how i got Dumped by EVERY girlfriend I've had [93qKmp7FCvE]

I've had a few girlfriends up until now,

and every single one of my girlfriends

basically dumped me, or I decided to ditch

them because the relationship wasn't

really working out well, and I could sense

they were about to dump me. So before they

could dump me, I did a preemptive strike

and I walked out on them before they had

the chance to dump me. And this is going

to be kind of a long video because I had

quite a few girlfriends. Not bragging or

anything, that's just the facts. And I'm

not going to go into each of the stories

too much because this video would go on

for hours. We're going to do like the

short version. The stories and explain how

they dumped me and why. So my first ever

girlfriend, I never actually met her in

real life. It was my first ever online

internet relationship with a Japanese

girl, and I was head over heels over her,

and we were in love. It was like a very

serious relationship where we took it very

seriously. We told everyone we knew we

were officially together, and we had our

faces on each other's phones' wallpapers,

and we phoned each other every single

night for maybe 4 or 5 hours over Skype,

and we were very lovey-dovey. It was kind

of like puppy love. I genuinely convinced

myself that I felt in love with her. I

thought we were soulmates and we're going

to be together forever. It was so

embarrassing looking back at it now. And

we used to talk about things like how we

were going to get married and how many

kids we're gonna have and where we're

going to live in Japan. And we're just

basically planning our whole future

together even though we have never met

before. It was pretty weird and pretty

stupid, and this went on for nearly 2

years. I was about 18 at the time, or 17,

and this ended when I was about 19. It

ended because she ended up finding another

guy because I guess I made her wait too

long. The number one rule and tip is never

make women wait too long because they

won't wait forever. I was trying to save

up as much money as I could so I could go

to Japan and be able to pay for stuff,

but I was kind of delaying it. I didn't

really need that much money. I was kind of

putting it off and putting it off because

I was scared. I never went to Japan before

by myself. I've never even been overseas

by myself without my family, so the idea

of going to a completely new country all

by myself was really scary. Really, I

should have just gone straight to Japan

after I saved up a couple thousand pounds

instead of making her wait for such a long

time. And then she found this guy from the

Czech Republic and he wooed her

successfully. They ended up getting

married. I remember one day I said hi to

her and then she just told me she didn't

like me anymore. She found a new guy.

We're gonna break up now because she's

going to date the Czech Republic guy. And

they ended up getting married and having

kids, and I was just devastated. I think I

had my first ever mental breakdown. I was

crying and crying and crying for weeks and

weeks and weeks until I eventually found

my next girlfriend, Sayuri, my second real

Japanese girlfriend who I actually met in

real life this time. So this time I

decided not to make the same mistake and

make her wait too long, and I went

straight to Japan as quickly as I could

using all the money I had saved up from my

2 jobs that I did to save up money to be

able to meet the first one. And now I had

quite a lot of money, I had about £10,000,

so I could go straight to Japan. And I

did. I booked the first ticket I could,

flew there the next month so I could meet

my first ever girlfriend as quickly as I

could before she had the opportunity to

dump me. And I met her and things didn't

really go very well. We weren't really

attracted to each other. We had nothing in

common. And the worst thing was she was a

university student, which meant that she

could not really meet me much. I had this

idea in my brain that we were going to

meet every single day and hang out every

day and be in love and I'll never be bored

and it'll be amazing. The reality was she

was an extremely busy university student

studying, going to courses, very busy

applying for jobs, going to interviews,

and she didn't really have much time to

hang out with me. She said she could maybe

meet me once a week, maybe once every 2

weeks. And I was very upset and shocked at

this because I genuinely thought we were

going to be together every single day. So

I was just sitting around in Japan every

single day being bored because I had no

friends, had no work, had no school. And I

thought I was going to be hanging out with

my new girlfriend, but I didn't. I ended

up just seeing her maybe once or twice

every few weeks and ended up just sitting

around in the guesthouse I was staying,

feeling very lonely until I eventually

made friends with a bunch of Korean

people. And out of the Korean people,

there was this Korean woman and she was

very friendly with me. She really liked me

and we kind of clicked instantly. As soon

as we met, we got very close and very

intimate. And it was nice because I

finally had someone to spend my days with.

She lived in the same guesthouse so I

could see her every day and do stuff

together with her, and it kind of

fulfilled my need for a girlfriend. But

then unfortunately, the Japanese

girlfriend decided to block me and ghost

me on everything. She wasn't replying to

my messages, she didn't answer the phone

anymore, and she blocked me on Facebook.

