My mum hates my wife [EFSh3ph4tqo]

Hello and welcome back. It's a lovely

sunny day today and I thought I'd make a

video. So some of you might know that my

wife went back to Japan, um,

and I just wanted to explain why. But

first I want to show you this bridge that

my dad built. It's a very nice bridge. He

painted it red. Originally it was green,

but he painted it red so it stands out a

bit more. There used to be a horrible ugly

bridge before that my granddad built and

it was all falling apart. And my dad put

this here. It looks quite nice, doesn't

it? And there's a lot of smoke. I'm not

sure if you can see it because my uncle

over there, he's burning stuff. And

they're also burning stuff over there.

That house over there seems to always be

burning something. I'm not sure why. Some

of you might be wondering why my wife just

went back to Japan by herself, and let me

try and explain. Now, originally we were

supposed to both go back together on

Sunday, And I was going to go back with

her because me and my mum had this big

argument and I was getting kind of fed up

with being stuck here with my angry mum.

I thought my dad— we all thought my dad

was going to get better, so I thought I

was going to go back to Japan and then

come back here in a few months' time after

my dad recovered so I could see him.

But unfortunately, things took a turn for

the worst and he didn't survive. So me and

my wife decided to stay. We missed our

flight on Sunday deliberately. We decided

to stay for the funeral, but unfortunately

the funeral won't be for quite a while,

until mid-March. And my wife

was already getting pretty depressed being

stuck here with no Japanese people to talk

to, nothing to do, no work to do. And

it's, it's also a little bit tough living

here with my mom My mum's a pretty

nice person most of the time, but

sometimes she gets into a bad mood, and

when she's in a bad mood, you do not want

to be around her because she'll just lash

out at anyone and everyone and she'll say

all these horrible mean things to them.

Sometime around last week, me and my mum

had some pretty big arguments where we

were just swearing at each other for about

5 or 10 minutes. It must have been pretty

funny to listen to. Me and my sister,

we're quite used to my mum's mood swings,

so it's not really much of a big shock to

us. But for my wife, it must have been a

little bit scary being around when my mum

was like that. I was doing a livestream

sometime last week, some of you might have

seen it, and my mum comes into my room

during the stream and then she starts

moaning about my wife. She said something

like, your effing wife is so lazy.

She doesn't help around the house. I took

down the stream after I finished it,

hoping that she wouldn't see it, but

unfortunately someone clipped it and

somehow my wife found the clip and she

heard my mum say those things about her.

And as you can imagine, she was pretty

upset about it. She kept complaining about

my wife being lazy and not helping around

the house, and I don't think that's

entirely fair because She was doing a bit

of cleaning. She was helping out a little

bit. Okay, she didn't spend all day

cleaning the house top to bottom, but then

I don't think that she has to. Why does—

why should she have to clean the entire

house just because she's bored? My mum

kept saying, if you're so bored, why don't

you clean the house? Number one, the house

isn't even that dirty. Number two, why

should she? It's not— it's not her house.

It's not her mess. She did clean up after

her own mess most of the time. I guess the

worst that she did was leaving coffee cups

around sometimes. She has this habit of

making coffee, only drinking half of it,

and then just leaving it around the house,

which I guess would annoy some people. I

don't really care. I do the same

sometimes, so I can't really complain

about it. I actually had this huge

argument with my dad a couple years ago

Because I left the coffee cup after I

finished using it on the mantelpiece of

the fireplace, my dad came in into my room

and said, Daniel, can you please stop

leaving dirty coffee cups around the

house? And for some reason I was really

stressed and I kind of snapped at him. I

said, why do you always make such a big

fuss over coffee cups when the whole house

is filled with junk and clutter? And then

he said something like, if you don't like

living here, then then you can jolly well

move out. And then I didn't talk to him

for about a week afterwards because I was

so angry with him. I'm not sure why I got

so angry. I think I was just irritated

with how he told me to do something as if

I was a naughty schoolkid. I felt like I

was a naughty schoolkid being told off by

a teacher. People think if you add please

onto the end of sentences, it makes it

polite, but I feel like adding please onto

the end of a sentence just makes it sound

ruder. I also think it's kind of weird to

say please to family members. You don't

need to be so formal and polite to your

own family members. It just comes off as

sounding very cold.

Anyway, in defense of my wife, I don't

think that she was as bad as my mum made

her out to be. She did help out a little

bit. She unloaded the dishwasher a couple

of times. She did some vacuum cleaning.

