Why Women Hate Me [BfT57E9WOpY]

Hello and welcome back to a new video. So

recently I've been wondering, why am I so

unpopular with women? Why don't women love

me? And as much as I would love to be able

to say, well, it's because women suck,

all women suck, it's not my fault, I

didn't do anything wrong. But after you've

been rejected by millions of women, you

kind of start to think to yourself, maybe

I'm the problem, maybe there's something

wrong with me. And the reason why I say

that I've been rejected by millions of

women, it's not because I go out on the

streets of London trying to pick them up

every night. No, it's because millions of

women have watched my channel, and right

now I'm still single, so obviously none of

them are interested. So if you're a girl

and you watch my channel and you're not

interested in me romantically, I count

that as a rejection. And the fact that

you're not interested in me is kind of a

failure on my part to show to you that I

am a good, loyal, loving, and devoted

potential boyfriend or husband. Even

though usually I like to look on the

bright side of things, I don't like to be

too negative when it comes to my own

self-worth. But when you've got over

100,000 subscribers and you've had

millions of people watch your videos and

not a single person is interested in

dating you, then I think we have a bit of

a problem here. So as most of you may

know, I haven't dated any of my viewers

since Mila. Since 2020, the end of 2020,

I haven't actually had any hookups with

any viewers. Ever since the whole Mila

thing ended, I haven't had any girls

message me saying, hey, let's meet up,

I'm interested in you romantically. And to

be honest, it kind of stings when you put

your personality on display like I have,

and millions of people have had a look,

and not even a single one of them finds my

personality attractive enough to want to

be in a relationship with me. And I start

to think to myself, wow, I must have done

something catastrophically wrong in the

way that I've portrayed myself and my

personality. If you look at most popular

YouTubers, nearly every single one of them

is dating or married to a woman who they

met through their channel, or they might

even be dating another YouTuber.

PewDiePie, iDubbbz, Chris Brawl dating

Sharla. What usually happens is most

YouTubers drift towards dating other

YouTubers, or they start dating their

viewers. It's just a natural thing that

happens because YouTubers as people are

kind of weird in the way that they've

chosen YouTube as a career path in the

first place. Most people would think,

you're doing YouTube as a job? That's just

kind of lame. That's not sustainable.

That's not a real job. For most people,

it's pretty hard to find the right person.

They've got to go on countless dating

apps. They've got to go to nightclubs

every weekend to try and get some kind of

exposure to females. But if you do YouTube

and you make kind of personality-based or

personality-driven videos and your channel

gets a bit of traction, you get a bit of

exposure to a couple million people.

That's a lot of people. Most people don't

meet a million people in their entire

lifetimes, let alone have millions of

people watch them talk about their deep

problems. And just saying, out of the

millions of people who have seen my videos

before and are aware of my existence, Not

a single one is a good match for me or

didn't think they were a good match for

me. There's not a single one person out of

that millions and millions of people that

could have been a good partner for me.

That's just sad. I mean, if you wanted to

know what it feels like to feel completely

alone in the world, then try having

exposure to millions of people, not even a

single one finds you attractive or

appealing as a partner. That makes me feel

very, very upset. And sometimes I just

find the whole thing utterly confusing

because, well, when it comes to looks, I

don't really think I'm that bad looking.

There's plenty of uglier men out there who

have hot girlfriends, and I get plenty of

matches on dating apps just from people

looking at my profile and thinking my pics

look cute and they match with me. The

problem is when things go beyond the

physical stage. The problem is when my

personality, or my true personality, is

revealed. And here is my 5-step plan to

rectifying this problem. So after being on

YouTube for over 5 years now and having

millions of views over the past, and not a

single person was interested in dating me,

I've kind of given up on the idea of

finding a suitable partner through my

channel. It's just not gonna happen. So

what I've learned through mass rejection

on my YouTube channel from all of the

females is that the problem is my

personality. My personality is not great.

Unfortunately, it's far too late now to

try and pretend to change my personality.

For YouTube. I tried it in the past and it

didn't really work. Everyone knows what

I'm like already and they won't believe

that I've changed or become a better

person. So there's no point pretending

anymore. The best way that I can improve

my chances in the dating marketplace is by

basically hiding my personality and

pretending to be someone that I'm not. So

I've had to redirect my focus towards—

back towards dating apps, which I had to

use before my channel blew up. And I found

that I've had the best results with when I

kind of suppress my natural personality.

