Why I tried to impregnate my Ex Girlfriend [37i9Ssuy-E8]

Hello and welcome back to a new video. So

today I would like to talk about why I

tried to get my ex-girlfriend pregnant. A

few years ago, I had a girlfriend in

Rotterdam and we were together for about 9

months. And you may be surprised to hear

that we never used any kind of protection.

And you might be thinking, isn't that kind

of irresponsible? What if you accidentally

had a child? Well, if that did happen,

let's just say that it would be no

accident on my behalf. Now, even though

most men would probably be freaking out at

the possibility or the idea of

accidentally knocking up their girlfriend,

I wasn't actually that bothered. I

thought, well, if it happens, it happens,

and if it doesn't happen, then no big

deal. I've had a few girlfriends in the

past, and most of them I never used any

kind of protection with. I think only one

of them made me use protection, and I

never had any accidental children with any

of them, as far as I know. So to be

honest, I wasn't really worried that much

about accidentally getting my ex pregnant

because if I look back at my past

relationship history, the probability and

chances of that happening seem to be

pretty low or even non-existent. So in the

unlikely situation that I might have

gotten her pregnant, what was my plan

exactly? I think I would have been okay

with the idea of becoming a father and

raising a child together with her. And

honestly, this may sound silly, but I

really think that she was probably the

best girlfriend I ever had and ever will

have. I've never been with a girl that I

felt so attracted to physically. And if I

was ever going to be okay with the idea of

settling down and choosing one girl to

stay with for the long term, I felt pretty

happy and comfortable with the idea of her

being that girl. And I was thinking to

myself, well, I'm over 30 now. I'm

approaching the age my father was when he

had me, and I think around this time in my

life would be a decent time to start

thinking about creating a family of my

own. And I was also a bit worried that the

relationship would come to an end because

we got off to a bit of a rocky start and

we had kind of a stable middle part. But

then nearing the end of the relationship,

things started to get unstable again, and

I could kind of sense that she wasn't very

happy being with me. We didn't really have

a lot in common. We didn't have very many

shared hobbies or any at all, really. And

I could kind of sense that the

relationship is not going to last much

longer. And I thought the best way to kind

of keep her in my life, because I really

wanted her to be in my life for a long

amount of time, I thought the best way to

link us together eternally would be having

a child together. And surprisingly, she

wasn't really against the idea of me

cunting inside of her. At first, I thought

she might be a bit angry because I thought

she didn't really want to get knocked up

and she was still too young to be a parent

and she had other plans in life, which is

what she kept saying. But every time I did

dick inside of her, she just kind of

laughed. It was a bit strange and

confusing because she would verbally

protest against it, but then physically on

the outside, her expressions and stuff,

she seemed happy with the idea. And this

actually reminded me of a similar

experience I had with another

ex-girlfriend back in 2014 in Japan. She

also seemed really happy at the idea of me

not really caring if she got pregnant or

not. I think women like it because it

seems like— it feels like the guy really

loves her and really wants to be with her

if he doesn't really care about using

protection or not. So since my

ex-girlfriend didn't really seem to have

much problem with me napping inside of

her, I carried on doing it during the

entire relationship. So after 9 months of

this activity, you might be wondering, so

where's your child? Where's your baby if

this is true? And there was no baby. It

never happened, and I don't know why. I

think there might be something wrong with

my you-know-what because I did an Sperm

test and there was definitely activity and

mobility that showed up in the results.

So it's not like I don't have any sperms.

So either there's something wrong with me

or there was something wrong with her.

Maybe we just weren't very compatible.

