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I'd be embarrassed if we went to a restaurant and then like a live band came out singing about me, like, oh Daniel, you're so great, we love you so much, like guitar and trumpet. I'd find that so embarrassing.
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0:03–0:20 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_0Oh shit, like, well, if you go to the cafe and then you've got to say your name for the order, I'm like, that— Aisen? Daisen? I mean, Jace, that would be so annoying.
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0:44–0:55 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_1Like Starbucks, you order a coffee and they go, what's, what's the name?
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0:59–1:02 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_2Jason.
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1:04–1:05 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_3Jason.
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1:12–1:12 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_4Oh, I should have put my fake name as a name starting with D, like Damien.
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1:16–1:20 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_5Damien.
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1:22–1:23 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_6Damien. And the girl goes, why is it— isn't it Damien? I'm like, no, it's the Chinese pronunciation. Damien.
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1:26–1:35 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_7Why would I need to say my name? Apart from Starbucks.
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1:42–1:46 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_8Also, what's my last name?
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1:50–1:51 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_9Jason Bourne.
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1:54–1:56 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_10Are there any other famous Jasons? I can't think of a single famous Jason. Jasons don't really get famous, do they?
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2:00–2:10 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_11Jace. Jace on, more like Jace off.
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2:16–2:23 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_12Oh, why do I have to choose Jason? I didn't think I was going to get any matches, to be honest.
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3:05–3:10 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_13Jason. Uh, it's gonna be— I hope they don't call my name. I'm sorry.
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3:32–3:36 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_14Christina doesn't sound very Indian.
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4:03–4:05 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_15Well, if she's actually a viewer and I meet her and she goes, hey Daniel. And I go, uh, my name's Jason. And she goes, okay, Daniel. That'd be pretty funny.
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4:16–4:28 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_16And I'll just say Jason's my middle name because it is. So I don't like Daniel
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4:33–4:37 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_17because it's boring, because people used to bully me saying I look like Harry Potter. So I hated the name Daniel because of Daniel Radcliffe.
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4:39–4:47 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_18It's believable. People call me Asian Harry Potter.
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4:50–4:55 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_19Well, regardless, it's going to be an interesting story.
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5:01–5:04 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_20Win-win, really.
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5:08–5:08 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_21If I get ditched, I go live in Plymouth and I go on a desperate bar hopping trying to talk to girls run.
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5:13–5:20 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_22Where are some good bars in Plymouth?
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5:23–5:26 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_23Maybe I'm too old.
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5:30–5:33 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_24Not clubs. Maybe I'm too old to be let into a club, but I go to like bar or something.
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5:38–5:43 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_25Dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun.
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6:00–6:02 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_26嗯,嗯,嗯,好。
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6:05–6:28 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_27Oh God, I don't know why I'm coughing now, and then next I'm gonna hiccup.
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7:30–7:34 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_28My lip hurts too from the pimple.
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7:40–7:41 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_29I popped it. Hopefully it heals, dries up tomorrow.
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7:44–7:47 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_30Should I put that cleanser on it? Salicylic acid.
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7:49–7:53 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_31Vapours lung. 嗯。
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8:10–8:26 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_32I
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9:54–9:54 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_33got busy. Been a long day.
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9:59–10:17 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_34Big day tomorrow.
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10:22–10:25 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_35Made
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10:50–10:51 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_36$150 yesterday, 13 hours.
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10:53–10:57 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_37Not bad. No more $200.
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11:01–11:03 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_38I want to get a good 12-hour sleep.
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11:13–11:15 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_39Wank session too, I think.
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11:19–11:21 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_40Feeling very horny after going to the beach.
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12:02–12:04 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_41嗯。
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12:08–12:29 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_42My porn of choice.
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12:49–12:50 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_43I don't know, I haven't been very creative recently. Just put hot girl,
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12:56–12:59 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_44hot girl effed raw.
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13:01–13:04 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_45No, I'm bored of Jav.
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13:24–13:25 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_46The whole— all the way they scream and stuff, it's really annoying. I don't like it.
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13:30–13:35 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_47Maybe big bum, small stomach girl on beach banged.
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13:49–13:55 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_48嗯。
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14:14–14:33 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_49I don't think she's on benefits because she said she wakes up like 5 or 6 AM. Must be for work, but she didn't say it was for work.
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14:46–14:57 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_50What else could it be for?
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14:59–15:00 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_51Something in my lung.
