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[2020-02-18] I am now Officially Divorced [k0nss67OKTM]

2020-02-18 · 11 min

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  1. Hey, so this is a video announcing that

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  2. I'm officially divorced. I got a message

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  3. from my wife a few nights ago and she sent

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  4. me a picture of a piece of paper which

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  5. proves that she handed in the divorce

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  6. papers. So here it says that they received

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  7. divorce papers on February 12th, 2020.

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  8. And the type of documentation they

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  9. received was a divorce paper. Then it says

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  10. my wife's name. She scribbled out her

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  11. family name, so I guess she, she knew that

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  12. I was going to use this in a video. And

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  13. then underneath it says my name, and then

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  14. for some reason it says her name again,

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  15. and then my name again. It was a bit of a

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  16. shock opening my Messenger app and then

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  17. seeing her name at the top after so many

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  18. weeks. And, um, she didn't even say

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  19. anything. She just sent me the picture of

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  20. the papers, and I said thanks, and she

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  21. read my message, and then I deleted all of

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  22. the conversation because I don't really

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  23. want to see her name in my Messenger app

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  24. because it makes me feel sad. I'm glad

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  25. that she just handed them in without

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  26. making too much of a scene, unlike last

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  27. time when she tried to take me to court.

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  28. Last year she was really angry and she was

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  29. saying that she wanted to take me to court

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  30. for cheating, but this time I think we

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  31. managed to end things on good terms.

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  32. It feels kind of strange to say that in

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  33. the end the reason why we decided to get

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  34. divorced wasn't because of the cheating or

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  35. the lying or because of me messaging other

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  36. women. It was because I spent too much

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  37. time chatting on Discord and not enough

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  38. time talking to her. I guess it's kind of

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  39. sad, but I think in the end it was best

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  40. for both of us that we went our separate

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  41. ways. We gave it a good shot. I think 2

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  42. years is quite a long time. We, we were

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  43. married for nearly 2 years and we did try,

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  44. even though people were saying we would

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  45. get divorced within a year or half a year.

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  46. I think we lasted quite long. It was just

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  47. too difficult. We had nothing in common,

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  48. and the language barrier made things even

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  49. more tricky, and we

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  50. were just not capable or unwilling to

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  51. change our ways to make the marriage work.

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  52. Sometimes relationships just don't work

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  53. out no matter how hard you try to be

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  54. together, and some people just aren't

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  55. meant to be together. I actually feel a

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  56. bit relieved. I feel relieved that I

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  57. finally got out of that relationship. I

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  58. just wasn't happy at all, and I was

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  59. worried about things like, was she going

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  60. to take me to court, or would I get into

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  61. trouble legally because of what I've done?

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  62. I'm just glad that we managed to end

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  63. things cleanly without any trouble,

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  64. without things getting messy. As of now,

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  65. she hasn't asked me to take down any

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  66. videos with her in them, which is nice. I

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  67. don't mind taking down some of them, but

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  68. some of the videos where it's just me and

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  69. my family and she's in them as well, I

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  70. don't really want to take those down. So

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  71. it'd be nice if she gave me permission to

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  72. leave them up. I know some of you might be

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  73. thinking that this is fake and I'm just

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  74. making it up and we're going to get back

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  75. together again next week. Well, to prove

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  76. that it's not fake, I'm going to be

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  77. cutting my spouse visas. In half.

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  78. My golden tickets into Japan. Thanks to

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  79. these 2 cards, it just made me feel very

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  80. special, as if I had free entry into one

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  81. of the best countries in the world. Well,

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  82. I guess I won't be needing them anymore.

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  83. So this is my first spouse visa. I got

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  84. this in 2018,

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  85. expired 2019. And this is my second

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  86. one. I after me and my wife got back

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  87. together again. I had to renew my spouse

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  88. visa, and this expires in November.

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  89. Now, I don't really know how long it's

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  90. going to take until we're properly

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  91. divorced. I'm not sure if that paper meant

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  92. that we are divorced or they've just

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  93. received the divorce papers. I might still

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  94. be able to get back into Japan using this

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  95. spouse visa because it lasts until

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  96. November, but I don't have any plans to go

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  97. back to Japan so soon before November. I

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  98. will go back eventually, but it will be

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  99. next year, early next year.

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  100. I think I'll go back to England for

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  101. Christmas and then start planning a new

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  102. trip to Japan next year, and then I should

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  103. be able to enter again as a tourist. I'm

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  104. guessing as soon as the divorce is

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  105. finalized, then this will be invalidated,

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  106. so I don't think it's a problem if I cut

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  107. them in half. I mean, this one already has

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  108. a hole in it.

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  109. Okay, here we go. We'll start off with the

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  110. first one. Cutting in half now.

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  111. Oh, that feels so wrong.

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  112. That felt so bad.

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  113. Oh no.

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  114. Spouse visa number 1.

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  115. Spouse visa number 2.

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  116. Oh, there we go.

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  117. Invalidated by myself. So there

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  118. we have it. I hope that's proof enough

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  119. that this is not fake. I have destroyed my

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  120. spouse visas into Japan.

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  121. Hello and welcome back

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  122. to Cooking with Daniel. Today I have lots

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  123. of things From my shopping bag, in total I

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  124. spent twenty-two thousand won, which is

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  125. about it's only eighteen dollars

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  126. forty-eight. So I spent eighteen dollars

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  127. forty-eight for da da da da.

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  128. I got a green tin of leaves.

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  129. I got a small tub of rice.

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  130. I got some forty percent discount yogurt.

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  131. Very good deal. I got some very

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  132. cheap, very, very cheap mushrooms. Only

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  133. cost about $1 for all of these mushrooms.

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  134. $1, what a bargain.

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  135. And I got these onion rings. I really like

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  136. onion ring crisps.

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  137. And I got this 40% discount.

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  138. 40% discount pork for only about

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  139. $4. 4,400 won

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  140. is $3.70.

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  141. So for $3.70, I got this 40% off discount

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  142. pork. Absolute bargain.

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  143. Wow, also it comes with sauce. I also got

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  144. some 1,500 won leeks,

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  145. so that's less than a dollar. And finally,

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  146. I got this Korean army stew,

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  147. instant, already pre-made army stew,

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  148. which I'll be eating for tomorrow's lunch

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  149. on my second channel, Cooking with Daniel.

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  150. So I'll put this in the fridge for

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  151. tomorrow. Okay, so these are

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  152. snacks, snackaroos, and that's what I

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  153. have left in the pink bag.

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  154. Get them all out first. Get rid of the

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  155. packaging.

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  156. Urgh, they look weird.

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  157. What is this?

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  158. Mm,

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  159. mm,

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  160. very good. Korean food.

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  161. I like it.

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