[2022-12-08] How to cheat on your girlfriend without getting caught [rANqn89eszo]

Hello, welcome back to a new video. So

today I want to talk about how to cheat on

your girlfriend or boyfriend or wife, I

guess, without getting caught. Now you

might be thinking, you know, as someone

who cheated and got caught several times,

I might not be the best person to be

taking this kind of advice from, but I

disagree. I think since I got caught so

many times, I am probably one of the best

people to take advice from because I know

exactly what I did wrong and how I got

caught and how I could avoid getting

caught in the future by making these same

mistakes again. Now obviously I don't

condone cheating. It is a terrible thing

to do and it's very upsetting if you get

cheated on. But in the same way, eating

meat is also a bad thing because you're

causing the loss of a living creature on

this planet. A living creature on this

planet had to lose its life so that you

get to fill your belly. But you don't care

because you're hungry and you need

sustenance and protein and it tastes good.

So in the same way, cheating is bad, but

some people are going to cheat anyway

whether or not I say it's bad or not. And

even if I say don't cheat, you're not

gonna listen to me and you're gonna cheat

anyways. So as you know, I got cheated— I

mean, I got caught cheating several times.

One of the ways I got caught cheating was

just simply by being on Tinder and dating

apps. I thought whilst my partner—

definitely not my ex-wife because I'm not

allowed to talk about her anymore— my

partner was out working, I thought I could

be swiping on Tinder and setting up dates

and chatting to women and there's no way

she would find out because how would she

know? Unfortunately, I got caught out

because her friends— she a lot of friends

that were also on Tinder, and she would

ask her friends to keep an eye out for me

because, because for some reason she

suspected that I was going to cheat even

before I actually cheated. So she asked

her friends to keep an eye out on me, and

she had quite a lot of friends who were

also on the dating marketplace actively

trying to look for dates on these dating

apps anyway. So by just being unlucky, I

matched with one of her friends and I got

caught out. So I was flirting with this

person I matched on Tinder. I thought it

was just normal Japanese woman. I was

saying stuff like I really like you. I

think you're cute. Do you want to hang out

tonight? Do you want to come to my place

to do you know what? And she was just

agreeing with everything I was saying.

She was saying, yeah, that sounds great.

Wow, you're really hot. Yeah, I can't wait

to meet you tonight. And I thought, this

is a bit strange. I didn't think it'd be

so easy to get a girl on Tinder. And it

turns out it was too good to be true. And

she was just stringing me along to catch

me out. And then she dropped this

bombshell on me and just came out and

said, don't you think this is kind of mean

on your partner to be doing this kind of

thing? Don't you think it's kind of

unfair? And then at that point I realized,

oh wait, this is my partner's friend. Oh

crap, she's going to tell my partner about

what's been happening and it's going to be

over. I'm finished. I've been busted and

exposed. So then this friend started

lecturing me saying, this is not nice.

How would you feel if she did it to you?

Blah, blah, blah. And then she started to

threaten me saying that I should tell her

that I've been on Tinder trying to cheat.

And then she said, if I don't tell her,

then she's going to tell her herself. So I

just had to lie and I said, okay, fine,

I'll tell her. And then I unmatched her so

I didn't have to talk to her anymore. I

didn't actually tell my partner that

happened on Tinder, and I just hoped that

the friend also didn't mention anything

because I said to the friend that I would

tell her. So I assumed that the friend

would just leave it at that point. It was

kind of irritating because I didn't expect

my partner to have so many friends on

Tinder and I would accidentally match one

of them. And then other times she caught

me out again, saying that her friend saw

me on Tinder and if she ever finds out,

that I've been active on Tinder, then I am

dead. So she warned me about it. But this

wasn't the end of my Tinder escapades

whilst in that relationship. I didn't give

up. Instead, I decided to change up my

tactics. I thought that if I can't use

Tinder without being caught whilst in this

area, then I'll just upgrade to Tinder

Gold where I can change my location. So I

just changed my location to a town outside

of the city that I lived in, or maybe a

further away city where she wouldn't have

any friends. I just guessed that she

wouldn't have any friends outside of

Osaka, which is where I was living in

Japan. And I was kind of right because I

got away with being on Tinder. I just

changed my location to somewhere far away

like Kyushu or Hiroshima or even Tokyo.