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15:07–15:08 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_52Wouldn't surprise me if she's on meds. Looks like everyone's on meds these days. I'm the only one raw-dogging life.
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15:17–15:24 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_53Oh
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15:51–15:51 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_54God.
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15:54–15:54 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_55Oh,
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16:00–16:00 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_56my throat.
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16:15–16:18 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_57Itchy.
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16:20–16:20 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_58Oops,
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16:22–16:23 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_59wrong place.
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16:29–16:40 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_60Got
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17:01–17:02 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_61to lay off the vapes.
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17:08–17:10 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_62Indian girl didn't reply to me.
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17:15–17:17 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_63She messaged me when I was at the beach saying, are we still on for tomorrow? I said, yeah, I'm at the beach, and then I sent her a picture, but she didn't reply.
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17:19–17:27 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_64Bit weird.
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17:31–17:32 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_65Myanmar girl unmatched me and blocked me on WhatsApp
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17:42–17:45 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_66because the last thing we said was she, she said, I think we should talk more, don't you think so? I said, yeah, we can. She said, anything you want to know about me and share about you? I said, yeah, I'd love to know more about you. And then I didn't say anything afterwards. I left it on read.
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17:48–18:09 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_67See, now I got hiccups from coughing.
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18:23–18:24 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_68Really annoying.
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18:27–18:27 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_69Oh
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18:33–18:33 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_70God, now I've got fucking hiccups.
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18:44–18:46 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_71No, I didn't like Myanmar girl.
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18:50–18:51 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_72I don't want to ask her because then she'll ask me why. I guess I'll just say driving work.
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19:05–19:12 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_73Why did you like me? Uh, because I like your pictures. Oh, that's very sad to hear that, because I think personality is more important.
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19:20–19:30 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_74Yeah, I didn't say personality is not important. I don't even know what your personality is.
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19:37–19:42 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_75How would I know your personality just from looking at your profile?
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19:44–19:47 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_76I can't stop hiccupping now.
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19:51–20:02 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_77Oh, today was CPI data, that's why it ripped. Oh, hard to trade when you're out and about streaming.
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20:16–20:23 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_78Well, I'm going to bed. I've done 14 hours today. I'm
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20:33–20:39 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_79No, I didn't block the Thai girl, but we just didn't talk again.
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20:43–20:46 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_80Don't need to block. I think she got the message.
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20:48–20:51 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_81Myanmar is just petty. She didn't need to block me. I wasn't going to message her anyway.
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20:56–21:01 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_82Calm down. No need to block. I don't even want to talk to you.
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21:03–21:08 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_83She sounds like she's had a tantrum.
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21:12–21:14 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_843 things you need to do on your next date to guarantee success. I've coached a lot of men over the years. I've broken down a lot of first dates. Yeah, I don't care. Just stop. To get ready and to spend time with. Yeah. Okay. That's how it's done. You need to practice the delivery of— you go up
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21:25–21:39 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_85to the girl and you greet her and you say, hey, what's up? How's it going? You give her a hug. You then need to— really? I'll give her a hug?
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21:39–21:45 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_86That's kind of awkward, isn't it? A lot of time goes by and they're waiting for this, like, drum roll hug that breaks the know what I'm talking about. It's the moment that the date starts, right? The moment you see the girl appearing on the date, you need to go up and give her a warm greeting that injects
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21:49–22:07 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_87some form of physicality. Should I give her a hug? I've never done that before. Some form of verbal intent. So from a distance, when you see the girl, you're going to hold good eye contact with a nice smile. You're going to then go up. I'll practice my hug.
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22:07–22:24 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_88Oh, like this.
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22:31–22:31 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_89Is that how you do the hunk?
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22:46–22:48 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_90Voilà.
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23:02–23:03 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_91Everything's so hard to move about on this stupid fucking chair. The wheels keep getting stuck on the little grooves.
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23:18–23:24 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_92Oh, I can't stop hiccupping now. That's so annoying.
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23:26–23:28 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_93What if I do a handshake to her and greet her with a hug? And as you're going up to her, you give her the hug. That breaks the physical touch barrier off rip. And as you release the hug, you're going to look her dead in the eyes with a little bit of a smirk and a slow Low
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23:32–23:48 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_94vocal tonality. Hey baby, like that. And tell her you look really cute tonight. That's so weird. What, straight away?
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23:48–24:00 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_95Look her dead in the eyes. You look really cute today.
