How Nobita From Japan RUINED my Marriage

Hi, so today I would like to talk about

the reason why I decided to leave my

ex-wife in Japan.

Now, as you may know, there were many

reasons why the marriage didn't really

work out.

And I did some pretty bad things like

cheating a few times and saying mean

things about her on the internet.

But she forgave me for doing those things.

And even after those things happened, we

were still together, still married, and

there wasn't really any problems.

So how come we suddenly decided that we

should go our separate ways and end the

marriage after 2 years, even after we

overcame those massive hurdles such as

cheating and saying horrible things, you'd

think, well, if you could overcome those

things, then what possibly could have been

the straw that broke the camel's back?

Well, I'm going to explain in today's

video.

Well, we had just come back from England

after Christmas, and it was my first

Christmas, my family's first Christmas

without my father after he passed.

Earlier in that year, last year in

February, it was a very difficult time for

me and my family.

And going back home for Christmas was

something I had kind of been dreading

because I knew it would just bring back

all these sad memories.

And it did.

And I was very, very homesick before going

back for Christmas.

If you remember, I was doing a lot of

livestreams playing Minecraft and I was

recreating my family home in Minecraft and

it was looking pretty good.

But I got bored and I gave up trying to

remake it.

That was shortly before we went back for

Christmas and we only went back for— it

was about 9 days.

I think we stayed in a hotel in the New

Forest and then we stayed a few days at my

home and then we came back to Japan and I

wasn't really satisfied with that.

Really, to be honest, I wanted to stay at

home for a bit longer.

I thought 9 days was a bit too short.

I would have preferred to have stayed at

least 2 weeks so I could, you know, just

be at home and be with my family.

But my ex-wife had to go back to work,

obviously, so she couldn't really stay

that long.

And we ended up going back to Japan.

I was feeling kind of down.

I wasn't in a great mood when I came back.

You could probably tell.

I made a few videos, you know, talking

about how I was feeling down and how I

didn't know what to do with the rest of my

life.

And I started to do these really long

livestreams.

I did 8-hour-long livestreams and I was

just constantly on Discord chatting to

viewers.

And I was doing this because I kind of

felt lonely.

I wanted to talk to people and she, my

ex-wife, she wasn't happy with me doing

these really long livestreams and chatting

to people on Discord.

All day long when I didn't really talk to

her much.

So she would come home from work and we

would have dinner.

She would make dinner and then we would

eat it.

And then I would go back to my computer

and I'd just be chatting to people on

Discord.

And then she would just be watching TV and

looking at her phone.

And we didn't really talk to each other

much.

There was like silence in the room 90% of

the time.

And I guess she wasn't very happy about

that.

She would come home from work and she

would be angry because I had just nonstop

streamed all day and I was just talking

constantly to all these people online and

I wouldn't even say more than 10 words to

her.

And she was getting kind of upset with

this.

So the day before I decided to leave her

and pack my stuff and go to Korea, it was

actually a pretty normal day.

Nothing bad happened.

We had a nice dinner, had a nice night,

and there was just one thing that came up

in conversation.

She told me that last year whilst I was in

England by myself after my dad's funeral,

she said that Nobita actually messaged

her, contacted her, saying that he would

like to have absolutely nothing to do with

me.

He doesn't want to be associated with me

because he's scared of my crazy viewers.

And he said he was getting, you know,

harassment and scary messages and emails

from my viewers.

If you don't know who Nobita is, he's

basically this Japanese YouTuber who I had

a bit of beef with, and he makes really

boring videos about Japan.

Things like top 5 financial and economical

problems with Japan, why Japanese students

keep going into financial debt, you know,

really boring topics like that.

But somehow he gets hundreds of thousands

of views constantly, which just boggles my

my mind.

Anyway, I had a bit of beef with him

because I made some videos about him and

he made some about me, but he's deleted

them.

And I used a picture of his and he didn't

like it, so he gave me a copyright strike

and I had a lot of beef with him because

of that.

Anyway, that's all in the past.

And he messaged my ex-wife saying he

didn't want to have anything to do with

me, which was kind of weird because I

thought, number one, how did he even get

into direct contact with my ex-wife?

I'm not sure how he reached out to her

because

Because at the time she didn't have any

public social media.

And number two, why did he even think that

telling my ex-wife that he didn't want to

have anything to do with me would make any

difference?

If I want to talk about Nobita, I bloody

well will talk about Nobita.

It's my free speech rights.

I can talk about anything or anyone I want

to.

Just because you go telling to my ex-wife

that saying you don't want to be

associated with me doesn't mean I'm going

to stop talking about you.

Anyway, I was very surprised about this

because it was like new information.

And the next morning after she went to

work, I went straight onto Discord and I

started chatting to people on Discord

about it, saying that, oh, Nobita messaged

my ex-wife last year, he was saying this

and that.

