Something REAL messed Up Just Happened

You won't believe what just happened.

Oh my God.

You won't believe what just happened. I

just went out to meet the Scottish girl

that I came all the way here to Edinburgh

to meet. She tricked me. She brought

some guy with her.

I can't believe it.

She brought some guy who's apparently a

viewer of mine who really wanted to meet

me, and apparently he came all the way

here from down south. And we were supposed

to meet yesterday to go for drinks, but I

ended up not going because I didn't feel

like meeting a guy. So I ghosted her and I

didn't check Instagram until today. And

then we started chatting again, and then

she said that we could meet up today. So I

thought, well, okay, I guess so. But then

she kept saying we— we could do this, we

could go there, we can come. So I said I'm

not interested in meeting multiple people.

And then she said, it will just be us,

don't worry. So I assumed just

us meant me and her. What else would

that mean? I made it pretty clear that I

don't want to meet other people and I just

want to meet her. So she come— she just

came about 20 minutes ago. And I went out

to the entrance of the hotel to go and see

her, and then the bloody guy was there.

Some, some tall white guy.

Oh my God, I can't believe this.

So I thought— I was kind of shocked, so I

didn't know what to do. So I just kind of

followed them for about 2 minutes, and

then I was getting more and more annoyed,

so I just went, actually, I think I'm just

gonna leave. And then I walked away, and

then she was like chasing me as I was

trying to get back to the hotel, and she

was like pulling on my arm to get me to

stop. I can't believe someone

would do that. Who the hell does that?

Oh my God, why can't I meet any normal

How many— how clear do I have to make it

that I'm not interested in meeting guys?

So I end up— I just blocked her just now

because I don't want to talk to her

I knew something was weird about it. Ever

since I got here, I felt like there was

something strange about her. First of all,

she comes all the way to Edinburgh and

then doesn't meet me but says she's on

some date. And then she keeps going on

about this guy called Alan. I don't want

to meet some guy called Alan.

I— she just basically tricked me into

coming out to meet this guy, didn't she?

Could you recap? Okay, I'll start from the

very beginning since I haven't been very

open about why I came to Scotland in the

first place. So I've been chatting to

this, this woman, this girl from Scotland

for a few months now, and then we talked

about meeting up, and we were— I thought

we were supposed to meet last weekend.

But she comes on the weekend, but she was

on some date and then she didn't come and

see me, so I was pretty annoyed about

that. Then she said she'll come on

Thursday, but then she said something else

happened and she couldn't come on

Thursday. Then she said Friday, and then

she said she couldn't meet on Friday

either. So at that point I was really

annoyed, so I just thought screw this and

I just deleted Instagram so I didn't have

to deal with it. And then I decided to

have a look at Instagram today just to

check if she said anything,

and she was trying to get me to come out

and meet. So I explained to her that I

wasn't really feeling up for it, and I

don't know if I didn't make it clear

enough that I'm not interested in meeting

guys or other people.

If we're going to meet, it's supposed to

be just Her and I.

Do you know if that was her boyfriend? I

don't know. She didn't say she has a

boyfriend. Why? I don't get it. Why? Why

is she so desperate to get me to meet this

guy to the point that she has to trick me

into coming out? Because if she told me

that this guy was coming, there's no way I

would have gone out to meet her. I said

no, I'm not interested.

Is the girl legit? Yeah, she's real. She

was out there and I've been chatting to

her for a few months now, so I know she's

not a fake.

I can't believe it. I come all this way

just to get tricked into meeting a bloody

guy.

Now I'm scared that's waiting out my hotel

outside. My hotel gave me a brownie as

well, as if I'm gonna eat a brownie.

Probably drugged it.

