I Found Something Messed Up On My Girlfriend's Phone [MPOE5zeenTw]

Hey, so in my last video I talked about— I

mentioned that I found something on my

girlfriend's phone which was kind of

disturbing. And, um, I've talked to my

girlfriend about it. We've talked about

everything. Everything's okay between us.

And I asked her if it was okay if I could

make this video talking about what

happened, and she said yes. So, um, so

this is what happened. It all started a

few days ago. It was the morning. She woke

up. She turned off her alarm. And she got

up to have a shower. The thing is, she

didn't lock her phone. I noticed her phone

was still unlocked, and usually when this

happens— this has happened a few times

before, I've noticed her phone was just

lying there unlocked, and usually I just

ignore it and let it auto-lock. But for

some reason that morning, I couldn't

resist the temptation, and I quickly

grabbed her phone and I stopped it from

auto-locking. And while she was in the

shower, I I went onto her phone and I

checked her messages. I went onto Line and

the very first conversation that popped

up, which I'm guessing was her last

conversation, that's why it popped up

first, was, um, was this conversation she

was having with this Australian guy. And

I've talked about the Australian guy in

previous videos. If you don't know who he

is, he basically was her sex friend for

about 8 months last year. Before she got

divorced and for a period of time after

she got divorced. And they were basically

hooking up right up until October, which

was, which was around the time she met me.

And I checked, I checked all of the

conversation history all the way back

until October, and I noticed that they've

been talking to each other recently. They

were having a conversation about me and I

think this conversation took place

sometime last month, and there were

several things they were talking about.

Number one, the main thing was my YouTube

channel. My girlfriend was upset about my

YouTube channel, and she was telling him

about it. The second thing was marriage.

She was saying that she wasn't sure if she

still wanted to get married to me. Um,

the third thing was sex with me. She was

saying that the sex with me was getting

boring. It was, it was like a routine to

her. And the 4th thing, the most

shocking thing, was, was this message

which read, I miss your dick.

So basically she was, she was complaining

to him that the sex with me was boring,

and then she was flirting with him.

Yeah, I don't really care that she was

saying that the sex with me was getting

boring. Sure, sometimes it isn't. We don't

have the most exciting sex in the world

every single time. You know, when you have

sex with the same person for a long period

of time, it can start to get a bit

repetitive and tedious. That wasn't what

bothered me. The thing that— which

bothered me was the fact that she was

flirting with her ex-sex friend. Now,

before you start saying things like,

she's cheating on you, I'm 99% sure that

she's not cheating on me because I checked

all of their message history all the way

back until October before she met me, and

I didn't see any messages that suggested

they might have been secretly meeting up.

I'm pretty sure that the last time they

hooked up was in the beginning of October

last year, because I could see the

messages of them arranging to meet up,

and I think that was actually the same

week that I, I met her for the first time.

He also sent her a message sometime around

Christmas asking if she wanted to meet up

to have sex again, And she seemed pretty

angry in her replies. She said that she

has a boyfriend now and that she doesn't

want to hear from him anymore, which I

already knew about this because she told

me about this when it actually happened,

so it didn't really come as a surprise to

me. I just don't understand how she can go

from telling him to get lost in December

when he was asking her for sex, and then a

month later she's saying things to him

like I miss your dick. As you can imagine,

I was pretty pissed off. I was pretty

angry. And as soon as she came out of the

shower and she sat down to dry her hair,

I confronted her about it. I said, I've

been looking at your phone and I've been—

I've seen those messages that you've been

sending this Australian guy. Can you tell

me what's going on? And she just said she

was joking. She said none of the things

that she was saying were serious. I said,

what did you mean when you said to him, I

miss your dick? And she said, she was

joking and that she didn't really mean it.

And she was also pretty angry because I

checked her phone and we didn't really

talk that much. And then she just— she

kind of just stormed off and went to work.

I don't know if she was actually joking or

if she actually meant the things that she

was saying to him. I don't know if she's

actually bored with having sex with me. I

don't know if she actually does miss his

dick, but she didn't tell me. She just

brushed it off and said that it was all

just a joke and she wasn't being serious.

Later in the day, a few hours later, I

decided to send her a really long message

because I was still pretty pissed off. I

was still pretty angry with the whole

situation, and I wasn't satisfied with her

answers that she was just joking. And she

sent me a long explanation. She said that

sometime in January she saw one of my

livestreams, and she saw me say something

in the livestream that really upset her.

You know what I'm like, I'm very

dirty-minded, and when I livestream,

I say a lot of weird, perverted sexual

things which aren't always true, or I'm

just joking, I'm not being serious. And

she saw me say something like I fantasize

about having sex with other girls in her

bed, and she was really upset with this.

And just by coincidence, around that time,

the Australian guy just happened to be

online and She said that she didn't have

anyone else to talk to that she felt like

she could talk to apart from him, and she

just said those things out of frustration

because she was upset with me. We had this

huge argument sometime around January

because of the livestreaming issue, and,

um, I thought everything was okay because

things have been fine with us the last few

weeks, but it turns out she was just

pretending. She was just keeping quiet

because I was really ill for the last week

with the flu, and I was just really

shocked that she was talking to the

Australian guy so recently.

