[2025-01-13] why my mum kicked me and sunny out [WK0WGqXtisY]

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God, why is my computer so loud?

Can you hear my computer fan? It's kind of

loud. Maybe you can't hear

Oh wow, thanks Jenkins,

very generous.

Okay, so I've got a lot of things to

explain.

A lot of people saying what happened

recently is fake.

I need to tell you that it's not fake and

explain what's going on.

Why is my hair so big?

I don't know,

it just bounces back out when I press it.

Look, I don't

know what that rattling is. Oh, I know

what it is. Um,

yeah, so I'm gonna assume you've seen my

last video.

Things are a bit chaotic right now.

What's that?

I don't understand this place.

All these weird sounds keep happening.

And then I cooked dinner, and for some

reason the smoke alarm went off, and then

I had to open the door and fan it out.

All I was doing was boiling some broccoli,

and I, uh, I cooked some chicken in the

oven. And then when I opened the oven

door, all the steam came out and then it

triggered the fire alarm. So that wasn't

fun. Every time you try cooking in a new

place, it's like you don't understand how

the things work.

All I did was put some broccoli in a pot

and I boiled it and steam was like

erupting out of it like a volcano. Even

when I turned it off and took it away,

all this steam was coming out. You got

volume in your hair, that's why it's

bouncy. Oh wow, thanks Jenkins. Yeah,

Sunny left. Okay, so I need to explain the

whole thing. Let me just get my bearings.

It's a long story and it's kind of silly,

to be honest. And first of

all, I can't show you where I am, which is

why I'm sitting in front of a white wall

for obvious reasons.

Okay, so Sunny came over last week to my

house, as you know, because we made some

videos and did a stream, and then How

do I begin it?

I'm just trying to think where I should

start the story.

Okay, so a couple

nights ago, my mom cooked us duck. Made us

a roast dinner, roast duck. It was really

nice. We finished eating the roast duck

and the dinner and we start collecting the

plates, bring them to the kitchen. My mum

says, leave it in the sink, I'll do it.

So we say, okay. And then we start cutting

some cake. I bought a chocolate Swiss roll

for Sunny and we take it out of

the box. We start cutting slices and we

take out one plate for our slices. And

then we get another plate and we offer my

mum some chocolate cake and she had some.

And then I think the rest of the cake was

left on a third plate. So we go upstairs

and we have a cake and we're playing

Resident Evil 8 Village and just having a

nice time. And then we go to bed and

thinking everything's okay. And then the

next day, Sunny's in the shower and it's

like 12 o'clock midday, nearly lunch. So I

go down to make lunch. My mum's at the

sink washing up, and she is— she looks

really angry, and she's like muttering

into the sink, oh, stupid people, so lazy,

not responsible, can't even wash the

plate. And then she sees me, and then she

starts having a go at me. I haven't even

said anything at this point. I'm just down

there, I'm like getting ready to make my

sandwich. And then she just starts having

a go at me, saying, you and Sonu are so

lazy. You've got to take responsibility.

You've got to wash up, do this, clean up.

It's called having responsibility. It's my

house. You have to respect my blah blah

blah, like on and on and on. And I'm

losing my temper because it's really

annoying. And I say,

I just say in a clear voice, as calmly as

I could, last night you said to leave the

dishes because you'll do it. And then she

starts going, yeah, I meant leave the duck

plates, but any plates you're using, you

two have to wash it up. And I do

wash up when Sunny is over my house.

Every time we finish eating, and we

finish drinking tea, I always wash up the

cups and the plates and I put it back

where they are. I have never just

left dirty dishes in the sink.

I hate it when there's dirty dishes in the

sink. Guess who leaves

dirty dishes and cups in the sink all the

time? My mum. There's always dirty cups in

the sink. That she leaves in there. I

would never do that. If I'm using

a plate or a cup and I finish using it, I

will just wash it and dry it and put it

back where it goes. I've always done that.

I've never left stuff in the sink. So

apparently she said there was like a plate

of chocolate cake in the sink. The plate

me and Sunny use for our chocolate plate

was still in my room. I had just brought

it down when I was going down for lunch,

so it can't have been that one. That

leaves 2 other plates of chocolate cake.

It was either my mum's chocolate plate—

cake plate. I mean, it would be so funny

if it was her own plate that she got

triggered about. Or the other option is

maybe it was the plate that the rest of

the cake was left on. So I don't

really know, like, it seems like the plate

with the chocolate cake was the trigger

for this. But that's not really the true

trigger. The actual trigger, I know what

it is. My uncle moved out and he left.

So as soon as my uncle left and he

said goodbye and he brought stuff over,

my mum's face— I could tell my mum's face

did not look happy. It's like her face

melted off her head or something.

I think my uncle leaving and moving out

has been very upsetting for her.