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24:02–24:05 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_96That's— I don't believe these tips. Vertical liquidity. Copilot, turn this whiteboard All you need to do to set the tone when you see the girl, it's going to break the touch barrier and it's going to give some verbal intent. And that is why it's so powerful to start the date with that, because most dudes, when the date
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24:08–24:24 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_97starts, they're awkward. They're already sitting down, they don't greet the girl, they wave from a distance, they break eye contact, it's nervous. And then a lot of time goes by and they're waiting for this like drum roll buildup effect as to like when you're gonna actually make it flirty, or when you're gonna break the touch barrier. You
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24:24–24:42 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_98don't need to wait to do any of this. Understand, the girl already cleared out multiple hours of her day to get ready and to spend time with you. We can assume that there is attraction. This is a date, okay? So what you want to do is go into the day with the mentality of, this is a date,
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24:42–24:58 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_99I can assume attraction, and I want to start out the date by just breaking the touch barrier and breaking the verbal intent barrier because it's going to set the tone It's gonna put a nice foundation in place for us to build off of when we start steps 2 and step 3 in this video. Now I need to
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24:58–25:14 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_100clarify some things because I tell guys to do this and they still find a way to mess this up. So just for clarification, when you go up to the girl and you greet her and you say, hey, what's up, how's it going, you give her a hug, you then need to display intent with a slow delivery while
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25:14–25:29 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_101holding good eye contact, and you need to say, you look Really cute tonight, by the way.
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25:29–25:34 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_102Hmm, you look very cute today. How's
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25:40–25:44 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_103that?
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25:46–25:46 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_104You look very cute today.
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25:49–25:51 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_105Beautiful.
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25:53–25:54 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_106What you're not gonna do is you give her a hug, you break eye contact, you look down and say, you look cute tonight. That's the wrong delivery. You also don't do is hold eye contact and say, you look cute tonight. No, this is an opportunity to instantly make it flirtatious and sexual. It's nothing crazy. You're not going
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25:59–26:15 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_107to be coming off creepy or too fuckboyish, whatever your concern is. This is an acceptable line to say at the beginning of a date. The power is in the delivery because I've heard a lot of guys' audio interactions with them going on dates. They hugged it early and they said, hey, I like your outfit tonight. Looks good.
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26:15–26:30 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_108I'm like, dude, that's not what the fucking line was. I did not say hug her and say, hey, you look good tonight, I like your outfit. Hey, you look pretty tonight, I like your shoes. Hey, what's up, how you doing, you look really good. No, that's not the line and that's not the delivery. There is a speed
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26:30–26:46 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_109to the delivery with pauses and eye contact and a smile, and there is a word-for-word phrase that I want you to say that's going to create the right emotional effect in the girl. Okay, so you hug her with a smile and you then look at her and you say, you look really cute tonight, by the way. That's
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26:46–27:03 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_110how it's done. You need to practice the delivery of that line over and over with the right speed, with good eye contact, with a little bit of a smirk on your face, a little bit of a smile, not like this, but a little bit of a smirk on your face, and it instantly sets the tone for the
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27:03–27:16 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_111rest of the date. Because how many of you dudes don't break the touch barrier and you don't display intent and now we're an hour into the day and it's gonna be really weird and awkward to try to flip the script. You're gonna be in your head about how to do it. It just sets the tone right away.
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27:16–27:28 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_112Just understand that. And it's totally acceptable. It is not aggressive. It is a normal move that should be honestly expected if you're going on a date with a woman. And there's nothing wrong with that. She just spent time getting ready. She put herself together nicely. She's excited to see you. She's hoping that the date's gonna go well.
