I think my Wife is cheating on me

I found something a little bit disturbing.

So I found my wife's profile on a dating

website called japan-cupid.com,

and I'm a little bit confused. Why does

she have a dating profile? So there's 2

possibilities. Number one, it's just a

troll or some person pretending to be her,

or number 2, it's actually her and she's

actually registered and signed up to this

website. I mean, how could this possibly

be real when she's talking to me about

getting back together and forgiving me

when she has a dating website and she's

obviously active on it when it says 15

hours ago. So last active 15 hours ago,

that would be in Japan time. Well, now

it's 11 AM, so Japan's 8 hours ahead.

That would be 7 PM in Japan. So 15 hours

ago, if it's 7 PM in Japan now, 15 hours

ago would be, uh, 7,

6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.

12, 11, 10, 9,

8, 7, 6, 5, 4. It would be 4 AM

in the morning. So this is why I think

this is a bit suspicious. The reason why I

think this profile might be fake, might be

a troll, might be someone pretending to be

hers, because number one, she's always

active. I checked the last active thing

and it always says she's active around 2

AM to 4 AM Japan time. I really don't

think that she would be awake and using a

dating website at 2 or 4 AM in the

morning? She'd be sleeping, wouldn't she?

When I was staying with her, she never

stayed up that late. She was always in bed

before midnight, especially if she had

work the next day. She'd be in bed

earlier. And there's also a few things

about this profile that may make me feel

suspicious about it. There's a few details

that are incorrect. For example, her age.

Her age is not 35 as it says here. She's

actually 38, but she could be lying about

her age. Women do that. Women like to

pretend that they're younger than they

actually are. And her occupation says

travel hospitality, which is wrong. She

doesn't work in travel or hospitality

unless she got a new job recently. But

then when I look at this profile closely,

it makes me believe that this is actually

her. Number one, the photos. I don't know,

um, how a troll could get their hands on

some of these photos. So there's 2 photos.

There's this photo this main one, which is

on her Facebook, and her Facebook page is

set to public. This photo and this photo

is on her Facebook public page, so anyone

could go onto Facebook, find her profile,

and download those photos. But this photo—

this photo I've never seen before, and I

couldn't find it on her Facebook page. I

don't know if it's on her Instagram page

because her Instagram's set to private,

so I don't know where a troll or someone

pretending to be her would be able to find

this exact photo. And it's obviously a new

photo because I don't recognize this room.

It must be her new apartment. But I

recognized this chair— that was my

computer chair. And I recognized this

little blue chair that she's sitting on—

that was the little blue fold-out floor

chair that I bought off Amazon. I think

this photo is new as well. I've never seen

this photo before. So it's pretty obvious

these are all new photos, and they kind of

look like photos would take to put onto a

dating website. You know, it looks nice,

she's smiling, she's got her makeup on.

These are dating website selfies, and I

just can't figure out how a troll would be

able to get their hands on these photos.

Apart from this one and this one, the

other ones aren't on her public Facebook,

so I don't know how they would get them.

So the only conclusion would be that it's

actually her uploading them herself, and

the only place that these photos are

available on is this website. The other

thing that makes me believe that this is

actually her and she actually made this

herself is her star sign says Pisces, and

this is true. If you look up her birthday

and her date of birth, it says Pisces,

and you'd only know that she's a Pisces if

you knew her birthday, and I'm pretty sure

no one knows her birthday because I never

mentioned it. So how would anyone know her

star sign if they didn't know her birthday

unless they guessed it, which would be

pretty unlikely. So because of those

reasons, I'm kind of leaning towards that

she actually made this profile herself and

it's not some person pretending to be her.

Which leads me to the question, why does

she have a dating profile on a dating

website when she's talking to me about

getting back together with me? How could

she seriously be thinking about getting

back together with me and meeting me again

when she's also on a dating website

looking for— what is she looking for?