Not because she— oh, she loves my uncle so

much, she's gonna miss my uncle so much

because they're such great friends. No,

because every time something goes wrong in

the house, first thing she does, she calls

my freaking uncle and he comes running

over to help. Every time anything

happens in the house, like, oh, the

toilet's clogged, oh, there's a branch

sticking out, Oh, the light's not working.

Oh, I don't know how to open the attic

door. She goes straight to my uncle, he

comes over and he fixes the problem. Now

he's gone, she doesn't know who

to rely on, and she thinks she can't rely

on me because— I guess she's got a point,

because a lot of the time you ask me how

to do something and I just say I don't

know, because I don't know. Honestly, I

don't know. It's not my house. I don't

know how everything in the house works.

My motto is, if I don't know how to do it,

whatever, who cares, leave it. It's not—

it's not a problem. So every

time there's like a man in her life that

disappears, either it's my dad, now it's

my uncle, she freaks out and then she

starts attacking me. This is what drives

me crazy. She starts attacking me Because

she's like angry and scared and upset.

Even though I didn't even do anything. I

didn't even do anything wrong. And then I

just suddenly start getting insulted and

attacked and called all these horrible

things. And I'm supposed to just stand

there and take it and be like, sorry,

mother, I'll try better. I'm sorry. I'm

such a bad son, mother. It's all my fault.

No, I'm not doing that. I don't have the

patience for that. I have a short temper

too, you know. So I get mad because she

was like having a go at me even though I

said last night you said leave it there

and you'll do it. So that's what we did.

So then she starts going on all the same

insults like you're useless,

irresponsible, lazy, and then she starts

insulting Sonny as well. Sonny didn't do

anything wrong. I take responsibility

for cleaning up after Sunny. I don't— I

mean, she's my guest. I invited her

around. I don't expect her to be cleaning

and treating the house like it's her

house. So I would happily take

responsibility to clean up after her,

which I was. I don't know what this

chocolate cake plate is that she's so

triggered about. So Sunny was in

the shower and me and my mum were like

screaming at each other in the kitchen,

and Sunny was like trapped in the shower

because she was scared to come out. It was

kind of funny.

Oh, it's such a headache. Why do I have

to have a mum like this? And then she— the

most annoying thing is she starts calling

me the bully. She calls me the bully.

Can you believe? How am I bullying my mum?

And then she starts saying, you don't pay

any bills. You don't help around the

house? Uh, I literally just paid you £75

for the electricity bill a week ago. I

took her to the hospital twice when she

was sick and needed surgery. I fixed her

tax problems. There ain't nothing you can

do. Just go cut your hair. Oh, thanks.

Yeah, I spent all morning trying to sort

out her tax, and I clean the house almost

every day. Do you think my mum cleans the

house? My mum doesn't clean the house.

All she does is bleach the toilets and do

the laundry. I've never seen her use a

vacuum cleaner. I've never seen her wipe

down surfaces. I'm the one doing that.

I'm the one scrubbing Pushkin's dried cat

food off the kitchen floor. I'm the one

hoovering the landing and hoovering the

kitchen and hoovering the downstairs. And

then she has the nerve to say that I don't

do anything to help around the house. And

then she has the nerve to say I don't pay

bills. When I'm paying the electricity for

my share plus a bit extra, and then she

says I don't help and she doesn't need me.

Yeah, well, next time find someone else to

drive you to the damn hospital. Find

someone else to fix your tax problems. It

was so annoying in the morning a couple

days before this happened because she had

to pay tax on her pension or something.

She didn't know how to do it. She got a

letter saying you owe us tax, and then she

freaks out again. She freaks out over

every damn thing. It's like she's a

60-plus-year-old adult and she freaks out

over things that adults should have been

doing for decades, but she hasn't been

doing them because everything my dad just

did it for her. So she doesn't know how to

do anything by herself. So I had to try

and sort out her tax, and I was like,

Okay, so do you have an online tax

account? She says no. So I spent like an

hour trying to create her a tax account.

It was really difficult because it kept

trying to send a text message to her phone

number for an access code. For some

reason, her phone wouldn't accept text

messages from the government website, so I

couldn't figure out how to do it. She

wouldn't let me use my phone number, so in

the end, I just took her SIM card out,

put it into my phone, and then did it

again. Got the text message only to find

out she already has a tax account. And I

said, oh my God, you just said you didn't

have a tax account, but you do have one.

You made it last year. How do you not

remember? And then she was like, I don't

know. I didn't understand what you were

saying. So she just pretends she

understands what I'm saying. I'm like

talking and she doesn't understand what

I'm saying, but she doesn't say that she

doesn't understand.

So then we find out she's already got a

tax account, and then she forgets her

password to the tax account. I've got to

reset the password, which means they've

got to send a text message to her phone,

which her phone can't take messages. And

then I finally log in, and then I finally

pay it, and that's all done. It took me

like 3 hours. And then she has the nerve

to say I don't help her.

