I had an Affair with a Married Hong Kong woman

Today I would like to talk about the time

I had an affair with a married woman from

Hong Kong. And this happened about 2 years

ago, so it was quite a long time ago, and

I would never do such a thing now, so

please don't judge me too harshly. About 2

years ago in 2018, I used to have this

pretty big fan from Hong Kong. And if I

mentioned her username, some of you may

remember her because she used to give me

pretty big Super Chat donations when I did

livestreams. Anyway, she started messaging

me on Instagram about 2 years ago, and she

started sending me pictures of herself. I

didn't even ask her to send me pictures,

but she sent them to me anyway. And she

was fairly attractive. She was slim. She

was good looking. She told me she was— I

think she said she was about 34. Years

old, but she was married. And I was kind

of confused because I thought, if you're

married, then how come you're sending me

pictures of yourself? You can't possibly

be interested in me in that way. And

obviously I was also married, so I didn't

expect that a married woman from Hong Kong

would be interested in me, a married guy

in Japan. However, I was very, very wrong.

She told me that she was very interested

in me possibly even in love with me, and

she said I was perfect for her. She said

she found my personality to be very

intriguing and mysterious and interesting,

and she said she wanted to meet me. Now,

at the time, I was a loving, loyal,

devoted husband, so I wasn't too sure

about meeting up with her because I wasn't

quite sure where it would end up leading

to. But she said she was going to come to

Japan anyway, and it would be nice if we

could meet up. I think she came to Japan

around July, shortly after I came back

from the Malaysia trip. And we met up

and we went shopping, walked around a bit,

and we went to the cinema. We watched some

kind of movie. Can't remember. Maybe it

was Jurassic World? After the movie

finished, she asked me if I wanted to go

back to her place because she said she had

a gift for me. And I said, okay, I guess

we could go back to your place. And we got

on the train, went back to her Airbnb

apartment, which was quite a nice

apartment. And we did you know what

several times in the afternoon. It was

pretty good, but it was getting late and I

had to quickly go back home before I got

caught. And she gave me her present. I was

kind of disappointed because I thought

maybe she got me something interesting.

She just got me some pot noodle, chicken

and mushroom pot noodle, and I took it

home with me. But before I got home, I

actually put it into the bin because if my

ex-wife found out I had pot noodles,

she'd start questioning me, asking me

where I got it from. And to be honest, I

didn't really have any intentions of

meeting her again because although she was

quite good-looking and slim and nice and

everything, I didn't really feel very

physically attracted to her. However, I

started to get cravings again and we did

end up meeting a second time. This time we

went to a love hotel. And it was okay,

not really that much better than the first

time. And that was the last time I ever

saw her. I decided that I didn't really

feel attracted to her enough to want to

see her again. And then there was this one

time about a few weeks later, me and my

ex-wife had an argument about something,

and I was staying in a hotel, and the Hong

Kong woman actually said to me that I

could come and stay with her if I needed a

place. To stay. And you're probably all

thinking, he definitely went to stay with

her for a few nights before going back to

his ex-wife. Well, surprisingly, I

declined her offer and I decided to stay

in the hotel and just sit around playing

Rainbow Six all day, which now I think

about it sounds kind of stupid. After I

declined her offer to go and stay with

her, I think she kind of lost interest in

me because maybe she sensed that I wasn't

interested in her. And she started telling

me about how she was using Couchsurfing.

You know that Couchsurfing app? I think

it's kind of like an app where you can let

strangers stay at your place for free.

Well, she started letting other guys stay

with her, and then she was telling me

about it and telling me what happened with

the guys. And she— I think she kind of had

like a white guy fetish because she was

telling me about one night some French guy

stayed with her, then this other German

guy stayed with her, and I didn't really

understand why she was telling me about

all this. I didn't really want to know. I

thought she came to Japan because she was

kind of in love with me and she really

liked me, and now she's just letting a

bunch of white guys come and live with her

for free in exchange for you know what,

and then she's telling me all about it. I

didn't really want to know about that kind

of stuff, to be honest. I asked her, how

come your husband doesn't mind that you're

living in Japan for weeks and weeks and

weeks. Isn't he wondering what you're up

to? And she said that she doesn't really

have a loving relationship with her

husband and the marriage is kind of

loveless. Then I said, why don't you just

leave your husband? And then she said,

it's complicated. And over the next few

months, we actually kept in touch. We kept

in contact with each other, and she told

me her husband found out what she was up

to because He checked her phone and he saw

messages from these guys that she was

meeting up with on Couchsurfer,

and he got really angry. But surprisingly,

he didn't leave her. And I think even

today they're still married. The last time

I talked to her, she was telling me about

how she was going to Mexico to meet up

with some Mexican guys. She sounds kind of

wild, like a crazier, more wild version of

me who flies all around different

countries meeting up with guys whilst she

has a husband. Kind of strange. What I

don't understand is why doesn't the

husband leave her? Maybe he's afraid of

leaving her. I don't know why you'd want

to stay married to a woman if she's doing

that kind of stuff. Number 2, I don't

understand why she didn't just meet up

guys in Hong Kong. Why fly all over the

world? One thing she said kind of upset me

though. She said after she met me, all of

the mystery and the intrigue that she had

for me before meeting me She said all of

that kind of faded away after we met, and

I started to feel a little bit insecure

about myself. I started to think, well,

these girls who watch me on YouTube, they

might be really into me and interested in

me after they watch my videos, and then

they meet me, and are they disappointed

because I'm not exactly the same person

that I portray myself as in videos? When I

met the German girl last year, I think she

was kind of disappointed. Maybe she

watched a few of my videos and she thought

I was really chatty and talkative, and

when we meet I'd start talking about all

of these crazy stories with her. But in

real life, I'm not really like that.

Sometimes I see in the comment section

people saying things like, I wonder what

Daniel's like in real life. Well, let me

answer that question. I'm probably nothing

like I am in videos. I'm not very

talkative. I'm very shy. I won't just

start randomly telling you strange stories

from my past unless You asked me to.

Really sorry, but I'm starting to lose my

voice. So yeah, that was the story

of how I had an affair with a married Hong

Kong woman. By the way, this woman has

absolutely nothing to do with the Hong

Kong guy. I know it's kind of strange that

they're both from Hong Kong, but I guess

there's more than 2 people who come from

Hong Kong. And I think she's actually the

3rd married woman that I had an affair

with. Yeah, there were 2 married Japanese

women and then there was this Hong Kong

woman, so that makes— yeah, I think that

would make it a hat trick, as they call it

in the sporting world.