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why I HATED living in The Netherlands 🇳🇱

2021-01-14 · 14 min

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  1. Hello and welcome back to a new video. So

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  2. today I want to talk about why I hated

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  3. living in the Netherlands. So as you may

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  4. know, I lived in the Netherlands for about

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  5. 4 or 5 months last year until December

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  6. 27th, and it was hands down the worst

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  7. country I've ever lived in.

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  8. Unfortunately, I cannot recommend the

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  9. Netherlands as a country to live in. It

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  10. just was not up to my standards in any way

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  11. at all, and I decided to make a 3-point

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  12. video explaining why I really hated living

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  13. there and I would never go back there and

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  14. I would never suggest living there. Okay,

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  15. so my first complaint about living there

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  16. was the smell. It stinks. It stunk of

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  17. weed, if you know what that means.

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  18. Everywhere you go on the streets,

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  19. especially in Amsterdam, all over the

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  20. place when you're just walking around,

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  21. everywhere smells like weed. And if you

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  22. don't know what weed smells like, well,

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  23. it smells like armpit, to be honest.

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  24. There isn't really much difference between

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  25. the smell of my armpit and the smell of

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  26. weed. Now, I don't really mind the smell

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  27. of my own armpits, but I don't really want

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  28. to be smelling armpit when I'm just

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  29. walking around going shopping outside.

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  30. It's just kind of disgusting. It has a

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  31. really musty, pungent musk that just wafts

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  32. around in the air. Even when I didn't go

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  33. outside, even when I was just staying at

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  34. home, my neighbors upstairs would be

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  35. smoking the weed almost every day, and

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  36. then the smell would waft down into my

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  37. apartment somehow. I don't even know how I

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  38. could smell it because I always had the

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  39. windows closed I had the doors closed,

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  40. but apparently the smell was able to waft

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  41. down and you could just smell this strong,

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  42. pungent smell of armpits or

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  43. weed, and it was just horrible. I don't

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  44. want to smell that. I have nothing against

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  45. people smoking it. I think it's fine if

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  46. you just want to relax at home and you

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  47. want to do some weed, but I don't want

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  48. that stuff going up into my nostrils

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  49. involuntarily. The second reason why I

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  50. would not go to the Netherlands again is

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  51. because it's just insanely expensive to

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  52. live there. Rent, the cost of living there

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  53. and the cost of rent is just insane

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  54. compared to other cities like Osaka or

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  55. Tokyo or Seoul. Living in Rotterdam was—

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  56. I'm not exaggerating when I say this, but

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  57. I was probably spending— I was paying 10

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  58. times more money to live in Rotterdam than

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  59. I had to pay in Seoul or Osaka living in

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  60. the city. So when I first moved to

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  61. Rotterdam, I first of all, I stayed in a

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  62. hotel for a couple of days just to get my

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  63. bearings straightened out, sorted out.

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  64. And then I decided to get myself an

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  65. Airbnb. In the central part of Rotterdam,

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  66. which, okay, yeah, in the central part of

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  67. the city is going to be the most

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  68. expensive, but I was paying £2,700 just

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  69. for a month, which is over $3,000 just for

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  70. a pretty standard, bog-standard size,

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  71. average looking apartment. It wasn't

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  72. anything special. I could get the same

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  73. thing for less than half the price in

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  74. Osaka or in Seoul. I could probably get

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  75. the same kind of apartment in Osaka,

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  76. Japan for about £1,000, which is like a

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  77. third of what I was paying in that

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  78. apartment in Rotterdam Central. So after

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  79. realizing that getting an Airbnb in the

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  80. center of Rotterdam is just way too

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  81. expensive, I started looking at these

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  82. different apps where you can get

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  83. apartments, you know, normal apartments

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  84. that normal people would live in. And the

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  85. cheapest I could find that would rent out

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  86. to me as a foreigner who wasn't planning

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  87. on living there long term or didn't have

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  88. any kind of permanent residence visa, the

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  89. best I could find was about £1,200

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  90. a month or $1,500 a month. And that was

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  91. the apartment I was living in for about 3

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  92. months, and I'm not sure if I can get my

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  93. deposit back. I have to find out later on

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  94. this week when we do a video call with the

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  95. landlord, but I think it should be fine.

