My Japanese Ex Wife is trying to RUIN my life...

So recently, some of you may have seen my

community post in which I showed a

picture, a screenshot of a very spiteful

comment that my ex-wife left on my recent

video about why I hated being married in

Japan to a Japanese lady. And in this

video, I just talk about some difficulties

I had whilst being married, some of the

differences I had between me and my wife,

and I didn't really say anything that was

really mean or insulting. But it seems as

though my ex-wife saw the video, which I'm

kind of surprised that she even cares

anymore, but she obviously saw the video

and took some offense to some of the

things I said. And this is the comments

that she left on my video. It says, if I

got my karma, it's done because I'm happy

after getting divorced, but you are

getting karma because your channel is dead

and you are not happy. You never change

forever. So pretty horrible comment to

write on my video, which I don't really

feel like I deserved. And the reason why

we're talking about karma is because,

well, I just really hate it every time I

complain about my marriage or my ex-wife.

I always get some idiot in the comments

saying, oh, you You deserve this. This is

karma for all of the bad things you did.

So in retaliation, I like to say, well,

my ex-wife also did some pretty bad

things, not only in my marriage, in our

marriage, but also in her previous first

marriage. If bad things are happening to

me and that's me getting my karma, then

maybe the bad things that happened to her

is her karma because of the bad things

that she did in a previous marriage of

hers. I don't really feel like explaining

what happened in her first marriage all

over again because I feel like it's kind

of petty at this point to keep bringing it

up. Now, I personally don't really believe

in karma. I think it's a bit of silly

nonsense. I believe that everything in

life is just like a load of random events,

chain of events that happens randomly,

and sometimes you have consequences for

doing bad or good things, and then

sometimes you just don't. But if you're

gonna come swinging at me with the whole

karma nonsense, then I can swing right

back with the same argument. Because the

funny thing about karma is that it works

both ways. If I'm getting karma because I

did bad stuff, then so is she, and then so

are you, basically. If you're gonna write

horrible things to me, then you're just

building up your own negative karma. If

you you believe in that stuff, which I

don't. So anyway, back to the comment in

question. She first of all boasts and

brags about how happy she is after getting

divorced, and then she laughs at my

channel for dying, and then she makes fun

of me for not being happy, which I just

think is a really low and petty blow. So

number one, if she's so happy after

getting divorced, how come she isn't just

moving on and living this happy magical

life without me, without having to keep

track of what I'm saying anymore? It just

doesn't really seem like she's actually

actually that happy if she feels the need

to carry on tracking my channel and

keeping up with stuff I say and then

making comments like this. I just don't

think that if someone's moved on and they

claim to be so much happier now that they

would waste time, energy, and effort into

going onto their ex's social media like a

YouTube channel and then publicly post

some kind of insultive, insulting comment

like that. If you're so much happier now

and you've moved on, then why do you keep

coming back to my YouTube channel to write

these negative comments like that? And

then she goes on to make fun at my channel

dying. Calls it a dead channel. And okay,

fair enough, my views aren't what they

used to be. I don't get like 30K, 40K

views like I used to when I was married,

and I just get about 7K, 8K, sometimes 9

or 10K these days. But to be fair to

myself, earlier this year I did pretty

well and I got millions of views thanks to

Elden Ring and Steam Deck and other video

game reviews, which did really well for me

financially. It's just after around May or

June, the whole video game industry kind

of fell asleep, and I'm waiting for it to

wake back up again, and I'm waiting some

new releases to come out. It's just right

now there's absolutely no video games that

are hyped up, and there's not really much

to talk about that can get me into the

YouTube search results, which would help

me get more views. Unfortunately, making

the old kind of content that I used to

make just doesn't really get the views

like it used to. And without having a wife

or a girlfriend to whine about, it's kind

of starving me for things to complain

about. I don't really have a lot to

complain about. Well, there is this one

person that I really want to complain

about, but A bit worried he might find my

channel, and then it would be really

uncomfortable and awkward if I carry on

having to see him and he knows what I

said. So I'm gonna have to wait until I

don't have to see him anymore, and then

I'll let it all out. But I think it's just

such a low and petty blow because I think

most of you guys know that the most

important thing to me in the entire world

is my YouTube channel. And it has been

very tough having to accept the facts that

people lost interest in my videos and my

channel, and I've been trying to find ways

to cope with that and trying to find

different stuff to talk So it's a pretty

cheap shot to make fun of my channel

failing. Typical woman knows exactly what

to say to upset a guy. But to be fair,

look at my channel compared to her

channel. At least I carry on making videos

and I didn't just give up after making—

what, she made 10 videos and they barely

even got more than a couple thousand views

and she only got 2,000 subs. And no, I'm

not gonna link her channel because I don't

give permission for you guys to join her

channel and start watching her videos.

Don't even try to search for it. Her

videos are just really boring and really

rubbish. She just makes these travel vlogs

going to certain places, but she barely

speaks in them. She shows a bunch of video

clips of her on the train or getting a

bento or of some kind of scenery. That's

boring. The editing is really basic. It's

just like a bunch of really basic

transitions and some cuts here and there,

and there's really basic stock music

playing way too loudly over everything.

It's like she didn't learn anything from

me when it comes to making YouTube videos.

Even with my dead channel, I still get

more views than any of her videos did.

