My Obsession with Japanese Women is OVER

So it's 2022 and the idea of Japan

reopening for tourists this summer has

started to become more and more of a topic

that people are talking about. And after

waiting 2 long years for Japan to finally

reopen to tourists, you might think that I

would be very excited at the idea of being

able to finally get back to Japan. But

unfortunately, I just don't really feel

very interested in going to Japan right

now. 2 years is quite a long time, and

over the course of 2 years, I feel like

I've changed quite a lot as a person. The

things I feel interested in has taken a

dramatic shift over the past 2 years, and

I think that might be quite understandable

for most people. Most people don't have

the same interests or hobbies for their

entire lives, and as the years go on, we

mature and grow as people, and so do our

interests. So as many of you may know,

for most of my adult life, I've been very

obsessed with Japan and the idea of living

in Japan and dating a Japanese woman. But

now when I think of the idea of going back

to Japan and living there semi-long-term

for a few months, the idea just kind of

bores me because I can kind of imagine

what's going to happen. I'll go there,

I'll get some kind of apartment hotel,

and then I'll just sit around in the hotel

feeling pretty bored. I might get some

dates on dating apps and then I'll go on

dates, but these dates are probably going

to be pretty rubbish and not really up to

my standards. I won't really feel

attracted to any of the women I get dates

with, and it'll just be in general pretty

lacking in lustre and dull. 6 months will

go by, which is the longest amount of time

I can stay as a tourist, and I would have

wasted all that money on apartments and

hotels and food and stuff. And after the 6

months is over, I'll have to leave Japan,

and I basically would have achieved pretty

much nothing during those 6 months unless

I somehow managed to get a visa by getting

married again, which is probably going to

be very unlikely. I just look back at all

the times I went to Japan, all of the

trips, all of the months I spent in Japan

just messing around with women and going

dating and going to restaurants and

meeting people, and sure, it was fun at

the time, and sure, I made some nice

memories, but in the end, it didn't really

amount to anything that's helping me right

now in this very moment. I could have

spent that time or money learning new

skills, gaining new qualifications or

certificates, but instead of getting new

skills, I just got chlamydia and divorced.

I think the idea of settling down in

England and just living in England

long-term really scared me. For a very

long time, and the idea of running away to

a cool country like Japan always seemed

more magical and interesting to me as a

young adult. But now in my 30s, I'm

starting to rethink a lot of things. I'm

starting to think that maybe I could get

more happiness and fulfillment in life if

I just stayed put in one country, my own

country, which is the easiest country to

stay in to do stuff since I speak the

language and I don't have any problems

with visas. The main appeal of Japan for

me when I was younger was Japanese women.

I kind of had this obsession, maybe even a

fetish you could say, for Japanese girls

and Japanese women. But as of right now,

I kind of lost all interest in Japanese

women, and kind of just women in general

have been very uninteresting to me

recently. And I feel kind of bored with

all the dating stuff and the relationship

stuff. I want to do something else in

life. I don't even know why I was so

obsessed with Japanese women. I think it's

because of all of the anime I watched

where the girls look really cute and they

look really fun to be with, and I thought

they would just make perfect girlfriends,

and that was the kind of girl that I

wanted to be with. But then I went to

Japan and I realized that real-life people

don't really look as beautiful and pretty

as anime characters, or even as actresses

in TV shows do. I mean, some of the girls

over there are very pretty and very

attractive, but let's face it, they won't

ever be interested in a guy like me, and

the vast majority of people over in Japan

are just kind of either average or very

unattractive. It's the same as any other

country. It doesn't matter which country

you go to, there's going to be a small

percentage of very attractive people who

won't give a damn about you unless you're

also very attractive, which I'm not, and

you probably aren't either. And after

experiencing several relationships with

fairly moderately attractive Japanese

women and some very unattractive ones and

some very old and ugly fat ones, I have to

say that in conclusion None of the

relationships were very great. That's why

they all ended. There's not even one

relationship that I had with a Japanese

girlfriend that I actually regret losing

or that I miss being with. They all just

kind of sucked, and I preferred being

alone instead of being in them. I tried so

hard to make this dream of dating the

perfect Japanese anime girl to come true

and become a reality. And after all my

sacrifices and all of my efforts studying

Japanese and studying the Japanese culture

and trying to find out how I could move

there, all of it was all in vain and

didn't really matter because in the end it

was all just a waste of time. I think the

problem is if you're feeling bored and you

don't know what to do in life, just moving

to Japan is not really going to fix the

problems. Sure, in the beginning it'll be

exciting because everything's fresh and

new and you're with someone new and you

can go on cute dates, but when the

honeymoon phase is over, and it will be

over fairly soon, you'll just be back to

feeling bored and you don't know what to

do in life anymore. And that's exactly

what happened to me after getting married

and settling down in Japan. I just started

to feel bored and didn't know what to do

anymore again. Dating a Japanese woman is

also kind of boring because number one,

if they don't speak good English, then you

have to speak in Japanese all the time,

which wasn't really too much of a problem

to me since I passed level 2 of the JLPT

and I nearly passed level 1, so my

Japanese was up to a fairly decent

standard. But still, even for me, I

started to get very tired and exhausted

having to communicate in Japanese all the

time. Also, Japanese women have no idea or

knowledge about meme culture or internet

stuff or trending popular topics that

might be trending and popular in the West.

