[2023-01-27] Drama With Mum So I Cut Ties With Her [fdl10MBmOE0]

Yesterday, a well-known hater and troll

who goes by the name of Gunnar Larsson

decided it would be funny to message my

mum and leave a comment on her social

media saying to please tell Daniel to stop

making videos about Chihiro or else I'm

going to have to report him to the English

police again. Dear Gunnar Larsson, please

stop messaging my mum, you weirdo. You're

like some kind of weird 12-year-old

playground kid who snitches to my mummy.

Oh, Daniel's mum, Daniel said this about

so-and-so. Can you tell him off? Grow up.

I've tried to explain to my mum over and

over over again countless times about

these internet trolls, but she just

doesn't seem to get it. She finds it very

hard to tell the difference between

someone who's being sincere and genuine

and actually is trying to be helpful and

someone who's just being a troll, because

these internet trolls are very hard to

spot. They write and speak very politely

and nicely, and they write out

well-structured sentences and paragraphs,

and they seem like they actually care and

they're actually trying to help, when in

reality they're just trying to be a pain

in the backside for me. And because of

this Gunnar Larsson's message, my mum

started messaging me last night, nagging

me, telling me to stop making videos about

Chihiro and to leave her alone. Whenever I

make a video about Chihiro or my ex-wife

over these past 2 years, my mum keeps

messaging me, nagging me, saying stuff

like, oh my God, Daniel, stop making

videos about her, leave her alone, move on

with your life. And it's getting kind of

annoying. So unfortunately, I had to make

the decision to block her again. I had to

block her before, back in 2021 when I was

living in Manchester, because for some

reason she thought it would be a good idea

to send me a picture of Mila, my

ex-girlfriend, with another guy, as if she

didn't know that would upset me or make me

feel bad. I know this is going to upset

her, but that's kind of the point. I'm a

34-year-old adult man. I don't want to be

told what to do by my mum. I don't want my

mum to be meddling or interfering with my

personal relationships either. Don't you

think it's really weird if your mum is in

contact with your ex? I think that's

really weird. I think when I sever the

connection and sever ties with girlfriend

or a wife and they become an ex-girlfriend

or ex-wife, then it means that it also

severs the ties and connections between

them and anyone I know or my family. I

also find it really weird that she takes

my ex-wife's side over my side. She didn't

tell Chihiro to stop making videos and

livestreams with the Hong Kong guy about

me when they were doing it back in 2020,

did she? I think it's just so ridiculous

that this Gunnar Larsen guy thinks he can

tell my mum to tell me what to do, as if

my mum has any kind of power over me. My

mum doesn't have any power over me. She

doesn't control me. She doesn't manipulate

or pull the strings or anything. I am my

own independent man. I can do what I want.

If I want to talk about my ex, then that

is my decision. I didn't ask you to watch

my YouTube videos. Do not try to tell me

what videos I can and cannot make. I will

divorce you, I will leave you, and I will

block you. No one can tell me what to do.

No one can control me. Why do you think I

left Chihiro in the first place? It's

because she tried to control me. She kept

saying, don't make videos about this, and

don't say that, and don't say this. I will

say whatever the hell I I wanna say. This

is my YouTube channel, and if you don't

like what I say, then don't watch it. Let

me make this very clear, because even

after 2 years of me trying to tell you

this, you don't seem to get it. Don't

message me trying to tell me to not make a

video about something, because I'm not

going to listen. When have I ever listened

to something you told me to do? I've never

listened. I've never obeyed. So why do you

think I'm gonna start listening to you?

You're just wasting your time and you're

irritating me. I'm so sick and tired of

all these Asian women trying to control my

life and control what I say. And don't

start threatening me about the house or

the inheritance money. I don't care if you

want to sell the house, then sell it.

I've got my own life here in Thailand,

got my own girlfriend, got my own Thai

apartment that I might actually marry.

I'm not even going to go back to England

ever. People expect me to respect their

wishes, but they don't respect mine, do

they? When has Chihiro ever respected me

or myself? I will lift the block maybe

after a few months, but this has got to

stop. You've got to start respecting me as

an independent man who makes his own

decisions, or else there will be no

grandchildren. Hello, welcome back to a

new episode of Cooking with Daniel. So

today I've got to use up this pork because

it's starting to go a little bit yellow

and smelly, and I've got to use these

vegetables and these vegetables. We're

going to make a very interesting stir-fry

today. So I've been experimenting a lot

recently with different combinations of

stir-fry sauces, and I think I've come up

with something pretty unique. So first of

all, you want to get yourself some premium

pork belly. I like pork because it has a

nice bit of fat on it which gives it an

extra layer of flavor and texture. But you

could use other parts of the pig if you

don't like to have so much fat. So I'm

going to cut the pork belly into half.

And next we have some kind of variety of

green vegetables. I'm not really sure what

these are. It's just like a very light and

crispy crunchy green vegetable.

And here we have some more green

vegetables. These ones are slightly bigger

than the other ones. I think these are

called pak choi. So you want to clip off

the ends and give it a bit of a wash

because it might be dirty, and then cut

this up as well and add it straight into

And we're going to be using 2 sauces for

this. Well, one sauce and one oil. We've

got sesame sauce, which— I mean sesame

oil, which gives a very nice toasted and

savory oily flavor. And also yakiniku

sauce, which has like a salty savory

flavor as well. I like the combination of

sesame sauce and also yakiniku oil because

it gives off a very unique flavor. You get

both combinations of the sesame oil and

also the savory and saltiness of the

yakiniku sauce. Okay, so we start off by

putting the greens on top of the meat. I

do this because I want the meat to cook

and grill or fry, and I want the

vegetables on top to steam. So the steam

from the meat is going to cook the

vegetables on the top.

Now we're going to add a drizzle of sesame

oil. Now you want to be careful with this

because if you add too much, it's going to

be too oily. And remember the fact that

the pork belly has a lot of fat on it,

which is also going to generate some oil.

So in combination with the sesame oil and

the pig oil, you want to be sparingly

using the sesame oil and not to put too

much. The flavor is quite strong on the

sesame oil, so you don't need a lot. And

then we're going to add the yakiniku

sauce. As you can see, the leaves of the

vegetables have become much smaller, so it

seems like there's a lot of vegetables in

the beginning when you start cooking it,

but in reality it will cook down to a much

smaller size.

And that is how you make perfect pork and

vegetable stir-fry using sesame oil and

yakiniku sauce.