why men LOVE cheating on women

Hello and welcome back to another video

session. Today I'll be using scientific

facts and data to explain why men love

to cheat and have affairs. Something that

kind of pisses me off is when YouTubers

get canceled by the audience because they

get found out, they get caught for

cheating, and they make some kind of

apology video. Usually these apology

videos are really bad and And they don't

really make the situation much better.

One channel that comes to mind is Social

Repose. So he was dating some other

YouTuber called Jacqueline Glenn, and he

admitted to cheating after he got caught,

and he made an apology video, pretty bad

one, and his audience just turned on him

and his channel went down the toilet.

When new people find his channel and see

all the dislikes, they ask, why does

everyone hate this guy so much? And then

usually they'll get some replies saying,

oh, because he's a terrible human being.

He cheated on his girlfriend. And then

they'll probably say, oh, that sucks. Why

would he do such a horrible thing?

Cheating is so bad. And I wanted to

explain in this video why men cheat

and why it's not bad for us. First of all,

I would like to raise the question, is

cheating bad? Yes or no? I'm guessing

most people would say yes, it is a bad

thing. But what is a bad thing? Was it bad

when the Roman Empire collapsed? Yeah, it

was probably pretty bad for the Roman

people. But for everyone else who were

being conquered by the Roman Empire for

centuries, it was pretty good for them.

So when a man cheats, is it bad? Well,

for the woman he's cheating on, yeah,

it's probably bad. She's going to be sad

and cry. But for the guy, it's not really

bad. It's pretty exciting and fun. That's

why guys do it in the first place. If

cheating was this horrible, bad,

unpleasant thing, then men wouldn't do it

in the first place. Because why would they

do it if it didn't feel good and it wasn't

fun and exciting? The whole reason why men

cheat is because it is fun and exciting up

until the point you get caught. And then

it is pretty bad because everyone starts

getting angry with you. Now, if a man gets

caught cheating, he will do this stupid

act as if he's so sorry and he feels so

bad and he's guilty and he won't ever do

it again and he regrets doing it. He's

just saying that. He doesn't mean any of

that. And that's why these apology videos

are so bad. It's because they are not

genuine. They are insincere. The guy is

not actually sorry. He's just doing this

act because he wants people to like him.

In reality, he would do it again. He's

just sorry he got caught and he probably

had a bloody good time. No man would admit

to this because obviously he doesn't want

to upset people. And we live in a society

where cheating is a bad thing. Imagine if

we lived in a society where it was

perfectly acceptable to cheat and have

affairs. Imagine if we lived in a society

where women did not get sad and upset if

they get cheated on. I'm pretty sure men

would just go out there and cheat as much

as they would love to. And not worry about

it because we live in this society where

it's no longer a bad thing. The thing is,

most of us were raised and grew up in

a culture where it is a bad thing to

cheat. We live in a monogamous society,

and if you cheat whilst in a relationship,

you are crucified. But in some societies

and some cultures, that is not the case.

And even for some animals, it's perfectly

normal for the male to have multiple

female partners, and the female partners

don't start crying about it. When the

alpha gorilla male has like 10 females in

his pack, do you think the females will

start crying about it because the alpha

male gorilla is not being faithful to one

gorilla? Horses, for example, you'd have

the stallion and then he would have a

whole herd of females that he can choose

from. And the females are completely okay

with this. They don't mind. They're not

upset about the fact that the stallion

isn't loyal to just one of them. The fact

of the matter is, in the animal kingdom,

cheating is just not really an issue. So

that brings us back to the question of,

if cheating is such a bad and terrible

thing, then why do men do it so often?

And to answer that question, we have to

ask a new question: what is the meaning of

life? What is the number one most

important thing us life forms, us

creatures, us living beings have to carry

out, and that is to reproduce. The most

important thing in life is to make more

life. Every single creature and life form

and species on this planet has one really

important goal, and that is to find a

partner and reproduce. After they got all

the basics sorted out, like food and

safety and shelter, they move on to their

biggest life goal, which is to make

babies. And us humans are no different.

Now, some may argue that there's more to

life than just making babies. We have art

and we have poetry and we have painting,

and we're supposed to find spiritual

meaning and fulfillment in life and make

the planet a better place. Well, that's

all fine and dandy, but it doesn't erase

the fact that our most important task as a

living creature is to make little living

creatures to make sure our species does

not go extinct. If the number one goal was

not to make babies and people just were

like, I can't be bothered to make babies,

what's the point? Our species would not be

very successful. And if you're one of

those people who think, oh, I don't need

to have children, it's not important,

then I'm sorry to say this, but you are

probably mentally ill because it's not

normal to not want to have children. If

the entire species thought like that,

then we'd be extinct next week.

Now, there's many reasons why one may not

want to have children. It could be some

kind of childhood trauma that is

preventing you from carrying out your

prime directive as an adult member of your

species. But we're kind of getting

sidetracked here, and this could be a

topic for a completely different video.

So that brings us back to the question:

why do men cheat, and why do they enjoy

it? Well, it's simple really. They are

driven by a biological urge that is

ingrained in their DNA since the beginning

of mankind hundreds of thousands of years

ago. By having multiple female partners,

it greatly increases the chances and

likelihood of producing offspring. So the

man's brain is biologically wired and

encouraged to seek out multiple partners

to increase his chances of carrying on his

lineage. Now, this sounds great for the

man, but the problem is it's not great for

the woman. Let me explain. So a woman,

when she's pregnant with a child, she's

going to be pretty incapable of looking

after herself. A pregnant woman is going

to find it difficult moving around and

getting things done. She needs a man to

help her and to provide food and shelter

and take care of her whilst she's carrying

his child. But if the man is off having

fun with a bunch of other women instead of

focusing his attention on her, then she's

going to be a little bit worried. She's

going to be thinking, well, who's going to

help me? Who's going to look after me? So

it's in the female's biological interest

to lock down a man to look after her and

help her when she becomes pregnant. And

because of this difference in reproductive

processes, the man and woman are going to

have different ways of thinking. For the

man, it may be beneficial for him to have

multiple female partners, but for the

woman, that doesn't really benefit her in

any way. It actually does not benefit her

and it hinders her reproductive process,

which requires a man to assist her.

So the man and the woman came to an

agreement that a monogamous relationship

where they are loyal to each other would

be better For them and for the child and

for the potential offspring. And that is

how monogamy was born. Unfortunately,

even though the man may know that being

locked into a monogamous relationship is

more beneficial, he's still driven by his

biological urges. The reptilian brain,

as it's called, controls animalistic

desires, and it can be very powerful. The

reptilian brain whispers in our ears,

Hey, it would be pretty fun and exciting

if you go and sneak over to Jane's house.

And the daring male who wishes to sow his

seed nods and agrees. At this point,

he is no longer using his emotional brain,

and he is being driven by his reptilian

brain. So the answer to the question, why

do men cheat when it's such a bad and

terrible thing? The answer is the

reptilian brain knows that having multiple

partners would increase our chances of

continuing our species, and it rewards us

with dopamine. The reptilian brain doesn't

care about people's feelings and what is

socially acceptable or not. It just does

what it's programmed to do, and that is to

ensure the survival and continuation of

our species. Usually when a man is caught

cheating, everyone points their finger at

them, calls them a terrible human being,

when actually, whose fault is it that he

cheated in the first place? Maybe it was

his girl's fault for not being able to

satisfy him. Does a fat man leave the

table when his plate is full? I think not.