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She Rejected Me -(

2020-02-23 · 12 min

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  1. I want

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  2. to film it. Looks nice. Which one do you

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  3. So I have some bad news about my date.

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  4. She's not really replying to my messages.

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  5. After I came back home from the first

    Segment details1:45–1:47 · rev_b66a694542012bc8d7791cd906d4185f_4
  6. date, I just sent her a quick message

    Segment details1:48–1:49 · rev_b66a694542012bc8d7791cd906d4185f_5
  7. saying that I had fun, good night, and

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  8. then she didn't reply until the next day

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  9. around 4 PM. She just said I had fun too,

    Segment details1:54–1:57 · rev_b66a694542012bc8d7791cd906d4185f_8
  10. smiley face. And then I waited about 4

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  11. hours and then I asked her, what did you

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  12. do today? You know, just to start a

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  13. conversation, just to make conversation.

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  14. And she didn't reply. I waited one entire

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  15. day for her to reply and she didn't reply.

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  16. So I decided to send her another message.

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  17. I asked her when we could go on another

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  18. date and I also said, I really like you,

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  19. smiley face. And she hasn't replied since

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  20. I sent that message, so I'm thinking

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  21. either she hasn't seen it yet, or she saw

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  22. it and she's not interested in me. Maybe

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  23. it was a bad idea to send her another

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  24. message so soon before she even replied to

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  25. my first question. It's just so confusing

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  26. because some people are saying, oh, I

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  27. should message her straight away saying

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  28. that I'm interested in her and that I want

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  29. to go on another date, and then some

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  30. people saying, oh, you should play it cool

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  31. and you should wait a while so you don't

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  32. look desperate. But if I don't message her

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  33. straight away, then it seems like I'm not

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  34. interested. But if I message her too soon,

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  35. then it seems like I'm desperate. Uh, so

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  36. why is it so complicated? I just get kind

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  37. of impatient when I message people and

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  38. they don't reply straight away, or I have

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  39. to wait a day or 2 days until they reply.

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  40. It just makes me feel like they're not

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  41. interested in talking to me. I just don't

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  42. understand how someone can be so busy that

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  43. they don't even have 2 seconds to reply to

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  44. a message. I made so many mistakes during

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  45. this whole experience. Number one, um,

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  46. I messaged her on Tinder instead of her

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  47. phone number. She gave me her phone number

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  48. when we were on the date, which gives

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  49. me the impression that she was interested

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  50. in me. Otherwise, why would she give me

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  51. her phone number? So I should have

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  52. messaged her directly using her phone

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  53. number, but for some reason I messaged her

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  54. on Tinder instead. And when I matched her

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  55. on Tinder, I actually had my gender set to

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  56. woman because Well,

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  57. I had this idea last year where I was

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  58. going to pretend to be my ex-girlfriend on

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  59. Tinder and then message guys and see if

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  60. there were any funny messages. But there

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  61. were no funny messages and I scrapped the

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  62. idea for the video. So I switched that

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  63. fake Tinder account back to my real

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  64. account and I changed the pictures back to

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  65. my pictures, changed the description back

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  66. to my original description, but I forgot I

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  67. forgot to switch my gender back to male,

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  68. so I matched her as a woman. Now, I don't

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  69. know if she thought I was a woman when she

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  70. matched me. I don't know if she even

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  71. noticed that my gender was set to woman in

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  72. the first place. People were saying to me,

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  73. oh, she only matched you because she

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  74. thought you were a girl and she's

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  75. interested in girls and she's not into

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  76. guys. But then she could just have You

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  77. know, the settings on Tinder lets you

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  78. search for men and women. Maybe she had

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  79. that setting set to everyone, so she was

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  80. just matching men and women. I know I look

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  81. kind of feminine, but I'm pretty sure

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  82. people wouldn't mistake me for a girl if

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  83. you saw my pictures. I mean, look at me.

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  84. I don't look like a girl, do I? I know I'm

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  85. not exactly the most manly looking man,

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  86. but I think most people would realize that

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  87. I'm a guy if you saw my photos. Plus, my

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  88. name is Daniel. That's a guy's name.

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  89. Well, I guess there's nothing I can do

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  90. about it now. I sent the messages. I can't

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  91. unsend them. I just have to be patient,

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  92. wait for her to reply. Maybe she will

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  93. reply tomorrow or the day after.

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  94. Maybe she's just busy. Well, I guess

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  95. there's still some hope because she hasn't

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  96. unmatched me on Tinder. If she was really

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  97. uninterested, she could just unmatch me.

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  98. Yesterday I got a nice new pot. The bad

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  99. thing about this Airbnb is he didn't give

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  100. me any kitchen equipment, any cooking

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  101. equipment. There's no frying pan, there's

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  102. no knife, there's no pots. So I walked

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  103. around a bit and I found this market, and

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  104. I walked in and I had to speak to this old

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  105. Korean lady. She was really friendly, and

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  106. I got to practice my Korean a bit, and I

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  107. got this cheap pot for about $9, I think.

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  108. Look, also has a lid.

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  109. Very nice. So I can get back into cooking.

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  110. Hello and welcome back to another episode

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  111. of Cooking with Daniel. Just went shopping

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  112. and I got some smoky bacon chips.

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  113. They're crisps, not chips.

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  114. I got these mushrooms,

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  115. and I got these sausages—

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  116. Kentucky sausages.

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  117. And I got some kimchi because I'm in

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  118. Korea, and I got some army

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  119. stew flavourings. It's like a

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  120. liquid.

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  121. And finally, I got some tofu.

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  122. And this all cost about $4 in total. So $4

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  123. for a meal, pretty good, I think. Now it

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  124. should be a fairly easy meal to make. We

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  125. just have to put everything into the pot

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  126. and then boil it.

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  127. Now my whole room's gonna stink of kimchi.

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  128. Wonderful. What's this?

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  129. Sausages?

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  130. Why does

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  131. everything have to be so hard?

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  132. And then we cut the sausages into the

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  133. Hmm,

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  134. looks pretty good.

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  135. Oh no.

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  136. And then finally we add the sauce.

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  137. Not sure if I should add all of it or just

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  138. half. Hmm.

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  139. And there we have it, kimchi stew. Very

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  140. easy to make, very cheap.

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  141. Here, have some mushrooms.

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  142. Mm-hmm, tastes like

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