Japanese women cheat ALL the time

Hey, and welcome back to another episode

of my exciting life! Did you miss me?

I know you missed me. I know it's been a

while since my last proper vlog. I think

the last one was on Friday night,

actually. I've just been kind of busy,

you know, with all my girlfriends. Not

that I'm boasting. Anyway, so on Saturday

night we had the Halloween party which I

livestreamed, and I take it you've already

seen the video. Oh, for fuck's

sake, they're right behind me. Go away!

Anyway, yeah, after the Halloween party I

went straight to my girlfriend's place And

I stayed overnight over Saturday night and

Sunday night, and I had a really nice time

spending the weekend with her, and I kind

of miss her right now. I don't just miss

the sex, even though it was pretty good.

We did it 5 times, which I'm

pretty proud of. No, I don't just miss the

sex. I do genuinely feel like I miss her

as a human being, as a person. I miss her

company. And the, um, her body heat

is also pretty nice when it's cold.

I feel like I'm getting to know her

better. I feel like the more time I spend

with her, the more she's growing on me.

Not in like a gross fungal way. Sunday was

pretty good. We just spent the whole day

lying in bed having sex every few hours,

every couple of hours, and then we watched

Game of Thrones. Which is something I

always get my girlfriends, my new

girlfriends, to do.

Every time I get a new girlfriend, I

always end up making her watch Game of

Thrones from the very beginning. So I've

watched Game of Thrones straight from the

beginning at least 3 to 4 times now, and

it doesn't get old. I love Game of

Thrones. It's always great to watch it

from the beginning after finishing the

latest season. And we got up to episode 7,

season 1, and it was a lot of fun. It was

a bit, um, it was a bit

tricky trying to explain to her who's who

and all the history and what's going on in

Japanese because she kept forgetting who's

who. She kept forgetting people's names.

She kept saying that— she kept

saying that some people look the same. Or

they have very similar names, which I can

understand because even when I watched

Game of Thrones for the very first time,

I found it to be very confusing and I kept

forgetting who's who. And some names sound

very similar, like Tywin Lannister or

Tyrion Lannister, and I used to get very

confused as well. And— and

I'm a native English speaker, so for a

non-native English speaker, must be 10

times more confusing. On Sunday evening,

we went to a Chinese restaurant and we had

a nice meal, and then we had a nice

evening stroll for a few hours around her

neighborhood. She showed me the, the

apartment where her mother lives and her

sister lives. It was this really fancy

looking apartment, and she also told me

that her mum is in charge of a company

that employs around 600 to 700 people.

And she's pretty rich, pretty well off.

It was a company that her dad started. He

now passed— he passed away some time ago,

so I don't have to worry about meeting her

dad, which, which is a good thing.

And when we were on this romantic evening

stroll together, just the two of us, she

started telling me these stories about

Tinder, what her friends have been up to

on Tinder. She told me that she, she has

this friend from her workplace who has a

boyfriend, and she found the second

boyfriend on Tinder, and she's sleeping

with both of them secretly.

And I thought to myself, okay, that's a

pretty shitty thing to do, but it's not

that crazy. It's not that of an

unusual story. And then she told me about

this other friend that she has who is

married, has a few kids, and she's also on

Tinder, and apparently she's hooked up

with around 10 guys in the last month,

and she's just having sex with all these

random guys that she meets on Tinder

whilst also having sex with her husband.

I said, why is she cheating on her

husband? Is her husband not satisfying her

needs? And my girlfriend said, no, no,

she's having sex with her husband as well.

She's just wants to sleep with different

men at the same time. And then she said

that this friend, she got chlamydia from

one of these guys, and she accidentally

passed chlamydia onto her husband and

infected her husband. And around the same

time, her husband also caught a cold, so

my girlfriend's friend gave her husband

antibiotics to treat the chlamydia But

she, she said she pretended that they

were, uh, medicine pills to treat

a cold. I thought that was pretty messed

up. She secretly infects her husband

with chlamydia and then secretly gives him

antibiotics disguised as cold medicine.

I like her. I like that friend. I wish I

could hook up with her. She sounds like my

kind of person. And then she asked me the

same question again. She asked me if I'm

still on Tinder, if I'm still looking for

people. I don't know why she keeps asking

me this because I've already told her

before that I'm not on Tinder anymore,

that I'm not looking for anyone else

because I found you. So it's like she

doesn't— I don't know, I don't want to say

she doesn't trust me, but it seems like

she's a bit anxious or It's

like she keeps wanting confirmation that

I'm not on Tinder anymore. So I told her

I'm not on Tinder, I'm not looking for

anyone anymore because I have you, and she

seemed satisfied with that answer. It

still amazes me how much Japanese women

cheat all the time. I've met several

married women and girls that have

boyfriends on Tinder who told me that they

were interested in sleeping with a

different person. Or that they were

interested in hooking up with someone just

because they're bored, just because they

want some excitement in their life. And I

just feel like there's so much cheating

going on in this country. They even have

love hotels, which is pretty much a hotel

designed where you, you go secretly so you

can cheat on your partner. And so many

people criticize me for cheating on my

girlfriend. But in reality, half the

female population in Japan are already on

Tinder cheating on their husbands or their

boyfriends anyway. Some time ago, there

was even this Japanese lady that I met on

lang8.com, and she lives in Hong Kong,

and she has a Japanese husband and grown

kids who are nearly 20. And she does— she

takes Chinese lessons, and she ends up

hooking up with all these hooking up with

all these Western guys in her Chinese

class. She slept with a French guy, some

German guy. There's this— they're just

completely shameless about it. I think

that's all I wanted to say. Nothing else

much has happened recently. I went on a

date today with a different girl from

Tinder. She's pretty nice. She's 37,

shorter than me, fairly slim.