Maybe you think she might have been on the

pill secretly, but I don't think so

because we did discuss about her going on

the pill. And she went to the doctors and

did the tests and everything to get signed

up for them, but she ended up changing her

mind because all of these apparent side

effects from being on the pill scared her

a little bit. And to be honest, I wasn't

really sure if she was either okay with

the idea of having a child with me, or

maybe she just didn't really believe that

I was capable of making one, because I

guess you would just naturally assume that

after being together for a few months and

there's still no babies, then maybe she

also just thought, well, I guess Daniel

has some kind of problem down there and

there's not really anything to worry

about. And I guess in the end she was

right, there really wasn't anything to

worry about. But I kind of feel sad that

nothing happened and there was no child

that was created between us because I feel

like that would have been the only way to

keep her in my life. I feel kind of sad

that we separated and there's absolutely

nothing that connects us in this world,

and it's like we never even met, or it's

like she never even existed and she just

disappeared and vanished into thin air. I

guess that's why I'm making this video,

because it feels like she doesn't really

exist anywhere anymore, and I can just say

whatever I want to and there's not going

to be any consequences. So if she did get

pregnant when we were together, was I

worried about my financial situation?

Because back then I wasn't really making a

lot of money I was making maybe slightly

above minimum wage. And to be honest, I

wasn't really worried about whether or not

I could afford to raise a child because

poor people have babies all the time. And

actually, it's usually the poor families,

the poor people who have the most children

and the biggest families. For example,

when I was working at the petrol station

for only slightly above minimum wage,

there's a Bangladeshi guy there who had

like 5 kids and a wife. And he was

supporting and raising them just from that

petrol station job, plus some other food

delivery job he did on the side. So I

thought, if he can afford to have a family

and have kids just from working at a

petrol station, then surely I can afford

to have at least one kid when I'm a famous

YouTuber and livestreamer and stock market

investor. Also, I don't really feel like

kids are very expensive because really you

just have to pay for food and they don't

really eat much since they're so small.

And then also have to pay for clothing.

And then you just have to get new clothing

every few years when they get bigger. And

then maybe you need a few items like a

baby crib or a baby chair or stuff like

that. Very basic stuff. I can't really

imagine it being extremely expensive. I

think a lot of people think that having

kids is very expensive because you're

probably from America where everything's

expensive, where you've got to pay for

healthcare and education and insurance and

this and that and blah, blah, blah. But in

the UK and most European countries, most

of that stuff is all free and provided for

by the government. Education, you send

them to a public school, that's all free.

Healthcare, that's all free. I don't know

about getting shots and stuff like that.

I'm pretty sure that's free as well and

provided by the schools. I mean, you look

at the size of a baby, it's not really

that much bigger than a cat or a small

dog. So really, how much is it going to

cost to, to raise it and make sure it's

healthy and well fed and watered? I don't

really feel like it's going to be really

that expensive because you have billions

of poor people in countries like India,

Pakistan, Bangladesh. They all have huge

families and they probably make no more

than $10 a week. So I feel pretty

confident that with my multiple income

streams, I could afford to raise at least

one child. If you want the very best for

your child and you want to send them to

the top universities and get them top

grade A education and grade A everything,

then yeah, you're going to have to,

you're going to have to make a lot of

money and spend a lot of money. Money,

but that's not really necessary. I mean,

look at me for example. I never went to

university, I never really had very

expensive expenditures that my parents had

to pay for, and I turned out just fine.

So I really feel like a lot of people

overestimate the financial burden and

difficulty of having kids. I think if

you're crafty and clever and careful with

how you spend money and how to save money,

then it shouldn't really be a problem. I

feel like it could have been great if she

did get pregnant. We could have gotten

married, I could have gotten a visa to

live in the Netherlands. I could have

maybe even gotten a job if I really had

to, just like a part-time job. I could

start learning Dutch, and then we could

travel in between the UK and the

Netherlands with our little baby. We could

get our own place and raise our child

there and then visit family now and then.