She must have been talking to him on the

very day before— the day before I checked

her phone, otherwise the conversation

between her and him wouldn't have

automatically come up. That only happens

when you close Line down on the

conversation that you're having, so she

must have been having a conversation with

him the day before. Otherwise that

conversation wouldn't have automatically

popped up when I opened Line. I also sent

her a really long message saying, I don't

understand why you're still talking to

this guy. How come you haven't deleted him

from your contacts? How come you haven't

blocked him? Why are you still in contact

with him? And she said that he didn't

really mean anything to her, so she hadn't

got around— she hadn't gotten around to

blocking him or deleting him. And she also

said that she didn't have anyone else to

talk to about me. She said that she

couldn't complain about me to her friends

or family because if she did, that would

make her friends and family dislike me.

She said that he was just this guy that

she felt comfortable talking to about

me. He was just like this guy that she can

unload her feelings onto without worrying

about consequences. And, you know, I can

understand that. I can understand that she

wants someone that she can talk to about

things that are troubling her, and I don't

have any problems or issues with that.

It's just that one message where she said,

I miss your dick. Why would she say that

if she's upset with me? Just because she's

upset with something that I've done

doesn't mean that she should start

flirting with guys or her exes. I think

that's just a really shitty thing to do.

If I upset her again, if I do something

else that makes her upset, is she gonna

start sexting or talking about sexual

things to another guy again. I don't know,

it's kind of— it's kind of made me lose

trust in her. Another thing that kind of

bothers me is the fact that she actually

had a sex friend in the first place. If he

was an ex-boyfriend, that would have been

better, but I just feel weird that

there was this guy who was just using her

for sex and she knew that and she was okay

with that. That just kind of sickens me.

I haven't asked her or told her to stop

talking to him or to delete him from Line

or whatever, because I don't feel like I

have the right to tell her who she can and

cannot talk to. And she could easily just

pretend that she deleted him, and then she

might have his phone number or his email.

It's just that I feel uncomfortable

knowing that she's still in contact with

him. It's like, are you keeping him as

like a safety net, as like a backup in

case things don't go well between us, so

you can just run off to him later. Is he

like option B who's just there in the

background? Yeah, I would like it if she

would delete him from her contacts. I

would like it if she stopped talking to

him. I don't know if they— they're still

talking. I don't know if they've spoken

since we've had that argument. Something

else that's kind of annoying is she's so

careless when it comes to opening her

phone. She just enters her passcode in

front of me. And I look away because,

because if I find out what her passcode

is, I'm gonna look at her phone again.

And I don't want to look at her phone

again, but I'm a curious person and

sometimes I just can't resist the

temptation. Yesterday she left her phone

unlocked on the table again, and I said,

you've left your phone unlocked again.

And she just said, don't look at it then.

And I said, I might look at it if you

leave it unlocked on the table. And she

just said, don't look at it. And then I

locked it for her. I know what I did was

wrong. I know I shouldn't have looked at

her phone secretly like that behind her

back, but I don't think it's unusual for a

boyfriend to be curious about what his—

who his girlfriend is talking to or what

she's talking about. And if you had the

chance to look at your girlfriend's

private messages, wouldn't you be tempted

to take a sneaky peek? In hindsight, I do

regret looking at her phone because

nothing good came from it. I just feel

disappointed and traumatized from seeing

those messages, especially the messages

that I saw from when they were

still hooking up. They sent each other

very sexual messages back in October

before she met me, and I kind of wish I

didn't see those. If I saw her phone lying

around unlocked again, would I look at it

again? I think I would actually, because

even though it messed me up, I'm still

curious and I still want to know, even if—

I don't know, it's kind of like picking a

scab. Nothing good comes from picking a

scab, but for some reason it's satisfying.

Honestly speaking, I would like to see

her, her chat history with him again

because I didn't really get a good look at

the recent messages because I was

scrolling back to October, and then when I

scrolled back to the recent messages, she

came out of the shower and I had to

quickly lock the phone, and I do kind of

wish I could see— I wish I had a proper

look at the conversation they were having

after the I miss your dick message was

sent. I wish she would be more careful

about locking her phone. I wish she

wouldn't just leave it lying around

unlocked. I wish she wouldn't enter her

passcode right in front of me. I wish she

would delete that chat conversation, that

chat history with that guy. How would she

feel if, if I was texting my ex-girlfriend

and saying things like I miss your pussy

to her. Like I said earlier, we have

talked about it and everything's okay with

us. We're not canceling the marriage, but

I am, I am still pretty pissed off about

the whole thing. And, um, I'm not gonna

lie, I'm still, still a bit angry about it

actually. I'm just going to try and not

think about it. I'm going to try and

forget about what happened. She said she

was joking. She said She didn't mean the

things that she said to him. Maybe she's

telling the truth, maybe that's a lie. I

don't, I don't really know.