What I EXPECT from my next Girlfriend

Hi, so the winter has finished and

spring's here and summer is coming soon.

The sun's out, the weather's getting

really nice, and I'm feeling a lot better.

Recently I have been kind of down. I've

been in a dark place mentally and I

haven't felt so great, but I feel like

Times are changing, moods are shifting,

and I'm starting to, starting to look

forwards to the summer and start to think

about what I want to do, where I want to

go, and it would be kind of nice if I

could meet a nice girl again. As you may

know, I was in a relationship about 4

months ago in Rotterdam, and things didn't

go extremely well, and I feel like enough

time has passed to officially announce

that I'm 100% over that relationship and

over my ex, and I'm ready to move forwards

into the future and find a new partner.

And I thought I'd just make a video kind

of like announcing what I'm looking for,

what I expect, and, you know, what kind

of relationship I would like in the future

to try and avoid another disaster

happening like last year. And I'm guessing

some people might be worried because in

the past I have had a few bad experiences

where After I met the girl, like the

Turkish girl and the German girl,

afterwards I kind of said some bad things

about them, and I've learned from those

experiences, and I feel like I've matured

and that won't happen again. I also don't

have a Discord anymore, so that means I'm

not going to have a place where I can talk

behind your back in case that does happen.

So I don't really have stuff like Discord

like I did before, so that automatically

reduces the probability of me saying

mean things about you behind, behind your

back by quite a lot, which I think is a

big improvement. So what do I expect from

my next girlfriend, and what am I looking

for? It really isn't that complex. It's

pretty simple. First of all, most

importantly, I expect to feel attracted to

you, and I expect you to feel attracted to

me, because if there's no attraction,

mutual attraction to each other, then it's

just not going to work. A lot of people

say personality is so important, and yeah,

I guess it is, is, but also physical

appearances and physical attractiveness is

also pretty important. I don't care how

great your personality is, it's not going

to matter at all if I don't feel very

attracted to you. And you also have to

feel attracted to me, otherwise, well,

then I don't know why else you'd want to

be with me. That'd just be weird if you're

only with me because of my money or

because of I don't know what other reasons

there would be, but if you're not with me

because you feel attracted to me, then I

don't feel like I would want to be with

you anyway. So yeah, obviously physical

attraction is very important. Some

mistakes I made in the past and I have

learned from since then and would not

repeat again is that I met viewers or I

met girls and I didn't really feel very

attracted to them, but I still took them

back to my hotel room and they ended up

staying the night, several nights, and And

I don't know if you've experienced this

before, but being stuck in a hotel room

with someone you're not very attracted to

and don't really have anything in common

with is one of the worst experiences I've

ever had. And if possible, I would like to

avoid that from happening again. So my

promise would be, if we meet up, I won't

take you back to my hotel room unless I

feel very attracted to you or unless you

really insist on coming back with me. I

just really don't want to be stuck in

another situation again where a girl comes

back to my hotel and we're stuck there for

a few days and I'm not really into her

very much. And this is something that kind

of scares me quite a lot. And I have

actually turned down a few girls in the

past. Last year, there was this Russian

girl who was willing to come all the way

to Korea to come and stay at my hotel.

And I looked at her photos and I just, I

just didn't really feel like I couldn't

see that I would feel very attracted to

her. And I had to tell her, no, sorry,

but I don't want another Turkish Girl

Number 2 happening where you're stuck in

my hotel or Airbnb and I don't really have

many feelings for you. So next time, I

think we should just go on a date and hang

out for a few hours, see if there's any

kind of chemistry, see if I like the way

you look. And if I do, then maybe we could

think about going to the next step, which

involves Now

when it comes to interests, yes, ideally

it would be nice if we had things in

common, but I've gotten to the point in my

life where I've kind of just accepted the

fact that not many girls are gonna be

interested in the things I'm interested

in. I have lots of hobbies that I don't

think a lot of girls would be interested

in, and if I just say to myself, I'm never

gonna date anyone unless she likes all the

things I like, I think I'm just gonna be

alone for the rest of my life. So I've

kind of given up on the fact— I've given

up on the idea of trying to meet someone

who is interested and into all of the

things, or even half of the things I'm

interested in, because if I keep trying to

cling on to that, I feel like nothing's

gonna happen. So I don't really feel like

it's very important that we have loads of

common interests and common hobbies. It

would be nice ideally, but for me

personally, it's not really, really

important. It'd be nice if, you know,

have a few things in common. And,

you know, there's obviously major, major

things that we have to agree on. For

example, I'm not a religious person, so I

don't think I'd get on well with another

religious person. I'm also a very logical

and scientific-minded person, so I'm not

really going to click that well with

someone who's really into magic and voodoo

and UFOs and magical spirituality

kind of stuff. I'm not really going to be

too enthusiastic about those topics.