I don't know if it's, if it's my

misunderstanding, because I thought I made

it pretty clear that I'm not interested in

meeting guys. You watch any of my streams,

you know I'm always saying that I'm not

interested in meeting guys or viewers who

are guys. How would you not

know that? If you have been watching me

for any amount of time, that's like my

whole thing, that, that I'm not interested

in like male friendships or meeting guys

or hanging out with guys. You guys know

that, don't you? And then to

trick me into meeting a guy, oh, that's

just the worst. If maybe I might meet a

guy sometimes if I feel like, if I feel

like there's the right vibes there and I'm

not feeling creeped out, because I have

met guys in the past And I had a good

time, but it's got to be on

my terms, and I've got to decide it if I

want to do it or not, not to have it

forced on me.

I just got these really weird vibes when I

met— when I met them, just seemed really

Why would a girl pressure you into meeting

a guy during your day? I don't know. It's

like she's got this obsession with getting

me to meet this guy. It's always like,

oh, Alan's gonna be there tomorrow, he's

gonna be here today, he came all this way

to see you. Why does she care so much

about getting me to meet him?

When you met them, what happened? I just

went out As soon as I went to the— towards

the entrance, this guy came towards me,

shook my hand, and I was like, oh my God,

are you kidding me? You seriously just

tricked me into coming out just for that?

Oh my God, what is wrong with people?

I can't believe I came all this way just,

just to see her and then she does that.

I don't know what her intentions were. I

just, I really don't get it. What does she

want from me?

Because I think I made it pretty clear

that I only meet girls if there's, you

know, because I think there might be a

chance of you know what happening. And if

I feel like they're only interested in

friendship, or if I feel like I'm being

friend-zoned, then I just get the hell

out of that situation. I block them. I

say, that's it, I'm done. I move on. If I

get friend-zoned, I'm done. I'm not

interested in friends. I don't know how

many times I have to explain this.

Is your door locked? Yeah, it's locked.

Oh my God,

I was shaking because I was so annoyed.

Well, at least I got myself out of the

situation. I feel like if this happened a

couple years ago, I would have been too

scared to get out of that situation, and I

would have just tagged along trying to

find an exit. I felt a bit proud of myself

that I just went, actually, I'm just gonna

leave. That took— I feel like that took a

bit of courage because usually, you know,

when I met Tomoko, I really wanted to get

out of the situation, but I just didn't

have the guts to say it.

I don't want to sound like I'm being rude

to the guy because— but Jesus,

I don't want to meet guys, for God's sake.

Don't trick me into coming out by using a

Why is it everywhere I go there's like

some weirdo in the place I, I arrive at?

In Manchester, there's like weirdo there.

Now there's weirdos here. Now I've got to

leave this place as well. People wonder

why I don't stream outside. Thank God I

don't stream outside. So This

is what I said to her. I can't

get the, the chat logs back now because I

blocked her and deleted the whole thing.

I said, sorry about last night, I wasn't

feeling up for it anymore. And then she

was still really insistent to meet up

today. She said, do you want to meet my

dog so we can hang out and go for a walk?

So I just kind of assumed that she would

be coming by herself, not bringing this

bloody guy with her. Why is the guy still

with her? I don't get it. What is the

thing with them? Are they seeing each

other? Are they friends or what? He's not

Scottish, I could tell from the accent,

so he's not from around here. I think he

came all the way here specifically for

this.

Show us the cupcake. I'll put it in the

bin. This— they gave

me this. Not a cupcake, it's a brownie.

No way I'm eating that. They probably put

something in it, like to drug me,

make me fall asleep, and then they're

gonna drag my body somewhere.

They're not be standing outside.

They're watching right now. Yeah, maybe

they are watching. Better explain

yourself, because when when I tried

walking away, she tried to stop me, and I

said, "I thought I thought you were coming

alone. I didn't know you're going to bring

someone." And then she said, "But I said."

Just, just us are coming. I thought you

meant like you and your dogs. When she

kept saying we, we, we, I thought it's

just like, oh, me and my dogs, we, us.

Because I said I'm not interested in

meeting multiple people. I literally said

I'm not interested in meeting multiple

people. Multiple people means more than

one person. You bring the guy, it's 2

people. That means it's multiple. What

part of that sentence was hard to

understand?

