my experience having UGLY girlfriends in the UK [YCMinTTrJEw]

So last year I actually dated 2 white

ginger British girls at the same time,

and I dated these 2 girls for roughly 5

months at the beginning of 2022, and they

were probably 2 of the worst girlfriends

I've ever had. They were both in their

early 30s, both were kind of into anime,

both were kind of tall and very pale. And

the reason why I dated both of these

lackluster women at the same time was

because I was pretty desperate to get a

girlfriend last year. I hadn't had a

girlfriend or relationship since 2020,

and it had been 2 long years of being

single, and I was getting kind of

frustrated and lonely. So I was just going

on these dates and basically dating anyone

who would date me. It's kind of hard to

differentiate between these 2 because

they're both kind of similar in terms of

appearance. So I guess we'll call British

girl number 1, because she had like a

mobility problem with her leg and she

found it difficult to walk sometimes,

we'll call her disabled British

girlfriend. 1, and then the other one can

just be known as Ginger Girlfriend Number

2. So I met Disabled British Girlfriend 1

in the beginning of 2022, went on a date,

and we went bowling, which only lasted for

about half an hour. And then after the

bowling finished, we were kind of stuck as

to what to do. We just kind of walked

around some arcades, played some arcade

games, and then her stepdad came to pick

her up, and then we said goodbye. She was

quite tall, I guess you could say not fat,

And she kind of looked like a young J.K.

Rowling. I wasn't a big fan of her

personality. She had this kind of

sarcastic, cynical Brit vibe going on,

which you would think I'd like since I'm

kind of cynical myself, but I don't really

like that in girlfriends. I like my

girlfriends to be bubbly and fun and

positive with good energy, which is why I

don't really like dating British girls,

because a lot of them do have this

cynical, sarcastic, facetious kind of,

oh, everything's rubbish kind of attitude,

and I find that to be a bit of a downer.

They also swear too much. I don't like it

when girls swear or say the F-word. It's

very masculine sounding and not very

feminine and very vulgar. So it seems like

I gave off a good impression because after

our first date, she messaged me again and

invited me to her house. Fortunately, she

lived quite nearby to me, and it was only

about— it was about 1 hour away by

bicycle. So I rode my bicycle there,

which was very exhausting. Fortunately,

my mum bought me an electric bicycle,

which cut down the bike ride time down to

about 30 minutes. And I wasn't really

exhausted because the battery motor just

assisted me pedaling up the hills. So I

get to her place and we watch a movie and

we have some food. Nothing really much

happens in the first few hours until she

says, oh, do you want to play some PS5? I

have Tekken. So we played Tekken on her

PS5 and we're sitting on the carpet now.

Next to each other and we're playing

Tekken. She's getting very excited because

she's beating me at Tekken. And then she

kind of jumps on top of me and pins me

down on the ground and she's like right

above me now and we're making intense eye

contact. And then she just goes in for the

kiss and she's kissing me and I'm like,

oh, this is interesting. Now she's kissing

me. So I kiss her back and then, you know,

things go to the bedroom and we go to the

bedroom and we get undressed and she's

kind of nervous. She said she hasn't done

it in ages. I think She said like 10 years

she hasn't done it. So she was kind of

nervous. And I kind of have a big

you-know-what with a big head, and it

looks kind of intimidating to some women

due to the size. And she was kind of

scared at first because it looked like it

was gonna hurt. But everything was fine

and there were no problems apart from the

problem that she thought I was wearing a

condom. And when I told her actually I'm

not wearing a condom, she kind of freaks

out and then makes me take it out. And we

had to stop to put on the condom. So I

have to take it out, which is kind of

annoying because I was like getting into

it. And then put on this stupid cock and

then put it back in. So it wasn't that

great. We finish and then we get dressed

and she seems really exhausted and tired.

And she said she can't do round 2 because

of her disability thing, which means she

doesn't have much energy. It's now very

late at night. It's like 1 AM or midnight

and she doesn't sleep. She said she has a

problem sleeping and most nights she

doesn't go to bed and she just stays up.

