to speak English. At first I said

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  80. sorry because I didn't understand, and

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  81. then she just repeated the same thing just

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  82. as fast. If I didn't catch it the first

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  83. time, what makes you think I'll catch it

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  84. the second time?

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  85. So I started getting anxiety just going to

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  86. buy food, but I didn't feel like

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  87. that in Japan. I feel like people were

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  88. kinder. Customer service is way

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  89. So my, my solution was to go around

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  90. carrying the plastic bag. So when they're

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  91. doing the scanning, I'll get my bags out

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  92. so they can see that I've got my own bag.

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  93. That way they don't ask you if you want a

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  94. bag. So you don't have to say anything.

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  95. But then if you forget your bag, then

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  96. you're kind of screwed.

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  97. Very difficult.

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  98. I miss shopping when Chihiro

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  99. just did everything. I just stood there

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  100. and then she did all the talking.

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  101. Life was better back then.

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  102. Oh my God, what was that? You're a

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  103. disappointment to your dad. You're a

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  104. disappointment to your dad. You're a— oh,

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  105. fuck you. Disappointment to your dad.

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  106. You're a disappointment to your dad.

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  107. You're a disappointment to your dad.

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  108. You're a disappointment to your dad.

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  109. You're a disappointment to your dad. You—

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  110. I'm back.

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  111. I had a pee. Yes, the sun's going

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  112. down now. I can do my nice lighting.

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  113. Should I have purple?

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  114. I always feel in a bad mood when it's

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  115. sunny. And then I feel in a better mood

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  116. when it gets darker. Who else feels like

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  117. that? Audio? Oh, for fuck's sake.

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  118. How about now?

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  119. Testing. Testing.

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  120. But it lasted quite long, didn't it? It

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  121. lasted at least 10 minutes.

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  122. What was I saying?

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  123. Do you only have social anxiety or

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  124. agoraphobia? What's agoraphobia? I used to

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  125. know, but I forgot.

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  126. I think it's a mixture of not liking

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  127. people in general and

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  128. being worried.

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  129. You're a bitch. You're a bitch. You're a

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  130. bitch. You're a bitch. You're a bitch.

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  131. You're a bitch. Oh God. You're a bitch.

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  132. You're a bitch. You're a bitch. You're a

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  133. bitch. You're a bitch. You're a bitch.

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  134. You're the atch, you're the atch, you're

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  135. the atch, you're the atch.

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  136. My vape's not working again.

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  137. Maybe it is out of battery.

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  138. I just feel like in general,

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  139. having— there's more negatives that come

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  140. from people being in your life. Than

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  141. positives. So I have a bad opinion of

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  142. people straight from the beginning because

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  143. I just start thinking, oh no, how are they

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  144. going to ruin my life this time?

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