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How to get a Girlfriend - My top tips
2020-09-04 · 12 min
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This man has had 16 girlfriends in the
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0:00–0:03 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_0past. How did he do it? And now he will
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0:03–0:06 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_1teach you how to get a girlfriend. Listen
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0:06–0:09 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_2carefully.
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0:09–0:10 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_3Hi, so I've noticed there's a lot of angry
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0:37–0:40 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_4single people in the comments section who
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0:40–0:42 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_5like to insult me and say
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0:42–0:46 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_6rude things every time I find a new
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0:46–0:48 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_7girlfriend. And I thought to myself, why
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0:48–0:50 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_8are these people so angry? Why are they so
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0:51–0:52 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_9rude? Why are they so upset at the idea
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0:52–0:55 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_10that I can get a girlfriend and they
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0:56–0:57 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_11cannot? And I thought to myself, well, I
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0:58–1:00 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_12could respond to them with hate and anger
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1:00–1:03 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_13and be rude back to them, but I could also
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1:03–1:06 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_14share my knowledge and expertise and try
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1:07–1:09 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_15and help them, because helping people is
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1:09–1:11 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_16what makes the world a better place. So my
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1:11–1:14 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_17first tip would be making yourself look
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1:14–1:17 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_18presentable. The first thing a woman is
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1:17–1:19 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_19going to notice about you is the way you
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1:19–1:21 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_20look, and the way you present yourself
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1:21–1:24 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_21kind of portrays what kind of person you
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1:24–1:26 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_22are into the world. And the easiest thing
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1:26–1:29 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_23you can do to start off with would be
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1:29–1:31 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_24getting a proper haircut and fixing your
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1:32–1:34 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_25hairstyle. Now, if you're the kind of
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1:35–1:36 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_26person who spends a lot of time inside at
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1:36–1:39 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_27home playing video games and you love
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1:40–1:41 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_28anime, you might have a really stupid
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1:41–1:43 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_29looking haircut, because I know I
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1:43–1:45 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_30definitely did have a stupid looking
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1:45–1:47 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_31haircut between the ages of 17 all the
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1:47–1:51 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_32way until about 26, I had a stupid-looking
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1:51–1:54 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_33haircut that I thought looked really,
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1:54–1:57 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_34really cool. I straightened it, I grew it
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1:57–1:59 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_35long. At one point in my life, I always
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1:59–2:02 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_36had my hair from the back. I always had it
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2:02–2:05 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_37long enough so I could tie it around my
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2:05–2:07 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_38neck, and I was really scared of cutting
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2:08–2:10 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_39it any shorter. And I was really into
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2:10–2:12 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_40anime where they had that kind of spiky
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2:12–2:15 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_41long hair, and I was into emo bands like
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2:15–2:17 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_42My Chemical Romance where they had that
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2:17–2:19 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_43long straight hair, and I thought it
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2:19–2:21 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_44looked really cool. And don't get me
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2:22–2:23 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_45wrong, it does look cool on some guys if
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2:23–2:26 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_46they have a good-looking face. And I'm
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2:27–2:29 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_47assuming, well, if you're watching this
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2:29–2:31 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_48video, you probably don't have a
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2:31–2:32 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_49good-looking face, otherwise you won't
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2:33–2:34 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_50really have problems with getting a
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2:35–2:36 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_51girlfriend. So most of us guys look kind
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2:36–2:39 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_52of stupid if we have long spiky hair. And
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2:39–2:42 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_53as, as cool as you may think you look,
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2:42–2:45 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_54um, in reality you probably look kind of
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2:46–2:49 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_55weird and stupid. I mean, look at the kind
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2:49–2:51 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_56of hairstyle I had when I was 18. I looked
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2:51–2:53 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_57absolutely ridiculous, and I can't believe
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2:54–2:56 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_58I went out in public with that kind of
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2:56–2:58 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_59hair. And even when I was 22, 23,
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2:58–3:01 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_6024, I was still having that long
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3:01–3:03 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_61hairstyle. It kind of evolved from a spiky
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3:03–3:06 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_62emo anime hairstyle to a kind of mushroom
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3:07–3:10 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_63mullet that looked absolutely terrible.
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3:10–3:12 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_64And it wasn't until I was about 26, 27
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3:12–3:15 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_65that I finally got the courage to cut it
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3:15–3:17 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_66short. And I think my hairstyle now just
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3:18–3:20 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_67looks 10 times better than it ever did in
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3:20–3:22 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_68the past. And it took a lot of courage
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3:23–3:26 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_69from me to finally be able to make it
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3:26–3:28 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_70short and make that change, but I think it
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3:29–3:30 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_71was definitely worth it. So yeah,
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3:31–3:33 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_72changing your hairstyle I think is
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3:33–3:35 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_73something you could easily do for a very
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3:35–3:38 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_74low price, a very low cost, and it just
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3:38–3:41 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_75improves your physical appearance by so
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3:41–3:44 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_76much. You might be thinking, I like my
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3:45–3:48 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_77long spiky hair that I spent 1 hour
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3:48–3:50 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_78straightening and using hairspray on.