What's that? Oh, I got a Super Chat. Oh,

thanks, Nissi. Sad thing is, if he

is a fan, he should know. Exactly. If he's

been watching me, then you'd know. This is

like basic knowledge.

Since when have I ever being the kind of

person to be like meeting up with all

these guys. It's just like another bloody

cesium, isn't it? They don't care if I'm

uncomfortable or not happy with it. They—

because they want it, they want to meet

me. It's just selfish.

Why do you see hanging out with guys as an

issue? Because I'm not interested.

I'm not interested in guys.

I'm not interested in being friends. I'd

rather just sit in my hotel room on my

own. Than, than waste my time

with things that are just going to be

And I kind of got like weird vibes from

him as well, you know, like, like cesium

vibes.

Oh God. Oh.

I should have worn my GoPro.

I swear, next time someone tries to meet

up with me, I'm wearing my full gear just

so that they don't get away with it. Oh

no, that might just encourage them because

they'll be like, oh, if I trick Daniel

into coming out, I'm gonna be in his

video, in his stream.

I've met Seizym in real life. Really?

You serious?

Because he

was, he was really weird, like really

awkward, and you could see he was like

shaking because he was really nervous.

When he came to my house, I just get—I get

like weird, creepy vibes from these

people.

I just—I can't believe she did that. I

made it really clear that I'm only

interested in seeing her because I was

interested in her from like. You know,

like a— like from a sexual point of view.

I didn't want to have to make it so

obvious. I didn't want to have to spell it

out. But you know,

what other reason would I come all this

way to see her for if it wasn't for, you

know? So why

would she think that I want to meet her

and a guy? Jesus Christ.

You attract weirdos. I know, why do I keep

attracting like these weird people?

They tried to take me down like this

secluded alleyway as well, down the side

of this building. Oh, they were so weird,

and they just acted like it was normal and

not even a, oh, sorry, But Alan really

wanted to come. I, I know you didn't want

to meet other people. They just pretended

like everything was normal. Oh, this is

Alan, nice to meet you. What have you been

up to today? Have you been here? Have you

been there? Just acting like nothing weird

just happened.

I felt like they're gonna rob me or

something in the alleyway.

I think I'm gonna— I feel like I'm gonna

delete my Instagram because

I just keep getting tricked and my time

gets wasted from all these viewers.

Even the girls, all the girls just wasting

my time saying, oh, I'm in Manchester,

let's meet. Oh, I'm in Scotland, let's

meet. Oh, I'm in Timbuktu, let's meet.

Oh, by the way, I'm bringing my friend

Roberto.

As if I want to meet a guy.

I feel so scammed and tricked.

Some girls take boys on dates to feel

safer. That is the weirdest thing I've

ever heard. That's like me going on a date

with a girl and then bringing another girl

with me. Who does that?

Have I left Edinburgh already? No, I just

got freaking catfished and trolled.

By, by 2 viewers.

This Scottish girl and then this guy from

down south who apparently came all the way

here just to see me, which is kind of

creepy in, in and of itself. Oh,

thanks, Asim. Take care out there, lots of

weirdos. I know, I just want to go home

now, to be honest. I can't trust anyone.

I'm already paranoid as fuck.

They took me around the side of the

building and they were like, let's go this

way. And I thought, uh, let's not. I'm

gonna go back.

How did you escape? I said, I think

actually, I think I'm gonna leave. I'm not

really in the mood. They tried to stop me

as well. The guy didn't really seem

that bothered, but the girl was like

following me, trying to get me to come

back. And I kept like trying to walk away.

She kept trying to talk me into coming

back.

I knew it was weird because I

don't know if I should say this because I

knew it ever since I started chatting with

her. I knew something was strange because

she was telling me the first time she

started messaging me, guess what she was

telling me? She was telling me about how

she was in a hotel with a viewer of mine.

I don't know if that's the guy. She sent

me like a video clip of her in a hotel and

I was like, oh, that's nice. Glad I

could have helped you find someone. She

said it was like some person who also

watches me, and they started chatting,

and then she went down to London to see

him. So I thought, okay, so you like this

guy, but then why are you chatting to me?