Unbelievable.

And she blows up at me because, what, a

plate is in the sink? Are you

kidding? A plate? Who cares?

Just wash it then if it bothers you so

much. I have to wash her stupid dirty cups

in the sink all the time because if I

don't, I can't use the sink because it's

full of her stupid dirty cups. And she has

her clutter. The whole house is all

cluttered with her junk everywhere,

lying all over the place. Her junk is

everywhere and she doesn't tidy up or put

it away. The whole house is like a pigsty.

You've seen it. But one unwashed

dish in the sink triggers her, as if she's

like, oh, so OCD clean. She doesn't

give a damn about keeping things clean and

tidy. She lives in a pigsty. Your dad was

codependent and an enabler. Your mom is a

narcissist. This is why they stayed

together. As a result of the dysfunctional

upbringing, you developed narcissistic

tendencies as well. Yeah, I know. Do you

finally get it or will you still remain in

denial? I never denied it at all. I've

always, always admitted it.

That's just what my dad was like. He

always just did everything for everyone,

which is nice and everything, but it means

you don't know how to do it yourself now

because he's taken care of it.

So it's just so frustrating trying to live

with my mum. Because I'm— I don't want to

fight. I'm not looking for a fight. I

don't want to fight. I just want to get

along. And I try my best to not trigger

her OCD. She's got like the stupidest OCD

about the dumbest things. Like if the gate

is not closed, even though we never had a

gate before. So I let Sunny close the

gate. I don't think Sunny knew how to

close the gate properly, so she didn't do

it properly. My mum looked at the gate and

she was like, Why is the gate not closed

properly? Who closed the gate? She's

always like looking for someone to blame

straight away. She's like trying to find

someone to blame. Who did it? Who did

this? Who did it? I need to blame them.

So then she gets triggered about the

stupid gate. She gets triggered about

Pushkin being outside. She's always

walking around screaming, Pushkin!

Pushkin! He's just a cat. Just let him be

outside and do his thing. Jesus Christ.

And then she gets triggered about the

upstairs light being on. That's what the

last fight was about. Yeah, last time

Sunny came round, she was like, last one

upstairs, turn off the light. Okay, me and

Sunny didn't go upstairs. We were

downstairs watching movies until midnight.

She was the last one upstairs, so the

light was still on until like 11 or

something. And then she's Next day she's

saying, why didn't you turn off the light?

I told you, turn off the light, Daniel.

Last one upstairs, you turn off the light.

I said, you were the last one upstairs.

Why don't you turn it off? And then she

gets mad because I answered back or

something. Even though I destroy her

stupid logic every single time, she'll

never admit it. And then she just gets mad

because I didn't bow down to her demands.

You turn off the light. Is it hard to

press a button on the wall? For fuck's

sake, it's so annoying.

And then she was calling us lazy and

irresponsible because we didn't turn off

the light. Oh my God,

why can't she just do it herself? I don't

understand it.

Oh, I've got a headache just remembering

it. So the most irritating person

to try and live with.

Why should I rush upstairs and turn off

the light? Because you're too late. She's

too lazy to do it, and then she has the

nerve to say I'm the lazy one.

Oh my God, no one has ever triggered me so

much. Trade car for van now, ND. Just live

van life. F mom. Oh, thanks.

Yeah, I'm going to get on to that part

later. So if I was like a horrible person

to live with and I was just trashing the

place and I was messy, blasting music all

night, bringing all my mates around,

getting drunk, I would totally understand

that I am unpleasant to live with. But I

think I'm pretty pleasant to live with. I

always tidy up my own stuff. I keep my

areas clean. I clean the shared areas.

What is the problem? Like a sink— I mean,

a plate in the sink that I didn't leave

there. The light being on that I wasn't

supposed to turn off because you were the

last one up there. These are so stupid of

problems. To have problems about.

It's like the dumbest things to fight

about. She has to find the tiniest— it's

because she can't find anything else to

fight about. She's got to find the tiniest

thing to nitpick about to create the

argument. I know it's not

really about those things. I know it's

because she wants respect. Yeah, she was

saying, you don't respect me. And I said,

I will never respect you. You didn't earn

my respect. I said you don't demand

respect, you earn it. And you haven't

earned it. You haven't earned my respect.

All you've done is disrespect me. If you

disrespect someone, that won't get you

their respect. Any chance Sunny was being

too loud during cereal and mom got jealous

in the Freudian perspective? No, she's

deaf. Anyway, it was about time for you to

leave. She's deaf, she wouldn't hear it.

Yeah, I don't care how much money she's

given me. Just because you give me money

doesn't give you the right to disrespect

me and be rude to me.