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  96. If I don't get the deposit back, then it

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  97. means I would have ended up spending over

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  98. $2,000 a month just to live in that crappy

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  99. little apartment in South Rotterdam. And I

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  100. moved out of Central Rotterdam and I moved

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  101. into the southern area, which is supposed

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  102. to be the cheap area and the problematic

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  103. kind of ghetto hood kind of slummy

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  104. horrible part of the city. And even living

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  105. in that horrible part of the city, it was

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  106. still insanely expensive. I was spending

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  107. over £1,000 a month. If you go onto Airbnb

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  108. in Osaka or even Tokyo, on the outskirts

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  109. of Tokyo, you could get a place that's the

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  110. same, the equivalent, or perhaps even

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  111. better, and it would only cost you about

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  112. £500 to £700. That's like 50% cheaper

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  113. than what I was paying, and you probably

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  114. wouldn't have horrible, loud, problematic

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  115. neighbors who smoke weed every day

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  116. stinking up the whole place, and you

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  117. probably won't get police raids. You

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  118. probably won't get police raids bashing

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  119. down the neighbor's door at 9 PM in the

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  120. evening if you lived in a cheap area in

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  121. Japan. There probably won't be any

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  122. problems even living in a very, very cheap

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  123. area or neighborhood in Japan. The amount

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  124. of money I wasted on the German slash

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  125. Netherlands trip last year was just

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  126. completely unbelievable. So I think I

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  127. ended up wasting at least $22,000 from my

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  128. rough calculations and my rough

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  129. estimations. So probably about £5,000 on

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  130. the apartment, £2,700 on the Airbnb in

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  131. central Rotterdam, probably £4,000 in

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  132. total for hotels, probably £1,000 on

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  133. aeroplanes and Ubers, probably over £2,500

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  134. in food. I stayed in a lot of these really

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  135. expensive Airbnbs in Germany and

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  136. Netherlands. Remember, there was the, the

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  137. one with the kind of triangle-shaped

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  138. Airbnb, and then I stayed in that

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  139. luxurious sailboat Airbnb, which was

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  140. almost $400 or $500 for 2 nights. And then

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  141. I stayed in that capsule hotel for about a

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  142. week, which cost at least $300 or $400.

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  143. Just here and there, I just spent so much

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  144. money on accommodation and Airbnbs. And to

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  145. be honest, I can't really say that it was

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  146. worth it. I'd rather have my $22,000 back.

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  147. And be able to reinvest that or invest it

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  148. into some kind of stock. Can you imagine

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  149. if I could go back in time all the way

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  150. back to June and instead of going to

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  151. Germany and Netherlands and wasting

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  152. $22,000, imagine if I put that $22,000

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  153. into Bitcoin. I would have over $100,000

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  154. right now. There's just so much money that

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  155. I could have made if I invested that money

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  156. into the stock market instead of wasting

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  157. it on Airbnbs and buying airplane tickets

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  158. and flying here and flying there. And what

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  159. do I have to show for it? Nothing really.

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  160. I got some content out of it, I guess,

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  161. but none of it did really well. None of it

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  162. went viral. Most of the videos I made in

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  163. the Airbnbs just flopped and barely got

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  164. more than 15K views. I mean, I stayed in

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  165. this really cool sailboat and no one even

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  166. cared. It just made me really sad. It just

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  167. kind of made me realize that it's such a

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  168. stupid thing to do, to waste or to spend

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  169. so much money on a relationship or a girl

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  170. or chasing a girl or trying to make a

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  171. relationship work. It's just a complete

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  172. and utter waste of time and money. You

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  173. should just invest that money into the

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  174. stock market or into education or into

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  175. something that's going to help you and

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  176. help you in the future. Don't bother

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  177. chasing some kind of relationship that's

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  178. not even reliable. You can't rely on

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  179. people. They change their minds. They're

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  180. run by emotions. One minute they love you,

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  181. the next minute they're not in love with

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  182. you anymore and they want to end it. And

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  183. then you've just wasted all your effort,

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  184. time, and money. The way I see it is I

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  185. invested about $22,000 in this trip, in

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  186. this relationship, to try and get content,

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  187. to try and find a meaningful partner that

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  188. would last long term, and it all just

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  189. failed. I actually ended up losing money,

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  190. didn't make any money. The whole trip,

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  191. the whole escapade just cost me money,

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  192. and I've got absolutely nothing to show

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  193. for it right now apart from, well, I guess

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  194. I did learn a hard lesson which cost me a

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  195. lot of money, and I did get a couple of

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  196. nice videos out of it, but they didn't

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  197. really make much. Okay, so my third and

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  198. final reason why I did not enjoy living in

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  199. Rotterdam or the Netherlands is because I

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  200. just didn't really feel safe. In the first

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  201. few months, yeah, I felt safe living in

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  202. the center of the city where it was civil

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  203. and people were nice and it felt like

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  204. there was order and police presence. But

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  205. when I moved down into the south of the

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  206. city, it just felt really, really unsafe.

