My Girlfriend is still using Tinder...

Hey, it's me again. I'm back. I'm back

from my girlfriend's house. Am I allowed

to call her my girlfriend yet? When am I

allowed to call her my girlfriend? Do I

need your permission? Anyway, I'm back.

Did you miss me? I know it's been a few

days. It's kind of strange making videos

After not making videos. Anyway, it's very

cold and it's slightly windy and it's

raining a little bit. The typhoon passed a

few days— it started a few days ago and

then it passed by yesterday,

but it's still a bit rainy, still a bit

windy, and it's getting very cold.

So I went over to my girlfriend's house

and I stayed over over her place for a few

nights. The typhoon was very interesting.

So when I went there, it was about 5 PM

and it was raining a lot. It was raining

all day for almost 2 days straight. I

don't know where all the water comes from.

And there wasn't much wind until after 5

PM. After 5 PM, the wind started to get

very strong and all the trains started to

get cancelled, and they started closing

all the shops down because they were

starting to flood. And it was so windy,

things were getting knocked over. During

the night there was all this banging and

crashing, like things were being knocked

over by the wind. And then the next day

when we went outside, there was— it didn't

look like there was too much damage, but

there were trees and there were, there

were lampposts that were blown over by the

wind. Anyway, I'm back now. So this is

what we did. First, we, we bought I think

we bought food. Yeah, we went to the

supermarket, we bought food, and we rented

2 movies. We rented Doctor Strange and

Star Wars Rogue One. Doctor Strange was

really bad. I can't stand Marvel movies or

superhero movies because they're always

really shit. The only reason I wanted to

see Doctor Strange was because I really

like Benedict Cumberbatch. I think he's a

great actor, but I was very disappointed

because in Doctor Strange he does this

this not very convincing American accent,

and I like it better when he speaks in his

magnificent British accent. That's what

suits him. He doesn't— it doesn't suit

him, an American accent. It's strange.

And we also watched Rogue One, and I've

seen Rogue One before, so it wasn't that

interesting for me, but I wanted her to

see it. But she wasn't very interested in

it because she doesn't know much about

Star Wars. She was on her period, so

initially we weren't going to have sex.

The plan was not to have sex, but we ended

up having sex anyway because she kept

touching me and I started to get very

aroused. And I said, can we just try doing

it anyway? And she said okay. So she put

down some towels and we had sex and

everything was fine, but I kept thinking

about all the blood in the back of my mind

and it was grossing me out a bit, so I

didn't enjoy it that much. After we

finished, I went to the shower to have a

look. I put my glasses on And my penis

was all red, basically. It was covered in

blood. But there wasn't actually that much

blood. I was expecting the whole thing to

be completely soaked red, but it wasn't

that bloody, to be honest. It wasn't that

bad, I guess. But it was still kind of

gross. It looked like I cut myself and I

just bled all over the place. Anyway, I

went into the shower and I washed it off,

and everything was okay. I went back into

the room and there was blood all over the

mattress, even though we used a towel. It

soaked right through the towel. Onto the

mattress, so we decided not to have any

more period sex because it creates such a

mess. Anyway, that's not really what this

video is about. Something happened when I

was staying with her that made me a bit

So we were talking about Game of Thrones,

and she actually said she watched the

first episode, and I said, you have to

watch the next episode as well because

that's when it gets better. So we ended up

watching Game of Thrones episode 2 and 3

in her bed on her phone, and halfway

through the episode, this notification

came from Tinder— her Tinder— and the

notification said, you have a new match.

She had a new match on Tinder. That means

she's been on Tinder and she's been

matching people. She's been swiping right

on people, and then at that very moment

When we were watching Game of Thrones,

someone else swiped right on her and

matched with her. The notification just

popped down, Tinder, you have a new match.

I didn't say anything because it was kind

of awkward. I just pretended it didn't

happen, and she didn't say anything

either. I'm not sure why.

Wouldn't she have at least said something?

Maybe it was too embarrassing, so she

didn't say anything either. I didn't want

to make a big fuss about it. Or cause an

argument, so I didn't say anything. And

maybe she's just on Tinder to look for

friends. Japanese women say this all the

time. I look for friends on Tinder.

Sometimes I meet Japanese girls on Tinder

and they say they've already got a

boyfriend or they have a husband. And I

say, why are you on Tinder if you have a

boyfriend or husband and you're not

looking for a relationship? And they say—

and they say they're just looking for

friends. And this is something that really

irritates me about Tinder in Japan. For

some reason, Japanese people in Japan,

they think that Tinder is for looking for

friends. It's not. Tinder is a dating app.