And then she, she starts texting Sunny.

Yeah, she starts trying to tell Sunny how

horrible I am as a person. Sunny was in

the shower room hiding. My mum's outside

on the other side of the window of the

shower room. Sorry, you're having

a tough day. Get Gibson and Sunny to spit

roast Cami. Sunny with a strap-on, Gibbo

packing his crinkled 5-incher. Yeah,

Dave Gibson should know exactly what I'm

talking about. So Sunny's in the

bathroom downstairs, shower room, and my

mum's on the other side of window going,

see Sunny, see how horrible Daniel is,

see what I have to put up with. And then

she drives off somewhere and And then

starts saying stuff like, get out of my

house, I want you gone when I'm back.

And then she's like texting Sunny loads of

stuff. And then before she leaves, I go

down into the guest room where Sunny is,

and we're both in the guest room. My mum

opens the door thinking I'm not there,

I guess, and she's like gonna try and turn

Sunny against me, but I'm there. So I'm

like, what, what do you want? She's got

this stupid look on her face like Like

this depressed, angry-looking face.

Like she was trying to tell Sunny, like,

oh, this is what Daniel's like, he's

horrible, blah blah blah. But I was there,

so she couldn't.

And then she leaves, and then Wait,

I don't know if I want to get on to the

next bit yet. Have we wrapped up the

first bit? So basically it's the same

thing over and over again. The reason I

left in 2021 for Manchester was because

same things. The reason why I left for

Thailand 2022 was because I asked where

the bicycle key was and then she started

having a go at me for being stupid and not

seeing where the key is, even though she

hid it.

And then the fights— the last big fight we

had was when I bought the car. It was

about— what

was that about? Oh, the toilet blocked up.

Yeah, so the toilet blocked up and then

she started having a go at me about that.

She's just a nightmare to live with. So I

got so mad, I started shouting at her and

I punched the door and I cracked the door.

And then I booked a taxi and I went to

that job interview and I bought the car.

So that was what? That was back in August,

wasn't it? It's like 5 months ago. 4

months ago. Yeah. It seems like every 4 or

5 months we have like a massive argument.

How is it my fault about the toilet? I

didn't put anything down the toilet that

you're not supposed to. And even she— why

is the point of always trying to find

someone to blame? If there's a problem,

just fix it. Look for a solution to fix

the problem. But no, all she does is spend

all her energy blaming people. It was his

fault. It was your fault because you

didn't do this. Well, it was probably

her fault. I, I wouldn't even be surprised

if she's the one causing problems in the

house, and then she either doesn't know or

she lies about how it's her fault because

she wants to blame someone else. Why is

everything always someone else's fault

with her? It's never her fault. If

something goes wrong, it's never her

fault. It's always Dave Gibson's fault.

Oh, it's my fault. Oh, it's Sabrina's

fault. She literally lost her car keys and

she says it's Dave Gibson's fault because

he was the one Who invited her to go to

Wetherspoons? She was the one who lost the

keys, not him. She's like, stupid Dave

Gibbs made me lose my car keys. You lost

the car keys, take responsibility. She has

the nerve to say I'm irresponsible. She's

the most irresponsible person I have ever

known. She never takes responsibility.

She never admits when she's wrong. She

never says sorry when she's wrong.

It's a freaking joke.

That's what's so annoying about it.

Uh, Sunny sent me her steak. Looks good.

I'm streaming now.

So yeah, it all just blew up

while Sunny was there. I feel like Sunny

being there made her angry for some

reason. I don't know why, but it seems

like my mum doesn't like Sunny. She's

really rude to Sunny. She wasn't like this

to Chihiro or Mila, or— uh,

Pia wasn't really there for long enough.

But there's like this weird thing where

she doesn't seem to like Sunny. Sunny's so

nice and polite. I don't know why she

would not like her,

but there's like this weird

passive-aggressiveness she shows towards

I'm with Cami on this one. What for?

What?

Because there was one dirty plate in the

sink that wasn't even ours.

I honestly don't know what this dirty

plate is because we took our plates

upstairs to my room and they were in my

room overnight and I didn't take them down

until lunchtime. But the ones she was

moaning about were already in the sink

from the previous day, so it's not those

plates. So what plates is she talking

about? The plate with the chocolate cake

on it. If there's chocolate

cake on it, it means the plate's still not

finished being used.

Just leave it there. It's my chocolate

cake. I bought it.

So I actually just don't really know what

she's talking about because, because

technically we didn't leave any dirty

dishes in the sink. We took our cups and

plates upstairs to my room to play

Resident Evil 8, and we left our dirty

dinner plates in the sink because she said

to leave them in the sink. She said leave

it in the kitchen, I'll do it. So what is

it? Do you think it's the plate?