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27:28–27:44 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_113She's hoping that you're gonna be that guy. She didn't do all of this to get ready so that you never make a move and you never make it flirty. She did not do all of this to get ready to just have a friendly conversation with you. And I'm saying this because this is a mindset of dating that
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27:44–27:58 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_114a lot of you dudes get wrong. You think you just go on the date to have a good conversation. How'd the date go, bro? Kyle, it was good. The conversation was flowing. That's not what a good date is, dude. That's not what a good date is. Friendly conversation is a conversation to be had with friends. That's not
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27:58–28:11 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_115the point of a date. And I'm not saying to do anything crazy. I'm saying start it off with a hug, a smile, good eye contact, nice slow delivery. You look really cute tonight, by the way. You gotta deliver it. You look really cute, by the way. Hey, you look cute. Hey, you look cute tonight. No, that's not
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28:11–28:30 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_116what it is, and I'm gonna say it over and over again because you guys just don't got the delivery, because you guys don't understand the delivery. Nice and slow with good eye contact. You look really cute tonight, by the way. Do not deviate from the script. But it's not— I needed to go harder. We're not meeting at
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28:30–28:50 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_117night though. What if I meet them in the morning and I say, you look really cute tonight? They're like, it's 11 AM, dumbass. I've told so many dudes to do this and in the moment they fuck it up. So practice it at home. Literally practice this thing at home. Record yourself if you need to. So say into
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28:50–29:12 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_118the camera, you need to get good at the delivery. Actors, you look really cute tonight. And create the right emotional effect for the movie. And if you're a dude who sucks at flirting, or if you've never done this before, well, guess what, dude? This is how you practice it. You look really cute tonight, by the way. Better
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29:12–29:27 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_119with it with time. It's going to become more natural. Okay, that's step 1. And if, as I'm saying this, you're a dude who really sucks with flirting, you can't create attraction, you're not even getting dates, or you're getting ghosted after the date— you turned on by my flirting? Fill out the application for an opportunity to work with
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29:27–29:41 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_120me directly to level up your confidence in your dating life. Let's get into number 2, which is the idea of location changes and positioning throughout the date. Now, what this does not mean is that you meet her at the restaurant and you guys stay at the restaurant in the same seat for 3 hours for the whole date,
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29:41–29:58 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_121and then at the end of that you get up and now it's weird because you haven't touched her, there's been no movement, it's been an interview the whole fucking time, and just really creates a bad dynamic. So the idea of multiple locations and along with multiple positions, seating or standing, different positions, different locations is the name of
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29:58–30:18 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_122the game. Okay. For a variety of different reasons that I'm about to get into. The first of which is that it gets stale and boring sitting across from each other for a really long time. It creates an interview kind of effect to it. And it also, it doesn't ever allow you to get touchy, or if you were
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30:18–30:32 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_123going to actually get some physicality, you're going to really have to lean across the table to do that. And it's just awkward. It's uncomfortable. It brings too much attention to it. Don't want to do that. That's not to say that you can't ever sit across the table from the girl. You can do that. You absolutely can do
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30:32–30:47 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_124that. I just don't want the whole date to be like that because it just kind of creates this weird dynamic long-term. And then when you finally do touch her, it's like a big deal. So if you start off across, that's okay. But again, hey, what is the best— how many ads? Romantic partner who shares common interests. Think
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30:47–31:04 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_125about all the locations in between The actual venue. So let's just say we were going to sit across. Well, ideally you meet her outside. Instructions unclear. I told her she looks really cute tonight while we were getting brunch. And you can give her a nice warm greeting using step number 1, hug, display a little bit of intent,
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31:04–31:21 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_126talk to her a little bit. Okay, you ready to go in? We start walking inside. I could actually touch her a little bit. We're waiting to actually be seated. I can put my hand on her shoulder. I could do like a playful push away at some point. There can be multiple touch points, physical touch points, before you
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31:21–31:36 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_127actually go sit across from the girl. So keep that in mind as well. But also, if you have the option to, I would recommend finding an environment that you guys could go to that has a nice ambiance with a nice menu, whether that's food or drink or whatever. But ideally, there's better seating than just this long table
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31:36–31:52 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_128where you're sitting across from her. Ideally, there's like a long couch where you guys could have the opportunity to sit next to each other, or if it is a table, I liked how Fasta never liked sitting opposite me. She always made like a whiny sound and then sat next to me. I thought that was cute. That's not
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31:52–32:09 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_129what I'm saying. I'm saying when the seating and the positioning of us is naturally closer to each other, it actually makes it easier to touch her without it being a big deal. The further away I am, the more I'm gonna have to reach over. The more we're just naturally sitting closer to each other, the easier and not
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32:09–32:24 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_130a big deal it is for me to touch the girl at any point casually. Okay, casually. Now again, keep in mind that's just seating. Okay, so that covers half of point number 2, which is seating. But I also want to talk about location changes and positioning, because in my opinion, on a date, if I had an ideal
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32:24–32:40 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_131date set up, I would recommend at least 2 to 3 different locations that I can maneuver with the girl and lead her to over the span of 2, 3, even 4 hours. And it doesn't need to be your house. If it ends up back at your house, that's fine. If I had the preference, I would choose at
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32:40–32:55 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_132least 2 to 3 different locations and possibly even multiple location changes within that venue, because with every location change, it's an opportunity for you to lead the girl. So example, we start off sitting down at this, maybe a bar or bar stools, or we're sitting down at some elongated couch area, or sitting at a table that's adjacent.