Well, actually very slim. She had nice

long straight black hair. She looked very

young for a 37-year-old. Nothing happened

though. We just walked around. We got

something to eat and I said goodbye.

And then later on Tinder, I sent her a

message saying, I had a really nice time.

Can I go over to your place next time?

And she said, sure, I had a really nice

time as well.

I don't know if she was serious. And then

I said, really? Can, can I hold your hand

next time I see you? And she said, sure,

haha, why not? And then I said,

okay, when can I see you next? And she

hasn't replied yet, so I'm

not sure where that's going. Also, I still

haven't paid my rent. I was supposed to

pay rent about 10 days ago now. But I just

can't find the manager. When I come

downstairs, it's around 6 PM and he's not

around. I just haven't seen him.

I tried looking for him. I knocked on his

office door. No one came out. So if he

wants rent, he needs to come and find me.

It's kind of irritating. Sometimes I feel

tempted to just pack all my stuff during

the night and sneak out so I don't have to

pay for 2 weeks of rent and then go stay

in a hotel for a few nights and then find

an Airbnb.

I haven't seen that girl yet. Akane.

It's been a few days since the

Halloween party. I haven't seen her.

Guess house is pretty dull right now. I

just— I don't feel like talking to people.

I sit in the living room and there's lots

of people chatting around me, but I don't

have any interest in talking to them. I

just feel like, what's the point? It's not

going to be interesting anyway. Right now

I kind of wish I, I had an Airbnb, an

apartment all to myself, so, so I could

have some privacy. And as you can see by

this very fashionable neck warmer, it's

getting very cold. I had to buy a beanie.

And I bought this and a new pair of

gloves. There's also this other Japanese

lady that I've been talking to. I met her

on HelloTalk. She's 40 years old, but she

won't show me a photo of herself. I keep

asking for a photo and she keeps saying,

do I have to— do I have to send you a

photo? Is it really that important? And I

said, yeah, it is kind of important. But

she also said that she wants to get

married to me so I can get a marriage

visa. So she sounds very nice and she

definitely seems interested in me

sexually. She said she'll come down to

Osaka from Tokyo sometime in November,

which I feel a bit nervous about. What if

I meet her and she looks like a man? I

actually sent her a picture of my penis

and she wasn't disgusted. She said she set

it as her wallpaper on her phone.

So yeah, there's lots of red flags with

that one, but I'm having fun chatting to

her. I haven't blocked the fat girl

with the mole on her back yet. I'm

thinking about ghosting her soon-ish. She

did send me a message saying that it was

her day off today, but I didn't reply. I

don't— I don't want to meet her again. It

was kind of gross the first time. And even

though I'm pretty horny most of the time,

I don't really want to see her a second

time. I don't think I caught anything from

her. I don't have any symptoms of STDs. I

don't have a burning sensation when I'm

peeing, and it's already been a few days

since Friday night, so I think if I did

catch something from her, I would know by

now. I think I'm in the clear, in the

green. Also, I have this suspicion that a

number of people at the guesthouse know

about my Twitch channel and my YouTube

channel, because after I left the

Halloween party, James said— the Canadian

guy said— that the Thai guy started

showing them my Twitch and they were

watching me when I was on the train

talking about, about going to my

girlfriend's place and talking to Akane.

I don't know who was watching it or what

part they saw or if they saw all of it.

And then yesterday I was talking to the

British guy who lives at the guesthouse

and I said, so what have you been doing

today? And he said, not much, I've just

been hiding in my room. I don't know if

that was a coincidence or if he was

hinting that he knows of my YouTube

channel. I don't know if he watched any of

the videos. I don't really care anymore.

No one notices me anyway.

Maybe I should just move out. There's no

one at the guesthouse who I can see as

potential serial candidates. It's already

been 5 weeks. If something was going to

happen, then it would have happened

already. Besides, I don't know if that

would be a good idea. If I did get a

serial partner at the guest house, that

would make things very complicated because

we would end up sharing a room, I guess,

and being together every day. And it was—

it would get very complicated if I was

also meeting other girls at the same time.

She'd be like, oh, where did you go today?

Where have you been today? How come you

didn't come home last night? So maybe it's

a better idea and not to get into a

relationship with anyone, anyone at the

guest house. You know how the saying goes,

you don't shit in your own backyard.