Because we offered her chocolate cake and

she took a slice of chocolate cake. I have

a suspicion it was her own plate that had

the chocolate cake on it. I swear she's

getting dementia. I mean,

that'll be scary if she gets dementia and

she just forgets things and then starts

attacking you over the things she forgot.

That'd be scary. I would not want to live

around a person like that.

If it wasn't the plate, she would have

found something else to be mad at. Yeah,

I know. That's why it's so annoying,

because I'm trying my hardest to not

trigger her, but it's like walking on

eggshells. You don't know what's going to

trigger her. I know that the— I know not

tidying up after yourself triggers her

because she always moans about it. It's

not just me and Sunny. Every time someone

comes over and they stay for a few days

and maybe they leave a cup here or there,

she gets so mad about it. So I

know that triggers her and I don't do it

and I make sure I clean up after myself.

Because yeah, I agree, if you use a cup or

plate, you should clean it after you

finish using it. I completely agree,

which is why I would never leave an

unwashed or dirty plate or cup lying

around. So it's not like

I disagree with that, but she will still

find some silly thing to start fighting

with me over.

Are you sure she doesn't like having

guests over? She has friends come over all

the time. She does get mad when Dave

Gibson comes over. She says the same

things when he's over. She's like, he's so

untidy, he makes such a mess. He didn't

really make any mess that I noticed. I

don't know what she's talking about.

Okay, so what's the next bit?

Um, so yeah, while she was out,

um, we just started planning, booked a

place, and then we just started packing.

Packed my stuff. I took 2 backpacks and my

monitor. I'm not leaving my monitor

behind. That's a nice monitor and I'm

paying for it for 4 years. Definitely not

leaving that behind. So yeah, we took

all my stuff, as much as I could pack.

It was so awkward. After that happened, I

don't think Sunny would even want to come

to my house anymore. My mum

is so toxic. She creates such a horrible

toxic atmosphere. I wouldn't blame Sunny

if she didn't want to come again.

I can't even have a guest come over for

like one week without my mum getting mad

over something stupid.

So yeah, we got in the car, drove and

drove, and I'm starting to realize why

electric vehicles suck. It was so

annoying. So we drove for about 2 hours,

and then I, I planned to stop at this

charger, and then I realized we're not

going to make it to the charger. The

battery is going down way faster than I

anticipated because number one, we're

doing motorway speeds. Number two, the

heating is on full blast because it's

freezing. So the battery's like dying

faster than I thought. We look up a closer

charger So we go to that charging place.

It's got loads of chargers. I think,

great, plug it in, go and get some food.

We come back, the stupid thing hasn't

charged. It didn't even charge 1%. For

some reason it plugged in and it said,

okay, starting charge, and then it just

cancelled itself for some reason. So then

we went to another charger in the same

service area and I plug into that and it

charges, but it's really slow. It wasn't

even making a dent. So I pull out of that

one, I go to the Tesla Superchargers next

to it. I have no idea how to use a Tesla

Supercharger. I had to download the app,

make an account, but then on the map it

wasn't showing that there was a Tesla

Supercharger right in front of me when

there was. There's no screen on a Tesla

Supercharger. You can't pull the thing out

unless you've like done the app thing. So

I had no idea how you use a Tesla

Supercharger. So I went back to the first

charger and Plug it in. This stupid

machine wasn't on. There were 5 machines

and then this one, the screen was just

blank. So I had to get back in the car,

pull out, reverse next to the next one,

and then finally this one worked. But it

was really slow. It was just so slow. It

was charging at like 20 kilowatts per

hour. It took nearly an hour to do a 50%

top-up and we're just freezing, sitting in

the car freezing. And I'm starting

to freak out because I thought, oh my God,

what if none of these chargers work and

it's like too cold? Maybe because it's too

cold, that's why it's not charging my car.

Or maybe there's a problem with my car.

And I thought, oh my God, what if we need

to get a tow truck and we're like stranded

at this service station? I felt so much

stress. But luckily the third machine we

tried, the fourth machine actually, This

one worked.

I never felt so stressed. It worked.

It took about— also, it's really fiddly

trying to get the payments through. It's

got like a wireless contactless thing.

None of my cards seem to work. It only

works when Sunny used her Apple Wallet.

So I had to add all my cards to my Apple

Wallet now to be able to pay for these

stupid charging things. And then we drive

another hour.

Stupid battery is like down again,

down to like 40%, 30%. Pull into

another charging stop and thank God this

one actually works properly. It's grid

serve, charging at like 40 kilowatts per

hour, which is pretty fast. Yeah, we sit

there for like half an hour and it tops up

and it's fine and everything.

And then we get to the place we're

staying, got half battery left,

everything was great. And then the next

day we headed out to go some places and

get shopping, got to charge it again, got

to sit in the stupid charging place for

half an hour. It takes half an hour to do

like a 50% top-up, 60% top-up.