And then I thought maybe she's interested

in me as well and not interested in him

anymore. And now I feel like actually she

really likes that guy, and then she's

trying to do like a nice thing for the

guy. Knowing that he really wants to meet

me, and then she's like tricking,

seducing me into coming out and meeting

them.

So then she didn't really talk about the

guy for a few months, so I thought, oh,

maybe things just didn't really work out

between them, and now she's interested in

me. Oh my God.

Did she know about your channel? Yeah,

she's been watching since 2019 at least,

because that was when the first message I

got from her was 2019.

And then apparently they went out drinking

last night, and that was when I was

supposed to go out to see them, but I

really didn't want to because I, I already

got this weird feeling that it was— it

kind of felt like The main objective of

hers was to get me to meet this guy.

How the fuck did you meet them? Because

I've been chatting to her on, on

Instagram. She said nothing about

some guy showing up as well.

Isn't it similar to the German girl story?

No, this is way worse because at least the

German girl didn't bring her boyfriend

with her.

If you didn't see the red flags, that's on

you. Well, I did see them, it's just I

thought maybe I was wrong.

Look, I'm very flattered. I'm very

flattered if, if someone likes my content,

they wanted to meet me, but I'm just not

interested in meeting men because I'm not

gay. I'm not interested in,

in friendships, and I

don't do like fan meetups.

I should have blocked her straight away.

So I felt like it was weird after she,

she kept changing things.

Like, she was trying to delay and delay us

meeting, and then it was like she wouldn't

meet me just on her own unless this guy

came as well. She said we would meet on

Friday, and I said— and even on Friday,

I said, it's going to be just us, right,

isn't it? And she said yes, and that Alan

was going to come later in the day, and

then we could meet up. Oh, this is one

thing she said that was really weird. She

said on Friday, she said

she won't be able to make it on Friday,

but Alan's still gonna be there.

As if she thinks I'm gonna go, oh, okay,

well, I'll just meet up with Alan then and

then wait for you on Saturday.

What happened? For us new people joining,

I just got tricked into coming out to meet

a girl, and then she brought a guy with

her who's supposedly a fan.

It was really weird. I'm just

wondering if she's gonna message me again

with a different account.

You don't know he was her boyfriend?

Sounds like that could be possible, but

she said she came on a date.

She said she came last weekend to

Edinburgh and she sent me a video clip of

her in Edinburgh, so I know it was in

Edinburgh. And she said she came on a

date. That's when I started to first get

annoyed because I thought How come you

came here to go on a date instead of

coming to meet me when I've been sitting

around waiting this whole time?

How long did you stay with them? I just—

not, not even 2 minutes. We started

walking and

they were like, let's show Daniel this

place, that place, and then go for drinks.

It was so weird how they just acted as if

everything was just normal and not weird

after they obviously tricked me into

coming out. Because if they explained the

circumstances and the situation as it was,

they know that I wouldn't have come out.

It doesn't sound too strange. I think

it's just because I'm not doing a very

good job at explaining everything,

because I, I made it pretty clear that I'm

not interested in meeting if it's gonna be

more than just us. She kept saying it

would just be us. Surely just us would

mean me and her. But then she started

saying that just us meant her and him.

What should I do?

I thought it was weird because she kept

saying we are coming. We are just gonna go

and get something sweet, something like a

cake. I thought she meant like we as in

the dogs and me, the dogs and I.

Just us means you, her, and Alan. But then

what I said, I'm not interested in meeting

if there's going to be other people there.

I said I'm not interested in meeting

multiple people.

If I say I'm not interested in meeting

multiple people, then doesn't that

obviously mean I'm only— I'm not

interested if there's other people coming?

How else would you interpret and interpret

that?

She knew he wouldn't be comfortable and

tried to force it anyway. Exactly.

She knows I, I'm pretty nervous and

anxious around people, and then she brings

him anyway.

Oh God, I can't believe we came all the

way and wasted all this money.