I feel like it could have been a beautiful

and interesting, exciting new chapter in

my life. But unfortunately, things just

didn't really go that way. I guess in the

eyes of most women, I'm just not a very

appealing or attractive partner. They

don't really look at me and think, wow,

he's really the guy that I want to raise a

child with. And I just find that to be a

little bit of an unfair conclusion to come

to. I honestly don't think I'd be that bad

of a partner to have a child with because

I don't really make a huge amount of

money, but it's not like I don't make any

money at all. I make more money than a lot

of people do. So many people think my

income is unstable or not reliable or not

very good because I don't have millions of

views on YouTube. But I've been

consistently making a decent amount of

money for the last 5 years now, and I

reckon I've been doing this so-called

unstable, unreliable YouTube job for

longer than most people here who have had

jobs. I bet you've had multiple different

jobs in the past 5 years that you got

fired from or you quit, or you just had to

quit because it wasn't really viable

anymore. I think YouTube isn't really that

unstable as a career or as a job. I mean,

look at what happened when the lockdown

started. Nearly everyone lost their jobs

because they had to stay at home, they

couldn't work, and then so many businesses

and industries got shut down because there

wasn't any business anymore. But I was

still able to carry on making my videos,

and as long as YouTube and Google as a

company keeps doing well and keeps

bringing in the huge profits that they do

every year, then YouTube as a platform is

pretty secure and stable. I feel way more

financially secure and stable doing

YouTube as a job than I ever did doing any

kind of other job. For example, the petrol

station, where I felt like every day when

I went into work, I felt like I was gonna

have a mental breakdown and rage quit.

There were so many times where I nearly

just walked out the door because the

Nepalese coworker just pissed me off or

some annoying customer was rude to me.

And it's also really great that I can work

from home making videos. I don't have to

be anywhere or go to work or go to an

office. I would be able to just work from

home and look after the child all of the

time, 100% of the time, which would free

up the woman's time so she could be able

to get her own job and go to work and

leave the house. So we would have dual

incomes. Which would be very financially

powerful. In most traditional family

setups, the man would have to leave the

house and go to work, which would mean the

woman would have to stay at home to look

after the child. This is very inefficient.

It basically means that one of the parents

has to stay at home all of the time

without making any money and just sit

there looking after the child, maybe doing

some house chores, maybe, maybe preparing

some food. But I think that if one of the

parents is able to work from home, work

from the internet, whilst the other one

does something else, maybe outside, or

maybe they also work from home, I feel

like that's a really powerful combination

financially. I've seen so many married

couples, or maybe even unmarried couples

who have kids, and they're constantly

desperately trying to look for babysitters

because they have to go to work and they

don't have anyone to look after the kids,

and they can't just stay at home. If they

stay at home, then they won't be able to

make any money. I feel like I have a huge

advantage over those kind of couples and

those kind of parents. So sure, maybe I

don't make as much money as an office

worker or a truck driver or a teacher,

but I have the flexibility of a ballerina

when it comes to being able to devote my

time towards looking after a child whilst

also managing my financial assets. And

then there's the problem when it comes to

not being able to drive. Maybe a lot of

women think I'm not going to be a good

partner because I can't drive. How am I

going to take the kid to school? And I

don't really feel like that's a huge

problem because kids can learn from the

internet. They can learn from home.

There's so much educational material on

the internet, so you don't really have to

go to school to learn stuff. I reckon I've

learned more stuff from the internet than

I ever did from school. Then there's the

social aspects you get from going to

school, which I agree that is pretty

important. So I feel like when the child

gets old enough, they can just go to

school by themselves. They could walk,

take the bus, get on a bicycle. That's

what I used to do. So I'm kind of rambling

here, but I'm just trying to say that I

feel like it's kind of unfair that most

women just write me off as a potential

future parent/partner, just because I have

an unconventional job, which is making

videos on YouTube. And I don't want to

jinx anything, but I reckon I'll still be

making videos and doing YouTube in 5

years' time, and I'll still be making

roughly the same amount of money that I'm

making now, maybe even more if I figure

out how to get more views. And I reckon

I'll still be doing YouTube longer than

whatever it is you're doing. And I don't

want to sound like I'm bragging, but I'm

pretty sure I make more money than my mum

and my sister combined. And they probably

work way harder than I do. I mean, what

would you rather have? A guy who makes

like $40K, $50K, or even $100K a year,

but then he's never around because he's

always working and on business trips and

he's never at home? Or would you rather

have someone who makes maybe around $20K a

year, but then he's always at home and

he's always reliable and he's always there

to be able to look after things and sort

things out? So yeah, if anyone's

interested in making some babies, then hit

me up in the DMs. I feel like I'm ready to

become a father. I'm getting older and I

would like to maybe have a family before I

reach the age of 40.