I'm just looking for love

Hey, so ever since I made that video

saying that I'm going to Japan to meet

this woman, some people have been calling

me a sexpat. Now, to my understanding, a

sexpat is someone who goes to other

countries just to have sex with random

women. I admit one of the main motivations

of going and meeting this woman is to have

sex, but that isn't the only reason I want

to go. I'm not just looking to have sex.

I also want to feel love. I want to love

someone. I want to find someone who loves

me back. I'm actually interested in having

a serious relationship with this person,

not just going over there, having sex,

and then coming back and never seeing her

again. And I don't see what's wrong with

that. Is it wrong for me to want to find a

woman to love and love me back and have

sex with? What's wrong with that? There's

nothing wrong with that. If all I wanted

was sex, I could just go and get a

prostitute. I wouldn't fly halfway around

the world just to meet someone just to

have sex. You know, I could just go to

London and pay someone to have sex, but

that's not what I'm looking for. The

problem with a prostitute is that, sure,

you get your physical needs, your physical

desires satisfied, but You don't get your

emotional desires satisfied. There's no

love or affection when you use a

prostitute. If you used a prostitute,

you'd have sex and then you'd finish, and

then she would leave you, get changed,

and leave for her next customer. And then

I'd just be lying there in the fetal

position crying to myself all alone. I

don't want that. I want to have sex with

someone that I love, who loves me back. I

want to be in a loving and affectionate

relationship with someone. People keep

saying, why don't you find a girl in your

local area? Like I said before, I don't

find the girls in my local area attractive

at all, and neither would you if you saw

them. You know, there was a reason why the

British Empire was so successful and

large. Do you know why? It's because the

men had to go all around the world, had to

colonize all these different countries to

look for attractive women, because there

are none here. Sex can be a very powerful

motivator. So maybe in a sense, I'm just

following my colonial ancestors' footsteps

in the search for love. Or maybe I'm like

that fish. You know, there's that fish.

Is it the salmon that swims really long

distances just to reproduce and then it

dies? There's nothing wrong with going to

other countries looking for love, looking

for sex. I don't, I don't understand why a

lot of people associate a lot of

negativity and they even created this word

sexpat. What's wrong with wanting to have

sex? It's natural. It's completely natural

to want to have sex. It's just like food

or water. Okay, it's not like you're gonna

die if you don't have sex, but For a lot

of people, being sex deprived can make you

a very unhappy person, and it doesn't lead

to a fulfilling life. You know, if there

was no sex, none of us would even be here.

And a lot of people were concerned that I

was being catfished, another word I had to

look up the other day. No, I'm not being

catfished. We Skyped, we video Skyped 2

days ago and yesterday for about 4 to 5

hours, and yes, it is her. She's a woman.

She's not some fat guy in Alabama, or

Alabama, or How the fuck do you pronounce

that place? Also, I'm absolutely loving

being able to speak Japanese again. I

haven't actually spoken Japanese since my

last girlfriend, which was over 2 years

ago now, and I forget how much I love

speaking Japanese. I spent like 5 to 6

years of my life studying that language,

and to just not be able to use it, to just

throw it away, feels kind of like a waste.

Okay, so I'm not really interested in

anime or manga or Japanese drama

or TV anymore like I used to be. I

actually have zero interest in that stuff

now, but I still love speaking the

language. It's a lot of fun. A lot of

people wonder, why do I always sing about

Japanese women instead of any other women

in the world? And that's because, let's

take for example, imagine if I got a

girlfriend from Cambodia or Thailand and

they were like, Daniel, let's go to

Cambodia, let's go to Thailand, my home

country. To be honest, I don't really have

any interest in going to those countries.

I'd be like, ugh, do we have to? Can't we

just go to Japan? I'd find it very

difficult to be interested in those

countries. I wouldn't have any interest in

learning their languages or learning about

their culture. But I love going to Japan.

It's my favorite country next to England.

Apart from England and Japan, I can't

really imagine myself living anywhere else

in the world. There's just no other

countries that really interest me. I know

a lot of you are saying that this is a

really bad idea and I shouldn't do this

and I'm an idiot if I go through with

this, but I don't know. You can never tell

if I don't actually go there and meet her

and see how things turn out. How am I— how

am I going to tell if it's going to work

out or not? You never know. I might go

there, meet her, things might go really

well, and it might turn into a really good

relationship. If I don't take risks like

this and if I don't give things a try,

then How am I supposed to find happiness?

I guess you could say, but Daniel, you've

done this before. You've gone to Japan,

you've had relationships in Japan, and

it's never worked out. That's true, but I

don't really feel like this is exactly the

same. Okay, it's similar, but it's a

completely different person. It's a

different situation. They're different

circumstances, and you never know, it

might turn out differently. So the plan's

actually going ahead. I found a really

nice plane ticket that I think that it's a

good one to buy, and I'm looking at hotels

and what we're gonna do, how many days I'm

gonna stay there. I've already booked my

holiday with my company. I had a chat with

my boss about it, and she said it was

okay. She was a bit surprised. She said—

she said the same thing everyone else did.

She said, how come you're so shy and

quiet, but you're happy to go to another

country just to meet a stranger you met on

the internet? And I always find that

question hard to answer. I'm not really

sure myself. I guess the idea of meeting

someone who I could be in a serious

relationship with gives me courage and the

confidence to be able to do things like

this. If I go over there and it turns out

to be a disaster, then at least I have an

interesting story to talk about. That's

the fun thing about doing YouTube. Even if

you have negative things happen to you,

they turn into great stories later. Oh,

if you wanted to hear the story about how

I nearly got married to my last girlfriend

and how that ended in disaster and I got

an STD, You can click here for that video.

I think it's here. It might be somewhere

over here, or maybe in the middle. I'm not

sure where I'm going to put it yet.