Was she hot? Uh, she looks okay. I mean,

I would have brought her back to my room

if she came alone. I wouldn't say no if

she was up for it, but not if that bloody

guy is going to be there too.

Nearly 300 viewers. Yeah.

So should I unblock her, guys? Should I

unblock her and then ask for an

explanation?

Press the like button if I should do that.

Okay, you want drama? I'll give you bloody

Okay, how do you unblock people?

Settings,

account.

If we get 100 likes, then I

will Question her.

Oh, how do you unblock people in this

stupid app? It must be in settings and

then security.

No,

follow, invite, notifications, privacy,

security. Privacy, blocked accounts.

I unblocked her.

Okay, she's unblocked now. I don't know if

she's watching this, probably not,

but if you're watching, then I

would like an explanation of what just

happened. There's my

phone. We're waiting.

We the people demand to know why you

thought it was okay to bring Alan when I

made it pretty clear that I'm not

interested in meeting other people.

Now, if you brought hot sexy lady friend,

then things would be different. I wouldn't

be complaining at all.

Okay, she's not messaging, so let me see

if she's typing.

No, she's not typing.

She unfollowed me. It said before,

it used to say follow back.

Wait, is that because I blocked her?

If I, if I block someone on Instagram,

does it make them— I think it

automatically makes them unfollow me,

doesn't it?

Anyone know? Or did she just— did she just

unfollow me? Is Streamlabs

on? No, I didn't have time to set up

but maybe I can get it going on my

computer if

you want some text-to-speech.

Blocking unfollows. Oh, so because I

blocked her, it made her unfollow me

automatically. Gotcha.

I need to log in.

Okay, let's, let's message her.

Can I get an explanation why you

brought Alan?

Okay, I just messaged her.

Either she's watching this and she decides

not to play along, or maybe she isn't

watching it and then she explains, or

maybe she plays along and doesn't care

that I'm streaming all this.

Who is Adam? Adam was this guy who just

showed up at my hotel at the entrance. I

went down to meet her, she was on the

footpath by the road, and then this guy

comes up, he says, hi, I'm Adam, and then

he shook my hand and I was like, what the

hell's going on? Who are you?

Oh, I got Streamlabs on. Is Streamlabs

on? Yes, it is.

Well, I got Alan.

That's not the real Alan. What would you

do if Alan's willy was waving in front of

you? Nothing. Better not be in front of

me. Oh,

I got a few other ones from Vlogfield.

So you wasted all your money and time on

this? You are really dumb. Hahaha.

Yeah, well, I didn't think she was gonna

bring some guy with her.

Haha, same old story. So funny that you

keep getting trolled and catfished. Er,

so dumb. Ha ha ha. Yeah,

I am dumb for believing people.

She replied. She's trying

to do an audio call.

She tries to do an audio call. Should I

answer it? But it said missed.

Just send the message. Why do people have

to do audio calls and voice messages?

Nearly 300 viewers. Nice. Gives me 2019

vibes. Yeah, 2019 vibes.

Tell her to send you a voice message.

I don't know what she's doing now.

She's not typing or anything. She's making

an audio call. Why is she doing an audio

call?

Now it says call ended.

Just do voice message.

I'm upset.

Hello, Daniel? That's so cruel, making a

bloody video. That's really nasty.

I thought I was being really nice, and I'm

sorry that you've got the wrong

impression. I didn't mean to do that. I

always thought you knew that he was

coming. No, I said I'm not interested in

meeting multiple people. Yeah, and I

didn't think that 2 people was multiple

people. I'm sorry. What else would it

mean? Can you please delete that stream?

That's really mean. I honestly

thought we were friends, Daniel.

Can you not do that? But you didn't tell

me that this Alan guy is coming. I did

tell you. You didn't. I did. You said he

was coming on Saturday. Yes, and I said

that he was staying. But you didn't say he

was coming today. I'm, I'm sorry that

you got— I'm sorry that I wouldn't make

that clear, but I don't think that

justifies Trying to block me and make a

video about me because I feel like you

tricked me into coming out. Of course, I

didn't mean to do that, and I think that's

Please don't make a video about it.