Okay, so next we have to talk about the

elephant in the room, which is my job

or my career choice. Some of you may

refuse to accept that it is a job, but

yeah, it is a job. Sorry to disappoint

you, but when you do something to make

money, then technically it's a job. And my

job is doing this. I sit in front of a

camera and I talk about what I'm doing in

life, and I go to places and I vlog it. I

am a YouTuber, a streamer, a content

creator, and I also have OnlyFans. So if

you're interested in meeting me or

starting some kind of relationship with

me, you're going to have to be okay with

the fact that this is what I do for a

living. I make videos, I talk about my

life and myself, and I do livestreams.

And I also do OnlyFans, which is another

thing you kind of have to be okay with.

OnlyFans pays really, really well. I'm

barely even uploading anything to it and

I'm still making pretty decent money on

OnlyFans. Probably more money on OnlyFans—

I'm making more money on OnlyFans than

most people here are making from doing

low, low-paid, low-skilled jobs. And

that's just from uploading a couple

N-U-E-Ds every month and a couple videos

here and there. So it's very low effort

and it's very good money, which is why I

don't really want to have to give it up.

I would like to carry on doing it. I'm not

asking you to be involved with it because

that would be weird. Although if you would

want to be involved in it, that would be

great. We would make so much money.

But when it comes to the YouTube side of

things, ideally I would like it if

you want to be involved. That would be

great if I had someone to kind of vlog

with and be on camera with and stream

with. But it's not 100% required.

You don't have to show your face. You

don't even have to be visible in the

videos, but if you're asking me to keep

your existence a complete secret

so I can't even say, yeah, I'm dating this

girl, she's great, I'm gonna see my

girlfriend next weekend— if you're saying

that I can't even talk about your

existence or the fact that I'm seeing you,

then I don't think it's gonna work very

well because I need to be able to talk

about that basic stuff. Now, I have

learned my lesson over the past not to

share too many details and private details

about relationships because it just led to

a lot of arguments. So I can— I do

feel confident that I'm able to keep

private stuff a secret. And if you clearly

say to me, Daniel, I don't want you to

tell people about this and that, then I'll

say, okay, I promise I won't talk about

it. I feel like I am able to keep,

keep it mostly a secret, but I don't, I

don't really want to have to. I'd rather

just say You know, I'd rather just be able

to tell everyone, yes, I'm seeing this

girl, she's 22, she's from blah blah blah,

whatever country. I'm going to see her

next weekend, we're going to do this. And

then if we go and do stuff and go visit

places, I would like to vlog it and not

have to worry about you saying stuff like,

oh, do you have to vlog it? Oh, stop

filming. Why are you filming? I don't want

to be in your vlog. You don't have to be

in it, but it would be nice if I could

just film maybe your shadow or your foot

or your hand, like something. It doesn't

have to be your face or your whole body,

just some kind of physical proof that

I am actually going out with someone would

be— that'd be nice. And yeah,

if you're not afraid of showing your face

on camera, that'll just be amazing. I

would love that. But I have learned from

previous experiences that a lot of girls

don't want to be on camera in my videos

because I've got a very toxic community,

got a very toxic comment section, which I

have been trying to make less toxic, and

I've been trying to moderate it, and I've

been banning people who are really mean.

So hopefully that has improved a bit since

last time, but I, I am aware

of the fact that girls probably don't want

to be in the videos because they're going

to get judged and criticized so much. So I

can be understanding about that. So the

short version of what I said would

basically be, ideally, in an ideal world,

I would like a vlogging YouTuber partner

to travel around with and make content

with. But I am realistic and I understand

that a lot of girls won't want to be

involved But the bare minimum that

I would ask for is to at least be able to

announce your existence. I don't think

that's a huge amount to ask for, because

last year when I was with Mila, she made

me promise not to tell anyone that I was

back with her. I had to lie about the

fact that I was in Rotterdam. I had to

pretend I was still in Germany. I wasn't

even allowed to take videos because then

people would find out that I'm in

Rotterdam. They'd put 2 and 2 together and

realize that we're back together. She

wouldn't let me say or film anything that

would indicate that we've gone back

together in the first few months. It took

a very long time until she was comfortable

again with me telling people that, yeah,

I'm in Rotterdam and we're together. And I

really don't want to have to do that

again. It's really difficult for me as a

personal life vlogger to have to keep

secrets like that. I don't like keeping

secrets. I don't like having to lie to my

audience. I don't like having having to

pretend that I'm in Germany when I'm in

Rotterdam. I don't like having to pretend

that I'm meeting and dating a Spanish girl

when I'm actually dating a German girl.