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32:55–33:15 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_133If there's another adjacent in the venue that we could go visit in 30 to 60 minutes. I think that's really powerful because now we're here, we talk a little bit. At some point, maybe we have our drink or we have some finger food. Now I say, cool, let's go check out the rooftop. Let's go check out the
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33:15–33:29 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_134downstairs. Let's go check out the dance floor. Let's go check out the outdoor area. Let's go check out blank. Ideally, the place has a second location within the environment. Let's go check out Kip Hill. Yo, let's go explore the back area really quick. Let's check it out. Explore your back area. Now this is great because of a
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33:29–33:46 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_135variety of different reasons. There's already been a little bit of touching. If we get up now, now there's movement to the date. Naturally, there will be other things for us to talk about other than me just having to be this amazing conversationalist that just keeps asking her questions and improving stories and, you know, world-class flirting. Can you
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33:46–34:02 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_136make that work? Yes, absolutely. But the more movement there is, naturally there will be different things to talk about, different vibes and environments to be in. So that's why it's powerful. But also, now you can lead the girl. So we get up, she walks with me. If, if you've already been able to touch her, you've already been
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34:02–34:18 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_137able to flirt, you can say, hey, grab my arm. And when you say grab my arm, don't make it a big deal, guys. You can say, cool, yeah, you ready to check out the back? Okay, cool, let's go. Yeah, grab my arm. It's okay to do that. Dudes like freak the fuck out when I tell them you
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34:18–34:30 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_138can tell the girl to grab your arm. You just need to do it in a casual way where it's not a big deal, and you give her a little bit of reassurance. Okay, grab my arm. So what, you want to grab my arm? Hey, you want to grab my arm? No, it's implied that I'm the dude, she's
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34:30–34:43 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_139the girl, we're on the date, and I'm leading her. So when you have that kind of mindset, especially if you started off the date the right way— that's why you really need to do technique 1, it sets the tone, dude. If you don't do any of that and then you just try to go for an arm grab,
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34:43–34:54 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_140it's gonna feel so weird because you haven't flirted, there was no touch barrier broken, there hasn't been anything, and now that's the first move. That's kind of weird, right? So that's why these are strategically done in order. There should be a little bit of light touching going on throughout. Now when it's time for the location change, we
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34:54–35:08 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_141can move over. If it makes sense, I could say, cool, you ready to go over there? All right, cool. Yeah, grab my arm right here. Cool. All right, let's go. Yeah, let's check this spot out. And now you lead the girl to the next location. That's a really nice, powerful move that you could do that creates a
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35:08–35:21 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_142man-to-woman dynamic between the two of you guys. A lot of clients ask me, yeah, I was on the date, but it just like wasn't like man-to-woman. It's like, dude, you gotta— haven't I had good dates before?
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35:21–35:31 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_143Yeah, but not because I was good at the date.
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35:44–35:46 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_144If dates went well, it's because the girl was already really into me. Like, the Korean woman basically made all the moves. I actually didn't do anything on the Korean date. Of babies. I mean, she did everything. So at that point, I knew I didn't have to do anything now.
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35:49–36:07 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_145That was the last— was that really the last date I went on?
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36:10–36:13 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_1462023, the Korean girl from Japan.
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36:16–36:18 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_147I went to a coffee shop, and then we just talked about travel.
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36:21–36:23 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_148I don't know what else we talked about.
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36:26–36:28 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_149Yeah, after the coffee shop we went to— I
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36:30–36:33 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_150actually don't— oh, she took me to a Korean barbecue place. It was like a proper authentic Korean barbecue where they put it over a barrel.
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36:35–36:43 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_151And then I impressed her with a bit of my Korean
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36:46–36:49 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_152And then we walked around in a park at night and I kissed her.
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36:52–36:56 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_153I mean, usually if the girl's not interested in me, there's not really anything I can do to change her mind.
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37:06–37:11 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_154Or I don't do anything to change your mind. I have been quite assertive back in 2017 with the Japanese Tinder dates.
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37:20–37:27 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_155I was much more assertive before.
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37:33–37:35 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_156I met Japanese girls on Tinder,
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37:45–37:47 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_157but I've never started it with a hug unless she hugs me.
