Recording summary · January 2021
why I HATED living in The Netherlands 🇳🇱 [vepJ7rKJDB4]
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Overview
Negative experiences while living in the Netherlands for four to five months ending on December 27th centered on the pervasive smell of weed, exorbitant costs of living and accommodation, and safety concerns culminating in an unprovoked altercation.
The pervasive smell of weed was persistent on streets like in Amsterdam and seeped into Daniel's apartment from upstairs neighbors despite shut windows and doors.
Rent and overall living expenses in Rotterdam were considerably higher than in Osaka, Tokyo, or Seoul, including £2,700 for a central Airbnb and £1,200 monthly for a South Rotterdam apartment, contributing to total trip expenses across Germany and the Netherlands of at least $22,000.
In South Rotterdam around 6 PM in front of a shopping center, an angry driver confronted, grabbed by the collar, shoved, and tripped Daniel to the ground over an accusation of throwing stones at a car, filmed Daniel from the vehicle, and drove off after receiving €20 in cash.
The assault and lack of bystander assistance left Daniel traumatized, depressed, paranoid, and afraid to leave the apartment, feeling that an Asian appearance made them an easy target, leading to a rating of the Netherlands at 2.2 out of 10 and a decision never to return.
Themes
Reasons for dissatisfaction with living in the Netherlands, including weed odors, high expenses, and safety risks.
Living expenses and rent comparisons between Rotterdam and East Asian cities, alongside regrets over spending rather than investing.
Physical altercation and de-escalation with an angry driver accusing Daniel of throwing stones.
Emotional and psychological aftermath, perceived vulnerability based on appearance, and safety comparisons with Japan.
Overall evaluation of the Netherlands and resolution never to return.
Developments
Daniel lived in the Netherlands for four to five months until December 27th.
An unfamiliar man confronted Daniel, grabbed Daniel by the collar, shoved and tripped Daniel to the ground outside a South Rotterdam shopping center around 6 PM.
The confrontation ended when Daniel gave the driver €20 in cash, and the driver took the money and departed.
Uncertainties & gaps
Whether Daniel would receive the rental deposit back for the South Rotterdam apartment following an upcoming video call with the landlord.
How recording Daniel standing on the street would serve as proof of throwing stones at a vehicle.