And this actually worked pretty well. I

was able to stay on Tinder just in

different areas of the country without

getting caught. The problem with this was

that if you do get a potential match who

wants to go on a date or maybe do more,

then you got to travel quite far. And I

did have to get on the Shinkansen, the

bullet train, and take like an hour or

2-hour train ride all the way to a

different prefecture. And this was kind of

expensive. It's fine if, for example, we

had a fight and I stormed out and I had to

stay in a hotel somewhere else anyway.

Then I would just go to a different

prefecture where I've got one of my Tinder

dates lined up, and then I would meet them

and then stay in a hotel with them. So it

was a good solution to the problem,

although an expensive one. The point is

you've got to be careful because your

girlfriend or your partner might have

friends who are active on Tinder who will

know what you look like and actively look

out for you to make sure that you're not

cheating on their friend, and then they

might snitch on you. Okay, so the second

way I got caught was by leaving— stupidly

leaving spicy material on my devices

at home. So I had an iPad, an iPhone, my

laptop, that obviously I would leave at

home when I go outside. Now, I didn't

really go outside much because I didn't

have any friends when I was living in

Japan. But there was this one time where I

met a fellow YouTuber who goes by the name

of Sam, and he came to Osaka and we hung

out during the evening. And whilst I was

out with Sam, somehow my partner

found a way to log into my iPad, which

contained my spicy material. Now, I hid

the spicy material in the hidden folder on

iOS, on iPhone, iPad, you can select

photos and video footage and select Hide,

and it gets taken out of the main gallery

and then put into a hidden gallery. The

problem is this hidden gallery isn't

password protected. Stupid Apple just made

like this hidden selection on the menu

where you just scroll down to the bottom

of Albums and you just press, press on

Hidden and it'll show you all of the

hidden stuff. Why don't they make it

password protected or give you a lock code

so you have to access it using a lock

code? I don't know why, but anyone who has

access to your iPhone, they can just go

into Albums and press on hidden, they can

see everything you've hidden. So it's not

really hidden. So somehow my partner

managed to log on to my iPad. I don't know

how she found out my password, but she

went down to the hidden area where I had

all my spicy stuff and found out that I

had certain video footage of a certain

adult act with another woman. Now I don't

really want to go into too much detail

because it's kind of graphic and explicit

and I want to keep things family-friendly,

but obviously needless to say she was not

very happy when she found out about the

spicy material. She took some clips of it

and sent it to my mum. I don't know why

she sent it to my mum of all people.

Anyway, I got caught and exposed because

of the stuff that was on my iPad that I

left unprotected in the apartment we lived

in together. I don't know how she logged

into it, so my only guess is I entered the

code in front of her. Maybe I thought she

wasn't looking and she was behind me, or

she was next to me, sitting next to me,

and I thought I quickly entered the code

and And maybe it was just a 4-number

passcode for iPad back then. It was 2019.

I don't remember how many digits you

needed for a passcode back then. I think

it was just 4 or maybe 5. So if you just

quickly look over your shoulder while

someone's entering this code, it might be

pretty visible, pretty obvious which

numbers you're pressing to enter the code.

So she must have overlooked my shoulder

and then saw what code I entered and then

remembered which pattern it was or

something like that. And that's how she

managed to get into my iPad. So I learned

2 things from this mistake and this

experience. Number one, Never enter your

password or your passcode in front of your

partner when they're nearby. Make sure

they're far away. Make sure they're at the

other side of the room or in the toilet or

out. Never enter your passcode or your

lock password whilst you're sitting next

to your partner because they might just

have a quick sneaky look and see what

you're typing. It's not that hard to see

when you've got a big screen like an iPad.

So never enter your passcode in front of

them. Number 2, Never save or store spicy

material on a device that isn't on you at

all times. You cannot leave spicy material

saved onto a device that is not on your

person at all times. Keep it on your

phone. You always have your phone on you.

You never go out without your phone. So

your phone is a pretty safe device.

Laptops, iPads, not that safe because

you're going to leave them at home whilst

you go out. Then they might come home

whilst you're out and you're not there to

oversee these precious devices. Very

dangerous. And the other way I got caught

was kind of similar to number 2. I left

spicy material saved on an SD card which I

just left lying around on my desk. So I

had this SD card which I put copies of

stuff onto. I put copies of footage and

files from— I got, I got these certain

spicy material footages and images from

some female viewers and I would keep them

on this SD card. I think it was

convenient. And one time we went

overseas and I stayed overseas and then

she came back to the apartment by herself.