I only found out that the Japanese

girlfriend got a new boyfriend and ditched

me because the Korean lady was stalking

her Facebook and was friends with her,

added her to her friend list, and was able

to see her photos and told me that my

girlfriend had a new guy and was posting

pics of them together. And even to this

day, I kind of have this suspicion that

the Korean woman that told the Japanese

girlfriend that we were together and broke

us up because she wanted me for herself.

And to be honest, I was kind of relieved

that the Japanese girlfriend dumped me

because that meant that I didn't have to

dump her and I didn't really like her

anyway. And I could just now spend all my

time with this Korean woman. I was 20 or

21 at the time and the Korean woman was

like 35. So there was a massive age

difference between us. She was 15 years

older than me, and I felt kind of

embarrassed by this. It was kind of lame

to have to date someone so much older than

you, and people at the guest house used to

joke about us being like mother and son.

Oh, Daniel's mother is looking after him

and making him lunch. It was kind of

embarrassing, but we carried on being

together because, I don't know, why not?

Eventually she had to go back to Korea,

and I was left all alone again in Japan.

I felt really sad and miserable. And then

next year I went to Japan again, and this

time I ended up getting into a

relationship with this French girl. I say

French, but she wasn't really French. She

was actually ethnically Thai and was born

in Thailand, but she was adopted by a

French couple who brought her back to

France and raised her as a French girl.

So she was basically French and spoke

French. And I dated her for a few months,

and I was really excited that I got

together with her. She was around my age,

like 21. I was about 22 at the time, and I

used to get really excited every time I

got a new girlfriend. It was like the most

thing ever, had to tell everyone about it.

And me and the Korean woman, we were still

kind of friendly, we were staying in

touch, but we weren't officially together

as boyfriend and girlfriend. And for some

reason, I felt like the Korean woman was

my friend and that I could tell her

anything. And I stupidly told her that I

got together with the French girl. And

this was like a massive mistake because

obviously she had feelings for me and saw

me and thought of me as more than just a

friend. And I kind of ruined the

relationship between me and the Korean

woman Because I blabbed and I told her

about my new French girlfriend, but we

still kept in touch. Things didn't really

work out with the French girlfriend either

because she was kind of a tomboy, not very

feminine, and she didn't like having

female friends for some reason. She said

she didn't like having female friends.

She only likes hanging out with guys. So

she was very close and very friendly with

the other guys at the guesthouse, very

touchy-feely, massaging each other,

hugging. I didn't like other guys touching

my girlfriend. I was very insecure, very

jealous. Very territorial, I guess you

could say, at that time. And we had a lot

of fights because I didn't like her

hanging out with guys all the time. And

then she was like, you can't control me,

Daniel. I can hang out with whoever I want

to. I remember one time this Japanese guy

who we were both friends with knocked on

her bedroom door, and we were in there

together in the morning because we just

woke up. And he said, do you want to go

to— into Tokyo? To the French girl. And

she said yes. And and they didn't invite

me, and they just went off together, the

two of them, on kind of like a date. And I

thought that was really weird, and I was

really angry about this. And when she came

back, we had a big fight about it, and we

had a big fight about basically everyone

she hung out with in the guest house. She

started to get very close with this

Spanish guy who was also at the guest

house. Kept seeing them messaging each

other, and she kept going off to his room

for an hour or something and then coming

back. I wasn't sure what they were up to.

I tried sneaking into her room one time

when she wasn't there, logged on to her

Facebook, and I went on to her messages,

and I was Google translating all the

messages because they were speaking in

French. Apparently he was studying French

as well, and I Google translated all the

messages and nothing was going on.

Actually, most of the messages were her

complaining about me to him in French,

so I was kind of relieved but still kind

of annoyed that they were so close. We

ended up having this massive fight where I

tried to grab her phone and demand that

she showed me her messages and she

scratched my neck up and I bled. And I

decided that this is enough. I had enough

of this. I didn't want to be with her

anymore. So I left Japan and I went to

Korea for the first time and I moved in

with the Korean woman from before. And as

soon as I left Japan, someone from the

guesthouse that I knew messaged me and

said, Daniel, I'm sorry to say this, but

the French girl and the Spanish guy hooked

up and they're together now. They're like

officially a couple. And I didn't really

care. I wasn't really surprised. I went on

to the public page on Facebook and I saw

their photos and yeah, they looked like

they were more than friends. They were

hugging, they had their heads together

like they were a couple. So as soon as I

left, she basically just got together with

the Spanish guy. Things between me and the

Korean woman were now kind of weird

because I told her about the French

girlfriend, and even though she let me

come and meet her and stay with her, she

said things were not the same anymore

between us and she closed her heart to me.