That's really mean. Then why are you

calling me when I'm streaming?

Because I'm I guess I'm just hurt, and I'm

sorry that I hurt you. I didn't mean to do

that. I'm sorry, Daniel. Then what is— I

don't understand what this whole situation

is. Why do you want me to meet this Alan

guy so badly? I, I didn't mean that. I

didn't want you to meet him badly. It's

just that it's like you really want me to

meet this Alan guy. I, I don't think it's—

I, he's— I didn't really want you to meet

Is that for the car?

Sure, thanks, Dad. I'm just with my dad.

Alan's the way home.

Well, I don't know, it's just like big

misunderstanding. It is, and I'm really

sorry. You know, I'm like really paranoid

and anxious about people because I get

trolled and stuff all the time, and I felt

like I made it clear that I'm not

interested in, in like meeting other

people. I honestly didn't

get that, and I'm sorry. I knew that

you're anxious, and that's why I was

trying to try to see if you wanted to meet

before. I'm sorry.

Can you can you not make a video, and then

that way we can try and save some sort of

friendship from this? Maybe. Please.

Please, I don't think a video is like

worth our friendship, you know? Like I

thought we were friends, but I'm not

really interested in friendship, to be

honest. And I'm

or meeting guys. You don't. It won't.

You don't need to meet him.

But then why did you keep like trying to

bring him to me? Sorry, you're kind of

cutting up a little bit.

Can you hear me? Yeah, I can hear you.

Yeah, you're cutting out a little bit.

Can you hear me? Yeah, I can hear you. I

can hear you now. Maybe I need to stand by

the window. Yeah. Are you still streaming?

Maybe. Oh, Daniel,

can they hear me?

No. Well, I think we cleared it up then.

I don't want you to make a pariah of this,

you know.

Please. Okay, I don't know. Why'd you say

I don't know? I don't know what else to

say. I think we're both— I'm

sorry, and I, I think you're sorry,

right? I don't know. I'm still— I need to

calm down because I'm still riled up. I

don't want you to be, and I'm sorry. I was

just very shocked, and I felt like I was

tricked. But you should have spoke to me.

I tried to speak to you and then you, and

then you make a stream saying I chased you

and I was pulling on your arm. I never did

that. Stroked, I stroked your arms. I

didn't want to grab you. I never did

anything like that. Yeah, not pulling. I

don't know how to phrase it. It's like

gently tugging. Like some like crazy girl.

I never tugged at you. I only ever stroked

your arm because I didn't, didn't know if

you would want me to touch you. I didn't

mind, but I didn't want to do that. I just

don't— don't make me out to be some like

crazy girl who's like trying to like get

my friend to meet you. Like, it was just

that he was in town because I was meeting

him, so it just seemed like a nice thing

to do. Like, he's— he's— he does watch

your videos, you know? That's because he

likes you. But you should have made it

clear that he was coming. I— again, I, I

thought I was, and you obviously thought

that, that you were being about not. And

obviously both of us have got it wrong,

and I'm sorry. I didn't mean— I

didn't mean to do that. I'm sorry.

Okay then, can you

delete the stream please? Yeah, I don't

want to be some crazy girl in Scotland

that you hate. I don't want you to hate me

at all. I'm sorry.

Okay, I guess it clears up

then.

Bye then. No, no, don't, don't. Are you

gonna block me again? Uh, I don't know if

there's anything else to talk about.

We can try and meet again, just the two of

us. I don't know, I don't feel like I

trust you because I thought we were gonna

meet last weekend and then you didn't

come, and then you said Thursday, then

Friday. And then you kept changing things.

I know, but I live, I live 3 and a half

hours away. It's not easy for me to be

here. I'm sorry. And then my mum wasn't

well. She went to the hospital yesterday.

I wouldn't lie about stuff like that. I

wouldn't lie about my family. Just, it

just felt really suspicious. It wasn't

supposed to. I'm sorry.

