the importance of having Male Friends

I probably sound feminine when I speak

Japanese too, because I never hung out

with Japanese guys. I only ever hung out

with Japanese women and spoke to Japanese

women, so I never really picked up on like

the male characteristics— characteristics—

carrot— carrot— carrots— characteristics.

You watch Anime Man speak Japanese and you

can tell he probably hangs out with a lot

of Japanese guys. But he used a lot of

rough Japanese that I don't— I understand,

but I just don't feel comfortable using

it. The rough form of ending sentences,

like instead of janai, jane. You know,

you change the i into an e. It sounds

really rough. Or instead of ne, you use

na, which is more masculine sounding. I

just don't feel comfortable using it. You

could tell Anime Man has— probably has a

ton of guy friends. Hangs out, talks in

Japanese to. And you see, this is another

thing why I sound feminine and like a

sissy in English, because I don't hang out

with English guys. I've kind of had an

epiphany recently. The whole point of

having friends is for men to practice

their social skills with each other and

like practice their bantering, banter,

and their wittiness and jokes. So when

they meet a woman— so I think if I had

Like masculine friends I hung out with,

I'd probably start sounding more masculine

because I'd pick up from them. It's like

play fighting. So lions' cubs, they'll

play fight to practice hunting.

Basically, men, they socialize with other

men to like practice their social skills.

So by the time they they're ready to meet

women, they've already got years and years

of experience hanging out with guys,

honing their conversational skills. It

just I got no experience hanging out with.

Bunch of guys. I feel like the guys who do

well with girls, they're not afraid.

They're not afraid to upset the girl.

They'll antagonize the girl, like kind of

making fun of her in a joking way. I think

girls like that. They like being

challenged. Whereas I never challenge the

girl or make fun of girls. I'm very nice.

I just kind of go along with anything they

say. I never. Say, no, you're wrong, or

why do you think that? It's like this, or

you don't know what you're talking about.

I never show any opposition to girls when

I'm talking to them. I just— I'm very

agreeable. I'm like, yeah, yeah, that's

true. Yeah, I guess so. I don't

know if girls like that.

I feel like girls like to be a bit Um,

they like— I don't know how to explain it.

Girls don't like it. Oh,

well, I don't know. It was just a theory.

A game theory. What happened to that Game

Theory guy? Completely forgot about him.

It's just a theory.

A misogynistic theory.

Oh yeah, MatPat. He's like the most

energetic guy on YouTube.

Remember during the apocalypse time he

started crying over his channel losing

monetization or getting demonetized?

Maybe I'm just watching too much Coach Red

Pill. Where he says, I take a

girl to a nice place and I— if she says

something silly, I put her in her place

and tell her why she's wrong. I thought

it was quite funny. Make her feel like an

idiot and then I destroy her with my facts

and logic. I completely deconstruct

her mental

State. What did he say? I don't know what

he said. Completely deconstruct all

of her opinions and thoughts and tell her

why she's wrong and stupid. That makes her

wet.

Daniel, we just raided you. Say hi. Oh,

hello. I didn't notice.

I was too busy with my internal monologue.

Coach Red Pill looks like a loser. No, I

think he's cool. He's got successful

online businesses. He banged supermodels.

And he rides a motorbike,

and I like Coach.

I watched a lot of his videos. I never

really got angry at anything he said.

Yeah, he's very cocky and arrogant, but I

kind of like that.

If I come back to Japan, what's the plan?

I'm gonna buy a tent and— no, I won't say

it. People take my

jokes too seriously. I don't know, I'll

probably just go on Tinder, try and get

some dates.

Try and get a girlfriend again,

same as usual.

Get back to Japan.

To find a new wife, see if I can get

married without my last marriage being

found out.

Is Tinder that easy in Japan? Tinder,

I do so well on Tinder in Japan. I get

dates easily and I also easily get

hookups.

A lot of Japanese women are on Tinder just

to hook up and then they're just very

forwards about it. They just say,

yeah, we can hook up, and then you meet

them and then you hook up.

I feel like that's just kind of impossible

here. You get unmatched straight away if

you even mention hooking up.

You can message a Japanese woman or girl

and just say, oh, do you want to go to a

hotel? Lol. And then make it seem like

it's a silly thing to say.

And they won't be all disgusted and

unmatch you. Some might even say yes.

It worked so many times, even before

meeting them, we started talking about

meeting at a hotel.

Well, during the date, you just, you have

some drinks and then you say, do you want

to go to a hotel? And they said yes, like

8 times out of 10.