But I still kept going to Korea almost

every single year and staying with her for

90 days each time. So I guess she still

kind of liked me. And then after that, I

went back to the UK, saved up some money,

and went back to Japan again and got a new

girlfriend. This time another Japanese

girlfriend that I actually met before in

the guest house, the same guest house that

I met the French girlfriend at. And

actually the French girlfriend and this

new girlfriend used to be friends back

then, and it's now been a few years. And I

got together with this Japanese woman.

Some of you may know her as the chlamydia

girlfriend. As you can imagine, I got

chlamydia from her and it was not a great

experience. It's probably one of the most

painful things I've experienced in life.

And it was not a great relationship.

There's a lot of fighting, a lot of

crying. She kept crying and having

emotional breakdowns and kicking me out

and then asking me to come back and then

kicking me out again. It was just such a

massive mess of a relationship. And we

also nearly got married. We went to the

town hall, filled out all the papers,

Nearly handed the papers back in, but

before we could, we had another massive

fight and she kicked me out again. And

then I went back to her, but by then my

90-day tourist visa was nearly over and we

didn't have enough time to get married.

So I ended up leaving Japan, saying

goodbye to her, and I went back to Korea

and moved back in with the Korean woman

for the second time. And I was just

staying with the Korean woman for another

90 days. The chlamydia girlfriend did

message me, but I just I was fed up and I

had enough of her, so I decided to ghost

her and I didn't message her. It's kind of

funny because a few years later, by pure

coincidence, I was on this language

learning website called Lang-8, and I just

found— I randomly found her profile, and

she was writing all these diaries in

English, and I thought, that's kind of

funny, maybe I'll send her a message. But

then she blocked me straight away, so no

chances of being friends after being in a

relationship with a Japanese woman.

Woman, they just kind of block you or

ghost you after you break up, and they

never want to hear from you ever again.

That's just how it is in Japan. They don't

usually want to be friends with their

exes. And I didn't really try to find

another girlfriend straight away because I

was kind of burnt out from this

relationship. It was such a headache, and

I was just fed up. I just wanted to be

alone for a bit and focus on things I

enjoy, like video games, cameras,

photography, tech. And for a few years, I

didn't try to for anyone. I just went back

to the Korean woman a few more times, and

then things between me and the Korean

woman kept going until around 2016. In

2016, we finally said goodbye forever and

never saw each other again. And that's

because that's when I started making

YouTube videos and talking about my love

life in videos. And then she found my

YouTube channel, obviously. She saw me

talking about all these girls I had been

in between meeting her, and she got very

angry and she said she hated me and never

wanted to see me ever again. So I kind of

shot myself in the foot by sharing these

very personal stories on YouTube. That's

kind of the price you have to pay when

you're so open on the internet. Everyone

knows all your secrets, and that kind of

comes back to bite you in the backside.

But I thought, you know, whatever, it's

been 6 years. I don't really want to date

someone who's over 40 when I'm

20-something. Imagine being 25 and dating

a 40-year-old. I wasn't really crying over

losing her, so I just kind of moved on.

And then the next year I had a quick thing

with a single mother in Japan. I wouldn't

really call her a girlfriend because it

only lasted for like 2 weeks. And then I

went to Japan again and I met this other

woman and dated her, and then she became

my wife. I got married for real this time

in Japan, dated this Japanese woman. She

was about 36. And I was like 27 or 28.

So the age gap was like 8 years. She was 8

years older than me. I thought, well,

that's better than 15 years age gap. The

age gaps were getting smaller, so I

thought, okay, I'm making progress here.

So I ended up marrying this Japanese

woman, and then about a month or 2 months

after we got married, my YouTube channel

blew up. One of my videos went super

viral, over a million views. I had a big

fan base at the time. And things kind of

got crazy. I had all these girls messaging

me and I kind of couldn't resist the

temptation. There was a lot of drama.

Basically, our entire relationship and

marriage was on my YouTube channel and

thousands of people, tens of thousands of

people were now spectating and commenting

on our marriage and relationship. And as

you can imagine, being in a relationship

with someone and sharing that relationship

with tens of thousands, hundreds of

thousands of people is kind of toxic

because everyone is just backseat driving

your relationship and trying to give you

advice that you didn't ask for and trying

to interfere and get involved. And then

you've got crazy fangirls sending me

nudes, and the whole thing was just a

massive toxic mess. And there was cheating

and fighting, and she kicked me out, and I

stormed out, and I left, and I came back,

and I left, and I came back. And we had

loads of fights non-stop for nearly 2

years, and then eventually she had And

divorced me. And at the time, I was making

all this content, all these videos that

kept making her upset, and we kept having

fights over the stuff I was saying and

doing for my channel. And I had enough. I

didn't want to be controlled by my wife

anymore. I wanted to focus all my efforts

and make my YouTube channel my number one

priority. I cared more about the YouTube

channel than the marriage, which in

hindsight wasn't a very good move.