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  207. And as a 5-foot-9 skinny Asian-looking

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  208. guy, I just felt like I stuck out like a

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  209. sore thumb, like I was a massive target

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  210. for hooligans and big burly men who have

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  211. no morals and have no shame in attacking

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  212. someone much smaller than they are just so

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  213. that they can get some kind of, I don't

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  214. know, some kind of pleasure or

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  215. satisfaction from attacking someone weaker

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  216. than they are or trying to get money out

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  217. of them. So as you may remember, I had a

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  218. very unfortunate experience where I was

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  219. just suddenly attacked for no good reason,

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  220. and it was very traumatic actually. So to

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  221. tell the short version of the story, I was

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  222. walking home from the shopping center and

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  223. I crossed over this bridge and I was

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  224. coming down the stairs, and as I was

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  225. coming down the stairs, this big

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  226. intimidating, rough-looking guy was

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  227. walking towards me, and he stops me and he

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  228. says something. I don't know what he said.

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  229. He was speaking in some kind of broken

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  230. Dutch. I don't understand Dutch at all.

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  231. But anyway, he stops me, he put his hand

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  232. out, and then he started saying stuff. I

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  233. said no, sorry, because I thought he was a

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  234. beggar asking me for money. He walked off

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  235. back to his car, and then I just carried

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  236. on going. And then after he walked to his

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  237. car, he started running back towards me,

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  238. and he looks really angry. He grabbed me

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  239. by the collar and he started shoving me

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  240. around, shouting at me. I still had no

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  241. idea what he was saying, and he pushed me

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  242. down to the ground. He put his leg behind

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  243. me and tripped me over, and I thought he

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  244. was gonna beat me up, but fortunately he

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  245. didn't actually hit me. Still, it was

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  246. pretty scary, and there was this Dutch guy

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  247. nearby, and I was asking him for help,

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  248. but he just stood there watching, and he

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  249. said to me, he thinks that you threw a

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  250. stone at his car. I kept trying to say,

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  251. no, I didn't throw any stones, but I don't

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  252. think he spoke English and he didn't

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  253. understand. After a while, he stopped

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  254. pushing me around and he walked off back

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  255. to his car. I stood up and I brushed

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  256. myself off. I didn't phone the police

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  257. because I didn't think the police would be

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  258. able to do anything, and I didn't even

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  259. remember what the guy looks like. I didn't

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  260. even catch his number plates because my

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  261. eyesight is bad. So I got up and I started

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  262. to go back home again, and the guy is

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  263. following me in his car. He pulls his car

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  264. over next to me, winds down his window,

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  265. and he's recording me with his phone. And

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  266. the only word I could understand was

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  267. police. And I kept saying, I'm sorry, I

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  268. didn't do anything. And his kid is sitting

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  269. next to him in the car laughing his face

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  270. off. I ended up giving the guy €20 in cash

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  271. because I didn't know what else to do. He

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  272. didn't understand what I was saying. He

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  273. was still really angry. He obviously was

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  274. convinced that I did throw stones at his

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  275. car, and now he was recording me as

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  276. evidence. I don't know how that was

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  277. evidence. You're just filming me. You're

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  278. not filming me actually throwing the

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  279. stones. How's that going to count as

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  280. evidence? Anyway, he had absolutely no

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  281. brains, and he just grabbed my money and

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  282. drove off and tutted at me as well. I gave

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  283. him money because I didn't know what else

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  284. to do. He didn't understand what I was

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  285. saying, and I thought giving him money was

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  286. the only way to de-escalate the situation.

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  287. I didn't want to try and run away because

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  288. that would just make me look really

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  289. guilty. So yeah, it was a really traumatic

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  290. experience, and And still to this day,

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  291. when I look back on it and I remember it,

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  292. it just makes me feel really depressed.

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  293. And after that happened, I was scared to

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  294. go outside and I felt very, very paranoid

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  295. about my looks because obviously I look

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  296. very Asian and I don't look strong. I look

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  297. like a weak, easy target, easy prey that

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  298. won't really put up a fight. I lived in

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  299. Japan for nearly 2 years and I used to

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  300. walk around in the middle of the night for

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  301. hours and hours and hours livestreaming.

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  302. And not once did anything threatening or

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  303. violent or scary like that happen to me.

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  304. In Japan or any other country. So yeah,

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  305. in conclusion, I would say Netherlands,

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  306. worst country I have ever lived in. I

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  307. would give it a score of 2.2 out of 10.

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  308. Insanely expensive, high rent, not even

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  309. safe. You get assaulted in the middle of

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  310. the day, 6 PM in the afternoon. I got

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  311. assaulted in broad daylight on a very busy

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  312. street in front of a shopping center, and

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  313. no one even helped. I will never ever go

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  314. to the Netherlands ever again.

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