So sitting again in a car park, 40

minutes.

Bored. That's the problem with it. You

want to go places far away, it's already

going to take a lot of time to get to

these places because they're hours away,

but then you've got to also add in the

time you've got to charge. So if it takes

2 hours to get somewhere, it's actually

going to take 3 hours because you've got

to sit there in the stupid car park

charging. And then today I

took Sunny home and she

lives,

she lives about an hour away from where

this place is. So obviously I had to

charge again, otherwise I wouldn't make it

back. So we head out and then we stop

about halfway, stop at a charging place,

sitting there for about 30 to 40 minutes.

Back at 100%, head out, I drop her off

after about an hour of driving. Now I've

only got about 50% left,

and now I've got to drive all the way back

here. So I've got to find another charging

place that's on the way here. I get there,

I've got 36% battery left, plug it in,

gotta sit in a stupid car park for 40

minutes again. Oh my God. And then the

funny thing is the place I'm staying in

now is 40-minute drive away from the

charging place. So I've just topped up and

I've got here, but now I've already used

20 miles worth of my battery. So now I'm

back down to like 70%. Oh my God,

it's a nightmare having an electric

vehicle when you can't charge it at home.

When you can charge it at home, it's great

and everything. But obviously I can't

charge it here because there's no way to

get my car near the window so I could plug

Yeah, it's just, just not great. Sunny

said she would never get an electric car,

and I felt a bit sad that,

yeah, didn't really do a good job at

selling EVs. And then she said,

yeah, let's not do the road trip to the

Alps. Oh my God. Can you imagine trying

to drive to the Alps in freezing

temperatures where you need the heater on,

which is going to kill the battery and

you're doing like 700 miles? I would

have to stop every 100 miles. We would

have to stop for like 7 chargers and each

charge taking about 40 minutes. It would

take like 4 hours worth of charging,

stopping at charging places, and then it's

all going to be in French. And imagine if

something goes wrong, like my cards don't

work because it's English cards and it's

in France. We have a problem. I don't know

how we'd get that sorted out. Yeah, I

would be really nervous trying to drive my

car to the Alps. The cold is a problem

because you need the heating on,

otherwise we just freeze. But the heater

uses so much battery. I don't mind being

cold. On the way back, I just had the

heating off and the battery lasted longer.

But yeah, Sunny's just freezing and I feel

like I can't make her freeze.

It is kind of annoying. Also, it's not

even cheaper. Every time I charge my car,

it costs like £20. It's literally

the same price as buying petrol.

Yeah, kind of annoyed.

A petrol car would be better, to be

honest, and cheaper.

But I bought the electric car thinking I

was going to do Amazon Flex and plug it in

at home, not drive 300 miles and

then not have a way to charge it at home.

Now I've got to find a place to rent that

has parking where I can actually charge my

car. Otherwise, I don't know how I'm gonna

do Uber Eats. Okay,

so part 3 of the story: renting a place.

I'm a bit nervous about renting a place

because on the websites they

seem pretty strict about the requirements.

Like, they say stuff like Like,

proof of income of over £29,000

a year required. Reference required.

I don't have a reference. I've only rented

in one place in my whole life and it was

Manchester and I kind of trashed the place

and I don't think they would give me a

good reference. I mean, it's worth a shot

because if you say not having a reference,

it would be a hard no. Then I mean, might

as well give it a try. Do you think my

Manchester real estate would actually like

look up my name and see if they've got

notes? He was a bad tenant.

So we applied for a— we phoned up a bunch

of places and they cost about £700 to £900

a month. Found some nice places. There was

a house There was like a converted barn,

there's a bungalow with really nice views

of the countryside, only for about £800 a

month. Um, but they all said they were

fully booked for viewings and they'd let

us know if any viewings open up. We phoned

like 6 places, 7 places, and they all just

said, we'll phone you back. So I don't

know. And then I'm also nervous about the

reference thing. I don't have any

And I don't know if I can do my trick that

I did in Manchester. So in Manchester,

um, when I phoned them up,

I would just start off by saying, I don't

have a reference or proof of income, can I

just pay 6 months rent upfront? And they

said, sure, that's fine. And because I

paid the rent upfront, they didn't really

care about reference and that stuff. But

we tried that today, and one of the women

on the phone was like, oh no, can't do

that anymore. That won't wash. That won't

wash these days. And apparently,

according to AI, there's a recent change

in the renters' right of bills where

you're not allowed to pay rent upfront

anymore. It's to create a fair rental

marketplace and to make sure landlords

don't exploit tenants by demanding upfront

rent. So apparently it's like a new thing.

You're not allowed to pay rent upfront.

So I don't know if my trick's gonna work.

Maybe not all real estate agents are so

strict and they'll be like, oh, it's fine.