Basically, I just try not to be the way I

am on my streams or in a lot of my videos,

and I try to be a nice guy. And a lot of

people might think this is not a good

idea. You're supposed to be yourself, not

supposed to pretend to be someone you're

not. But the problem is, when I be myself,

no one likes me. But to be honest, I feel

like my personality isn't really the

biggest problem. Before things could even

get to a level where they start finding

out about what kind of person I am on a

deeper level. They reject me before that

stage, before that process even begins.

And the question that I hate the most that

comes up every single time when you're

chatting to someone you've recently

matched is, so what do you do for a

living? And obviously I don't tell them

that I do YouTube because every single

time I've told a girl that I do YouTube,

they unmatch me, they ghost me, they block

me. They never think it's cool that I do

YouTube. Even if they don't find the

channel and they don't find out that I

also do OnlyFans, they don't find out

about all the drama that happened in the

past years, they still lose interest. For

example, recently I was talking to one

woman and she works as a doctor, and I

don't really know why I matched her

because I checked her photos again and I

didn't really find her very attractive.

So I thought, well, I'll just do a bit of

an experiment and see what happens if I be

honest this time and I tell her upfront

that I make YouTube videos. So I tell her,

and then she just stops replying, and she

hasn't replied ever since. Now, I don't

know if she found the channel and checked

stuff out. I'm pretty sure if she did find

the channel, she would have unmatched me,

but she hasn't unmatched me yet. She just

stopped talking to me, which is a pretty

clear sign that she's not interested

anymore. And I'm starting to see a trend

here where people or women that I match

with who have very serious-sounding

occupations like doctor, lawyer,

accountant, or working for some kind of

firm, it's a really bad idea to tell them

that you do YouTube because they're just

gonna think it's stupid. The kinds of

people who do those kind of jobs are

usually very serious, very hardworking,

very traditional, very boring, and they

would probably never want to date someone

who does such a silly job like making

videos on the internet. So I've had to be

very careful with what I say when I get

asked what I do for a living. If I

genuinely like the girl and I think she's

cute and I feel like there could be a good

chance with her, then I would never say

that I do YouTube. I would either say,

oh, I just work at a petrol station, or

I'm currently not doing anything, because

it turns out telling them you're

unemployed is actually better than telling

them that you do YouTube and then risk

them searching your YouTube channel and

then finding it. Turns out it's actually

quite easy to find my YouTube channel.

You just have to type Daniel and then in

Japan, or maybe Daniel Tech Gaming. You

can try it out for yourself if you open up

a new browser without any search history,

maybe go incognito and just go onto

YouTube and just try searching Daniel

Japan or Daniel Games, and you'll probably

find one of my YouTube channels. So I

experiment between telling them that I

work for a petrol station, or if I'm

feeling a bit adventurous, I might say

that I do digital art, which is

technically true because you're looking at

some of my digital art right now. And I'm

making money off it. So technically it's

not really a lie. So I guess you could say

that one of the main problems is I'm not

showing any kind of ambition to try and

learn something new to try and get a good

job, or I don't have any passions or goals

that I want to aim towards. Because why

would I when all I have to do is make

videos and livestreams and go on YouTube,

put it up onto YouTube, and I can make

some pretty easy money just doing that?

Sure, it's not a lot of money, And it's

not completely stable because some months

my views are down and I make less, but

then other months make up for it because I

get more views thanks to something

trending, and I get more views and I make

more money. So it kind of averages out and

levels everything out in the long run.

But aside from my bad personality and

questionable career choice, there's plenty

of other problems that I've noticed that

women want me to do things that I don't

really want to do. So for example, I kind

of had this— I don't even know if I can

call her a girlfriend. Technically, she

was my girlfriend because she asked me if

she was my girlfriend, and I just said,

yeah, sure. But we only went on a few

dates, and we only did you-know-what once.

I went to her house about 2 times, and we

went to the movies, went on a few dates.