And then lastly, she makes fun of how I'm

depressed and not happy. I don't think

it's a very nice thing to do, to make fun

of people who have difficulties finding

happiness in life. And yeah, it's true,

I'm not really the most happiest person in

the entire world. I'm having difficulties

finding something that I actually enjoy

doing and I feel passionate about doing,

and I'm finding it difficult to find true

happiness in life. That is true. But are

you really going to kick someone who's

down? Are you really going to make fun of

someone who has problems with that kind of

stuff? I just think it's a bit of a cheap

shot. Maybe one of the reasons why I'm not

happy is because of her, because of what

she did to me and what she's still doing.

So if you don't know that she has an

Instagram, she does have an Instagram

where she posts pictures and occasionally

posts stories. And guess what kind of

stories she was posting when I was in

Malaysia? Yeah, she was posting her own

travel pics and videos when she went to

some kind of tropical island near Taiwan

that's part of Japanese territories. And

she just coincidentally went on holiday to

a very nice-looking island with really

clear blue seas. Exact same week that I

went to Malaysia, and it basically ruined

my entire trip to Malaysia because you

know how I really hate going on holiday as

a single person. I didn't have any

girlfriends or any wife to accompany me on

my trip to Malaysia like I had back in

2018. And yeah, when I saw her travel pics

on her Instagram, it just made me feel

really sad about, you know, reminiscing

about 2018 when life was a lot better

compared to how it is this year. And I

just felt really sad and lonely for the

rest of the Malaysia trip. Because I saw

her stupid Instagram stories. It's like

she's purposefully posting those stories

to make me feel jealous and to make me

feel sad and down. Because when I was in

Malaysia this year, I kept thinking to

myself, yeah, maybe it would have been

nice if we were still married and she was

here with me and it was fun times like

back in 2018. Instead, I was just moping

around just on my own all the time. No one

was talking to me. It's just so petty and

lame how hard she's trying to post these

stories and pictures of her showing how

much happier she is and how much of a

great time she's having without me in

these really nice-looking places. It's

like she knows I'm gonna look at them and

she's saying, hey Daniel, look how great

of a time I'm having without you. And you

know what I think is really strange is how

even though we went to some nice places

when we were together, she never took

selfies. She never asked me to take a

photo of her standing in front of some

nice scenery so she could post on her

Instagram. She only started posting stuff

on her Instagram after we separated, and

then she started posting all these really

nice-looking selfies and pics in nice

places. She never did that before, which I

find really weird. And it really does

baffle me why she cares about updating her

Instagram where she only has about 600

followers. And no, I'm not gonna share it

with you. I'm not gonna link you her

Instagram. I'm not gonna help her grow

her, her social media accounts. Why would

I do that? I don't understand why she

cares so much about posting these pictures

to all of these followers who probably

used to be my viewers. I don't think any

of her followers were not my viewers at

one point or another. So she's just

posting all these pictures and videos and

stories onto Instagram for hundreds of

strangers to look at. I don't see why she

would care. It's not like she's making any

money out of it. I think the main reason

why she posts to this Instagram at all is

because she knows that I'm going to see

what she posts, and she knows that I'm

gonna feel upset and I'm gonna feel

jealous, and I'm going to start thinking

stuff like, oh, I wish I didn't divorce

her. I wish we were still together because

then we would be doing this stuff

together. It just kind of feels like her

entire social media presence and her

Instagram activities is all just some kind

of attempt to try and make me feel jealous

and try and make me feel bad. And guess

what one of her recent stories was? She

went to someplace in Japan and one of the

video clips was her driving a car. Guess

who else has shown a lot of interest in

driving cars recently? Me. I'm taking

driving lessons and it's almost the only

thing I ever talk about these days is

about my driving lessons and what car I

want to get. And all of a sudden she also

drives a car. And takes a video of herself

driving it, even though when we were

together she never once showed any

interest in driving a car ever. Now maybe

I'm crazy when I say this, but I feel like

she's copying me or mimicking me. So first

of all, she creates a YouTube channel and

then starts making vlogs and videos, even

though she never did this when we were

together. And then she goes to a nice

tropical vacation on an island, exact same

time that I go to Malaysia for holiday.

And now she's driving cars again, which

she never drove in— I don't know, because

I knew she had a driver's license. She

told But then she said she hadn't actually

done any driving in almost a decade or

something. She hasn't actually owned a car

ever. So I just really don't know why

she's copying me and then seeking out my

channel just to come and insult me in the

comment section. It's very weird behavior,

not really the kind of behavior that I

would assign to someone who has moved on

and is so much happier now that they've

divorced. So in conclusion, it would be

nice if my ex-wife would just leave me

alone and stop trying to harass me or

insult me. If I want to make a video

talking about my experiences being married

in Japan, which is obviously a topic that

quite a lot of people are interested in,

then I think that should be my choice.

And we're not married anymore, we're not

husband and wife anymore, so there's no

obligation for me to try and make her

happy or to try and keep her happy. So

I'll try my best to keep things civil and

mature, and I won't resort to insults or

name-calling because I think that's just a

bit childish. But if I do have some

complaints to make about my time living in

Japan or being married in Japan, then I

would like to be able to make those

complaints and talk about my experiences.

And if that makes her unhappy, then,

well, that's not really my problem to deal

with anymore.