Because it turns out it was the marriage

that was driving the YouTube channel. And

without the marriage, the YouTube channel

kind of just fell off. So we got divorced

and I felt kind of relieved. I felt like

I'm free again. I can do whatever I want.

No one's going to try and control me. And

then I went back to the UK and I ended up

dating one of my fangirls basically

straight away. This Dutch girl called Mila

flew straight to London to come and see me

after I got back from Korea, because after

I got divorced, I didn't go straight back

to the UK. I went to Korea. I didn't see

the Korean woman this time. This was the

first time I was in Korea by myself

without seeing the Korean woman. So that

was kind of interesting. And then after

Korea, I went back home to the UK and then

got together with Mila, the Dutch girl.

And that was also kind of chaotic and

crazy because I actually had real feelings

for her. And I think I actually fell in

love and she dumped me. And then we got

back together again and then she dumped me

again. So the whole relationship with Mila

was crazy because I tried again to put the

entire relationship onto my YouTube

channel because that worked so well with

my marriage, and the views were really

good, getting like 50,000 views. People

were really interested, but Mila didn't

like to be on the YouTube channel. She did

like it in the beginning because it was

fun and exciting, but then when she

started to get a lot of hate because some

of my viewers didn't like her and were

saying very mean things about her,

insulting her, calling her stupid and

weird. And she didn't like this at all.

She cried. She was very down and not

happy about being on the YouTube channel

anymore. And she decided to leave me over

the YouTube channel. But I managed to make

some changes and tried to take things in a

more positive direction and tried to be

less toxic and drama-oriented. And it

seemed to have worked. And she liked what

she saw and she got back together with me.

And we met up again in Germany. The

problem was she didn't let me tell my

viewers that we got back together again.

I wasn't allowed to vlog our relationship.

I wasn't allowed to tell my viewers that

we were together because she was scared.

She didn't want to be in the spotlight

again like before. So in order to be with

her, I had to make a sacrifice. I had to

sacrifice the YouTube channel, and I had

to promise her that I would keep our

relationship a secret. And not make

content and drama content about us. And

because I really wanted to be with her, I

accepted her conditions. So I had to

basically lie to my viewers about who I

was seeing. I had to make a bunch of fake

content to cover up the fact that I was

now with Mita again. And when they found

out, when my viewers found out that I lied

and I fabricated stories, they weren't

happy. And a lot of people unsubbed and

didn't come back to the channel. So that

was not great for the channel. And then I

got kind of sad and depressed because my

channel was failing and I couldn't have my

cake and eat it. I couldn't be with Mila

and have a successful YouTube channel. I

had to choose one or the other. And I

guess I chose the wrong thing in

hindsight. I tried my best to keep the

relationship a secret, but eventually the

viewers caught on to the fact that I was

not in Germany. I was actually in

Rotterdam with Mila, and they're not

stupid. They were able to put one and one

together and realize that we were back

together. So when people realized we were

back together, Mila stopped trying to

control me so much, and she actually let

me make some videos together with her,

and she relaxed a little bit. But she

still didn't really want to be part of my

channel or be on live streams, so I had to

just do YouTube by myself, and that was

kind of boring for the viewers. They

wanted some drama. They wanted to see who

I was with like before. And the channel

wasn't doing well, and I felt more and

more miserable being stuck in Rotterdam,

not being able to fully express myself

like I used to do. And because I was kind

of mopey and not fun to be around anymore,

Mila ended up dumping me again after

Christmas, said that we had nothing in

common and she wasn't happy with me. And I

was kind of relieved. I just stormed out

of her grandmother's house that I was

staying at at the time with her. I just

stormed out, blocked her, and flew back

to the UK the next day. I flew back to the

UK and I tried my best to try and revive

the channel using all of my old tricks.

This time, no girlfriend trying to control

me. But I think it was too little too

late. The damage had been done. I had lied

too much. My credibility was gone.

The viewers didn't really trust me

anymore, didn't like me anymore. And they

just felt like everything I was saying was

all fake. And I guess I can't really blame

them. And that was pretty much the last

time I got dumped. So that was my last

girlfriend before my current girlfriend,

which hopefully won't dump me. But looking

at my history, every single relationship

I've ever been in, most of them have

dumped me, divorced me, or ghosted me or

blocked me. And I don't think I've had a

single girlfriend where I dumped them.

Yeah, relationships and dating can be

extremely challenging and very tricky,

but I think life would be extremely boring

if you just refused to date and you stayed

alone and single your entire life. It's

like they say, women— can't live with

them, can't live without them.