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37:57–38:00 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_158Yeah, I'm still happy with the move to kick.
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38:34–38:36 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_159But I never hugged any girl from the first date.
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38:47–38:51 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_160Mila kicked me on our first date. I don't know if it's even— would it be considered a date? We didn't really say it was a date. I'm gonna create that man-to-woman essence by being the man and leading the woman in a confident, fun, reassuring way that doesn't make any of it a big deal. So we go check
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38:53–39:10 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_161out the next spot within the venue. Maybe that's the rooftop, the outdoor seating, the couch over there, the downstairs area. Maybe there's a pool table or a game you guys can go play. I like all of these different things because it creates multiple locations, but also to tie into point number 2, the positioning. Again, if you're just
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39:10–39:25 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_162sitting across the table the whole time, it's going It's really weird. If we're at a table and we're adjacent, and then we get up and Jason's walking with me. Now we're at the pool table and there's a little bit of touching. We're playing darts, there's a little bit of touching. We're sitting at bar stools and there's a
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39:25–39:37 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_163little bit of touching. We're on the rooftop and we're standing next to each other at the bar. If you're doing that much touching, you might as well just say you want to come back to my place.
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39:37–39:44 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_164At five different locations, one instance. So the goal is. I don't understand what is wrong with my fucking mouse. I'm clicking it once. Break this down into small. And then sometimes it acts as a double click. Look, I click it once. Okay, now it's fine. Look, look, look, see. I clicked it once and it acted like a
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39:55–40:17 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_165double click. What was wrong with this mouse? Let's say like 15 to 20 minutes. There should be incremental bursts of escalation, whether that's location, whether that's verbal, whether that's physical. I didn't do that. I would go from 0 to 100. I'd be like, sorry, do you want to go to a hotel? Without any touching, no flirting. We'd
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40:17–40:41 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_166do like friendly conversation where it's boring. And then I'd wait until there's this moment of silence and I go, so do you want to go to hotel?
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40:41–40:48 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_167Worked every time.
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40:50–40:52 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_168See, look, I'm just clicking it once and it's double-clicking it and it's not even playing the video. Look. ¿Cómo está? Cool, but ideally you're doing all three somewhat simultaneously throughout the date. So what does that mean? Well, when we start off with technique number one, the vibe check, we instantly have a little bit of a bump with
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41:01–41:22 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_169the physicality and the verbal elements. Then we go into the date. In the first oh God, I have vomit in my mouth. I'm going to say there should be another injection of some kind of verbal minimum, and ideally a little bit of physical too, if possible. If the seating doesn't allow it in the beginning, that's okay because
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41:22–41:39 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_170we already did it up front. But then if nothing else, there needs to be a little bit of verbal there. Now the date goes on, we're 30 minutes in, maybe we're 60 minutes in, there should be another burst of some sort of verbal escalation, some sort of teasing, and really some second form of intent. All right, I
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41:39–41:53 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_171have a bunch of different videos on my channel going over flirting and stuff, but you should be injecting a second level of flirtatiousness or intent somewhere between that 30 to 60 minute marker. And again, it's in the delivery. You don't just say, yeah, you're cute. That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about delivering it in a
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41:53–42:08 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_172way that creates an emotional— I think she likes being called cute because she drunk texted me a couple nights ago and I said— she said sorry and I said it's okay, it was cute. And then she said, cute? I'll take that.
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42:08–42:21 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_173What does that mean?
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42:24–42:25 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_174Maybe she likes compliments. Yeah, I should try and compliment more. That was like one of my biggest, um, things I don't do well is that I never compliment well or enough or at all.
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42:50–43:02 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_175She drunk text— I don't know what, a bunch of gibberish.
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43:09–43:12 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_176I'm so Devi, seen drunk, don't recent drunk. I guess she meant recently haven't gotten drunk. Teeny height-ish, so sorry, special.
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43:27–43:42 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_177Well, I'm gonna go to bed.
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43:54–43:56 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_178My face is all sticky. I need to wash it from sun cream. Well, from the, uh, what's it called, cleanser.
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43:58–44:07 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_179Muscle. I got that.
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44:15–44:16 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_180Been working on the muscle.
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44:20–44:21 · rev_408db5ca114171e58ed2aba2772e338b_181Oh well, see you tomorrow. Next time I stream, I'll tell you what happened on the date. Bobo.
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