Yeah, pay 6 months upfront and we won't

need a reference. Because the only reason

to have reference and background checks

and all that stuff is because they want to

make sure they're going to get the rent.

If I just give them all the rent upfront,

they shouldn't need all that. It's so

stupid. Like, how can you rent a place if

you need a reference? Well, how did you

get the reference in the first place then?

How would I afford that? Well, I'd have to

sell my stocks and, um,

yeah, I have to sell my stocks.

Also, Uber Eats, I'm a bit worried about

because this area is like really rural.

It's really countryside.

I drove all the way to Sunny's house with

my Uber Eats on and not a single Uber

Eats popped up because it was just middle

of nowhere. Um, but on the way back I did

drive through this little town and my Uber

Eats was pinging off. Had Tesco's,

Morrison's, Subway pinging off. So I might

try it tomorrow, give it a go.

But then I don't have that home charging

now. So if I'm driving

100 miles doing deliveries and I've got to

public charge it back up to 100%,

that's going to cost me like £20. So

anything I make, you got to minus £6 and

then £20. So let's say I make £80. I've

really only made about £55.

And making £80 on Uber Eats is hard. It's

like five or six hours, possibly more.

You got to do six, seven hours shift to

make eighty pounds, and then at the end of

the day, you've only got fifty-five pounds

to show for it. It's not good.

Oh well, thanks. Sadly, it's better for

you to stay with mom. Sad face. I can't

stand her. I honestly cannot stand. My

mum. She is so irritating,

so irrational. Nothing she says ever makes

any sense. Her logic is so dumb and

she's so short-tempered and she— it's

like she doesn't understand English. You

can't have a debate and explain your

reasoning because she just won't put any

effort into listening to you. She's like,

Oh, I don't understand what you're saying.

Shut up. It's my way or get out. She's

like so inflexible,

but she can't see how stupid what she's

saying is. She doesn't have the

intelligence to see how dumb she is.

She's, you know, that saying— now

I forgot the saying.

Something like the scariest people are the

people who think they're clever when

they're really dumb. Money-making idea:

turn Dave Gibson into an online gimp and

milk that MF for dollar on off. It doesn't

matter that his knob is crinkled and

small. She's watching this stream, will

tell your uncle about it. Yeah, well,

my uncle should know full well what it's

like having a toxic abusive parent, so he

should be on my side. I don't know why he

came over to my house, so I'd having a go

at me. I'm not the one in the wrong.

My mum's an idiot. Oh, it's her house,

so she can do what she wants. Yeah, she

can fuck off then. Just because it's your

house doesn't mean you can be horrible and

toxic when I'm trying my

best to,

to please her. It's not my fault

she explodes over one stupid spoon in the

sink. Now,

I'm really trying my best because,

I mean, I did want to move out at some

point because this whole thing with Sunny

is not sustainable because of the

distance. So at some point I wanted to

move out anyway. And move nearer to Sunny

and get my own place. But I didn't want it

to happen like this. I wanted to like

build up some savings.

Also, I can't pay my mum the money back

now because I need the money. I was gonna

pay my mum off in March, sell my stocks,

save up a bit more money to get the

£8,000, and then just pay her off.

I'm not doing that now because I need the

So if she wanted me to pay her back,

maybe she should have been a bit nicer.

She keeps demanding respect, but she

doesn't show any respect to me. You can't

just demand respect. You got to earn it.

You don't get people's respect by treating

them like crap.

I don't respect her at all. I don't care

if she birthed me. I didn't ask to be

birthed, did I? I wasn't like, oh, please

pick me, I want to join the world.

She made me join the world involuntarily

against my own will. Why don't you rent

together with Sunny? She can be on a

contract and provide reference or

something. Well, the problem is Sunny

doesn't have a reference either because

she's never rented in the UK. She also

doesn't have a job yet.

Um, I don't know, she's gonna have an

interview this week, so I guess we'll see

if she'll get the job or not.

Oh God, everything's just Difficult.

It's all just so difficult.

I'm back to using my credit card because I

can't keep using my overdraft. My YouTube

money doesn't come until 10 days, and I've

already used £500 on my overdraft. So as

soon as I get my YouTube money, that's

minus £500 taken straight off. My car

payment is going to be in 2 days, that's

£190.

So I'm going to be in overdraft minus £700

in under 2 days, and I don't get my

YouTube money until about 10 days. So I've

got to use my credit card as much as I

can, otherwise I'm going to max out my

overdraft and I will have no money to use

at all. But I

think I should be fine because I've done a

week's worth of shopping, groceries,

so I shouldn't have to buy food again. I

think I won't really drive much now

Sunny's gone back home,

apart from trying to go out and do Uber

Eats or visiting. If I get a viewing,

then I'll have to drive there.

What if I actually end up having to live

in my car?