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3:51–3:53 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_79Makes me feel unique and special. And I
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3:53–3:55 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_80don't want to look like everyone else. I
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3:56–3:57 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_81don't want to look normal. Well, there's
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3:57–3:59 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_82nothing really wrong with looking normal.
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3:59–4:00 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_83Looking normal isn't necessarily a bad
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4:01–4:03 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_84thing. There's a reason why most people
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4:03–4:06 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_85have a similar kind of hairstyle. It's
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4:06–4:08 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_86because it looks good and it looks normal.
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4:09–4:11 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_87Now, my next advice is I think a lot of
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4:13–4:15 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_88men who are single and find it difficult
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4:15–4:17 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_89finding a partner might have low
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4:18–4:20 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_90confidence problems. They might be
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4:20–4:22 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_91thinking, oh, I don't have a job, I don't
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4:23–4:24 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_92have a good job, I don't have money, I'm
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4:24–4:26 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_93not funny, I don't have a house. None of
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4:27–4:29 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_94those things really matter, though they're
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4:29–4:32 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_95nice to have and they definitely help,
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4:32–4:34 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_96but you've got to think of it as kind of
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4:34–4:36 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_97like a bonus thing. If a girl likes you
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4:36–4:39 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_98and is attracted to you, she's not really
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4:40–4:43 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_99going to care if you're homeless or
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4:43–4:45 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_100jobless or you don't have any money or you
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4:46–4:47 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_101don't know how to drive. Of those things
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4:48–4:49 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_102really matter a lot. They're nice little
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4:50–4:52 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_103bonus things that will make her like you
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4:53–4:55 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_104more, you know, in a tiny way. But in
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4:55–4:59 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_105the overall picture, if she likes you,
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4:59–5:01 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_106she's going to like you. And if she
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5:01–5:04 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_107doesn't like you because you don't have a
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5:05–5:06 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_108car or you don't have a good job or you
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5:07–5:08 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_109don't have a house, then she's not a good
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5:08–5:10 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_110woman to be with in the first place. If
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5:10–5:12 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_111she's the kind of woman who's going to
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5:13–5:14 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_112reject you just because you don't have
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5:15–5:17 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_113certain things and you can't do things for
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5:17–5:19 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_114her like driving her around, then you're
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5:20–5:22 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_115better off without her. She's not a good
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5:22–5:24 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_116woman. Say goodbye to her and don't be sad
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5:24–5:27 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_117about it, because if she just wants to be
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5:27–5:30 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_118with someone because they're able to do
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5:30–5:33 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_119things for her, then I'm sorry to break
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5:34–5:37 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_120it to you, but she doesn't sound like a
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5:38–5:39 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_121very good person to be with in the first
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5:39–5:40 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_122place. One type of comment that kind of
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5:41–5:43 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_123pisses me off a lot is when people say,
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5:43–5:45 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_124of course that girl didn't like you. What
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5:46–5:48 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_125do you bring to the table? You don't have
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5:49–5:50 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_126anything to offer her. As if I have to
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5:50–5:53 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_127offer her anything. Obviously, if I like
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5:53–5:55 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_128the girl, I'm going to naturally want to
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5:55–5:57 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_129be able to do things for her, and I want
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5:58–5:59 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_130to be able to provide for her and do
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5:59–6:02 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_131things for her. But if the sole reason
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6:02–6:04 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_132that she rejected me is because I am
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6:04–6:06 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_133unable provide certain things.
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6:06–6:08 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_134Well, to be honest, she doesn't sound like
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6:09–6:11 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_135a very nice person to be with. I don't
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6:11–6:13 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_136want to be with someone just because I am
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6:13–6:15 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_137able to drive them around, or I am able to
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6:16–6:17 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_138provide them with a home, or I am able to
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6:18–6:20 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_139provide them with money and material—
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6:20–6:23 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_140materialistic goods. Obviously, I would
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6:23–6:26 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_141like to be able to provide them those
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6:26–6:28 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_142things, but if the only reason they want
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6:28–6:30 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_143to be with me is because I can provide
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6:30–6:32 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_144those things, then I don't think I want to
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6:32–6:33 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_145be with them in the first place. I want to
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6:34–6:36 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_146be with a woman who likes me for who I am
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6:36–6:39 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_147as a person, not because I'm able to drive
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6:39–6:42 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_148a car. So as a man, never feel pressured
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6:42–6:45 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_149into having to offer something or being
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6:45–6:48 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_150able to bring something to the table. Um,
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6:48–6:51 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_151it's 2020. The woman can also bring stuff
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6:52–6:55 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_152to the table. There's nothing stopping her
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6:55–6:57 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_153from being able to learn to drive herself,
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6:57–6:59 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_154being able to earn her own money, being
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7:00–7:01 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_155able to provide herself with a shelter.