So who is Alan anyway? Like, are you

friends or what? Um, we're friends.

We— I think I told you we met on your

stream and we go on dates sometimes.

But you're not like together or what?

No,

no. No, we— because

we live really far away from each other,

it's just nice to like spend time in each

other's city sometimes.

Interesting.

Well, I don't know, like what did you see

in me to watch as friends?

Uh, I thought we were Because

you were talking about how you were going

on dates with people up here. Yeah, but

that's just because I, um,

because I never have good luck with

meeting viewers, and then I, I just always

feel like I might as well have secondary

plans ready. But you

didn't have secondary plans. You were

meeting them all before anyway. Only

because you didn't come on the weekend

when I thought we were going to meet.

You'd already been on a date with someone.

No. Who? Yeah, I don't—

I went on one date since I got here and it

was on Monday. Okay.

So what do you want to do? Well, I want

you to delete that stream because I don't

think it's very nice and it's not very

fair if we both got the wrong— wrong— I

don't know, we're both wrong.

I don't think it's fair. I don't want you

to make me out like that. Well, that's

just what it felt like from my point of

view. Well, it felt awful to me too

because I was meant to meet you and then

you just flaked on me. And I'm

not making a big deal of that, and I'm

not— I'm not on your chat being horrible

about you, which I could do, and I didn't

do that because I thought we were friends.

Well, I didn't do it asking you to forgive

me.

And you still want to make me feel bad?

No. Yeah, I'm not trying to make you feel

bad. You are doing that. How?

Because you're not deleting it.

You'd rather just have everyone think that

I was some crazy Scottish girl, but they

don't even know who you are. And you— and

you said he's name on the stream. That was

very mean. That could have been

a fake name if you didn't just give it

away. What do you mean if I didn't just

give it away? I wasn't on speaker, that

they can't hear me. No, maybe we

should continue this privately. No, what

do you mean privately? I'm on the phone,

it is private. But you called me when I'm

streaming. So they'll be, they'll be able

to hear me. Oh, so you do have me on

speaker? No, it's just the volume's up

loud. Oh, for goodness sake, Daniel. So we

should phone. We'll talk later because I'm

busy. End the stream.

We can just talk later.

Delete the stream, Daniel. I will.

So what should I do?

Should I delete the stream?

I don't know what to make of the situation

anymore.

What's that?

I live for this, okay?

Oh, thanks. This is the drama we want to

see. K-E-K-L-M-A-O. She's gaslighting

and very manipulative. I don't know now.

I mean, it sounds like she was sincere,

that it was a misunderstanding.

Then if she didn't— she must have known

I'm streaming. Then why did she phone me

when I'm streaming? And everyone's

seen it already, so why does it matter if

I delete it or not? She's laughing.

No, I don't think she was laughing.

She said she didn't think that multiple

people would mean her and Adam, but that's

2 people. Multiple— singular would be one

person.

Guys, what do you think I should do?

Because now I don't— I feel like it's

difficult to trust her now.

It's obvious she is manipulative. How

can't you see that? I don't know, maybe

I've got autism. I can't

tell. She just sounds normal to me, like

she usually does.

So I don't know if I made it obvious that

the reason why I wanted to meet her was

because I kind of fancied her. But then if

she's like seeing this Alan guy, then it

just sounds kind of complicated. I don't

want to get involved.

And then why is she worried about how she

comes across to people? It's not like

people know who she is. I didn't make her

sound like she's that crazy. So I said she

was like pulling my arm. I didn't mean

like aggressively grabbing me, just like

pinching the fabric of my hoodie.

See what

she's saying.

She's saying I had her on speakerphone.

No, it's just the volume was up very loud

and I had it near the microphone.

That's why I said just send me a message,

not phone me.

She preys on you because she knows you're

weak.

I'm not weak.

No,

she's watching this stream.

But then if she knew I was streaming,

then why phone me? And then why complain

that people might be able to hear?

How does she know about you saying she

pulled on your arm? Yeah, exactly. So

she's watching.