It's just really stressful, and part of

the enjoyment I have from making content

is being able to share what I'm up to and

what I'm doing and what I'm— who I'm

seeing. And if I have to fake stuff,

it's— number one, it's disrespectful to

the audience, and it's boring for me. I

don't like acting. I'm not an actor. I

don't like creating stories out of

fiction. I like telling you about what's

actually happening. So yeah, if you're

really privative and you're a really

private person, then maybe meeting a

YouTuber who, who is very, very open

about his private life, maybe that's not a

great idea. Okay, so finally you might be

wondering, what do I bring to the table?

What do I have to offer? You're making a

lot of demands, Daniel. You want this,

you want that. Um, what do you have to

offer, Daniel? Well, to be honest, I don't

have a lot to offer. I don't have money.

Well, I have some, but I don't have huge

amounts of money. I don't really want to

have to spend a lot of money on you,

although I will be willing to spend a

little bit if you really desperately need

it. I can't drive. I don't own any

property. I have terrible social skills.

I'm very nervous and shy in public. I

don't like talking to strangers. I avoid

social interaction if possible, and I'm

very awkward, and I'm kind of weird, and

I'm a bit of a massive pervert. Also, I'm

pretty skinny, as you can see from my

wrists. I don't have much muscle. I'm not

really— I'm not really tall. I'm a bit—

I'm not short. I'm about 5 foot 9, 175

centimeters, but I'm not like this huge

big guy who's going to be able to offer

you physical protection if that's what

you're looking for. So in theory, I don't

really have a lot to bring to the table,

but hopefully you'll like me for who I am

as a person and not because I can drive

and I can buy lots of things for you and I

can beat up other men for you. If you're

looking for that, then maybe you want to

look elsewhere. I don't really bring a lot

to the table apart from my personality and

myself, and hopefully we enjoy each

other's company and we can make some fun

videos together and travel to nice places.

If that's not good enough, then I'm sorry,

but maybe you should look elsewhere. Oh,

and last but not least, if you're

wondering what is my type, what kind of

girls I like, what, what physical

attributes am I attracted to? Basically

Mila, I guess. If you saw Mila, that's

basically my type. Slim.

I don't mind if you're a bit chubby, but

if you're really fat, I don't think it's

gonna work because I'm very skinny and

that will look kind of weird. So I would

like someone who's similar to my body

shape and my body size. So obviously not

taller than me, but not really, really

short. So you're like down here. When it

comes to race, although a lot of people

seem to think that I'm only into Japanese

girls, which is not true. I don't really

have a preference when it comes to race.

White, brown, Asian,

black, Hispanic, Latino— anything's fine

as long as I like the look of your face.

And I usually like faces where— when

it comes to the type of face I like, I

guess you could just say look at Mila's

face and that's kind of the face I'm into.

So that would be a slimmer nose, not too

wide, and then not really, really thick

lips, but then not no lips. And I'm

also quite into cheeks. For some reason,

I have a thing about cheekbones. The shape

of the cheeks I'm quite into. So if you

have cheeks and lips, then I'll probably

like your face. Types of faces I probably

don't like would be people with really big

noses. I don't really feel very attracted

to massive and pointy noses or no

lips or like really pointy angular facial

features. I like rounder features where

it, it kind of— they kind of have a nice

friendly bubbly look. And I'm also more

attracted to feminine kind of looks,

feminine fashion, feminine hairstyles.

Not really into the whole tomboy look and

short hair look, so sorry about that. So

if that all sounds great, then hit me up

on Instagram and we can start arranging

things. We'll start getting to know each

other. Thanks for listening. It's nice to

be back to making this kind of video.

It's been a while since I just sat down in

front of the camera, set it up, made it

look decent, and it's not like a

livestream replay highlight clip. I'm

trying to get back into making more videos

like this, like I used to make before I

became really sad and depressed. So if you

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