So I thought, Okay, I'm not gonna stay

here all night just staying up and not

doing anything. And she said I could stay

if I wanted to, but I would rather just go

home because I want to go to bed. I'm

tired. So now I have to get my bicycle and

ride all the way back home in the middle

of the night. And I don't know if you

know, but in the countryside in the UK,

it is completely dark. There's no lights

or street lighting anywhere. So I have to

cycle through the British countryside for

an hour in the middle of the night, in the

pure pitch black darkness. All I have is

this little light that I have fixed to my

handlebar, and it was kind of scary. At

some points it was kind of exciting, I

guess, and it was kind of relaxing because

it was so quiet. There was no sound at

all, no traffic. All I could hear was the

occasional owl hooting. But I was kind of

annoyed that I had to cycle all the way

home in the middle of the night when I was

kind of hoping we would just go to bed

together during the night. Or maybe do it

again. Anyway, I get home eventually and I

go straight to bed, and then she messages

me again the next day asking me when I

want to come over again. So I thought,

wow, she must really like me, and I didn't

completely hate her. I thought she was

okay. This time she says, let's go watch a

movie. So I say okay, I go over to her

house again, and we go to walk into the

town center to watch the movie. And what

should have been just a 10-minute walk

ends up taking nearly 40 minutes because

she walks so damn slow because of her leg

problem. And we watched the movie, which

was really boring by the way, and we go

back to her place and I'm thinking, well,

hopefully at least we can do it again.

But then when I try and do it again with

her when we get back home, she says she

can't do it because she's completely out

of energy just from the walking. So I'm

feeling kind of annoyed because I just

wasted my whole day now and I didn't even

get any action. And I was thinking I don't

think things are gonna work with this

girl. She never has any energy. She can't

really do it much. And to make matters

worse, after the first time we did it,

she had these problems with her legs. She

got massive bruises from the thrusting.

She said that because my hips were kind of

bony, it was bruising her thighs when they

were making impact, and she had to go to

the hospital to get the bruises syringed

because they were swelling up so much.

Apparently my thrusting caused deep tissue

bruising, and she was out of action for

weeks, more than a month, and we never got

to do it again because I ran out of

patience. And then she started phoning me

a lot, nagging me, whining about how she

didn't think I cared about her. So I had

to be like, oh no, no, I do care. Don't

worry. I'm just not very good at

communication. And then she started

complaining about my technique in bed,

saying that I didn't do enough foreplay

and I just kind of stuck it in. And she

said some stupid things like she's gonna

have to get bubble wrap to wrap around my

hips and that next time we do it, I'm

gonna have to put more effort into

satisfying her and this and that. So I was

kind of annoyed that she was like moaning

and complaining about my technique. I've

never had a problem where my hips bruised

the girl's inner thighs before, and I've

had experiences with many women before.

So unfortunately, I had to just block her

because she was just too annoying, too

nagging, and she She kept trying to make

me meet her family, like her parents or

her dad or her male guy friend. She kept

saying, oh, she's got this male guy

friend. He's going to come over. We can go

for food or whatever. And I really don't

want to hang out with some girl's guy

friend. So yeah, it wasn't a very hard

decision. I knew I had to just block her

and there was no way to get out of this in

a clean and nice way. So I did it the

easiest way possible. Okay, so next let's

talk about British ginger girlfriend

number 2. So this one was kind of

different personality-wise compared to the

first one. This one was much nicer, had

like a more bubbly, kind attitude and

personality, which I liked a lot more. I

really liked her hairstyle. She had long

hair and she would tie it up with a ribbon

and make little braids and stuff, and it

looked kind of anime. And it was bright

orange, like a very orange ginger color.

And I liked how she wore dresses. She wore

these very feminine skirts and full-body

dresses, which I thought looked pretty

good. But unfortunately, her face was just

very unattractive. I would have to give

her face maybe a 1 out of 10. It's

probably like the most unattractive face

I've ever dated. But I tried to look past

the face and I thought, well, the

hairstyle is nice and the outfits are nice

and her personality is a lot better than

the previous ginger girlfriend. Our first

date, we went to the British Museum of

Natural History and we walked around there

for a few hours. Talked about things in

there, and then we went to Hyde Park and

we had some food and like a picnic on the

grass. I kind of had a good feeling about

where this was going, so I asked her if

she wanted to stay for dinner. So we went

to Korean barbecue in London, and she

never went to Korean barbecue before, so I

had to do all of the ordering and all of

the cooking. It was kind of interesting

taking the lead for once during a date.

Usually when I went on these Korean

barbecue dates, it was in Japan with a

Japanese woman or a Korean woman, And they

obviously have already been to yakiniku

before, so they would usually do it for

me. So after the Korean barbecue meal, it

was pretty late. It was getting close to

about 11 PM, and I was thinking, wow,

it's getting late. Maybe she wants to stay

a night here in London. I drank a beer at

dinner, so I was feeling a little bit

drunk, and I put my arm around her waist,

feeling very confident, and I asked her if

she wanted to stay the night and get a

hotel. And I was feeling confident and

certain she was going to say yes. But

unfortunately, she just said no, that she

couldn't. I was kind of disappointed and

confused, but it seemed more like it

wasn't a case of her not wanting to. It

was just she didn't want to do it straight

away on the first date. So I thought,

okay, you're one of those types where I

have to go on several dates first. So I

agreed to playing the long game and I say,

okay, I understand. Well, let's go home

then and talk to you later. So we do go on

a second date and also a third, fourth,

and even fifth date. On the second date,

we go to a park and then we start making

out in the park. And it was kind of

embarrassing because what I thought was a

secluded area in the park wasn't so

secluded, and there were quite a lot of

people walking past as we were frolicking

on the grass. But it seems like that did

the trick, and I asked her again, do you

want to get a hotel? And then finally she

says, okay. So I booked the hotel and we

go to the hotel thinking, okay, we're

definitely going to do it this time. But

then she doesn't want to do it. We sit on

the bed and we play card games instead.