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7:01–7:04 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_156So in response to those idiots who like to
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7:04–7:06 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_157say, what do you bring to the table?
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7:07–7:08 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_158Number one, the table doesn't exist. And
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7:09–7:12 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_159what I bring to it, if there was one, is
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7:12–7:14 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_160me, my personality, who I am, what I stand
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7:15–7:18 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_161for. And if that's not good enough, then
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7:18–7:21 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_162you can pee off. So my point was, after
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7:22–7:26 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_163that whole little rant, was if you are
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7:26–7:28 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_164jobless, if you are homeless, if you don't
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7:29–7:30 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_165have much money, then don't worry about
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7:30–7:33 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_166it. Those things aren't really going to
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7:33–7:34 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_167stop you from finding a good partner, and
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7:35–7:37 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_168if she is a good person, she won't, um,
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7:38–7:41 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_169she won't let those things stop her from
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7:41–7:43 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_170wanting to be with you. For the last 10
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7:43–7:45 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_171years, I've mostly been unemployed, I've
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7:51–7:53 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_174stops me from finding a girlfriend, and it
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7:53–7:56 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_175shouldn't stop you. Now the most important
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7:56–7:58 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_176thing you need to do is you need to get
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7:58–8:00 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_177yourself out there. How is your partner—
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8:00–8:02 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_178how is your potential future partner going
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8:07–8:09 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_181room playing video games, there could be
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8:09–8:11 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_18220,000 potential future mates for you.
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8:12–8:14 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_183They won't even know you exist. So you
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8:21–8:23 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_186there. And the best way to do this is by
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8:30–8:32 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_190don't like parties or clubbing, um,
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8:33–8:35 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_191things do get a little bit tricky. But
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8:35–8:37 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_192don't worry, it's not impossible. My best
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8:38–8:40 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_193advice would be to follow in my footsteps
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8:41–8:42 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_194and go and stay in a guest house in Japan,
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8:43–8:45 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_195because a guest house is a great way to
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8:48–8:51 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_197you're going to be with them on a daily
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8:54–8:55 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_199getting to know you, and you never know,
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8:56–8:58 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_200you might be able to find a girl who likes
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8:58–8:59 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_201you. And I've managed to find 4 different
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9:00–9:03 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_202girlfriends by staying in guest houses,
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9:03–9:05 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_203and I didn't even really do anything to
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9:06–9:08 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_204attract them to me. I was just there at
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9:16–9:19 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_208of a few years, by staying in a guest
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9:20–9:22 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_209house, I was able to get 1 French
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9:24–9:27 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_211Japanese girlfriend. And that's, that's
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9:27–9:30 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_212pretty good, I think, from considering
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9:32–9:36 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_214bad social skills, and I had really
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9:36–9:37 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_215stupid-looking hair back then. And I was
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9:40–9:42 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_217being in a guest house. Now, Um, just
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9:43–9:45 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_218because you're going to Japan doesn't
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9:47–9:48 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_220Japanese girlfriend. They could be from
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9:53–9:53 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_223other foreigners and foreign girls, so it
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9:58–10:01 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_225on getting a Japanese girlfriend. You can
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10:02–10:05 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_227just by living in a guest house. I think
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10:05–10:06 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_228it's a great way to meet people. And
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10:07–10:09 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_229another way to get your presence known is
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10:10–10:11 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_230by using dating websites. Obviously,
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10:11–10:13 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_231Tinder, and there's loads of other dating
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10:14–10:16 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_232websites you need to be on. Just make a
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10:21–10:23 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_235yourself. It doesn't matter if it's true
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10:28–10:30 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_238mate. And in my personal case,
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10:34–10:36 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_240really helped. But not everyone has what
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10:50–10:53 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_246Having a YouTube channel is kind of like a
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10:55–10:57 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_247cheat code. It's like living at a guest
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10:58–11:00 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_248house and being on dating websites, but
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11:01–11:03 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_249times 1,000. It's like doing all of that
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11:04–11:06 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_250stuff but on steroids. You've got tens of
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11:15–11:18 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_2540.5% of those people would be into you,
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11:19–11:22 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_255well, that's, um, that's a likelihood
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11:23–11:25 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_256that's very possible, and it just makes
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11:25–11:27 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_257the whole thing so much easier to, you
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11:33–11:35 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_260conclusion, um, go to Japan, live in a
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12:00–12:02 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_273comfortable with it, I would definitely
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12:05–12:08 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_276tips. I really believe that getting a good
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12:10–12:12 · rev_1a8b316e831a8679e290296aa9006652_278And very helpful. So if my tips help you
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