Hookups, dates, a new guy, a new guy to

replace me with, a serious relationship

to, um, replace me with. If she's

looking to replace me, then why is she

still talking to me? And why is she still

considering the idea of getting back

together with me? It doesn't make any

sense. I thought something felt kind of

weird, kind of fishy, a bit suspicious

when she didn't seem angry at all about

what I've been doing recently in Germany.

Stuff with the Turkish girl, how could she

be talking about those girls with other

people and laughing about it and not

getting angry? If it was me and it was the

other way around and I found out she was

sleeping with a bunch of other guys, I

wouldn't be laughing about it. I'd be

pretty upset, pretty angry, pretty

annoyed. So there's 2 possibilities.

Either she doesn't care about me anymore,

she doesn't have feelings for me anymore,

that's why she's able to laugh about it.

Or she's not laughing about it, she's

still angry and she's angry about it and

she's pretending not to be angry just to

get my defenses down, to get my guard down

so I think she's not angry anymore, to

trick me into coming back to Japan so she

can get me into trouble and continue with

the whole suing me thing. Now she has

plenty of evidence that I've been meeting

other girls. She would have a much

stronger case against me now if she wanted

to sue me. And if I'm in Japan, then,

well, I don't know if I'd be able to just

leave Japan and run away or escape and And

I don't even know how strong of a case she

would have. And even if she won the case,

I don't know how much money I would have

to pay. If it's just a couple hundred

pounds, I wouldn't really care, I'd just

pay it. But if it's thousands and

thousands, which it could very well likely

be, I don't really want to pay that.

I guess I could ask her about it, but I

don't see the point because number one,

she could easily lie and pretend she

doesn't know anything about it. Number

two, even if she admits that she was the

one who made it, then what could I say?

It's not like I could criticize her or be

angry about it because I'm doing the same

thing. I, I was looking for girls as well,

and I'm also on Tinder, and I'm also using

this website. So if I had a go at her for

using a dating website when we're supposed

to be getting back together, she can just

say, oh well, you're using one as well,

so why can't I? And number 2, I don't

really know why I care so much because I

was the one who made the decision to leave

her, and now I'm not too sure about

getting back together with her because,

to be honest, I don't really feel like I

can trust her after she was going on about

suing me. I just find it kind of weird

that she would even be willing to forgive

me after everything that I've done. How

could she be so angry a few months ago and

now she's completely okay and she's

laughing about the German girl and stuff

like that and thinking about getting back

together with me. It just seems very

strange. When we were chatting, she said

that she's not angry anymore because time

has passed and she's calmed down, but I

still feel like that's a bit weird. If the

reverse happened and she slept with a

bunch of guys a few months ago, I would

still be angry. Even a few months later,

I would still be angry about it, and I

wouldn't be laughing about it. I wouldn't

find anything about her sleeping with a

bunch of other guys funny at all. And you

know, it's also kind of strange that she's

on that website. Of all the dating

websites, the one that everyone knows that

I frequently use, japan-cupid.com,

because I've talked about using

japan-cupid.com a lot of times on streams

and on Discord and here and there, so it's

not really a secret that I've met up a lot

of— I've met a lot of women using that

website. So it's just a bit weird that she

chooses that website of all websites. I

don't know, maybe she's on other websites

as well. I don't know because I don't use

any other websites apart from

japan-cupid.com. It's just a bit strange

that she chose to use— this is if it's

actually her who made the profile. It's

just kind of strange that she would choose

to use the website that she probably knows

that I've used before and that I would

very likely find out that she's on that

website because all you have to do is

search for women in Osaka and

then her profile pops up. It's not, it's

not hard to find her profile. So did she

want me to find the profile? Did she make

the profile on purpose to make me feel

bad, to make me feel jealous? And the

person who made that profile obviously

knows that I know that she has a profile

because they There's a button. Let me show

you. So if you go into activity, you can

see who's been looking at your profile.