She did her own laundry a few times. She

helped clear away the dishes. She helped

do washing up. So I just don't understand

how my mum can complain about her not

being helpful and about her not helping

clean the house when she did do a little

bit. Okay, there was one time when we were

making love a few weeks ago and she was on

her period, but we didn't know, and it was

dark so we couldn't see. And then after we

finished making love, we switched the

lights on and there was blood everywhere

on the bedsheets, and we quickly took the

bedsheets off, put them into the washing

machine, but unfortunately some of the

blood had soaked into the duvet. Some of

the blood soaked into the duvet, and we

couldn't fit the entire duvet into the

washing machine, so we just left it and

put on a new bedsheet in hopes that no one

would find out. Unfortunately, my mum

found out when she changed the bedsheets

herself, and She was a little bit angry to

find patches of blood on her bed stuff,

but that was just a one-time thing. It's

not like that happens all the time. We

don't have patches of blood all over our

bed back home in Japan. It was just an

accident because she didn't realize that

her period had started so soon.

So that's the situation. My mum doesn't

like my wife much now because she thinks

she's lazy and not helpful, which I don't

think is true. And my wife doesn't really

like my mum much because she heard my mum

call her effing lazy. It's a bit

unfortunate that my wife and my mum don't

seem to like each other much, but what can

I do? And this is just between you and me,

but I think it's a bit— it's a little bit

hypocritical of my mum to complain about

other people being untidy when you should

see the state of our house. It's just It's

full of her junk and clutter, and if we

try and clear it away, she starts getting

upset. But I guess it's her

house now, so she can do whatever the eff

she wants to. And if we complain about it,

she'll just say, it's my house.

Hello and welcome back to another episode

of Cooking with

Daniel. I know it's been a while, but I've

got some free time today to do some

cooking, and today we're going to be

making a sausage sandwich. So these

sausages are pork sausages, and they've

expired over a week ago. Oh,

oh my goodness, no! The 6th of

February! You know what happened on the

6th of February? Well, I'm not going to

tell you again, but I can't believe the

sausages expired on the exact same day

that my dad passed away. That's kind of

weird. Anyway, I think they should be fine

to eat. It's, um, it's just

some preserved pork meat. I think it

should be— I don't know, actually.

There's weird liquid coming out of it.

Let me smell it.

Smells okay. I don't— I can't smell

anything strange, so let's just cook it

up. Okay, so first of all, we need to get

ourselves a nice solid plate and

then find out what that bloody beeping is.

Okay, so first of all, we need to make

some toast. This is going to be a toasted

sausage sandwich. And my personal favorite

when it comes to bread is this Tesco

multi-seed batch. And as you can see,

it's kind of like brownish bread and

there's lots of seeds in it. And this is

the great thing about British bread, you

just don't really get bread like this in

Japan that has seeds in it, and it's

very tasty. In Japan, 99% of all the bread

is just weird tasting white bread.

And what we're going to do is we're going

to pop 2 slices into the toaster

and set the heat setting to light.

That says light here. We don't want to

burn it. And just let that toast. Might

have to turn up the heat a little bit,

just a little bit. Okay, next things Next,

I mean, next step is frying the sausages.

As you can see, this is a pretty new

fancy-looking oven cooker. There's no,

no gas, no flame, and it cooks using

induction. I don't really understand how

it works, but you place the frying pan on

there and then you press some buttons.

And then press here.

Around 7 or 8 is a good number.

And then we just fry the sausages.

Now the problem with cooking sausages is

sometimes you end up cooking the outside

but the inside of the sausage doesn't cook

properly. So what we're going to do is

we're going to cut the sausages, um, in

half.

Cut them in half like this.

It's so sad because I remember my dad

telling me about this new cooker he bought

last year. Sometime last year, he sent

me a message saying, we just bought a new

fancy cooker. It's an induction cooker.

And I, I said, oh, that's interesting.

Never thought I'd be back here using it.

Like this.

As you can see, I burnt the toast a little

bit. Shit.

If you burn the toast, it's not too much

of a big deal if you've only burnt it a

little bit. So just get a knife and then

you scrape it off like this.

Scrape off all the black bits and it

should be good. Good to eat.

And for some extra flavor, we're going to

put some mayonnaise onto the toast.

And then we check on the sausages, see how

they're doing.

And we're also going to add some baby

spinach to make it healthy.

This is my favorite Star Wars cup, Rogue

One. Best Star Wars movie ever.

Hello.

Now the sausages have been finished. They

finished cooking, so we're going to

transfer them over to. The plate and

just place it like this and

then close the bread together.

And there it is, sausage sandwich.

Why are you making that sound?

What do you want?

What? I don't

understand what you're saying.