And I was pretty excited about it because

you know me, I like this kind of stuff.

And Guess who logs into the Discord

server?

Yeah, my ex-wife logs in and then starts

having a go at me saying that I spend too

much time on Discord chatting to people

and I don't say anything to her and it's

boring because we don't talk and we should

separate and end things.

And I was getting kind of annoyed and I

had to ban her from my Discord server.

And then she messaged me on Facebook

privately saying, let's Let's break up.

Let's get divorced.

This isn't fun anymore.

This isn't a good relationship.

And I was thinking, hmm, should I

apologize and beg her not to break up with

me?

Or should I just pack my stuff and go to

Korea?

Because I'm pretty sure if I just

apologize, if I said, I'm sorry, I'll

spend less time on Discord, I'll spend

less time doing livestreams, I'll talk to

you more when you're home, I'll put away

my phone.

I'm pretty sure if I said that, then

everything would have been fine and I

probably would have still— I still would

be married to this day.

But, you know, there were a lot of

problems between us and I also felt like

the marriage wasn't really working in the

way that I wanted it to.

And I decided to pack my bags and I went

to Korea and stupidly I left my MSI gaming

laptop in her apartment and my Sony action

camera because I was an idiot and I

thought it would be too heavy and I didn't

want to carry around all that extra weight

when I'm traveling around Asia.

The original plan was I was going to go to

Korea for a few months and then I would

just country hop from one country to

another, making my way back west.

So eventually I would make my way back to

England one country at a time,

experiencing each country, making a video

about what it's like living in each

country.

But as you know, The whole virus thing

happened and kind of ruined my plans.

Thank you very much, China.

So yeah, it's kind of a weird reason why

we finally decided to separate.

It was because of Nobita.

So thank you, Nobita from Japan, formerly

known as Find Your Love in Japan.

More like ruining people's marriages in

Japan.

Anyway, I really regret leaving my MSI

gaming laptop back there because recently

I've kind of started to get back into

gaming.

It all started when I downloaded Mortal

Kombat 11 on my Switch on a whim, and then

I got bored with that and I decided to

play Fortnite again on my Switch because I

started watching this streamer called Dr

Disrespect and he just made gaming look

really fun.

I thought, wow, I want to do some gaming

as well.

But my only gaming device I took with me

when I left Japan was my Switch Lite, and

it's not really scratching my itch as hard

as I would like it to.

I would like to get some kind of gaming

laptop again and get back into Rainbow

Six.

But it's kind of annoying because this is

going to be the 3rd time that I end up

buying a gaming laptop within 2 years.

It's such a waste of money.

So if you remember my first gaming laptop,

um, I got an MSI 17-inch laptop with a

1060 GTX, 1060 Core i7.

I bought that in 2018 as kind of like a

treat for myself.

And obviously I lost that because my

ex-wife decided to sell it without my

permission when I was back home in England

after my dad had his funeral.

So that was my first one.

I decided to buy a second one for going to

Germany, and I got the same MSI gaming

laptop, but this time a 15-inch model.

And I left that one behind when I left

Japan because I thought it would be too

heavy to carry around.

And I'm thinking about getting a new

laptop with dual screens.

I went to the store the other day.

They had so many cool looking laptops.

Had this one called the Predator Triton

900, has an articulating 17-inch display.

That is amazing.

And the good thing about it is it

articulates in a way that The screen comes

forwards towards you, so it's kind of like

you're closer to it.

It makes it seem as though this screen is

bigger just because you're closer.

There's also this other one called the

Helios 700, had a sliding keyboard that

slides forwards towards you, revealing

this massive cooling system, this huge

fan.

And when you activate the turbo mode, it's

like you've got this bloody vacuum cleaner

going off next to your head.

It was amazing.

But they're pretty expensive.

The Predator Triton 900 is nearly €4,000,

and then the Helios 700 is like €3,000,

and then the dual-screen laptop is over

€2,000.

Maybe it's, it's kind of unnecessary, a

bit overkill just to play a bit of Rainbow

Six.

I don't think spending €3,000 to €4,000 on

a gaming laptop is really going to be a

good idea anyway.

So yeah, the real reason why I decided to

leave my ex-wife wasn't because of any of

the big problems we had.

It wasn't because of the cheating.

It wasn't because of the mean things we

were saying about each other.

It wasn't because of her betrayal when she

met up with the Hong Kong guy behind my

back.

It was because Nobita sent her a message

last year and I got excited about it and

talked about it on Discord.

That was it, really.

And it just— it sounds like a really dumb

reason for 2 people to divorce.

But you know the phrase The last straw.

The final straw that broke the camel's

back.

I guess that is a good example of camel's

backs.