You use it to hook up or to find

relationships. You don't use it to find

friends. So maybe she's not on Tinder

looking for another guy. Maybe she's

looking for friends as well. It's kind of

strange because a few days ago she sent me

this message out of the blue saying,

Daniel, are you still looking for people

on Tinder? Are you still using Tinder?

Are you still looking for someone? And I

said no, because I found you. And then she

asked me, so am I your girlfriend? And I

said yes. And then I asked her, am I your

boyfriend? And she also said yes. She said

that the reason why she asked me that

question was because she's looking for

someone special. She wants a proper

relationship, and she doesn't want to

waste her time with someone who's just

messing around. So maybe she thought that

I wasn't serious about her, and then she

started to look on Tinder again for

someone else, and then that person matched

up with her on that night. Maybe it was

someone she liked a week ago or 2 weeks

ago, who knows. I just find it a bit

hypocritical because she's been asking me

if I'm still using Tinder multiple times,

and she asked me if I'm still going on

dates with other people whilst she's also

still on Tinder liking people. Who knows

if she's meeting up with other guys? I

don't know, I don't see her every day.

She could easily meet up with someone else

after work. But for some reason, I don't

feel like she's cheating on me. I don't,

I don't feel like she's messing around

with other guys because she seems to be

really into me. After I told her that I'm

not on Tinder anymore and that I think of

her as my girlfriend and I'm not just

messing around or trying to hook up with

lots of people, she— it's like she's

changed a bit. I can feel like she's a bit

different now. It's almost as if I'm

making her happy. She actually told me a

story. She said that a few weeks before

she got divorced, she was hooking up with

this Australian guy. I don't know if he

was white. I guess he was. But she

actually said that he contacted her

recently asking her if she wanted to have

sex, just like as a sex friend. But she

said no because she knows that he's not

looking for a serious relationship. And

that he's he just wants to have sex. So

she said no to him,

and I asked her if I said to you that

I wasn't that you weren't my girlfriend,

would you have said yes to that Australian

guy? And she still said she said that she

still would have said no. I know I'm not

one to judge, especially if you know my

history, my relationship history, but

she's been. She was in a relationship with

this guy that she married for 2 years,

and then she was married to him for 4

years, and then things weren't going well,

and then before they got divorced, she was

cheating on her husband with this

Australian guy, and then a few months

after she got divorced, she got into a

relationship with me, and we're having

sex. It just sounds like it's very quick,

like she's in a rush. It just sounds a bit

strange to me that someone would want to

get into a serious relationship so soon

after getting divorced. I think it's still

too early to be thinking about these

things too seriously right now. I just

want to enjoy her company, spend time with

her, and get to know her, I guess.

I enjoyed spending the last few days with

her, and it was fun, but to be honest,

I'm so glad to be back in the guesthouse,

back by myself, so I can do things how I

want, when I want. Whenever I want. I'm— I

have freedom. And I like Japanese,

I like the Japanese language, I like

speaking it, but 2 days straight of having

to listen to Japanese TV just drives—

drives you crazy. I've missed listening to

English so much. As soon as I came back,

I just binge-watched hours and hours of

YouTube. Oh, English sounds so good.

There's just something about Japanese TV

that I find extremely irritating. It

Number 1, it's so boring. Number 2, I

don't know any of the famous people or the

television personalities. Number 3,

sometimes the way they speak can sound

very irritating. It just sounds like

they're shouting all the time. In Japan,

the noisier you are means the more fun

you're having, the more lively it is, and

it just gives me a headache. And sometimes

I find it difficult to understand what

they're talking about. I need to really

concentrate if I want to understand what

most of the program is about.

Do you think I should ask her about the

Tinder thing? I mean, a notification

saying she has a new match did pop up

right in front of my eyes. She knows I saw

it. She must know. Should I ask her? How

come you have a new match? Are you on

Tinder? What's going on? We're supposed to

be in a relationship. Should I ask her?

Should I just let it go? Let it go.

Let it go. Now that I think about it, I

don't really feel like I'm emotionally

attached enough to her to actually care if

she is cheating on me or if she is hooking

up with other guys. Yeah, it would be kind

of irritating and I would feel betrayed,

but I wouldn't really feel sad. I wouldn't

cry about it. Maybe I just— maybe

I'm not in love with her. Maybe I don't

feel— maybe I don't have strong feelings

about her, because if I did, I think I

would care more about this. I guess I do

kind of care because I want to know what

she's thinking, but I

don't care that much. Should I care?

Should I be caring more about this?