And I'm confused again. Why did she say

yes to coming to a hotel and then she

still doesn't want to do it? She says that

she doesn't want to do it so soon because

we've only been on 2 dates. So as you can

imagine, at this point I'm pretty annoyed

and frustrated, but I still try to remain

patient, hoping that she'll change her

mind. And she did change her mind. It

starts to get late and we start to get a

bit tired and we get into bed because

we're gonna sleep the night there. And we

start making out again in the bed, and I

guess she couldn't resist anymore and she

let me put it in. And we ended up doing it

like 3 times. Once, and then again during

the middle of the night, and then again

when we woke up in the morning. So it was

pretty good, not too bad. And we met up

several times again for more dates, but we

never ended up going to a hotel again.

Mainly because I didn't really want to

spend hundreds of pounds booking a hotel,

and I just didn't really find her

attractive enough to want to go through

the trouble of staying another night with

her in a hotel because it was kind of

boring. We went to a few castles and a few

places, like touristy places in Kent. But

the thing is, she kept trying to come over

to my house. She kept saying, when can I

come over? And it's not that I didn't want

her to come over. I think it would have

been fun to like frolic around in my

garden in the hot summer's afternoon. But

the problem is I lived with my mum and I

really didn't want her to meet my mum

because I didn't really want this to

become a serious relationship. And then if

she met my mum, I feel like things would

start to get serious and then she would

know where I live and then it'll get kind

of sticky and complicated when I try and

sever the ties. So I had to keep coming up

with excuses like, oh, I can't let you

come over because my mum's here and it'll

be awkward and it'll be weird, so you

can't come over. And she seemed like she

was getting frustrated because I wouldn't

let her come over. And she also lived with

her mum as well, so I couldn't really go

over her place either. She lived in a very

tiny flat near London. And then there was

one day when I nearly went over to her

place to stay the night, and I was really

looking forward to it. Her mum was going

traveling somewhere, so she wouldn't be

around for one night. So that was our

opportunity to stay the night together

again. But I was really unlucky, and on

that very day, and also the next day and

the next day, the train services had a

strike planned and there were no trains

operating for that day, and there was no

way for me to really get to her place.

She didn't want to drive all the way to my

place and pick me up and then drive back.

I was planning on cycling there. It would

have taken me a few hours, but there was

no way to cross the river apart from this

ferry boat. So I could have taken the

ferry boat over the river to cross over to

where she lives, but then I wouldn't have

a way to get home because the ferry

doesn't operate on a Sunday, and there

were no trains on that day either. So how

would I get from her place back to London

and then back to my place? It would have

taken me like 12 hours of cycling. So I

just didn't really feel like it was worth

all of the cycling and all of the energy

just to go over and stay at her place. So

unfortunately, I had to tell her, sorry,

but I can't make it. We'll have to do it

another time. And then she kind of stopped

messaging me. She didn't really talk to me

much, and I didn't talk to her much. And

then after a few weeks, I decided to

message her finally and say, hey, what's

up? Do you want to meet? And then we met

one last time. But something was weird.

It felt very different. It felt kind of

strange. I felt like, oh crap, I lost her.

She definitely seems uninterested in me

now. And we went to this park. It was like

a deer park and we walked around. It was

very boring. I tried putting my arm around

her, but she didn't put her arm back

around me. So I let go and I stopped

trying to touch her because she obviously

didn't seem interested. And then she drove

me back to the train station and it was

really awkward. I said, thanks for driving

me. And then she said, you're welcome.

Like in this kind of weird sarcastic tone.

And then again, she didn't message me much

until I messaged her again about 4 weeks

later. And then she just told me, oh,

hey, sorry, but I lost interest in you.

So I was kind of relieved because I didn't

have to ghost her or dump her. And she

kind of just— well, I made her lose

interest in me by not showing much

interest in her. So yeah, it was kind of

an annoying relationship. Where it was too

expensive to keep booking hotels and

neither of us lived alone to be able to

come over to each other's houses. So it

was kind of frustrating in that sense,

but I guess it wasn't meant to be.