Recording summary · March 2018
[2018-03-05] Why getting married in japan sucks [OaGEtL8XUc8]
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Overview
Daniel proceeds with plans to marry his girlfriend despite lingering feelings regarding an earlier issue involving an Australian man.
Frustration centers on the administrative requirements for marrying in Japan, notably acquiring a Certificate of No Impediment from the British Embassy in Tokyo due to travel costs and lack of service availability at the Osaka British Embassy.
Securing the two required Japanese citizen witness signatures has been difficult because Daniel's girlfriend's friend and Daniel's female Japanese friend both declined requests to sign.
The mandate requiring two Japanese witnesses to sign marriage forms faces criticism as ineffective against sham marriages and problematic for individuals without nearby friends or family, prompting criticism of lawmakers and regulators.
Themes
Relationship status and the decision to proceed with marriage despite past conflicts.
The Certificate of No Impediment requirement, travel expenses, and lack of availability at the Osaka British Embassy.
Witness refusals involving the girlfriend's friend and Daniel's Japanese friend.
Criticisms of Japanese legal marriage witness regulations and concerns regarding isolated applicants.
Developments
Daniel contacted the British Embassy in Osaka regarding a Certificate of No Impediment and received notice that the service is no longer offered there.
Daniel booked an appointment at the British Embassy in Tokyo.
Daniel's girlfriend asked her friend to sign as a marriage witness, but the friend refused citing timeline concerns, visa suspicions, and secrecy from parents.
Daniel asked a female Japanese acquaintance to sign as a marriage witness, but she declined due to not being close friends and not knowing his girlfriend.
Uncertainties & gaps
Whether the British Embassy has any means of verifying marital status in other countries beyond the applicant signing a statement.
How individuals can marry if they lack friends, family, or reachable acquaintances to provide witness signatures.