So it felt like a relationship, I guess

you could say, but I had to cut ties with

her mainly because she kept nagging me to

do things I didn't want to do. So she had

a lot of friends, and she kept going on

and on about this friend did this last

weekend, and that friend said this, and I

really honestly didn't really care about

her friends at all. And the worst thing is

she kept trying to get me to talk to her

friends and try and make me meet her

friends. She kept trying to invite me to

things like some kind of picnic where her

friend would also be at, or some kind of

barbecue with her stepdad where her

friends might also be. It's just the idea

of meeting someone else's friends and then

trying to force yourself to also be

friends with them is so annoying. It's

like the last thing I want to do. And then

having to meet her family and having to be

all friendly and nice when really I just

want to go home and play video games. And

even though I wanted to see her at least a

few more times and do you know what at

least more than once, I just had to end it

with her because I was getting so annoyed

and so frustrated. I just really don't

want to be friends with someone else's

friends and then having to meet family as

well. She kept trying to invite me to some

kind of barbecue where her stepdad would

be and her sisters would be and then I'd

have to make small talk with them and

chitchat and trying to explain to them

what I do for a living and not say

anything about YouTube or anything that's

actually interesting to me. And that's one

of the biggest problems. Women just are

very— in general, women are very socially

oriented, very family-oriented. If they

really like you and they think you're

really cool, then they're going to want to

introduce you to their friends and their

family. That's just what women are like,

and I just hate having to do that.

Honestly, my ideal woman would probably be

an orphan with no parents and no siblings,

and she has no friends, and she only wants

me, she only needs me, and we are there

for each other, and we don't need anyone

else. It's just us against the world.

That's like my ideal romantic situation.

Chihiro never really tried to get me to

meet her family, and her family showed

absolutely no interest in meeting me. And

now I realize how great that was. I really

appreciated how she didn't pressure me

into trying to meet her friends or her

family. It was great. At first I thought

maybe it's a bit strange that her family

don't have any interest in meeting me,

and I felt a little bit offended. But

honestly, I don't really want to meet them

either. Every time a girl that I'm with

starts to try to get me to meet her family

or her friends, I start thinking of an

exit strategy. How do I get out of this

mess? But I guess at the end of the day,

it's just one of the many things you have

to force yourself to do in order to avoid

loneliness. And that's the problem with

being in a relationship. There's so many

things you have to do that you don't

really want to do, and it makes me

question whether it's really worth it in

the end. I've got to be ambitious. I need

to have goals. I need to have long-term

goals. I need to have a job that isn't

YouTube, apparently. I have to do

something that I hate. I have to meet her

stupid friends and family. It's just so

much hard work. And I know in the long

run, faking it and pretending to be

someone I'm not is not going to result in

anything that lasts very long. But I guess

I just have accepted the fact that I don't

really care if it lasts long or not,

because the odds are it's not gonna last

very long. I'll just enjoy it in the short

term and And just accept that it's gonna

come to an end, and when it does, I'll

just have to face that on. And I guess you

could say, why don't you work on yourself

so women actually like you for who you

are? But that's hard. It takes effort and

time that I'm not really willing to put

in, and it's just a lot easier if I just

fake it. I could technically just get a

job. I've had a job before. I could just

go apply for the petrol station job again

and then actually work at the petrol

station so I don't have to lie about it.

But then I've got to write a CV, and then

I've got to apply for the interview, then

I've actually got to get the job, And then

I've got to actually work, and that kind

of sucks. So in conclusion, reasons why

women don't like me: probably because of

YouTube mostly, and probably OnlyFans

doesn't really help either, and also not

making a lot of money even though I do

these weird things on the internet doesn't

help either. Probably if I made millions,

they would be quite happy with the fact

that I do YouTube. They'd think it's cool.

But then if that was the case, if I was

popular and likable enough to be able to

be making so much money on YouTube, to the

point that I've got hundreds of thousands

of viewers, then that probably means that

I'm likable enough for at least one of my

viewers to consider dating me because I

have so many people who actually supported

me and actually found me attractive as a

man. I hate to say it, but at the end of

the day, it's really money, isn't it,

that it all comes down to? So for example,

imagine you are a woman right now and and

you found out that I was making millions

on my YouTube channel, how would that

affect the way you see me as a potential

boyfriend? I think it would make you very

interested. And don't lie, don't pretend

that you wouldn't be interested if I was

making millions. I bet you would. Bet

you'd find me hot.