I forgot that I left this SD card just on

my desk and I had no idea she would start

rummaging through my things and start

plugging in USBs and SD cards into her own

laptop to have a look what's on these

things. I thought she would respect my

privacy, but no, I completely overlooked

the fact that she was going to look

through my belongings. And obviously an SD

card is not password protected. Although

you can do encryption and stuff like that.

I didn't really think about doing that

because I had no reason to, and she found

out what was on my SD cards and USB

sticks, and I got in trouble. And she

found out that again, you know, I was up

to no good with this spicy material. So

it's kind of the same thing really. Never

leave stuff behind that doesn't have a

password or a secure locking mechanism.

Don't just leave it lying around on your

desk or in your drawer thinking no one's

going to snoop around and have a look.

And last but not least, my final point,

my final tip on how to not get caught is

don't make a YouTube video admitting that

you've been up to no good. Because I had

some videos I made about other women that

I met whilst I was seeing this other woman

from Korea. I had this Korean kind of

on-and-off girlfriend, and at the time I

was just beginning YouTube. I had no subs.

I was just making videos for fun. And I

thought, what is the harm of making some

videos talking about these women that I've

been meeting behind her back? Didn't think

she knew about my channel, but later on in

the year, I don't know how, but somehow

she found out that I was doing YouTube and

she found this video, watched it, and my

cover was blown. I had been seeing her on

and off for like 5 years, and whilst I was

away and not with her, I was actually

meeting other women in Japan. And she

didn't know about this and thought I was

only seeing her. But then she found out

because I made a stupid YouTube video

talking about this secret stuff that I

thought she wouldn't find out. Up until I

made that video, she never knew. So kind

of an obvious point. Don't make it public

that you're up to no good because there

are— there is a good chance and

possibility that the person you're hiding

things from will eventually find out what

you're hiding and then you're going to be

in trouble. These days, I'm not very

active in the cheating scene. Actually,

my last relationship in 2020 I never

cheated and I haven't cheated in this

relationship either. And I don't really

plan to because I just, I can't really be

bothered anymore these days. I've grown up

a lot and I've aged a lot. I'm now 33.

I'm not 28 or 27. My man drive isn't as

active as it once was. And I don't really

feel like going through all of those

efforts and having to make all this effort

and put all this time and energy into

trying to cheat because it's not a simple

process. It actually takes a lot of hard

work to get it done. And now I look back

at it, I can't believe I went through so

much trouble just to get some extra

variety in my cereal. The cereal I'm

getting now is good enough, and I feel

pretty satisfied with it, and I don't

really feel the need to look elsewhere.

Also, back then, because my YouTube

channel was blowing up in popularity, I

had a lot of female attention. Because

when you get famous, obviously the girls

take notice because they're drawn to fame

and money and status, and I had loads of

girls in my DMs trying to flirt with me.

Now that my channel is kind of dead and

faded, fizzled off, my fame doesn't really

exist anymore. There's basically no girls

in my DMs who are interested in me

romantically. So the temptation and the

lure of younger girls who watch my channel

is not really there anymore. It's a lot

easier to resist temptations when the

people who are offering the temptations in

the first place are no longer there

anymore. It's like being really fat and

starving. You want to eat some junk food

and there's just someone standing outside

your door holding a bag of big juicy

burgers going, don't you want some juicy

burgers? It's hard to resist that

temptation. But when that guy is not

standing outside the door anymore and he's

pissed off, then it's a lot easier to have

a stronger will and stronger willpower.

So it is nice. I don't have these girls

bothering anymore, bothering me anymore

with the naked bodies. I guess I would be

lying if I said that I don't miss it, but

what can I do? I can't just click my

fingers and magically summon all the girls

back and summon all the interest back into

my channel and become famous again. It

doesn't work like that. It's over. I had

my 15 minutes of fame, and I guess on the

bright side, I don't have the temptation

to cheat again, which means I'm not going

to get into all this trouble like I did in

a certain relationship I had in a certain

country that begins with J. So those are

my tips on how to avoid getting caught

cheating if you ever have the opportunity

to do so. Maybe you also will blow up on

YouTube one day and have hundreds of girls

messaging you in the DMs and you won't

know how to react to it. Maybe you react

to it in the same way I did and you just

completely made a massive mess out of

everything and ruined several people's

lives, including your own. But at least

you had some fun along the way.