So good luck having any kind of

conversations about Elon Musk buying

Twitter or the Will Smith slap thing with

Japanese people because they probably

won't have any idea what you're talking

about or they won't even care in the first

place. So after you get bored of the

bedtime activities, which you will get

bored of pretty soon because Japanese

women aren't that exciting or adventurous

in the sack, then there's not really much

else to keep you stimulated emotionally or

intellectually. What are you going to talk

about? I guess you could talk about how

sunny it is and how cute the little bunny

rabbits across the road are. In almost

every relationship I had in Japan, I just

started to get really bored after a few

months, and I would start going to see

different women and then cheating and then

coming back home and didn't really care if

the relationships blew up and ended. So if

I'm not really feeling very interested in

Japanese women anymore, What is the point

of going to Japan? That's basically the

main appeal point of going to Japan is for

the women. I guess there's also the food

and the culture, but you can get Japanese

food anywhere in the world. If I want to

eat sushi or ramen, I can just go on to

Uber Eats and there's a lot of restaurants

that sell Japanese food. You don't need to

go all the way to Japan to eat Japanese

food. And the culture stuff, I don't

really care much about that. Now that I

don't really care much about the women

either, I just don't really see much point

or appeal in going to Japan. Because what

would I do when I get there? And right now

I'm just really enjoying learning to

drive. It's been such a long time since I

really dedicated myself to learning a new

skill, and it's very challenging, but I've

had about 6 lessons so far, 2 hours each,

so about 12 hours of driving lessons I've

had so far. And I'm actually really

enjoying operating the car and driving it

around town and doing the different

maneuvers, and it's actually been a great

learning experience, and I can't wait to

be able to get my driving license and then

start getting into the world of cars. And

I think I've really changed the way I

think when it comes to challenges and

trying to do difficult things. It all

started when I was playing Elden Ring, a

game that I thought I would never like and

I thought I'd really hate it. But after

playing Elden Ring and getting really

addicted to it, I started to learn the joy

of doing something difficult. And even if

it takes you 600 times to take down a

boss, when you eventually get better and

better and you finally get to take down

that boss and you get that sweet XP and

gear. It feels so great overcoming a

challenge, and I think that's really

shifted my way of thinking when it comes

to taking on difficult tasks, which in the

past I would just avoid doing. I would

just avoid anything that's difficult and

then find a way around it so I wouldn't

have to learn anything new. In the past,

I had such a bad mentality where if

anything became too difficult, I would

just give up, and then I'd start creating

all of these excuses to justify giving up.

When I first took driving lessons when I

was 18, every time it got really

difficult, I just thought, oh my god, I

can't do this, I'm gonna give up, this is

a waste of time. But now I'm embracing the

challenge in true Elden Ring fashion. If

there's something difficult, I'll just

keep trying and trying until I get better

and better, and I can see the

improvements. For example, I used to be so

scared of the clutch in a car, in a manual

transmission car. I used to be so scared

of stalling it and feeling embarrassed at

traffic lights. When the engine cuts out.

But I'm getting really good at the clutch

after all these lessons practicing clutch

control. I feel like I'm really getting

the hang of it. And you should have seen

me yesterday. I was using perfect clutch

control going up this hill in traffic,

and I was slowing down and slightly

speeding up just by using tiny little

adjustments on the clutch, pressing it

down slightly, lifting it up slightly.

And it just felt really satisfying to

finally get good at something that I was

very scared of in the past. So in

conclusion, now that I don't really feel

very interested in dating Japanese women

anymore, I also don't really feel very

interested in just going to Japan and

sitting around doing nothing like I used

to. I'd rather spend my time and my money

trying to learn some kind of new skill

that I really want to become good at. For

now, that would be driving. And then after

driving, I guess I have to find something

new to challenge myself with. And that's

basically life, isn't it? You just keep

doing one challenge after the next

challenge after the next one to keep

yourself stimulated. If you don't have

anything to do that challenges you,

that's difficult, that you really want to

do, then you just become really bored

because there's no obstacles to try and

take down. You just feel like there's

nothing to do all day, you don't know what

to do with your life anymore. I guess you

could say after getting married to a

Japanese woman and sleeping with many, I

don't really feel like that's a challenge

that I care much about anymore. I guess

you could say I feel like I've conquered

Japanese women, and I want to go into

something else now.