So I've got this place booked until

Saturday, so I've only got 5 days.

I can't get a place in 5 days.

They're also fully booked with viewings

already, so I'm gonna have to start

looking at a new place. To, to live in,

like a hotel, and put it on the credit

card whilst I look for places to rent.

This place has walls the same color as

your bedroom. Yeah, it was all fake. I'm

still actually in my bedroom.

That's what you guys want to believe,

isn't it? Always saying all my new video,

all the comments are like, oh, this is

fake. This is fake. It's not fake.

Why do you keep thinking I fake stuff?

Yeah. Okay. I faked a couple stuff back in

2018, 6, 7 years ago.

It was 7 years ago. I did it a

couple times. I haven't done it since.

How long are you going to keep bringing it

up? Yeah, okay, I faked a few videos back

in 2018 and '19 and 2020,

uh, but since then I haven't faked

content.

I can't show the place because I don't

want to dox where I am. And give myself

further problems, which is a

bit annoying because I would love to show

you the place. It's really nice.

I don't know what to do now. So tomorrow I

think I wake up early, I try and phone up

a bunch more places before lunchtime,

then I'll have lunch and I'm going to head

out after lunch to the nearby town,

try and do some Uber Eats, see if it's any

good. I think there's

a McDonald's nearby. It's just like such a

rural countryside kind of place.

I got to drive nearly an hour to the

closest town.

I'm in like a village right now. There's

no Uber Eats here.

Oh, thanks. You can't

say mom is petty and he now sues you for

debt owed. There's no legally binding

contract. Baby boy, baby girl, baby day.

You know it takes forever to get your

reputation back on YouTube. Your audience

doesn't like you. So of course they will

think you are lying and faking.

Well, it shouldn't take 7 years for you to

stop bringing up the fake stuff over and

over. Yeah, well, you'll see

once I get my new place and it's rented.

Never going back home again. My mum never

changes. She just never changes. She

always thinks she's right. She never tries

to understand other people's perspective.

And then she has no ability to listen.

She doesn't know how to listen. She talks

a lot, nonstop. She never shuts up, but

she never listens to people.

I remember back in 2021 trying to— we were

trying to figure out how much the monthly

costs of the house are. So She would know

how much money to ask me. We agreed on

£280 a month, which covers

the bills, the food,

and a bit extra. Why not just camp in

your car? Get an inflatable mattress.

Might be good content too. Homeless in my

£20K electric car. Like that guy who got

fired from Tesla. Nico Murillo, and now

lives in his Tesla Model 3. Yeah,

maybe. I mean, that would be the last

resort. I could just go sleep in

the McDonald's car park and then wake up

in the morning and then switch on Uber

Eats. Yeah, so what was I saying? Yeah, I

remember back in 2021 we had this argument

about how much money I should be paying.

My sister calculated it all and we came to

an agreement of £280 a month. Which I

agreed to. And then when the heating oil

bill came, which was like £1,400 a month,

my mum wanted us all to chip in,

um, a third for the heating oil. And I

said, no, that's already

priced into my £280 a month that we agreed

to. And my mum just

doesn't understand how— yes, it's a

big amount of money we're paying for the

heating oil all at once, but it's gonna

last half a year. So you divide

the lump sum by 6 months,

which would be, what, a couple hundred

pounds? And then you divide that by a

third, And that will be how much I have to

pay, which is already priced in to the

£280 that we agreed that I would pay you.

And she just— obviously that's too much of

a complex sentence for her to understand,

and she just starts yelling. Yeah, pay me

now! Oh, you never pay me!

She's got no brains.

The £280 I'm paying you It's for

the bills and the heating oil. Why do I

have to pay on top of that?

Yeah, it's like trying to explain simple

maths to a brick wall.

And then I say, well, how long does the

heating oil last? And then she goes, I

don't know.

She doesn't know anything about her own

house. How do you not know how long the

heating oil lasts? Just because there's

more people in the house doesn't mean the

heating oil gets used faster.

It's not like, oh, there's 10 people in

the house, that means we're all absorbing

the heat, which means the heating oil is

put to work more. Doesn't work like that.

You're still gonna heat the house whether

I'm there or not, aren't you?

To switch off the radiator in my room.

Heat is on more. To be

honest, I don't really put the heat on

because I don't get cold much,

and she's at home all the time anyway.

It's not like she goes out much. Got my

electric blanket as well.

She's still gonna be paying the same

amount for the heat. I mean, maybe a bit

less because I'm not there to use the hot

water in the shower, but it's not like I'm

in the shower for an hour every time. I

have a 5-minute shower every day,

barely even 5 minutes. I'm really quick in

the shower. I'm like,

wash my willy and I'm out. I, I don't

like having a shower. I get it done as

quickly as I can. Oh well,

thanks, Erringcan.

I need all the pennies I can get.