Well, I don't think they're like waiting

outside for me because I could, I could

hear another guy's voice and it wasn't

like the other guy, and I could hear like

the inside of a car, so I think she's in a

She's just a troll.

She might be scared to talk to me now

because, because I'm very emotional right

now and I'm not really thinking logically.

What time is it?

4:40.

How many times did she arrange to meet up

before pulling out? Like 3 times.

The first 3 times we— I thought we were

going to meet just the 2 of us, but it's

like she cancelled and delayed every

planned meeting up until the day that Adam

would be here. Yeah,

I spent £3,000 to come here so far,

just, just staying here waiting to meet

this girl. £3,000.

So I don't know if Alan is watching, but

look, I just want to apologize if I

upset you, but I'm just not interested in

meeting guys. It's very flattering

that you wanted to meet me, but then

you should have reached out to me directly

to, to arrange a meetup, not through her.

That's not how to do it.

£3,000. Yeah, my first apartment cost

£1,100, and then this place cost £600,

and then my next place cost £400. I'm just

bleeding money out here and I'm not

getting any— anything out of it.

She friend-zoned you. Yeah, that's what I

felt like. I was getting major friend zone

warning flags because when a girl starts

telling you that she's going on dates,

then it just makes you feel like— because

I would never tell a girl that I'm

interested in that I'm going on dates.

And then she, she said that I was going on

dates as well, just like that Manchester

girl started complaining, saying that I

started going on dates. That's because she

stopped replying to me.

Is it wrong of me to go on dates before

meeting her? I don't really feel like

that's weird.

It's only because every time I go and meet

a girl, it just seems like most of the

time it doesn't work out, and then I don't

want to waste my time. So I feel like I

might as well get on Tinder and start

arranging side things,

cuz I want to be efficient with my time.

I did that with Tomoko, remember?

So I can't, I can't put all my eggs in one

basket and then just depend and have all

these expectations on her when in most

cases, in my experience, things don't work

out Or I get ghosted, or I get catfished.

Why can't she go on dates? I'm not saying

she can't go on dates. I'm just saying she

came. She came here to Edinburgh.

But went on a date instead of meeting me.

Not even to drop by and say hi for like 1

hour, but she messaged me saying she was

here on a date. How do you think that

makes me feel? Just makes me feel that

I'm not like being prioritized.

What happened?

What happened?

I don't know anymore.

It just sounds like she wanted to do a

nice thing for this Alan guy.

To, um, get me to meet him.

Is that Hitler? No, it's Sean Connery.

How does that look like Hitler?

She's on a date. Why take it personally?

I'm not taking it personally. I'm just— it

rubs me the wrong way.

A bit scared now.

What if she's waiting outside with her dad

to beat me up?

Now she's blaming me for not accepting

that I also made a mistake.

How did I make a mistake?

Do you think I made a mistake in assuming

that Alan is not going to come?

Oh, this is just going around in circles.

I said I'm not interested in meeting

multiple people.

Did she ever mention the dude coming? She

said he would be on here on Saturday and

that the 3 of us would hang out. That's

when I decided I wasn't interested and I

decided not to go, but she

never said anything about him coming

today.

Meet one more time without Alan.

She says she's with her dad.

Oh, this is so confusing. I don't know

what to think now.

Oh, I might go now because,

because this is kind of just going around

in circles.

What would you do if Alan's willy was

waving in front of you? Oh, why did you

keep asking that stupid question?

She said she told her dad about what

happened. Now she

wants me to delete the stream.

If she— if we don't know who she is, it

doesn't matter. Yeah, that's what I

She said, I didn't talk about you online

and make you out to be crazy. Everyone

thinks I'm crazy anyway, guys.

Do you think I'm crazy?

Do you think I made her sound crazy?

Yeah, I didn't make her sound crazy.

Well, I gotta go now because I have to

sort stuff out. Uh,

I'll let you know what happens later,

I guess.

She wants me to delete the stream.

Okay, I'm gonna end the stream and then

I'll try and sort stuff out and then I'll

be back later. Oh my God, what a mess.