And look, there she is. She saw my profile

a week ago. So if it's her, then she knows

that I know that she has a profile. I

don't know what to think about this. I

keep thinking to myself, how would I feel

if it's actually her and she is on dating

websites? And she has been chatting to

guys. I don't know, it's probably very

likely that she has been chatting to guys

in real life outside when she goes to bars

or pubs. I know she's been going to bars

because she told me that some guy

recognized her at a bar, which leads me to

think, what were you doing at, at a bar?

I'm guessing she just went with friends,

but you know what bars are like. You know

why people go to bars. It's not just so

you can get a drink. A lot of people go to

bars so that they can hook up and pick up

girls or meet guys. That's kind of what

bar culture is like. I've been to bars in

Japan and I went with this Japanese guy

and he was trying to pick up girls and

that's what bars are like. So yeah, she

doesn't even need a dating website if she

was interested in looking for other guys.

Guys, she could just go to a bar because

because she's not, she's not a shy person.

She has social skills. She has no problems

talking to strangers. So it's not like she

would need to have a dating website,

dating profile, or to do online dating.

I don't know. I just feel kind of paranoid

about things. It could be a troll, but

then I don't know how they would find

those photos of her. It could be her, but

then if it is her, I don't know why I

would care. I can't complain because I'm

doing the same thing. I guess I have to

ask her about it and see what she says.

If it is her who made that profile, then I

guess I feel a little bit shocked, very

surprised, and a little bit hurt and

jealous, to be honest. And then I

got these messages from her saying that

she saw my last video, and then she asked

me when I'm coming to Japan. And I'm not

sure if it's a good idea to tell her when

I'm going. Um, because if she knows the

exact date when I'm coming, then I don't

know, I guess I'm just being paranoid and

I'm scared that the police might be

waiting at the airport or something. And

then she says, I don't trap you, and she

said that she's not planning on trapping

me. And she said, everyone's saying that

I'm going to trap you. Well, obviously if

she is planning on trapping me, she's not

going to admit to it. Obviously she's

going to say that I'm not trying to trap

you. I think what I'm gonna do is

I'm going to upload this video without

saying anything to her, and she's probably

gonna see it, and then I'll see what her

reaction is to me thinking that she's on a

dating website. And I just noticed that

the charger for my Philips OneBlade

shaver— look, they sent me the wrong

charger. This is the EU plug socket thing.

This— I can't use this in the UK. This is

the kind of plug I need for the UK. This

is what a UK plug looks like, not this.

Stupid people on Amazon, they can't even

send me the proper UK charger, so I can't

charge my shaver now. And it has this

weird— it has this weird hole

at the bottom. It's a weird-looking plug.

Oh, and I came up with this pretty cool

solution. So I have this problem at

airports where you have to take your

laptop out and And, um, it's annoying

having to take your laptop out when they

scan it for security, and then you have to

put your laptop back in. But then if you

take it out, the laptop compartment kind

of collapses, and then it's hard to push

the laptop back into the laptop

compartment because, you know, it crumples

and the clothes get stuck under the bottom

of the laptop compartment. And then you

have to kind of like shove everything out

of the way and then put the laptop in. So

I came up with this solution where I just

put a piece of cardboard here to prop up

the laptop compartment. And now look how

easy it is to get my laptop back into it.

I can do it one-handedly. See, it just

slots straight back in. Don't have to push

the socks or the underwear out of the way.

It just slides right back in thanks to

this little invention that I've created.

You might be thinking, oh, I'm not taking

much. I don't have much luggage. And

that's true. I've only filled half the

bag. And that's because I'm not taking

much clothing because it's summer. It's

going to be very hot. I don't need those

big thick hoodies that I usually bring,

so that's good. And in here

we have a bunch of UK to Japan plug

adapters. We have my old phone just in

case I need it. We have some dental floss

and some rubber duckies. I also

decided to cut the straps off the side of

the bag because they kept getting in the

way and they don't really do anything.

They just get in the way, so I decided

to cut them off. Now my bag's a lot, a lot

easier to use now. This bag makes me feel

a bit sad because I bought this bag last

year in May for the Malaysia trip. This is

the bag I took to Malaysia.

Those times were so different. We were so

much happier back then.